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[QUOTE=SylvieAmour;1629627]I can't afford 2 phones. .[/QUOTE]The pun is intended to not only get your attention, but to reveal a basic truth.

Darling, lest we forget you are running a business. This is a cost of doing business. Whether you are selling apples, oranges, or computer circuitry, do what any merchant would do: Figure out your cost, desired profit margin, and pass any remaining cost onto your consumer. As to your distaste of the phone, well that is crucial to your business.

This leads to a natural question, that any ladies must ask herself at some point, for the sake of their own sanity: "Do I work in this industry because I enjoy it, or do I do this out of pure necessity?" That will help put every aspect of this current role you find yourself into proper perspective. This little exercise will help you throughout life, no matter what you ultimately select as your career.

If this is merely a job to you, there is nothing wrong with that, but let me assure you, you will never find the "perfect" job. If people are being honest with themselves, they will also be able to define the portions of their job they love, like, tolerate, and disdain. Keep in mind, like it or not, a provider is in the service industry and interface with your clients is a crucial aspect of that career field. We can't always be in a place where we can pick and choose only the more enjoyable tasks of our given career, and still expect to earn a fair wage at it. This is true in every job title we ever wear.

I am not trying to lecture you, I am just trying to pass on some life wisdom to you. In fact I knew thirty years ago, what I know now-it would have saved a great deal of frustration and strife.

To make this post come full circle with the opening pun let me end by suggesting this: Do you like to suck cock, or are you just good at divesting yourself during the activity and putting on the illusion of enjoying that activity? See it really doesn't matter what aspect of the job you are talking about. The key to happiness and success is learning how to whistle while you work.

Fake / old pictures are really starting to annoy me. I understand that some ladies do not want to post pictures for everyone see, but we do have providers that don't post pictures, but will upon request. So why post fake ones, or ones that are 10 yrs old? Men think with their little heads, and keep this behavior going by not refusing an appt with a provider that mis-represents herself. Hell, there are plenty of well-reviewed providers that are still using old pics, and still getting rave reviews, with no mention of the fake pictures and / or weight / age gain.

Obviously, BP is ripe with fake pictures, but it should not be an issue with the more legit boards. Maybe we should just start a new thread labelled 'fake / old pics' and include all providers who do this. Maybe that will induce them to update their pictures. If you are not a spinner, it's really easy to honestly shed a few pounds in a picture by posing on a bed, with your head hanging off the bed and looking back at the camera, with your legs crossed.

If I have been seeing the exact same pics for over a year, then they have to be old / fake. Every phone has a camera nowadays, and I'm sure that no hobbyist would ever refuse to snap a few new pics for a provider.

Just my opinion.

Kisses,

MD

[QUOTE=SylvieAmour;1629627]I can't afford 2 phones and I don't have a personal one bc I hate the phone and this one just sucks. I'm getting a new one after Christmas. But that's not the point, the point is if an ad says do not text its not there for fun it means DO NOT DO IT. ITS NOT THAT HARD! Ya follow me here? If it says no greek it would be like calling and asking for it anyway.[/QUOTE]Maybe one of these days we can meet. I can give you a good hard back, neck, scalp, temple, hand, foot massage and put phones out of your mind. And take the 6 min BBBJCIM challenge (guarantee?) I saw on an earlier (Octoberish) post. I'll be sure to call though.

I asked my provider for a special request. I have a gang bang fantasy and she said if I could put together a group that was gentleman over 40 and knew the rules and that was for sure that we made here feel safe she would give it a go. Some have seen her some have not. She is alot of fun but to do this she has got to feel safe she said if I put together 10 respectful men she would give it a go. So I need 10 guys to play the game its 150 per, and its all donations for 5 star and snacks byob. Pm me for the details. This is for tonight only and reservations must be made by 7pm party will start at 10 or 11 pm.

[QUOTE=Zomby;1630126]I am [I]not [/I]affiliated with Google. (:[/QUOTE]I don't know. Sounds awefully lot like you're schilling for Google and Google voice.

It's a scam and I fell for the obvious signs, my mistake.

