The board is back--lotsa action
I enjoyed the old days at cheaters and sportsman inn- where new girls would show up constantly and if it was a good one then you really had to make a move right away because they really wouldn't stick around too long. CF is the only club that has that kind of potential still, so I'm going to pop in there more often and hope for the best. I feel like Desire is stale and I do kinda like slightly trashy white chicks. I do have a question on a Desire girl however. There is a girl that's been there for while -dark hair and tons of tattoos--kinda pale but I think she is really pretty--might be friends with Charlotte / Taylor -her IG name was something like anestiasia maybe--sorry that I'm not doing a great job describing her but if anyone knows how she is in the booth let me know. I hate not knowing and I don't have the free time to figure it out.
How overpaying is almost always a bad idea
Let's talk about pricing for a minute. Recently I've had several expensive asks at CD, $700 for FS, $700 for a BJ to a promise with absolutely no details for $800. I passed as should you. Now, I'm not here to tell you how to spend your money, or complain about fucking up the local economy and what not. Instead, what I would like to talk about is why overpaying pretty much never works in your favor. There are several reasons and some more subtle long term factors.
1) Basic, you lose more money and have to work harder and longer.
2) Basic, you can't have fun as many times because you are blowing your cash wad often.
3) Subtle, your self-worth Decreases, especially if you seem like you shouldn't be paying that much.
4) Subtle, her self-worth and pride Increases, leading to all sorts of undesirable behavior short term and long term.
5) Addendum to 4. Not only does this have a Negative effect on You, it has a Negative effect on Every Guy She Meets In The Future.
Let me explain the last three. Think of the interaction as a transfer, not just of money but of time and energy. If women date or sell themselves for Gain, then men date and pay for a Loss. You want to keep this loss as small as possible.
Here's what happens when she meets a whale. It's fun for a little while, she doesn't have to do as many rooms, she's getting her bills paid. But either quickly or over time she begins to Lose all respect for you. You thought maybe that being a big baller would keep her more loyal, Hell No. She knows deep down she isn't worth it and has lots of demons. She knows she is a very flawed (sometimes straight psycho or unable to function in normal society), she cries herself asleep at night, she's a mess. She's not all that no matter how many stupid memes she posts online. (Not all are like this but many are).
Now here you come and you are treating her like a princess, but she knows deep down she's fucked up. Wait, what kind of a man pays big cash for a super fucked up woman, oh he must be very messed up if he does, I know I'm not worth it or he's just stupid and easy mark, yeah maybe that's it. What a loser, I'm going to play him and string him along for all the money he's worth!
And there you go! Your princess starts flaking out, cancelling, and you lost 2 X, 3 X, or even 4 X of what you should have! Bad mistake!
Wait, he must be messed up, but my pride tells me I AM and can worth $800 for FS. I mean someone laid it right? He was a loser but He Paid Yeah! That's my price now!
This is the Origin Of GPS!
I know the post is long and a bit deep, but think about it!
The next time some girls try to overcharge Pass! Patience always wins in this game. Either she comes down or you find a better one!
Bartender wingwoman or dressing room intercept
[QUOTE=Joey1994;7051547]Agree with what you guys are saying.
Think with the big head not the little one.
With that in mind, Sassy is always busy. Her MILF vibe does it for me.
I never want to be that guy, chiseling in while a dancer is talking to someone.
I've never seen her alone.
Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Thanks Joey. Sassy is the perfect example. Is she the best looking in the club? No, but is she super cool and fun to hang with? Hell yes.
Anyway, funnily enough I pulled the dressing room intercept with her once. She was with a reg for a while and I was checking out the stage sets. You have to time it, but I saw her get up heading for the dressing room and I got up to 'bump' into her, asked if she could come over when she wasn't busy. Helped she knew me. She was grateful and even told me the guy she was with was a regular, but 'he doesn't get rooms every time and doesn't feel like it today, I'll be over in a few' Boom you're in.
The other option is have your friendly bartender wing woman tell her you're interested. This has sometimes worked for me, but if they are with a good customer it may not. Worth a shot.
With that said, I agree not blowing up another guys spot, I don't want it to happen to me so I avoid doing it to other guys out of respect. Plus if I'm planning on spending and getting a room and a dancer ditches me for another guy, she's dead to me forever.
