The Woodshed

[QUOTE=Anonymous123;4769623]Just because you have been saying it, doesn't mean it was right. You were wrong. Whites used it as a racial slur. Now depending on whether your a racist or an asshole or not, maybe you'll stop.[/QUOTE]You can virtue signal all you want but I still believe that communication starts with the speaker and not with the audience. Because you think it's racist but it's not doesn't mean you get to say it's racist and then it is. It's your responsibility to understand what somebody is saying, not to tell them what their own words mean.

I read the post, there was no racist intent and you can fingerwag for a thousand years and I'm not going to give in because you won't STFU about it. In this case the words mean what the speaker said they mean, not what you say they mean.

You have an ignore function, use it if what he writes bunches your panties so hard.

A2.

[QUOTE=Admin2;4770845]You can virtue signal all you want but I still believe that communication starts with the speaker and not with the audience. Because you think it's racist but it's not doesn't mean you get to say it's racist and then it is. It's your responsibility to understand what somebody is saying, not to tell them what their own words mean.

I read the post, there was no racist intent and you can fingerwag for a thousand years and I'm not going to give in because you won't STFU about it. In this case the words mean what the speaker said they mean, not what you say they mean.

You have an ignore function, use it if what he writes bunches your panties so hard.

A2.[/QUOTE]

Deleted my response..not caring anymore

[QUOTE=Anonymous123;4770094]You don't know what people have been through in there lives. Maybe it I'd more than the melanin in your skin has. Maybe it wasn't just words. Maybe these were yelled at him while being beaten by whites. Or maybe it was yelled at him while they put a noose around his neck and threatened to hang him. So please stop telling someone how to deal with things that affect them. None of us know what the next man had been through. It's rare we have a personal relationship with the next man on here. So just respect boundaries. The guy who said it apologized. Why are people like you trying to defend it still. Some people felt offended, others didn't. If you didn't, be quiet. Simple. Last time I'm wasting time on this. The guy already said sorry. So all is well with me. Just stop trying to tell people how to react, or don't react to being offended.[/QUOTE]I actually tried to google "knuckle dragger" used in a racist form and all I am seeing is it denigrates loud, brutish persons. If this is racist to anyone, they are insensitive pussies just looking for something to b1tch about. Just like this total horseshit about "boomers". Fuck, get a life.

[QUOTE=Anonymous123;4770094]You don't know what people have been through in there lives. Maybe it I'd more than the melanin in your skin has. Maybe it wasn't just words. Maybe these were yelled at him while being beaten by whites. Or maybe it was yelled at him while they put a noose around his neck and threatened to hang him. So please stop telling someone how to deal with things that affect them. None of us know what the next man had been through. It's rare we have a personal relationship with the next man on here. So just respect boundaries. The guy who said it apologized. Why are people like you trying to defend it still. Some people felt offended, others didn't. If you didn't, be quiet. Simple. Last time I'm wasting time on this. The guy already said sorry. So all is well with me. Just stop trying to tell people how to react, or don't react to being offended.[/QUOTE]I'm not defending anything. I'm simply stating that if you choose to get offended then that's on you. Once again they're only words. It doesn't matter what you've been through in the past. These are just words on a screen on a website. If words trigger you so bad that you have other issues and you need to therapy. It was nice of him to apologize but there was no need. Like I said. Sticks and stones. We were taught that is kids. But a lot of people nowadays forgot all about that. And get their panties in a wad because somebody said something or did something that has them "offended". I take offense to those that are so easily offended haha.

And what does "people like you" mean? I clearly said I have melanin in my skin. So that MUST be a racial slur right? Or at least it would mean that if I were simple-minded and chose to get offended easily.

Looking for some good ed pills besides viagra over the counter kind of stuff.

[QUOTE=Grapp150;4769767]You ask why WE all see her when we have read all the bad reviews? WE don't. YOU did, and you invited her into your house? You apparently read all the posts on her so why see her at all?[/QUOTE]That post really smelled like someone in her personal life decided to post shit about her. - I'm assuming a girl. I wouldn't take it seriously as a monger post.

I mean, I'm not disputing anything in the post, just so many telltale signs.

Definitely personal. For someone that doesn't use this forum to jump on here and create a new thread about her, considering how many reviews she's had seems fishy.

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;4772734]That post really smelled like someone in her personal life decided to post shit about her. - I'm assuming a girl. I wouldn't take it seriously as a monger post.

I mean, I'm not disputing anything in the post, just so many telltale signs.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Anonymous123;4769623]Just because you have been saying it, doesn't mean it was right. You were wrong. Whites used it as a racial slur. Now depending on whether your a racist or an asshole or not, maybe you'll stop.[/QUOTE]Yeah, fuck you.

Because someone, somewhere, used a word in a particular way, doesn't mean that's what its general usage means. In all of MY years, I've never heard the phrase used as a racial epithet. I'm not disputing that it has, but I've been places and talked to people, and it hasn't come up that way.

If I call you a snowflake, it probably means that you're being overly sensitive, not that I think you're too white for your own good. But some people have used it that way to conflate PC-ness with white privilege.

Will I add the "some people interpret this as racist" tag to that phrase in my head? Yep. Will I avoid using it, most of the time? Nope.

