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[QUOTE=AMonger1;6601967]Anyone else getting "I'm surprised you don't have someone Dominant in your life" screened over your incoming / outgoing messages in their inbox? Archived inbox messages are normal tho.
Are they watching me?[/QUOTE]I'm also getting that exact message. I have to turn my phone sideways to read it.
[QUOTE=AMonger1;6601967]Anyone else getting "I'm surprised you don't have someone Dominant in your life" screened over your incoming / outgoing messages in their inbox? Archived inbox messages are normal tho.
Are they watching me?[/QUOTE]Me too. This is weird. It happened to girls who had not responded to me, so I removed their access to my private photo. In the actual message box, it read correctly. However, if you look on the "Sent" window, all of those who had private photos removed have that message.
This is running on a computer not a phone. I put in a Help ticket. Not that it is a big problem I don't think.
[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6600971]Because I was banned off of SA.
Has anyone here gotten back on to SA recently after being banned? Also under what circumstances do they ask for I'd? I have seen people say sometimes they request a pic of your license or passport?[/QUOTE]I got banned and I made other profiles with other email addresses but when I would try paying for premium it wouldn't let me so I'm assuming they had my IP address stored. So then I emailed their support email with my original profile about being reinstated and they were like you were banned for using "ppm" and "dollar amounts" in messages so probably some dumb sb didn't like my offer and reported me saying I was trying to pay for for sex but they gave me another chance and reinstated me and I watch what I say in messages and try to get them to text as soon as possible and I haven't been banned since.
[QUOTE=Bran001;6601280]I've had quite a few 3 somes with SB's but only where either I put it together myself and introduce the girls to each other, or rarely where I've met one solo and she says she has a "friend. ".
Like you I never trust the profiles with 2 women in them. For all the reasons you list.[/QUOTE]I've had several 3 somes and it's always a friend of the sb I met on sa, I don't trust the profiles with 2 women they usually want a super high ppm and they usually aren't that hot.
[QUOTE=HappyJob;6602554]I got banned and I made other profiles with other email addresses but when I would try paying for premium it wouldn't let me so I'm assuming they had my IP address stored. So then I emailed their support email with my original profile about being reinstated and they were like you were banned for using "ppm" and "dollar amounts" in messages so probably some dumb sb didn't like my offer and reported me saying I was trying to pay for for sex but they gave me another chance and reinstated me and I watch what I say in messages and try to get them to text as soon as possible and I haven't been banned since.[/QUOTE]Interesting. I'd heard they log IP also. That seems like an easy step for them.
But don't you use a VPN? I'd assume that fixes that.
I wonder what this will do to / for us. I presume Newsome will sign it. I like it for myself, but will it compromise our ability to snoop on SBs?
I just got into messaging w / a 42 YO divorcee on Seeking. Been on just a couple of days. Total newbie. She sent me her phone #. The real one. Using free web searching, I had her full name and her LinkedIn profile in a NY minute, home address, the balance on her mortgage, etc. What she told me is that she was semi-retired so can meet during the day. Perfect to avoid the warden.
A girl I messaged the day I rejoined the site has been away all this month, but came back today. Gave me her private pix and #. OMG she is totally hot, a grad student, and from her face pick got her real full name. I located her school, and know she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered. She offers some particular risks to me, but I will forge ahead with "Paly". You may get a report on my progress.
[QUOTE=Murrican;6602677]Interesting. I'd heard they log IP also. That seems like an easy step for them.
But don't you use a VPN? I'd assume that fixes that.[/QUOTE]This worked for me if you got banned. Make sure cleared out your cookies, history, etc. Everything. Restart browser (I use chrome in this case) then go into incognito and create a brand new email not sounds similar to email you used. Create a seeking account with VPN after that. Sometimes it works without VPN, but make sure clear all the caches, cookies, and history. You can log in without VPN after that. It worked 2 or 3 times for me so perhaps it's YMMV.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6601650]I am finishing up a month. I have so much pussy IDK what to do w / it. I will go from mid-20's to mid-40's, because I am way older. I have done about 8 M&Gs, and all are super hot and sexy, smart and nice. All are ready to FC w / me, my allowance offer for the first time is 4-5. They get the room that I also reimburse for. I met a MILF yesterday, in my car outside the restaurant we met at, I got my hand into her panties, and got her off in just a couple of minutes of flicking. Super wet, super hot, super fun. Really looking forward to banging her. Another is all about getting spanked, etc.
