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[QUOTE=Lexx1;6585396]Shouldn't be surprising. What you said about going back to room and intimacy is tame compared to what some dudes talk about explicitly directly on the site with some of the girls. That's what I was referring to and what gets dudes in trouble on SA. Your terms are not explicit and while they are assuming sex you are not specifically saying sex or any other explicit details. Which can be talked about off the site.[/QUOTE]For all seeking knows you're going to have a candle light dinner via room service.
It's not that hard to keep it clean.

so never ever ever:

talk explicitly about sex on seeking
send any money upfront prior to meeting
rent a room until she shows up in the parking lot
forget to check her ID if the situation requires it
go over your budget
get upsold in the moment - (pretty rare with seeking girls but it can happen)
bring more than a twenty in cash (or have it locked in the trunk), a DL, a AAA card and one CC to a first time meet
and I am sure a lot more stuff to think about if you're married.

and don't forget your gym bag - condoms, wipes, toys, bottled water, change of underwear, whatever... think like a boy scout. because even the most casual of M&G's can go straight to the FC.

Now that I don't have SA anymore I was thinking of going down my virtual rolodex, any tips for re-reaching out to past ghosted and such SBs? With so much "choice" on SA I kept looking but now that I don't I am willing to take a few chances.

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6586573]Now that I don't have SA anymore I was thinking of going down my virtual rolodex, any tips for re-reaching out to past ghosted and such SBs? With so much "choice" on SA I kept looking but now that I don't I am willing to take a few chances.[/QUOTE]I have 100% done this. With great results. The best results are from girls no longer on the site. They were very happy to hear from me. Very. Now when I go to some places I just canceled the Excel file that I have been accumulating (names, notes to remind me, and contact info).

[QUOTE=GiddenLade;6584534]And as we all have learned, whether pro, semi-pro or civilian, hotness does not necessarily mean they are good in the FC. Or out of it for that matter.[/QUOTE]Greed is often the chemistry destroyer of all natural flows; in this case chicks that carry a golden shovel wherever they go can keep digging til their forehead is engraved with "looking for gold".

Seeing more of this every month. Can be quite humorous.

Anyway, found a girl on seeking that I saw on HX once. Very cute. Had decent chemistry. Only saw her once. She was not independent and never had her own profile.

Now, I've gone on 2 dates with her, no PPM, just dates. No intimacy. She seems to be against PPM so I can't be sure where it's going. I've mentioned PPM a couple times and it seems to push her away so I've stopped doing so.

She seems to not remember me. I vividly remember her and 100% know that it is her.

She's 21 so maybe she forgot? Or?

Any advice?

[QUOTE=SteveTandberg;6587931]
Any advice?[/QUOTE]Arrange the next date somewhere with a big sofa and or bed close by, maybe she's a "don't give it up before the 3rd date type of girl".

[QUOTE=SteveTandberg;6587931]Seeing more of this every month. Can be quite humorous.

Anyway, found a girl on seeking that I saw on HX once. Very cute. Had decent chemistry. Only saw her once. She was not independent and never had her own profile.

Now, I've gone on 2 dates with her, no PPM, just dates. No intimacy. She seems to be against PPM so I can't be sure where it's going. I've mentioned PPM a couple times and it seems to push her away so I've stopped doing so.

She seems to not remember me. I vividly remember her and 100% know that it is her.

She's 21 so maybe she forgot? Or?

Any advice?[/QUOTE]I have just posted in the vegas thread about girls I fucked and then forgot I did. Hit them up much later and they reminded me, but never the other way around. Good luck. Just take her to dinner and if everything is cool suggest getting a room afterward.

What are her rates?

[QUOTE=Dsteezy;6565646]Great girl,

Was always sweet with me and I can say very attentive and a ton of fun.

But I've had my fair share and currently dedicating my time to another partner.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e10b25e3-3e8a-41df-b6a1-6f70d0372fae[/URL]

Killer body.[/QUOTE]

Screen name is "HonestCutie".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/50c885b1-fae4-457b-b93a-8da82dc94cb0[/URL]

I also came across her on Hinge.

