Seeking Arrangements

Yes, that seems to be the case after my first tour in about 2 years.

Young U25 hot girls are asking 600 and up. One hottie asked for 6 I countered with 3 and she removed her private pics and deactivated her account less than 5 minutes later LOL. Sorry high rollers.

Another one went on a tirade when I countered 300 to her 700. Moral of the story: If you are willing to pay 400 don't counter with 300 or you will definitely lose out in this market despite what some have claimed fucking 10/10 girls for 100.

Average / Fattie U25 girls are asking 400 and up. One curvy one I settled for 350 and found her social media and ghosted her. She was a little thick, okay looks, insisted on cover and a little bitchy. No thanks.

Average MILFs and even fat MILFs are asking in the range of 200-400 (see luxlustkai review). I did get a nice average mixed MILF bare bbfscip for 200 just a couple of weeks ago. I also had a deceptively fat MILF for 200 (asked for 300) and it was fucking disgusting once the clothes came off. No way was I doing DATY but did manage BBBJ and bbfscip.

Subscription expired but still working on a few whose numbers I have.

[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6426464]I tried between 400 to 500 but she doesn't seem to budge. She responds very sporadically, I think there are guys out there who is ready to spend a ton of money.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=FriendlyKing;6425228]I exactly had the same experience (sent the number and blocked me) with Allyp418. Red flags went off immediately and I kept the conversation very light. Man, she is damn convincing. I didn't go to the extent of asking for videos. She wanted to meet this Friday and I said I'm busy and thought of meeting her next week. Thanks for the heads up![/QUOTE]This is the new MO for scammer vets since you can't report their profile after they talk to you off-site and then will ask for money (or worse). It's so they don't need to make new profiles after getting axed since that would mean extra work.

You can still report an account after they have blocked you. Just go to your messages with that account and click on the button in the top right corner with the three dots. Report user is still available there even after they have blocked you.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;6427989]This is the new MO for scammer vets since you can't report their profile after they talk to you off-site and then will ask for money (or worse). It's so they don't need to make new profiles after getting axed since that would mean extra work.[/QUOTE]

Just paid for a subscription. A lot of girls ask me for a picture. I'm nervous since I am married. What are you guys doing about this?

[QUOTE=Rcranium;6430523]Just paid for a subscription. A lot of girls ask me for a picture. I'm nervous since I am married. What are you guys doing about this?[/QUOTE]Of course they want a pic. There not drug addicts, there normal woman. I mean ask yourself this. Would you make plans with a woman for 300 dollars who had no pic and wouldn't send you one. No you would not. Just send her a body pic. Most these chicks could care less about face. They just want to make sure body wise your not some fat slob or whatever.

[QUOTE=Rcranium;6430523]Just paid for a subscription. A lot of girls ask me for a picture. I'm nervous since I am married. What are you guys doing about this?[/QUOTE]Put a couple under hidden, grant access. You're playing with risk either way. Don't use fake pictures either, can spook them on first meet I'd you're not upfront.

[QUOTE=Rcranium;6430523]Just paid for a subscription. A lot of girls ask me for a picture. I'm nervous since I am married. What are you guys doing about this?[/QUOTE]This is common sense but just wanted to reiterate. Don't upload pics that you use in your social media profiles. The pics can be used to reverse image search and will reveal your identity.

I'd go a step further and not use Any pic of your face. There are advanced AI sites that can reverse image and get to your real name / identity (ranging from your professional website to "remember that wedding / reunion you went to ten years ago" surprises). Just find someone that looks like you and use that.

In my experience most people only want to see one pic to make sure you are normal. I used my "close enough" pic and didn't have any issue with a meeting yesterday.

Also, in my experience if she is willing to meet without a picture that is a red flag or at least a yellow flag. A red flag if she is attractive and HWP. Yellow if she is on the bigger side and / or older.

For pics, have all but one be private. Good way to weed out fakes since real girls who are interested will request them...scammers dont care what you look like they are just trying to get Venmo/CA

For profile pic, I usually post a selfie of my face WITH a mask on. Close enough. And as mentioned don't use social media pics since they can be reverse image searched.

Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc5510f3-97f9-46b2-bb5c-308db3188f22[/URL].

Profile Name: princessa1.

Been chatting w / this one. Anyone have any additional details?

She focuses on "Receiving Gifts" versus anything about companionship.

States that she only meets for $1,000.

College student. Seems to require a gift even for meeting up.

