Use common sense, think with your big head
[QUOTE=GameOn723;5312717]So, I'm still very new to Sa and figuring how things typically work. I have had a few successes, but I'm finding out that there are a lot of times things don't pan out. Many times there's not even a response to a message. Just looking for maybe some tips or pointers. For those of you that have had a lot of success with the site:
What kind of first message gets the best responses?
Also, anyone else had any girls that agreed to meet and end up not showing to a meet and greet? I'm talking they didn't get any money or anything and they are just a no show and then just disappear. Seems strange to me. Wondering if that's common.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]First off, if its too good to be true, it most likely is. My best advice I can offer is to get a verification pic. Ask them to hold up a small piece of paper with your name on it, and take a selfie. 99% of the scammers will bail, or balk at this point, cause they are fake. If they can't or won't do it, just move on. Most girls that are serious will do it in a heartbeat.
NEVER send money to them before meeting. I don't care what the story, its a lie.
I almost never do meet and greets, so I can't offer much advice, other then don't give them money for just meeting you. If you want to buy them dinner and drinks like a date, go for it. But there are girls on SA that will make a career out of just meeting dudes for free stuff and money for not doing a damn thing.
I only deal in cash, I never send anything digital. Keeps them from asking you to send them money all the time for nothing in return.
Be ready to strike now. Lots of girls are looking for someone soon, they have bills to pay. Don't drag it out. Chat with them a bit, move them to text as soon as possible. Once on text, be friendly, but start asking the questions to set it up.
Thats just few to help you along, I could probably write a book on my "unwritten rules" I go by. LOL.