Has anyone seen her?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/39dc8d6f-ed21-4732-9a38-ecb145ad1436[/URL]

Average looking at best Asian girl looking for at least 1 k a meet. She says she is used to getting more and will not go less than 1 k. Crazy times we are living in nowadays.

[QUOTE=TooShay;6589563][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/39dc8d6f-ed21-4732-9a38-ecb145ad1436[/URL]

Average looking at best Asian girl looking for at least 1 k a meet. She says she is used to getting more and will not go less than 1 k. Crazy times we are living in nowadays.[/QUOTE]Respectfully disagree. Personally I think she's a 10. I hit her up a year or so ago. I might even have paid that had she responded.

[QUOTE=Migs1224;6589680]Respectfully disagree. Personally I think she's a 10. I hit her up a year or so ago. I might even have paid that had she responded.[/QUOTE]She looks like a 6 at best face wise. Just because she knows how to do the splits while standing doesn't make her a 10, respectfully. I can teach my dog how to do new tricks, which is the same can be done with any lady/Sugar Baby if you teach them right.

[QUOTE=TooShay;6589563][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/39dc8d6f-ed21-4732-9a38-ecb145ad1436[/URL]

Average looking at best Asian girl looking for at least 1 k a meet. She says she is used to getting more and will not go less than 1 k. Crazy times we are living in nowadays.[/QUOTE]She's got a nice body but the face could be better. Definitely though not 1000 dollar material. In the LA world of true perfect 10's running around. She is not a 10. Overall I'd give her a 6 or 7 mostly for her nice body.

[QUOTE=TooShay;6589563][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/39dc8d6f-ed21-4732-9a38-ecb145ad1436[/URL]

Average looking at best Asian girl looking for at least 1 k a meet. She says she is used to getting more and will not go less than 1 k. Crazy times we are living in nowadays.[/QUOTE]Can someone do a screenshot for the banned? LOL.

Goes by "Letsmeet".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/56e7dd14-ed5c-49ce-92c1-b59451524e8e[/URL]

Anyone have experience with this one? Thanks!

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6590003]Can someone do a screenshot for the banned? LOL.[/QUOTE]Sign up for a free account with a different email and don't use your previous handle and don't add a pic. You should be able to. If you have access to wifi and have a data plan on your phone. Switch to one or the other in case Seeking is using IP tracking. Your wifi and data plans should normally be dynamically assigning IP addresses when you connect to them. Since I work from home I turn off my data on my phone and just use wifi because it's faster. When I go out I turn my data back on.

I have been noticing something odd recently on SA. There will be a profile thumbnail in search. When you click on it, the profile opens, and there is just one profile photo, but it isn't the same one as was on the search. And there are no other photos on the profile. That is usually a reason for concern, fake profiles often have only the single profile photo.

Anyone else notice this? Have any ideas what is going on?

[QUOTE=TooShay;6589563][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/39dc8d6f-ed21-4732-9a38-ecb145ad1436[/URL]

Average looking at best Asian girl looking for at least 1 k a meet. She says she is used to getting more and will not go less than 1 k. Crazy times we are living in nowadays.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Lexx1;6589837]She's got a nice body but the face could be better. Definitely though not 1000 dollar material. In the LA world of true perfect 10's running around. She is not a 10. Overall I'd give her a 6 or 7 mostly for her nice body.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BigBear818;6589718]She looks like a 6 at best face wise. Just because she knows how to do the splits while standing doesn't make her a 10, respectfully. I can teach my dog how to do new tricks, which is the same can be done with any lady/Sugar Baby if you teach them right.[/QUOTE]Girls like her are quite common in SGV. I could drive on Valley Blvd from West Covina to East LA and meet dozens just like her. All her pics are taken from a distance, like she's obviously trying to draw attention away from her face.

[QUOTE=MidnightDabber;6590003]Can someone do a screenshot for the banned? LOL.[/QUOTE]See screenshot below. I even included the one where she is doing the 180 degree splits that cost a thousand dollars LOL. Her SA handle is cherryasia. I doubt she is a virgin LOL.