The link is [url]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/andlt3-cute-andlt3-petite-blonde-hair-blue-eyes-baby-doll-25/12157397[/url]

She is the girl in the picture and she is pretty.

[QUOTE=D Nut;1630451]I don't know. Sounds awefully lot like you're schilling for Google and Google voice.[/QUOTE]Won't deny the latter, I just don't want anyone to assume that it's because I'm [i]affiliated [/i]with them. I'm not. I just think that GV is a good deal for us, when managed properly.

[noparse]/[/noparse]z

[QUOTE=Turnthepage773;1630208]Maybe one of these days we can meet. I can give you a good hard back, neck, scalp, temple, hand, foot massage and put phones out of your mind. And take the 6 min BBBJCIM challenge (guarantee?) I saw on an earlier (Octoberish) post. I'll be sure to call though:-D[/QUOTE]Ok is it just me? Or is there others out there who are reading this post and wondering why you are posting this? Maybe in the furture you could send this to the provider as a PM because that who it was intened for? Just assuming that? Yes this is a Member discussions area and you have a right to post here as much as I do but where could this lead to any discussions? Just throwing out my 2 cents worth.

[QUOTE=MollyDaniels; 1630180]Fake / old pictures are really starting to annoy me. I understand that some ladies do not want to post pictures for everyone see, but we do have providers that don't post pictures, but will upon request. So why post fake ones, or ones that are 10 yrs old? Men think with their little heads, and keep this behavior going by not refusing an appt with a provider that mis-represents herself. Hell, there are plenty of well-reviewed providers that are still using old pics, and still getting rave reviews, with no mention of the fake pictures and / or weight / age gain.

Obviously, BP is ripe with fake pictures, but it should not be an issue with the more legit boards. Maybe we should just start a new thread labelled 'fake / old pics' and include all providers who do this. Maybe that will induce them to update their pictures. If you are not a spinner, it's really easy to honestly shed a few pounds in a picture by posing on a bed, with your head hanging off the bed and looking back at the camera, with your legs crossed.

If I have been seeing the exact same pics for over a year, then they have to be old / fake. Every phone has a camera nowadays, and I'm sure that no hobbyist would ever refuse to snap a few new pics for a provider.

Just my opinion.

Kisses,

MD[/QUOTE]Thank you as a Provider bringing this to light. There seems to be a few new providers that are doing that here. But I also see a trend where Providers are posting no Pics at all or no link to there website where pics are posted. I have posted about that in the rant and rave section.

[QUOTE=SylvieAmour;1629627]I can't afford 2 phones and I don't have a personal one bc I hate the phone and this one just sucks. I'm getting a new one after Christmas. But that's not the point, the point is if an ad says do not text its not there for fun it means DO NOT DO IT. ITS NOT THAT HARD! Ya follow me here? If it says no greek it would be like calling and asking for it anyway.[/QUOTE]Well are there members from this board that are texting you? Or is the problem is that since you also run ads on Backpage which is know to be full of Creeps causing the problems. The more places you run ads the more chance of you running into this and many other problems.

[QUOTE=Thorbane;1630847]Ok is it just me? Or is there others out there who are reading this post and wondering why you are posting this? Maybe in the furture you could send this to the provider as a PM because that who it was intened for? Just assuming that? Yes this is a Member discussions area and you have a right to post here as much as I do but where could this lead to any discussions? Just throwing out my 2 cents worth.[/QUOTE]You may be right. No offense meant. New to this and just trying to learn my way around this forum. Just felt like lightening the mood a little. Anyway. Anything beyond this post would certainly be in PM form in any case.

Thanks for the advice

[QUOTE=Redgate; 1630470]It's a scam and I fell for the obvious signs, my mistake.

The link is.

[url]http://cincinnati.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/andlt3-cute-andlt3-petite-blonde-hair-blue-eyes-baby-doll-25/12157397[/url]

She is the girl in the picture and she is pretty.[/QUOTE]How were you scammed? Upsell? Bait-and-switch? Take the money and run? Three card Monty? Shell game? Multi level marketing? Ponzi scheme? Or the worst. She sells Amway! Aaaaaaaaa!

But seriously, what's the scam? The info would be useful to help avoid it.