Wants "mentorship" - whatever that really means. LOL.

Anyone haver further information? Or any insights on this one as well.

[QUOTE=DreplyNow;6432615]Profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/cc5510f3-97f9-46b2-bb5c-308db3188f22[/URL].

Profile Name: princessa1.

Been chatting w / this one. Anyone have any additional details?

She focuses on "Receiving Gifts" versus anything about companionship.

States that she only meets for $1,000.

College student. Seems to require a gift even for meeting up.

Wants "mentorship" - whatever that really means. LOL.

Anyone haver further information? Or any insights on this one as well.[/QUOTE]No insights but if she's not budging, just move on. The longer you engage the more likely you'll cave and reinforce that GPSPlenty of other SBs with more realistic expectations out there.

[QUOTE=GuyInTheCorner;6431145]
Also, in my experience if she is willing to meet without a picture that is a red flag or at least a yellow flag. A red flag if she is attractive and HWP. Yellow if she is on the bigger side and / or older.[/QUOTE]Not necessarily, if you chat them for a month on and off and text, they will meet in public without a pic of you.

Any info on this one? Getting pro vibes: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ec500f0c-aba4-4559-9fe1-cbcc4efb1416[/URL].

She has GPS.

[QUOTE=Mfp79;6437132]Any info on this one? Getting pro vibes: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ec500f0c-aba4-4559-9fe1-cbcc4efb1416[/URL].[/QUOTE]

On SA, I filled out my profile, get premium membership but still shows 1 step left to complete my profile. It shows "fill out basic info" even though everything is filled out. Am I missing something?

Also, many members are messaging that they can't see my profile like I might have blocked them but messaging works fine for them. Any help would be appreciated.

I just had a lady from Seeking buy lunch for me. That's all, I just wanted to share.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6438446]I just had a lady from Seeking buy lunch for me. That's all, I just wanted to share.[/QUOTE]Was she on the older side? I've had a couple SB not need allowances but don't think I've had a financial trend come this way.

[QUOTE=Wockser;6438559]Was she on the older side? I've had a couple SB not need allowances but don't think I've had a financial trend come this way.[/QUOTE]Yes, she's 48 (and I'm 42). I've also had SBs that never asked for an allowance, they are / were my favorites.

You're telling us that a lady from SA is giving you the goodies and getting nothing in return? Or are you doing a PPV, gifts? I find I impossible that you're getting pussy for free, even if you have porn star quality cock.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;6438668]Yes, she's 48 (and I'm 42). I've also had SBs that never asked for an allowance, they are / were my favorites.[/QUOTE]

Freebies existed before 2020 for sure; I bagged 2 (one mature, and one 19 year old college girl). Maybe they still do but far from between; 90% are on the site for P2 P but since BP and CL left, women need a place to find anonymous dick. SA is one of those places.

[QUOTE=DJrunner;6438719]You're telling us that a lady from SA is giving you the goodies and getting nothing in return? Or are you doing a PPV, gifts? I find I impossible that you're getting pussy for free, even if you have porn star quality cock.[/QUOTE]I've had 3. 1 I would just pay for the hotel.

The other one would actually rotate who paid for it.

And the third we just went to her place all the time.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2343eb1b-1bf3-4592-a54a-94e95c83319f[/URL]

Set up a date to meet with her, not sure if anyone's chatted or seen her? If so any Intel would be appreciated.

[QUOTE=JollyBengali;6427290]Another thick white girl who is real and down to go bare. Met this one, talked her down from 400 to 300 and we got straight down to business. She is more of a BBW. Bigger than her pictures would have you to believe. Also came without any makeup and didn't really look like her pictures. Still pretty though. Took a real good pounding. If you like girls with huge booties this one is a lot of fun. She gives amazing head and really knows how to please a man.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/df1219c8-4f26-4a81-98eb-68c1065dcd6f[/URL][/QUOTE]Years ago I met her through one of the sites but I can't remember if she used to post on lc / skip or post and answer ads on CL / BP. She was fun and it was always BBFS cip.

I confirm CIMike's experience. I have been doing the SA / SB gig for seven or so years and have met many too many UTR's to count (and I don't happen to be keeping an encyclopedia like my good friend, KoF). Maybe 2-3 percent have been free. A grandmother with a serious job from the North Shore was free and she got the hotel room. She was "no holes barred". She is now retired sadly. A married lady from the Midwest working in Boston was free and she had her own apartment. She went back home. A single woman from the North Shore with her own apartment who is still out there. There are several others that I cannot now remember, three or four, that either didn't care or forgot to ask or were too shy to ask.