[QUOTE=Migs1224;6589680]Respectfully disagree. Personally I think she's a 10. I hit her up a year or so ago. I might even have paid that had she responded.[/QUOTE]Looks are 100% subjective. If you grade her a 10, then she's a 10. And if you think her PPM is worth 1 K, well it's your money. Don't let anyone here tell you how to spend yours.

Me personally I rarely bang Asian girls, and I have very specific tastes. I also don't get caught up in the SB title, which carries a hefty upcharge in rates. My current Asian is semi-pro but I also pay 1/4 of what you are willing to pay this cherryasia chick. As far as looks, I think my girl is so much hotter, and her pussy is addicting!

I agree her face is just okay, but she has a nice ass. What's with that huge chest tattoo? She's looks and dresses like a stripper. But some of the clubs and see if you can find her. She's probably much cheaper when you find her stripping 😆.

[QUOTE=AceMcNasty;6590497]Girls like her are quite common in SGV. I could drive on Valley Blvd from West Covina to East LA and meet dozens just like her. All her pics are taken from a distance, like she's obviously trying to draw attention away from her face.

See screenshot below. I even included the one where she is doing the 180 degree splits that cost a thousand dollars LOL. Her SA handle is cherryasia. I doubt she is a virgin LOL.

Looks are 100% subjective. If you grade her a 10, then she's a 10. And if you think her PPM is worth 1 K, well it's your money. Don't let anyone here tell you how to spend yours.

Me personally I rarely bang Asian girls, and I have very specific tastes. I also don't get caught up in the SB title, which carries a hefty upcharge in rates. My current Asian is semi-pro but I also pay 1/4 of what you are willing to pay this cherryasia chick. As far as looks, I think my girl is so much hotter, and her pussy is addicting![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gorw311;6590139]Goes by "Letsmeet".

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/56e7dd14-ed5c-49ce-92c1-b59451524e8e[/URL]

Anyone have experience with this one? Thanks![/QUOTE]She's been around a long time, quite experienced even when I saw her some years ago.

That said, she's nice, pleasant, and good looking, though she has put on some weight as you can see in the pics.

[QUOTE=AceMcNasty;6590497]
Looks are 100% subjective. If you grade her a 10, then she's a 10. And if you think her PPM is worth 1 K, well it's your money. Don't let anyone here tell you how to spend yours.![/QUOTE]I disagree on this point. This is exactly why there is so much GPS on Seeking nowadays. Overpaying for girls especially ones that are not even that hot. You give control of the market to the girls when it should be us controlling the market. I've had hotter girls that were Asian, Latina, White, Black, etc. For a lot less than half of that asking price. By giving in to those GPS prices it drives up the price across the board for everyone. I make good money in my profession but I also grew up knowing the value of a hard earned dollar. Pussy should be free first of all but when paying for it. You really shouldn't be spending anywhere near those amounts. Chics give away pussy free all the time for just being taken to dinner, movies, etc. Or if they just like the guy. If you know how to negotiate then you can get the pussy cheaper and if not. Then you move on to the next girl. There's plenty of girls out there. Don't be a sucker to those high prices.

Well recently joined up and all I can say is WTF! I was asked for $800 up to $3 K to meet up. When I declined they started blowing up my phone like escaped mental patients. This site has changed a lot or Covid has turned many SBs into raving loonies.

[QUOTE=PantyPatrol1;6590748]Well recently joined up and all I can say is WTF! I was asked for $800 up to $3 K to meet up. When I declined they started blowing up my phone like escaped mental patients. This site has changed a lot or Covid has turned many SBs into raving loonies.[/QUOTE]My 2 cents. I've been saying this repeatedly but keep being told I'm looking at the wrong ladies. 800 to $3 k PPM is now the norm on the ask. I think they can be chiseled down to $500 but anything less than the fish jumps off the hook and they block you. There's too much misinformation on reddit and other blogs advising these POT SBs what they are worth. I think eventually it will come down but not for now.

