Topless Bartender / Server
What's up fellas? I'm hosting a poker night with buddies and am looking for a girl or two that would be interested in being a topless bartender / server for the game. Nothing out of the ordinary other than pouring beers out of a kegerator, grabbing beer from the fridge and making an occasional mixed drink. Preference is young and firm and potentially open to party favors too. If you guys know of anyone that would be interested feel free to DM me. Thanks.
Civvie Relationship. Warning
After many years of mongering, I met a civvie lady with whom I shared a hobby. We hit it off immediately, and I felt like I had known her all my life. We spent tons of time together and were texting constantly. I immediately swore off mongering. Suffice to say I spent a bit of money on her buying dinners, gifts, and traveling. We made lots of plans, and life was good.
As time went (3 months), I noticed she started to cool off. She would take longer to reply to my messages; when she did, it was one-word answers. Attempts to set up dates were met with lame excuses. I confronted her, and she said she acted innocent. As if I was imagining things. I foolishly agreed, hoping to get back to the way things were. Of course, this didn't pan out. I was in a spiral for a while, constantly wondering what I did wrong or what I could do to get her back.
With a clearer mind, I did some reading, and apparently, this is called "love bombing" and "bread-crumbing. " Some of these women will overload your needs for attention and companionship for a while and then lose interest. Especially if you are kind. After that, they will give you less and less attention instead of just breaking it off. The less attention you get, the more you will try to get it back. Like a lab rat continuously pressing a button for food. Be warned, fellas. The lure for a civvie relationship is real; some work out. Just take it slow, and don't jump in with both feet like I did.
Now I am back mongering, and at least I know exactly what I am getting.