Had a conversation with one of the girls yesterday.
Talked to one of the girls yesterday who knew about the video. She found out because one of her clients showed her the video. She was crying and Nicole was devastated and supposedly crying also. They are worried that there is more videos of them out there and how to prevent future recordings. Which I recommend putting cloths in closet and phone in drawer. Unless the booker and boss monitor the forum, I do not believe the girls planned on telling them. They had not told them at that point when I talked to her. They would of had no idea video existed If client never showed her the video.
I believe I would of got permission to Film a session, but now I won't even ask.
I agree with some points.
[QUOTE=Majieroero;6062379]"You're so handsome. Are you married? Why not?" I'm sorry to break it to you, but I'm sure they say this to everyone. LOL I'm not white or even remotely fit, but I somehow get this compliment all the time and that makes me chuckle. The girls know it too and quickly pivot their attitude to something that's a little more genuine, which I would prefer over some over-exaggerated set of compliments.
Most kgirls don't care much about your race, age, or body type. They care more about your hygiene and how well-groomed you are. Clean shaven, trimmed nails, clean skin, and nice smell. Combine that with a genuine and fun gentlemen's attitude and you'll be treated well most of the time. I've gotten plenty of OTC / perks without stacking up tips and gifts just by keeping those things in mind. Most girls that crave OTC just want to hang out with people that are fun to be around, have the money to treat them, and clean enough to fuck on the side..[/QUOTE]I agree with you on some points here, and I am well aware that with these girls, their number one concern is getting your money. Obviously they are going to say what they think you want to you hear in order to make you think they like you so you will return and give them more money. However, I think to say that they don't care at all about our appearance is to deny simple human nature. Yes, the encounter is in most instances purely transactional, but put yourself in the girl's shoes for a moment. Would you rather get paid to fuck an old fat chick who fortunately has good hygiene, or would you rather get paid to fuck a fit, attractive girl who is also clean? In my mind, it is a universal reality that any person is going to better enjoy sex with an attractive person than with someone they find unattractive, even if it is transactional. And I do think with a minority of providers, their level of attraction to the client directly affects their service. Based on my own experiences with Jazmin, for example, and everything I have read about her from others on this forum and elsewhere, I think she is cold and full of rules with people she finds unattractive. It could be hygiene, as well, but I have never experienced any of the negative things or "rules" with her that some others have reported. That, coupled with her showering me with compliments about my looks, makes me think her level of attraction affects her service.
As for OTC, I am fairly certain I have gotten much of it because the girl finds me attractive, both physically and intellectually. To be clear, I do not spoil these girls. I do not take them shopping, I don't buy them jewelry. I don't treat them to vacations. I hardly even tip them. So, I can't think of any other logical reason why they would give me 2, 3, 4, hours of their time, or more, when I have only paid for one hour. They're losing a bunch of money by doing that and they most they get is a free meal and a small tip.
As for race, due to the nature of my career and educational background, I have many long-standing platonic friendships with Korean women, and I have been told by several of these friends that it is common for Korean women to have a suppressed desire for white men. It has a lot to do with the fact that in Korean culture, it is taboo to marry non-Korean men (even other Asian men who are not Korean! I have also been told by Korean friends, platonic friends and providers alike, that they like white men because they are very masculine in comparison to Asian men.
Anyway, you are right that in the big picture, as long as you are clean, a gentleman, and treat the girls with respect and like a human being and not a lifeless fuck doll, they will be good to you. Carry on and savor that K pussy.