[QUOTE=Lexx1;6589837]She's got a nice body but the face could be better. Definitely though not 1000 dollar material. In the LA world of true perfect 10's running around. She is not a 10. Overall I'd give her a 6 or 7 mostly for her nice body.[/QUOTE]Those of you saying Cherrysia is only a 6 or 7, have you all actually met her or are you just judging by her profile pics? She is an absolute 10. Her face is much hotter in person than on her profile. Unfortunately, she's also run by her bf / pimp and others have reported blackmail issues. I saw her a couple years ago before all this drama and she was definitely the hottest experience I've ever had on SA.

[QUOTE=Stolper;6590878]Those of you saying Cherrysia is only a 6 or 7, have you all actually met her or are you just judging by her profile pics? She is an absolute 10. Her face is much hotter in person than on her profile. Unfortunately, she's also run by her bf / pimp and others have reported blackmail issues. I saw her a couple years ago before all this drama and she was definitely the hottest experience I've ever had on SA.[/QUOTE]I don't need to meet her man. I'm a photographer on the side of my main profession and know and have hooked up with actual really hot girls that are 10's. Not only as non-pros / sugar babies but in regular civie dating life as well. I said she has a nice body but her face could be better. Didn't say she was ugly or plain. But here in Los Angeles the scale tilts pretty high. As there are true perfect 10's in LA that she is not. No need to tilt the scale down to accommodate a girl that is not a 10. Think some of you need to check the definition of a true perfect 10. One of them is she has to be a natural beauty, little to no makeup on to try and make her look better. And real tits and ass, not fake and slim waist. The perfect hourglass figure. Naturally pretty to gorgeous face.

Offered to Uber POT SB to first M&G, claims to be into D / S but really likes to switch which is not my thing at all. She asks for Uber Black. Drop and be thankful this behavior came out early? Decline and offer her regular Uber? Just ignore and stop chatting? She's hot but not crazy hot. 30's. Unemployed.

Is this just a coincidence, or is something going on. I tend to go fairly often for the late 20's. Late 30's girls, more mature, and the last two M&Gs I have been on, the girls have had hysterectomies. It came up when I asked them about Gardasil, the vaccine vs. HPV.

I use that as an entree to talk about DATY, which of course almost all girls like, and so I am 'advertising'. Guys (I. E. , Michael Douglas) have gotten throat cancers from eating puss. So Gardasil protects against.

But, if you don't have a cervix, you can't get cervical cancer. Gardasil is still good to prevent genital warts.

Anyone have a lot of experience banging SBs who had hysterectomies? I'd appreciate perspective.

[QUOTE=SteveTandberg;6591059]Offered to Uber POT SB to first M&G, claims to be into D / S but really likes to switch which is not my thing at all. She asks for Uber Black. Drop and be thankful this behavior came out early? Decline and offer her regular Uber? Just ignore and stop chatting? She's hot but not crazy hot. 30's. Unemployed.[/QUOTE]Decline and offer regular uber and see how she responds. If she says no then she's probably a gold digger and this is just the tip of the iceberg. And you saved yourself a headache. I just pick up my girls in my ride. LOL But any girl should be cool with Uber X and appreciative of that.

How are why'all coming across these girls so frequently. The most I'm getting asked is $500 and then countering with $300 which they usually accept if not we settle at $350-$400 then work it back down to where I want. Are why'all just accepting the first offer? Not assertive enough?

[QUOTE=Stolper;6590878]Those of you saying Cherrysia is only a 6 or 7, have you all actually met her or are you just judging by her profile pics? She is an absolute 10. Her face is much hotter in person than on her profile. Unfortunately, she's also run by her bf / pimp and others have reported blackmail issues. I saw her a couple years ago before all this drama and she was definitely the hottest experience I've ever had on SA.[/QUOTE]If you believe that she's a 10 and don't mind spending $1 k on her while her creep bf / pimp is stalking you from afar as you mentioned, then have fun with her. It's your money and hopefully the bf / pimp will go away or mysteriously disappears.

[QUOTE=ChefSolo;6591275]How are why'all coming across these girls so frequently. The most I'm getting asked is $500 and then countering with $300 which they usually accept if not we settle at $350-$400 then work it back down to where I want. Are why'all just accepting the first offer? Not assertive enough?[/QUOTE]Same reason why some people like shopping on rodeo dr.

