[QUOTE=HowardSprague;5069825]The first rule has been covered. Read the forum. This will lead you to the right places in your area.
Second rule: Be nice. These women are human beings. They have feelings. They aren't in this business because they love naked, hairy, overweight Americans. It's a job and it's often one they actually hate. (Would you want to spend an hour rubbing and stroking one of us? I didn't think so.) Respect their boundaries. I'm not saying you should accept haggling or inflated tip requests, but if she doesn't want to give you a blow job, accept it. If you demonstrate you're nice and respectful, they will often come around and be more open to your requests. I won't discuss which providers who are (or used to be) discussed glowingly on this forum from whom I've gotten not only a very extended menu, but GFE and freebies because they know I care about them as people and they trust me. Mind you, this takes repeat visits. I didn't set out to do this; I just found it to be true.
Third rule, remember these girls live off of tips. The typical house fee split for an hour is forty to the house and twenty to the girl. If she gives good service, however you define it, show your appreciation. Even just an extra five or ten on top of the standard forty will be remembered, especially if you're good at following rule two. Some here will deride this practice as raising their expectations. What it really does is raise the level of service when you repeat, even if it isn't the same girl, because they do talk about us. They know who's a good customer and who isn't.
Fourth, do the gentle stroke of her calf while you're face down on the table. It sends the signal you want more than a massage. Any experienced girl will pick up on it. Remember, she wants more than just twenty bucks for her hour with you, so she's hoping you want the HE. The really smart ones won't mention the tip for this. They know just discussing money is grounds for arrest. But the legal thing is a whole other set of rules.[/QUOTE]You have distilled it down perfectly! Thank you for this insightful post.