[QUOTE=MollyDaniels; 1630180]Fake / old pictures are really starting to annoy me. I understand that some ladies do not want to post pictures for everyone see, but we do have providers that don't post pictures, but will upon request. So why post fake ones, or ones that are 10 yrs old? Men think with their little heads, and keep this behavior going by not refusing an appt with a provider that mis-represents herself. Hell, there are plenty of well-reviewed providers that are still using old pics, and still getting rave reviews, with no mention of the fake pictures and / or weight / age gain.

Obviously, BP is ripe with fake pictures, but it should not be an issue with the more legit boards. Maybe we should just start a new thread labelled 'fake / old pics' and include all providers who do this. Maybe that will induce them to update their pictures. If you are not a spinner, it's really easy to honestly shed a few pounds in a picture by posing on a bed, with your head hanging off the bed and looking back at the camera, with your legs crossed.

If I have been seeing the exact same pics for over a year, then they have to be old / fake. Every phone has a camera nowadays, and I'm sure that no hobbyist would ever refuse to snap a few new pics for a provider.

Just my opinion.

Kisses,

MD[/QUOTE]Molly- nice pics. You're making the investment not only in photos, but in keeping yourself in good shape and maintaining a good attitude, that it's reaping rewards.

I agree with most everything you said, but I don't think a separate thread is needed. If a provider is reviewed, part of that review should include a comparison between her posted / e-mailed / texted / website photos, and the person who the customer actually met.

More importantly, customers should not be afraid to just walk away. I have done so numerous times and I have no regrets of doing so. If more customers demand a level honestly in the business, it will become the standard, as opposed to being the exception.

It is a buyer's market. It's always a buyer's market. If one provider isn't dealing on the up-and-up, there is another one just as pretty (or prettier) who will. Taller, shorter, blonde, brunette, redhead, spinner or BBW- whatever you're into, there will be someone who is honest just waiting for your call and your cash.

The only question is, are you willing to part with your cash in exchange for a half-hearted session from a provider who doesn't appeal to you as much as you were deceived to be? Or are you going to be more stringent to whom you choose to give you hard earned cash?

Sorry I couldn't make it. How did it go?

How many guys showed up and how long was the party. Inquiring minds need to know.

[QUOTE=Cowboy E;1630377]I asked my provider for a special request. I have a gang bang fantasy and she said if I could put together a group that was gentleman over 40 and knew the rules and that was for sure that we made here feel safe she would give it a go. Some have seen her some have not. She is alot of fun but to do this she has got to feel safe she said if I put together 10 respectful men she would give it a go. So I need 10 guys to play the game its 150 per, and its all donations for 5 star and snacks byob. Pm me for the details. This is for tonight only and reservations must be made by 7pm party will start at 10 or 11 pm.[/QUOTE]

Molly,

If all of the ladies kept their pics up to date like you do, (and Dawn does) , this would be fantastic. Both of you keep yourselves in fantastic shape and are proud to show it off. ! ! Thanks.

[QUOTE=MollyDaniels; 1630180]Fake / old pictures are really starting to annoy me. I understand that some ladies do not want to post pictures for everyone see, but we do have providers that don't post pictures, but will upon request. So why post fake ones, or ones that are 10 yrs old? Men think with their little heads, and keep this behavior going by not refusing an appt with a provider that mis-represents herself. Hell, there are plenty of well-reviewed providers that are still using old pics, and still getting rave reviews, with no mention of the fake pictures and / or weight / age gain.

Obviously, BP is ripe with fake pictures, but it should not be an issue with the more legit boards. Maybe we should just start a new thread labelled 'fake / old pics' and include all providers who do this. Maybe that will induce them to update their pictures. If you are not a spinner, it's really easy to honestly shed a few pounds in a picture by posing on a bed, with your head hanging off the bed and looking back at the camera, with your legs crossed.

If I have been seeing the exact same pics for over a year, then they have to be old / fake. Every phone has a camera nowadays, and I'm sure that no hobbyist would ever refuse to snap a few new pics for a provider.

Just my opinion.

Kisses,

MD[/QUOTE]