[QUOTE=SteveTandberg;6591059]Offered to Uber POT SB to first M&G, claims to be into D / S but really likes to switch which is not my thing at all. She asks for Uber Black. Drop and be thankful this behavior came out early? Decline and offer her regular Uber? Just ignore and stop chatting? She's hot but not crazy hot. 30's. Unemployed.[/QUOTE]I had this once early on, late 20's girl, thought she was all that and *deserved* uber black. Was one of the worst dates I've ever had on SA.

I'd say no and offer uberX, drop quickly if she continues or argues, accept if she's cool (unlikely).

Username FineGorgeous.

Profile pics and location keep changing, the number they provide gets matched to a guy of the username 'Vince' on Snapchat.

Persistent in trying to get me to send photos, presume this was for extortion purposes.

I run into a lot of profiles of super hot (older) women, and if I can get them to message me, they are often from foreign countries. Not Asia, but Latin America, or Europe (eastern), etc. Communication can range from fine to poor, and for some reason, I am not finding myself excited about the prospects after I've talked to them by phone (my step before proposing a M&G). Anyone else have a different take on this? Is it just a preference, or am I missing out terribly, or am I missing out not at all?

[QUOTE=RanManCan;6591614]I had this once early on, late 20's girl, thought she was all that and *deserved* uber black. Was one of the worst dates I've ever had on SA.

I'd say no and offer uberX, drop quickly if she continues or argues, accept if she's cool (unlikely).[/QUOTE]I also had a POT in an UberX on her way to meet me. She never requested Black, but was bitching to me via text about how bad the car was. After the 2nd negative gripe when she was half way here, I turned the uber around and sent her back to her pickup address. Didn't even text her that I was doing it, she never texted me either. . .she knew.

33% off membership.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/billing/memberships?promo=Fall2023V33[/URL]

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6592618]Username FineGorgeous.

Profile pics and location keep changing, the number they provide gets matched to a guy of the username 'Vince' on Snapchat.

Persistent in trying to get me to send photos, presume this was for extortion purposes.[/QUOTE]That's scary. Good vigilance on your part. Thanks for sharing. We have to know that this is a threat out there and be looking for it. I wouldn't even think to.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6592618]Username FineGorgeous.

Profile pics and location keep changing, the number they provide gets matched to a guy of the username 'Vince' on Snapchat.

Persistent in trying to get me to send photos, presume this was for extortion purposes.[/QUOTE]I have never posted any pics of myself anywhere online ever. The only exception is seeking. And those pics were taken exclusively for seeking. If any girl asks for pics I send the ones on seeking. To be cute I used to send one that was just a stack of bills with a rose on top. Ostensibly we need their pics as we are looking for pretty and 99% of the time they are looking for cash. If this does not satisfy a girls requirement, time to move on.

Just google "cash with rose" or "money with rose". Many images to choose from. Usually gets the job done.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;6592937]I run into a lot of profiles of super hot (older) women, and if I can get them to message me, they are often from foreign countries. Not Asia, but Latin America, or Europe (eastern), etc. Communication can range from fine to poor, and for some reason, I am not finding myself excited about the prospects after I've talked to them by phone (my step before proposing a M&G). Anyone else have a different take on this? Is it just a preference, or am I missing out terribly, or am I missing out not at all?[/QUOTE]Are they actually here in SoCal or in their respective foreign country? If they are here I say go for it. I've had quite a few arrangements with Eastern European honeys and still have a couple long term arrangements going with them. One is a Ukrainian ex model and the other Hungarian. These ladies usually can be negotiated down to a low PPM price. I love sexy ladies with accents. It's a turn on. And these ladies really are appreciative of you helping them out. Unlike some of the American girls who have an entitled mentality and have crazy GPS.

Hi.

So did you figure out what works? Have you tried blackhawk cards? I heard recently that it's not working these days either. It used to work fine.

How are you guys paying for SA these days?

Thanks.

[QUOTE=TopGun9;6580296]Anyone else having issue upgrading membership with SDM?

I tried Vanilla Prepaid card, Visa credit card, and Discover card. Nothing goes through.

This is the error message I got.

"We were unable to process your subscription. Please make sure your bank authorizes this transaction. ".[/QUOTE]