So, it just depends on who you approach and how you do it.[/QUOTE]Sounds like you are in a great spot. My experience with seeking has been a bit mixed. I've met a few and went to the FC but they've generally been less attractive than their pics. There's, however, a lot of girls where it sounds like they want to do a meet & greet but they end up not confirming that we are meeting and being really flakey. Is that others' experience as well, or do I just have bad luck? Things are going well enough via DM and text that they say they are interested in meeting up, but they either don't give specifics as to when and where, or if we agree to a time and place, they don't end up confirming. My guess it's all part of the game but was curious if others frequently run into this.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6602692]she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered.[/QUOTE]I've had the good fortune to have a south Asian SB before. She was easily one of the best and worst I've had.
Pros:
She LOVED sex.
She loved anal.
She worked for Marriott, so she was always game to book rooms with her employee discount.
Cons:
She ONLY loved anal.
She demanded a condom for vaginal sex.
She was bad at sucking cock.
She always answered her phon when her parents called, even if I was balls deep in her ass.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6602692]I wonder what this will do to / for us. I presume Newsome will sign it. I like it for myself, but will it compromise our ability to snoop on SBs?
I just got into messaging w / a 42 YO divorcee on Seeking. Been on just a couple of days. Total newbie. She sent me her phone #. The real one. Using free web searching, I had her full name and her LinkedIn profile in a NY minute, home address, the balance on her mortgage, etc. What she told me is that she was semi-retired so can meet during the day. Perfect to avoid the warden.
A girl I messaged the day I rejoined the site has been away all this month, but came back today. Gave me her private pix and #. OMG she is totally hot, a grad student, and from her face pick got her real full name. I located her school, and know she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered. She offers some particular risks to me, but I will forge ahead with "Paly". You may get a report on my progress.[/QUOTE]Definitely would love to hear how it goes. I am interested in hitting some other types than the usual and have found it challenging.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6602692]I wonder what this will do to / for us. I presume Newsome will sign it. I like it for myself, but will it compromise our ability to snoop on SBs?
I just got into messaging w / a 42 YO divorcee on Seeking. Been on just a couple of days. Total newbie. She sent me her phone #. The real one. Using free web searching, I had her full name and her LinkedIn profile in a NY minute, home address, the balance on her mortgage, etc. What she told me is that she was semi-retired so can meet during the day. Perfect to avoid the warden.
A girl I messaged the day I rejoined the site has been away all this month, but came back today. Gave me her private pix and #. OMG she is totally hot, a grad student, and from her face pick got her real full name. I located her school, and know she is Indian-American. This is a total fantasy for me, I've never banged an Indian girl and have always wondered. She offers some particular risks to me, but I will forge ahead with "Paly". You may get a report on my progress.[/QUOTE]Very much interested to know how it goes.
In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
[URL]https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4[/URL]
[QUOTE=ColoHobbyist;6603392]I've had the good fortune to have a south Asian SB before. She was easily one of the best and worst I've had.
Pros:
She LOVED sex.
She loved anal.
She worked for Marriott, so she was always game to book rooms with her employee discount.
Cons:
She ONLY loved anal.
She demanded a condom for vaginal sex.
She was bad at sucking cock.
She always answered her phon when her parents called, even if I was balls deep in her ass.[/QUOTE]Too funny. I need to get my SB to make some calls next time LOL.
[QUOTE=ColoHobbyist;6603392]I've had the good fortune to have a south Asian SB before. She was easily one of the best and worst I've had.
Pros:
She LOVED sex.
She loved anal.
She worked for Marriott, so she was always game to book rooms with her employee discount.
Cons:
She ONLY loved anal.
She demanded a condom for vaginal sex.
She was bad at sucking cock.
She always answered her phon when her parents called, even if I was balls deep in her ass.[/QUOTE]If her juice box is tight with raws; that'll make a big diff.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6601650]I am finishing up a month. I have so much pussy IDK what to do w / it. I will go from mid-20's to mid-40's, because I am way older. I have done about 8 M&Gs, and all are super hot and sexy, smart and nice. All are ready to FC w / me, my allowance offer for the first time is 4-5. They get the room that I also reimburse for. I met a MILF yesterday, in my car outside the restaurant we met at, I got my hand into her panties, and got her off in just a couple of minutes of flicking. Super wet, super hot, super fun. Really looking forward to banging her. Another is all about getting spanked, etc.