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;4772734]That post really smelled like someone in her personal life decided to post shit about her. - I'm assuming a girl. I wouldn't take it seriously as a monger post.

I mean, I'm not disputing anything in the post, just so many telltale signs.[/QUOTE]I am very new to this and my English is not good. I did not know about this site till recently. I am sorry if I offend anybody I was talking about people who have not seen her yet. I saw her ad and few weeks ago. She was talking about her life. She got of jail had an pimp and he set her up and she was on the news. She wanted to change get her life on track. She convince me that I should give her a chance. We talk on the phone. I thought she need some help. I am nice person. It was very personal to me what she did to me. I just wanted people to know she is up to no good. I thought since this said Deanna it was a place I could explain what happen to me. If any body is reading this just beware. She has a good talk game. She does use people kindness. She lies about her ads. Her body is not all that and she has rotten teeth. She has a OK face and prices are low. She is a junkie. Her service is rushed and uninspired. Her face is the only thing going for her. She has Substantial baby damage or stretch marks to midsection and boobs saggy. She looked older than the claimed age in the ad. I did not want to screen and use spend a lot of money. Those are her only qualities. I did not know about the reviews till recent.

But I will tell you this, She told me she smoke I could smell it on her. She even ask If I wanted to I said No But You can. She told me a lot rumors on the internet about her blackmailed, stealing and robbing from customers and others. We had sex within 30 mn she left. A few days later she called me asking me for more money I said No! I went on vacation. When I got back I two black dudes that look like thugs or drug dealers on camera taking my shit. So who ever is reading this do not trust her. Do not give her any money. . But as God is my witness She is not worth it and she will do you wrong. Nothing is Good about that woman. Yes I let her at my place I did not want to go that low end motel On JTB. You can believe me or not.

The bottom line She is no good. She will rob cheat and steal from you. Please do not be the next victim.

I am not really sure why I am replying to the knuckle-dragger convo, but I am.

In my half century of fumbling around on this planet, I have heard the term knuckle-dragger used several times; many times directed at me. Not because of my race, but because of my job. You see, in this mans Navy, the term is used to refer to someone who is a mechanic on board a ship or submarine. Usually the phrase is used by an electrician or electronics tech as derogatory when degrading mechanics. It always conjured up images of Grape Ape stomping around the engineering spaces of the sub.

Was it meant to offend? Yes. Did it? Only if you were a pussy.

My point here is, don't be a pussy. If you are offended, you just gave your power to be happy over to someone else. You can say or call me anything you want, even a democrat. But I have the power to ignore you and move on.

[QUOTE=PlayTiem;4772764]Yeah, fuck you.

Because someone, somewhere, used a word in a particular way, doesn't mean that's what its general usage means. In all of MY years, I've never heard the phrase used as a racial epithet. I'm not disputing that it has, but I've been places and talked to people, and it hasn't come up that way.

If I call you a snowflake, it probably means that you're being overly sensitive, not that I think you're too white for your own good. But some people have used it that way to conflate PC-ness with white privilege.

Will I add the "some people interpret this as racist" tag to that phrase in my head? Yep. Will I avoid using it, most of the time? Nope.[/QUOTE]Yeah that's right. Fuck you knuckle dragger.

Sometimes, pics can be deceiving or don't tell the whole story. If you actually read what I said about Bubbles, you would understand that according to her pics, I can understand why some would say she is not attractive-some people aren't photogenic but that doesn't mean they're ugly. If some saw her in person, you might change your mind-she is not the ugliest on STG, trust and believe that. I was actually shocked when I saw her in person!

As far as the AA provider is concerned, the body isn't really bad at all and she isn't a bad looking girl in person either. Like I said, you're judging purely from their pics, but again, pics don't always tell the whole story! You also seem to have a thing for Ts-what's up with that?

Now, I am sure others are thinking what I'm going to say, but I have seen the pics of many providers you have visited and I have always thought you didn't have the best taste in women. Most of them are pretty fat and nasty to boot. That said, I'm pretty sure you don't stand in the position to question someone about what they deem nice looking. You might want to go back and view some of the girls you've seen and hopefully, with an objective eye, you'll see those hookers are challenged in the looks department. At any rate, if one has really looked at STG, the selection pool is, at best, dismal!

But honestly, if you look at the hooker you have seen, trust and believe, they are some ugly ducklings! LOL.

I imagine there are fair number of guys on here who are attached to a SO in some form. Would love to hear the creative ways the hobby is funded so the misses doesn't figure out where the cash is going.

Will probably help a few rookies out too.

I own a business that relies partially on cash. The wife and I have completely separate finances. No clever shenanigans here.

[QUOTE=TailBlazing;4833339]I imagine there are fair number of guys on here who are attached to a SO in some form. Would love to hear the creative ways the hobby is funded so the misses doesn't figure out where the cash is going.

Will probably help a few rookies out too.[/QUOTE]

No business involved but the wife and I have always had separate accounts. (35+ years) Just easier to divide the bills fairly and have our own money.

[QUOTE=DWaltonXXX;4833680]I own a business that relies partially on cash. The wife and I have completely separate finances. No clever shenanigans here.[/QUOTE]