As a married man not wishing for disruptions at home I would rather pay. The free ones can become attached and that runs risks I would rather not face.

[QUOTE=ClMike01;6439431]I've had 3. 1 I would just pay for the hotel.

The other one would actually rotate who paid for it.

And the third we just went to her place all the time.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JasonKruger1;6440458][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2343eb1b-1bf3-4592-a54a-94e95c83319f[/URL]

Set up a date to meet with her, not sure if anyone's chatted or seen her? If so any Intel would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]She asked for CA from me on the site; I blocked her.

Another review with too many pros and not enough cons. That's all I'm going to say.

[QUOTE=JollyBengali;6427290]Another thick white girl who is real and down to go bare. Met this one, talked her down from 400 to 300 and we got straight down to business. She is more of a BBW. Bigger than her pictures would have you to believe. Also came without any makeup and didn't really look like her pictures. Still pretty though. Took a real good pounding. If you like girls with huge booties this one is a lot of fun. She gives amazing head and really knows how to please a man.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/df1219c8-4f26-4a81-98eb-68c1065dcd6f[/URL][/QUOTE]

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/91fc743e-9b30-4b02-ac55-bb3ebf728ac7[/URL]

Has anyone met or talked to this girl about what she is looking for in an arrangement? I've seen her profile on there for awhile.

[QUOTE=Kuro4;6447730][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/91fc743e-9b30-4b02-ac55-bb3ebf728ac7[/URL]

Has anyone met or talked to this girl about what she is looking for in an arrangement? I've seen her profile on there for awhile.[/QUOTE]She's legit, expensive but legit.

So I got banned back in the fall, this morning I made a basic account just so I could look at profiles and see if some of the people I talked to last year were still on there and. Am I missing something or is Seeking a ghost town now? I set my location to Boston, put my search to within 50 miles, and there's literally two girls online and one page of accounts who were on the site within the last day? That's not possible. Is it just because I have a basic account? Or is there some search setting that I'm overlooking.


I think it's something on my end because when I click the profile link in the post beneath me for the girl in the bra, it says her account is no longer there.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6449492]So I got banned back in the fall, this morning I made a basic account just so I could look at profiles and see if some of the people I talked to last year were still on there and. Am I missing something or is Seeking a ghost town now? I set my location to Boston, put my search to within 50 miles, and there's literally two girls online and one page of accounts who were on the site within the last day? That's not possible. Is it just because I have a basic account? Or is there some search setting that I'm overlooking.


I think it's something on my end because when I click the profile link in the post beneath me for the girl in the bra, it says her account is no longer there.[/QUOTE]That's the difference between basic and premium account. The profiles and coverage you get at both levels are completely different.

[QUOTE=KcirtaPanner2;6449492]So I got banned back in the fall, this morning I made a basic account just so I could look at profiles and see if some of the people I talked to last year were still on there and. Am I missing something or is Seeking a ghost town now? I set my location to Boston, put my search to within 50 miles, and there's literally two girls online and one page of accounts who were on the site within the last day? That's not possible. Is it just because I have a basic account? Or is there some search setting that I'm overlooking.


I think it's something on my end because when I click the profile link in the post beneath me for the girl in the bra, it says her account is no longer there.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I agree that your are missing something. I just logged in with a non-premium account. I searched for Boston +10 miles and there are about 50+ online right now.

[QUOTE=Vish23;6449513]That's the difference between basic and premium account. The profiles and coverage you get at both levels are completely different.[/QUOTE]Really? Never heard this before. Where did you get this information? As both a premium and non-premium member, I never noticed this. I must be losing it.

[QUOTE=Spill;6449842]Really? Never heard this before. Where did you get this information? As both a premium and non-premium member, I never noticed this. I must be losing it.[/QUOTE]This is something I noticed from my personal experience. Might be a me issue as well. I have one basic account and one premium one. The profiles available for basic account are much different than the premium account with only a couple profile overlaps.

[QUOTE=Vish23;6450350]This is something I noticed from my personal experience. Might be a me issue as well. I have one basic account and one premium one. The profiles available for basic account are much different than the premium account with only a couple profile overlaps.[/QUOTE]I'm in the same situation, one free and one paid. The free one returns like 12 pages of users, and the premium account only returns like 2 for the same search settings. Makes no sense that less results return for the paid account. There must be a setting somewhere.