So, it just depends on who you approach and how you do it.[/QUOTE]I am going to agree with this statement. Once you get you whole approach down, be confident, post good photos, SA is shooting fish in a barrel. At any given month I can get at least 20 decent girls that will go out and meet me. Of course, you must be willing to spend 4-600 to get the better ones on there. Sure, there are many that will ask crazy prices, but I just block those.
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6603852]In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
[URL]https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4[/URL][/QUOTE]That's some comedy. Basically "we need to say you shouldn't use seeking for the very reason we know 100% of you are here. Just don't make it so obvious mmmmkay?
[QUOTE=StudBucket;6604383]I am going to agree with this statement. Once you get you whole approach down, be confident, post good photos, SA is shooting fish in a barrel. At any given month I can get at least 20 decent girls that will go out and meet me. Of course, you must be willing to spend 4-600 to get the better ones on there. Sure, there are many that will ask crazy prices, but I just block those.[/QUOTE]Its YMMV for sure. Not everyone can post pictures for obvious reasons. Tons of men on there are married I read somewhere.
I have posted earlier about a couple of facial recognition sites that could get us guys who want to stay anonymous in trouble. I provided some strategies to avoid trouble, including what I did, put black dots over the eyes and nose of my real photo, which I then send to vetted POTs (vetted by a phone call, and perhaps other sleuthing). I had checked the photos I've been sending from time to time on the two main sites discussed earlier. Look at my earlier posts if you want to know their specific names.
I was sending pix today and got a whim to check mine again. The site that has a name involving checking faces, it suddenly showed one of my real photos, connected w / a website that I am properly on for professional reasons. IDK, in the past, that particular post was not found by the facial recognition site, but it was today.
They have a means to get your photo / link removed from the search results. You select the pic and click through to a page where you can enter either 1) a pic of your driver's license, with info removed / hidden, just the face photo or 2) a selfie you have just taken w / two fingers on your chin. I took the latter path. I uploaded it and they say that it will take up to 5 days for them to permanently delete you from search results. They instantly stop giving your pic as an answer while they consider your removal request. I checked this of course, by using another browser and going back to the site. Now, it did not connect my sanitized photo w / the site that it had found earlier.
We will have to periodically go onto the facial recognition sites and check that our photos aren't being recognized. A pain.
However, I do use this site fairly often on the pics of POTs, and often I can get to their real identities quickly. The information provided, it isn't all that useful in getting to 'yes' w / a POT, but it can cover your ass in case things go south.
[QUOTE=HappyJob;6602554]I got banned and I made other profiles with other email addresses but when I would try paying for premium it wouldn't let me so I'm assuming they had my IP address stored. So then I emailed their support email with my original profile about being reinstated and they were like you were banned for using "ppm" and "dollar amounts" in messages so probably some dumb sb didn't like my offer and reported me saying I was trying to pay for for sex but they gave me another chance and reinstated me and I watch what I say in messages and try to get them to text as soon as possible and I haven't been banned since.[/QUOTE]Was this recent? They said mine was "permanent" but then told me to look up the rules to avoid this in the future LOL. People have been saying how hard it is to get back on.
[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6605763]Was this recent? They said mine was "permanent" but then told me to look up the rules to avoid this in the future LOL. People have been saying how hard it is to get back on.[/QUOTE]Shady situation LOL.
Within a couple of hours of submitting my request to that facial recognition site, they had permanently removed the 'hit' of my IRL photo on their list of results.
They have an odd way of acknowledging, but it does avoid the need to give them an email address. They say just to bookmark the removal page and come back to check. I did, and they said they had agreed to take my photo out.
This is sort of tricky. The photo is definitely in their results, sometimes there is an old website that it can be hard to get back to that has the pic out there (or perhaps it was archived somehow).
[QUOTE=RanManCan;6603852]In case anyone wants to watch the shame video from Seeking. You have to watch this if they determine you've been naughty.
[URL]https://contents.seeking.com/videos/seeking_violation_solicitation_1080p.mp4[/URL][/QUOTE]That's hilarious. What a society of hypocrites we are.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6606260]Within a couple of hours of submitting my request to that facial recognition site, they had permanently removed the 'hit' of my IRL photo on their list of results.
