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I messed up so you don't have to. Avoid Gwen.
I made a couple of mistakes against my better judgment and got finessed out of $3 last night but I wanted to share so you can learn from my mistakes. I really personally don't like to jump from provider to provider so usually once I find one that I vibe with and I'm attracted to I try to make it work as long as possible.
I had 2 providers like this back in Atlanta but in the year or so I've been here in PHX I haven't been able to find that. I thought I had but maybe looking to hard for that led me to some clear mistakes.
I met Gwen for the first time just before Thanksgiving and have seen her 4 times since then, last night was our 5th meet.
She's been flaky at times and I've resorted to seeing others when she's been spotty in her communication.
Anyhow she recently moved and contacted me out of nowhere yesterday saying we should catch up. It's been about a month since I last saw her so I thought I could go for that.
She usually comes to me but asked if I could come to her new place in Tempe. I get there and see that it's a clear downgrade from where I used to see her on occasion on Pima Rd.
I walk in after to see a situation that looks like its borderline a squatters spot. I can't believe the conditions some people would accept and pay rent to live in. I was initially skeptical but recognized some of her furniture so I relaxed a little. She asked me to sit and wait as she finished getting ready. This should have been another sign. We'd been talking for about 4 hours, I showered before I left and took 30 minutes to get there. So she at least had the time of my shower and commute to get ready but apparently didn't.
About 15 minutes after she leaves the shower I call her name to see if she's okay. This was after noticing that the front and back door look like they may have been kicked in when I arrived and then noticing a couple of doors that were in worse shape inside the house that looks like they were entry doors that were previously removed.
She asks what's wrong and says she doesn't like my energy and says maybe I should leave.
In hindsight I wished that I did. But thinking with the wrong head I hang around. After being there about 45 minutes she finally invites me in her room and apologizes about the way the apartment looks. She then goes on to tell me how much she had to pay to move in and all the things that were wrong with the apartment at move in. Building sympathy I guess?
She then says she has to pay her landlord in installments and that one was due today. She says she will pay him as soon as I pay her. I send her the money. She then starts texting and like clockwork just after the payment was sent via cashapp she gets a call from her mother saying it's an emergency and she needs her to come over now and her brother is on the way to pick her up. She said that she would call me and come by after she finished with her mother. I didn't think that was likely but she's surprised me before.
The timing was just to convenient!! I say all this to say after several years mongering I got comfortable and because of that got played.
I just wanted to vent so forgive me if this isn't coherent.
Just a reminder to keep things strictly business, also maybe I need to go back to cash transactions only! The only recourse I have through cashapp is requesting a refund and we all know that ain't happening!!
She does a good job of taking down her posts so I don't have one to put up but I added a few pics.
I'll admit she's a good time, if you do see her my advice is to keep it strictly business and maybe pay after the deed!
Any decent outcall providers?
I'm going to be staying in a hotel in Scottsdale for a couple nights in May for a conference. Thinking I may Uber up from PHX since it's cheaper than a rental car, so that leaves me without any wheels to go "exploring. " If anybody has any experience with a decent outcall provider who will go to a hotel in Scottsdale I'd appreciate hearing about it. Thanks in advance!