Okay, it's going to be a bit hard for me to give this information away. Reason being is that I don't want it to be spoiled & ruined if things become too saturated. But, I believe this site is for important information to help each other out & I hope to get some concrete advice & detailedrom everyone alike.

Date Night Ideas: So I've been kind of running out of date night ideas. Been having some long-term successes. But also, trying to keep the pipeline open. I've noticed, there haven't really been a lot of consistent newbies that are "REAL" in the Boston or Connecticut area. Also, locations are hard to come by because it seems during these summer months, pricing of hotels are seeming to skyrocket. Especially in Boston.

Boston: So some new ideas I've been doing to have longer date nights -.

1. Roof Top Bar hopping. A new thing I guess in Boston are these Roof Tp Bars. I really didn't realize this.

2. Capo Restaurant. The got Bingo for real prizes (free), and then a Comedy Show (free) from like 7 to 11 pm, along with Dinner. Italian restaurant.

3. The Aquarium -- hell, it's something to do & somewhere to go. And you can take a free boat ride that takes you directly to Encore Casino!

Rhode Island: Twin Rivers -- read below.

4. Dave & Busters -- Hey, adults can play video games too. Don't' sleep.

Opportunity: So, I've been sleeping on Rhode Island. I guess because the area was small. But, I filtered on Rhode Island as a location, and I cannot believe the level of quality "Tang" that I've been missing. The only problem is, I didn't know the area quite well. But now I figured out a solution. I've been getting a lot of opportunities of women who are eager to just leave the city of where they are at. Many don't have a car. But only an Ubers ride to the next town.

Locations: Twin River Casino! I've been capitalizing on this location as of late. This is now the spot people! They got a new casino area, they got a hotel, Spa, Pool. Spa during the weekdays is only $60/ person. Pool is literally until like 11 pm. Cigar Bar too. And night clubbing nights in the middle of the floor. NOw, you may say, foxwoods & Encore,. But again, don't sleep on little Rhode island.

They are doing 2 free nights per week! Hotel is connected but separate from the casino, so there's definitely a feeling of privacy (to assuage the mindset of concerns). AND, the casino payouts are much better than Encore & Foxwoods on Table Games.

So, in summary, I've been able to pull off longer date nights BELOW 400. A day of non-stop pops with just some extra activities built. Cost of dinner & drinks. Rooms are fully covered.

So, yes, I've been happily hanging out at Twin Rivers. Now, because of the way I look at this place, I'm seeking guys who are interested in doing double & triple dates. Going out on Group Dates! Something fun, interesting, and allows us to expand our opportunities, knowledge & fun. If you're interested, send me an email.

[QUOTE=Accu13;6451018]I'm in the same situation, one free and one paid. The free one returns like 12 pages of users, and the premium account only returns like 2 for the same search settings. Makes no sense that less results return for the paid account. There must be a setting somewhere.[/QUOTE]Hmm. Have you tried resetting and starting from scratch?

My experiment right now:

- reset all

- 0 -50 miles from Boston.

- set SORT filter to recently active.

- set the option for ONLINE now.

RESULTS: 4 pages of (3 x30) + 2 on the last one = 92 online right now. And there might be even more than that but I HIDE ALOT of profiles (see below)

The SA options are weird. You need to go in there and select a few and try some things out. My normal option selections do this like eliminate the fatties and grandmas, etc.

Also I always SORT by newest or recently active - or you be seeing SBs that left a long time ago.

After you find what you like, save those search options for later usage.

Another thing I find useful is to set the results display to the second format choice (i.e. NOT the 3 x 3 square selection but the row selection). Having it this way makes it easy to hide a profile without having to go into the actual profile right away. Many of these women I do not need to see more than once ;) This make the next time you search a little cleaner as some of the herd has been culled.

good luck

Not sure why some of you think seeking is dead. Very much alive and well in Boston. You all don't know how good you have it compared to other cities (or at least to DC). My problem when I come to Boston on trips is that I don't have enough time for all of the options. And I'm out of the running for most suburban options as well as those who want a local!

For those having trouble finding results, be sure you reset your settings. I've found that if things are off, it usually means I accidentally checked a box like "favorited me" or I have some text left in the search field from a targeted search.

She's been on SA for a while, any information?

[QUOTE=Tribeca67;6454475]She's been on SA for a while, any information?[/QUOTE]I'm guessing that a link may be more helpful.

This one is serious about marriage for those who are interested.