They have an odd way of acknowledging, but it does avoid the need to give them an email address. They say just to bookmark the removal page and come back to check. I did, and they said they had agreed to take my photo out.
This is sort of tricky. The photo is definitely in their results, sometimes there is an old website that it can be hard to get back to that has the pic out there (or perhaps it was archived somehow).[/QUOTE]Just did the same, surprised how quickly they took action (less than 24 hours). I submitted several other photos of me and everything came back clean. I did use my real email, I figured there was nothing shady or illegal about wanting to remove my photos from a search engine and therefore nothing to hide.
Wow, I was on [URL]Rover.com[/URL] looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.
[QUOTE=Chupacabra;6606381]That's hilarious. What a society of hypocrites we are.[/QUOTE]Pretty humorous in some way LOL.
Has anyone pursued SBs who are in the same industry? I had a meet and greet with a POT and it turns out she's in the same profession. I didn't tell her what I do but am afraid that it's a matter of time before she figures out who I am since it's a small world. Thoughts?
[QUOTE=WhiteCollarGuy;6607048]Has anyone pursued SBs who are in the same industry? I had a meet and greet with a POT and it turns out she's in the same profession. I didn't tell her what I do but am afraid that it's a matter of time before she figures out who I am since it's a small world. Thoughts?[/QUOTE]Sorta, not exactly. I work in a large organization. Thousands of people at this location. There are definitely some girls who are also here who are candidates to show up on SA. I have for the most part been careful about this, figuring if I was seeing someone from my organization, there is a much greater chance of her coming across my IRL identity (of course I have a sugar story that doesn't involve my working here). So once those POTs divulged that they were here, I just blocked them and went on. Too many fish in the sea and all.
However, I am just now sorely tempted to violate my rules. I have a hankering to bang an Indian-American girl, and there is a POT right now who really floats my boat. And in my organization. Absolutely gorgeous. She is in a department far from mine (subject-wise and physically). We've spoken by phone and she is interested, though I am above her age range. Hence she wants to see full pix. Even those that have been sanitized to avoid facial recognition, someone at this organization upon seeing them could recognize me. Of course, this girl likely doesn't want anyone knowing that she is active on the site either.
She says her last arrangement ended about a month ago. She is hot enough she won't have to wait long to get some new offers. Carpe diem.
Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.
I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.
This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6606677]Wow, I was on [URL]Rover.com[/URL] looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.[/QUOTE]Interesting so how would you approach here if you find anyone interested.
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6607838]Had an interaction w / a POT that is a new experience for me on the site, after literally hundreds over the years. She's an educated Latina, seems like we'd have some things in common, hence I engaged her. After an initial phone call, I did sent her sanitized pix, just a couple. Those were OK for her so we are discussing a M&G. She said once on the call and once by text that she wanted to do lunch. Many people don't care what the initial meeting entails, others perhaps have read on Reddit or whatever that they should 'test' if someone is a sugar daddy or a Splenda daddy by trying to get a fancier M&G.
I most often pick a coffee place, and of course don't care if the girl wants a muffin in addition to her latte. I have done lunch w / a few also, I need to be a little more careful selecting a restaurant that has the right vibe and isn't going to put me in a vulnerable position (by running into someone IK, for example). I have a couple of these choices, and I suggested one to her. It is in a local shopping mall, and located near the parking structure, facilitating going to one of our cars for 'private' discussions provided the lunch went well. In my car, well, I can be blunt about my sexual practices, and if lucky, can get my hands / lips onto the lady in question.
This gal, she responds to my suggested venue by saying, no, she would really rather go to another, fancier restaurant in that mall. Some foods she likes there. IK it is a much higher profile than the place I offered, and poses risks to me that are unknown. The fact that now, a couple of times, she's been demanding w / my contributions to her world does not bode well for us to develop the sort of financial relationship I envision. I don't typically get crazy with the $. So I took her approach as an indication of her GPS. There are lots and lots of girls on the site, there is no particular reason I need this one. I am just going to try ghosting, see if she gets the idea.[/QUOTE]I mean she wants you to know she is pricey. Good for her, not so good for you. In my case if I say to them I'll take you anywhere, they usually say something like olive garden, wingstop or even del taco. Gotta love it. Different demographic.
