It's not funny but did make me laugh
[QUOTE=BadBudda;2212089]Some dumb ass people think they're gaming a provider, getting cheaper rates, extra time, stuff that's not on th menu. All some of these guys do half the time is fuck it up for the rest of us! !! Case in point, I've been waiting to see this new girl, REALLY HOT been working on it all week. First tried Tuesday, by time I made sure I could create a excuse my wife would believe she was booked up and done for the night. Tried Wednesday but when it came time to get away some guy had run way over his time and couldn't wait for her to make it back to her incall she was so far out. Set it up tonight, paid someone to work my shift get to the location and some dumb ass has taken her out for a outcall, keep her damn near half the night and she's pissed at the world. Try and be a nice guy and listen while she and another provider talk about it, figure they will just get it out of their system. Hell no! Stuff just gets worse from there. 2 hours later, get the"you're a decent guy but I'm just not into it right now" WTF! This prick just messed up MY night! Hell he's probably single, and has play time to spare. I've got to plan shit with military precision, call in favors, and PAY people to cover my fat ass!! What the hell guys when one of us piss a provider off your screwing untold guys down the line. And who ever pulled this off deserves to be hung by the heels and beat on the balls with a wet carp!![/QUOTE]I'm not laughing at you or your situation because that does truly suck, but the picture you painted did make me chuckle a bit.
Unfortunately, this happens more often than you would expect. At the same time the issue does fall on the provider for not planning better. There's always a potential for things getting pushed especially toward the end of the day. Her not setting firm boundaries up front, allowing appropriate time, etc.
Having known several of these girls there's things they all do that these mongers pushing the limits don't understand. Almost all save your number in their phone after you call. They may not remember your name but there will be some identifier. One girl used to add DNA after numbers for do not answer if the experience has bad. Same girl would add $ for guy tips well or would pay even just to talk. Another girl would have identifiers like time, meaning the guy was always late or stayed over. It goes on and on but you get the idea. In the long run especially with popular providers they will bump appointments or allow for the time suckers if it pays well. If one guy can come in and make it so they don't have to hole up in a hotel room running through towels all day they're going to clear their schedule and their day.
In the long run the monger that doesn't take care of her she will remember.
And the real pisser is. .
I'm hearing about what's happened to this sweet kid, seems genuinely a good hearted kinda girl, the kind of provider you always wanted to find kind, you know? So after she and the other provider talk about this douche bag for awhile I ask" Why don't you call him out on this kinda stuff? " She replied " Oh, no he made it clear he's a senior fellow on this internet site and he'll talk shit about me and cause me trouble if I was to say anything or complained" WTF? Just because this cat has been around for a while, seen a few providers and learned how to scam people for extras, he seems to have a free pass to do or say anything he wants because he can wield the guide as a club. I make a appointment, show up on time, try and be responsible and respectful and all of sudden because HE'S a thought less bi-polar jerk I'm FUCKING INVISIBLE! !! Hell I'm a senior to but I have never tried to hold it over someone or tried to manipulate or bargain with that status. We're supposed to help eschew other out, share good info on who we find the best providers and save others from a bad or frustratingly experience. Instead it would seem some of us want to browbeat, threaten and use our presence on the board to extort favors from these girls. No wonder the ladies give some people the runaround and schedule duplicate appointments, some guys are just Pricks! Meanwhile those of us who genuinely respect and care for these girls see deals that we have planned, dreamed of, waited all week for go up in smoke because some asshole wanted to use his position to extort extras from some poor kid! !! I'm so mad I couldn't even sleep last night, I feel like this basterd stole from me. Think I'll call in and take vacation, get drunk and generally feel sorry for myself like the loser that I obvious am. The old saying is almost right Nice Guys don't finish last. . they don't even get to start! !!
ROLMOA maybe you need a less stressful hobby.
[QUOTE=BadBudda;2212252]. I'm so mad I couldn't even sleep last night, IThink I'll call in and take vacation, get drunk [/QUOTE]Fishing or knitting maybe? This hobby is supposed to relieve stress. Not increase it. LOL.
Don't Believe everything a provider says
[QUOTE=BadBudda;2212252]I'm hearing about what's happened to this sweet kid, seems genuinely a good hearted kinda girl, the kind of provider you always wanted to find kind, you know? So after she and the other provider talk about this douche bag for awhile I ask" Why don't you call him out on this kinda stuff? " She replied " Oh, no he made it clear he's a senior fellow on this internet site and he'll talk shit about me and cause me trouble if I was to say anything or complained" WTF? Just because this cat has been around for a while, seen a few providers and learned how to scam people for extras, he seems to have a free pass to do or say anything he wants because he can wield the guide as a club. I make a appointment, show up on time, try and be responsible and respectful and all of sudden because HE'S a thought less bi-polar jerk I'm FUCKING INVISIBLE! !! Hell I'm a senior to but I have never tried to hold it over someone or tried to manipulate or bargain with that status. We're supposed to help eschew other out, share good info on who we find the best providers and save others from a bad or frustratingly experience. Instead it would seem some of us want to browbeat, threaten and use our presence on the board to extort favors from these girls. No wonder the ladies give some people the runaround and schedule duplicate appointments, some guys are just Pricks! Meanwhile those of us who genuinely respect and care for these girls see deals that we have planned, dreamed of, waited all week for go up in smoke because some asshole wanted to use his position to extort extras from some poor kid! !! I'm so mad I couldn't even sleep last night, I feel like this basterd stole from me. Think I'll call in and take vacation, get drunk and generally feel sorry for myself like the loser that I obvious am. The old saying is almost right Nice Guys don't finish last. . they don't even get to start! !![/QUOTE]Just because a provider says someone took up her day doesn't make it true. And I'm not talking about your situation just providers in general. Stick to the script because at the end of the day its business never personal. The highest bidder will always win.
MandySenLuvz is freaking AWESOME!
Let me just say, some dreams shouldn't ever end and I just had one about MandySenLuvz. She gets it, unlike so many of these RIDICULOUS young girls that pop up with attitude and no clue what it takes to be great. She was amazing in every aspect, attentive, very giving, enjoys receiving, just an all around great time. I am somewhat picky and and it doesn't bother me one ounce not to see anybody if their attitude sucks, which is the case with so many. She is just a cool chick. I won't go into great detail but OMG she loves what she does! Dream starts with BBBJ, which turned into my favorite # then onto various positions, although doggy was top shelf and finally ending with BBBJCIM which made me see double. The only negative was having to walk down the steps on my wobbly legs. LOL Whoever gets to see her will have an amazing time.
Yes that is absolutely correct
[QUOTE=GimpedChef;2213252]Shouldn't you be trying to get in touch with the ones you stood up, blatantly hurt and such rather than if you were hurt just let me know? I for one believe that if you truly cared about what happened, you would try to find those whom you stood up, hurt and wasted their time; and try to see if you could remedy the problem. Having them "just let you know" shows you will do only for those that will put their hand up and say me I got hurt by you, rather they did or not. You made the appointment, you should know whom to contact.[/QUOTE]Very well put, it was a very ill attempt at righting some wrongs. It lacked sincerity & conviction. Nothing about it was or is funny to those she screwed over and her joking and making light of the situation only further defines her character. I was one of those people she screwed over and she feels as though I should come to her and let her know, are you fu* kidding me. The fact that she doesn't even know who they are just proves she didn't give a crap that she was doing it. What a joke!