[QUOTE=AMonger1;6599355][URL] https://members.seeking.com/member/270c418c-caae-466d-b1bf-818cc25e77d1[/URL]
Asking 1 k. Think I've seen her profile on HX before but unsure.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.humaniplex.com/profiles/Sinderelllla[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a6cae48-9795-4e3b-93ea-56c7c3fcf554[/URL]
1 k for a dinner date. Wouldn't consider anything less, doesn't leave the house for less than 1 K apparently.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ab104383-eb58-455d-b8e4-c9f79a10bd97[/URL]
700 condom only. Probably could've talked her down but BBFS are a no go so I lost interest.
[QUOTE=SBlover;6611325][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/7a6cae48-9795-4e3b-93ea-56c7c3fcf554[/URL]
1 k for a dinner date. Wouldn't consider anything less, doesn't leave the house for less than 1 K apparently.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ab104383-eb58-455d-b8e4-c9f79a10bd97[/URL]
700 condom only. Probably could've talked her down but BBFS are a no go so I lost interest.[/QUOTE]Not the Alena I was familiar with haha.
[QUOTE=Dsteezy;6611636]Not the Alena I was familiar with haha.[/QUOTE]Yea it was a disappointment because she looked good in her photos. Asked if she was on BC, said no. Asked if she'd take the plan b and she started on a rant on how it's terrible for woman's health.
Currently working on this one, if anyone has any intel.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8cc41853-f3ad-4935-b484-71c87fa53751[/URL]
Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.
Anyone try her out?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ae2e07e0-39cc-4570-8a77-50403ea3367e[/URL]
[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6606677]Wow, I was on [URL]Rover.com[/URL] looking for a dogsitter, and the place is filled w / girls who look like they could also be on seeking. I think they could be persuaded. If you have no SO. I'd love to hear someone who has tried this.[/QUOTE]I've met several girls on SA who actually do have profiles on rover.
Go for it!
[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6611833]Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.[/QUOTE]I use that line. "You are worth that amount and more, and some guy is going to be lucky to get you. It's just beyond my budget but best of luck. ".
Translated into SA speak: " You think I'm a Splenda daddy but I'm complimenting your shallow ass on the way out so you don't block or report me because of your own unjustified GPS. ".
[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6611833]Someone here gave really good advice on how to politely decline when a girl has GPS and asks for too much. Something about "you deserve to get paid what you value yourself, I hope you find them" something like that. I need that with someone I met off SA but still want to keep a good relationship with for in the future. I tried searching the thread and went back pretty far but I can't seem to find it.[/QUOTE]I will say stuff like 'I am sure some girls on the site get that', but qualify that isn't something I'd be able to do. And that if all they care about is that one allowance payment, they should try to track that guy down again. Meaning, yeah, history is fine, but you are here and now talking to me, and what you got before isn't that relevant. If you just want to say 'bye' without pissing her off and risking her reporting you to the site (however invalid) you can always go with HG's "I'll keep that in mind".
I don't think it is very fruitful to really haggle, people tend to have their numbers in mind. Think of it the same way you would about car prices. The phenomenon of pinning. I never never discuss $ online, only face to face. People are brave behind a keyboard, they fear rejection when face to face, and when they have invested in the meeting. Their ask will be less.
I emphasize I want an ongoing arrangement, where they'll get paid multiple times and they don't have to be on the site meeting someone new all the time, who might be nice or not really.
I have also had girls claim they were getting like 1-2 K per meet in past arrangements. Some I even believed that. Of course, they are ruined forever by that. A guy who does that, his mind is in a funny place, and he is fucking up the sugarbowl for most. I would not believe that a girl who had once gotten that kind of dough would ever be satisfied w / the 3-500 that I could do. I heard this at a M&G w / someone I thought had real potential for a friendly relationship, but I declined to pursue further.
[QUOTE=PantyPatrol1;6604872]Its YMMV for sure. Not everyone can post pictures for obvious reasons. Tons of men on there are married I read somewhere.[/QUOTE]I have provided my solution to posting photos that are safe. Someone who looks like you, with also some parts cut out as if they really are you and you are trying to stay discreet. There is even a new approach to locating photos on the web who look like you. Facial recognition sites.