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Hey all you sexy people.
Kira here, I am seeking a doubles partner, if you can suggest someone or if you are a provider and want to meet and test chemistry between us just hit me up, my phone number is on BP, put in kira in search bar and my ad will pop right up, hope to meet soon, kisses to all.
Stay safe, stay sweet, stay sexy!
[QUOTE=DaGambla;2582533]I'm a new member who, same as you, checks the site often. I've found some very useful info in the reviews and forums also. What I haven't found, however, are any reviews on providers who do OUTCALLS. All the reviews I have read here appear to be from members sharing their experiences with incall providers. Maybe I'm overly cautious but I'm just not willing to risk getting busted by L. E. Or set up-robbed or worse- by some pimp. I've reached out via PM to a few members who appear to be local to my area (who might have experience in these matters) for some advice, suggestions. No luck there. I guess they are too busy to respond. And new members posting questions here appears to be frowned upon. I hope you have better luck finding an outcall provider than I have had. But as newbies, it appears that we are on our own.
Oh, well-as a last resort a guy can ALWAYS count on Sally Palm and her 5 sisters! LOL![/QUOTE]Ok, so I am really not trying to come down on you but I did want to say that the "senior" members are not "too busy to help you" it's just that we like to play it very safe. There is a TON of information here on these boards. I'd imagine that 50% of the ladies on here would do an outcall if you asked them to. They prefer incall because it lets them get back into rotation faster and more importantly, it's safer for them. They control the environment. You could be LEO or worse.
That being said, you can ask these ladies. Also guys, spend 30 min to an hour. If after that time on this board you can't find someone to go see than maybe this isn't the thing for you. There are many examples of new guys asking for recommendations and the answer is to search the board. Some posts from "senior" members go so far to say, "you can't go wrong with this one!" What else is needed?
I'm not trying to be a jerk it's just that we were all new and we all figured it out. Take a chance, see a provider, let us know how it went. I guarantee you after that you will get much more out of this board.
Stay safe.
[QUOTE=DaGambla;2582533]I'm a new member who, same as you, checks the site often. I've found some very useful info in the reviews and forums also. What I haven't found, however, are any reviews on providers who do OUTCALLS. All the reviews I have read here appear to be from members sharing their experiences with incall providers. Maybe I'm overly cautious but I'm just not willing to risk getting busted by L. E. Or set up-robbed or worse- by some pimp. I've reached out via PM to a few members who appear to be local to my area (who might have experience in these matters) for some advice, suggestions. No luck there. I guess they are too busy to respond. And new members posting questions here appears to be frowned upon. I hope you have better luck finding an outcall provider than I have had. But as newbies, it appears that we are on our own.
Oh, well-as a last resort a guy can ALWAYS count on Sally Palm and her 5 sisters! LOL![/QUOTE]I don't know where you got the idea that outcall is any safer than incall. In fact, I might argue just the opposite. If you get robbed in some notell, for the most part you're limited to losing what you have on you. Sure you could be forced to hit an ATM or something, but chances are you lose your wallet and maybe take a few lumps. You give this ***** your address? Now she knows where you live, and her pimp and a few buds follow her in a van. You lose it all! Or, the session goes normal, but now she knows what's good to come back for later. And don't think for a second Uncle LEO can't bust you at home just as easy as in a hotel.
There's been more than a couple posts on here about a meet going sideways at somebody's house.
[QUOTE=Rdavis1972;2583082]I don't know where you got the idea that outcall is any safer than incall. In fact, I might argue just the opposite. If you get robbed in some notell, for the most part you're limited to losing what you have on you. Sure you could be forced to hit an ATM or something, but chances are you lose your wallet and maybe take a few lumps. You give this ***** your address? Now she knows where you live, and her pimp and a few buds follow her in a van. You lose it all! Or, the session goes normal, but now she knows what's good to come back for later. And don't think for a second Uncle LEO can't bust you at home just as easy as in a hotel.
There's been more than a couple posts on here about a meet going sideways at somebody's house.[/QUOTE]Rdavis is right. Many more things can go wrong at home, especially if you have a significant other or nosy neighbors or friends.
The best way to stay safe is to do your research before calling a provider. Don't see any reviews on here or ECCIE? Then be very careful. Your gut tells you something is wrong? Run away, and I mean FAST.
Even when you're cautious, things can go bad in a quick second. Before I picked her up, I saw two good reviews on Lena and, if you read my review yesterday you'll see that went sideways very fast. Providers live a lifestyle that can make them very unpredictable.
There are a few around (Trish comes to mind) who are very trustworthy. There are others around. Read the reviews here and, until you trust your "spidey sense" only go with providers that have been well reviewed.
One last thing. When a situation goes badly, keep your cool and continue to treat everyone in the situation calmly and respectfully. NEVER let your emotions get the better of you when a situation with a service provider goes badly. You can defuse a situation by staying calm and getting away from it as quickly as you can.
[QUOTE=PlyToyForU518;2581606]Ok so I have never really posted but have checked this site very often, great info. So anyway wife is away and I'm looking for something very specific. Anyone know of a VERY safe provider that I won't be nervous having her come to my house is first question and second any of them take credit card or paypal? I know stupid question but hey you never know.[/QUOTE]Hello love, as "safe" as you think someone may be, hey you never know what goes on in a persons head, or their life for that matter. I don't EVER recommend inviting a provider to your home where your family lives, if that provider had any kind of trouble in her life she could use that against you if she could figure a way that you can help her and you say no then she has a way to blackmail you. GENTLEMEN, NEVER EVER EVER INVITE A PROVIDER TO YOU FAMILIES HOME. I don't CARE IF YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING THEM FOR 8 YEARS, WE ALL HAVE RECENTLY SEEN WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRUST A PROVIDER THAT YOU HAVE SEEN FOR MULITPLE YEARS, YOU END UP TRUSTING THEM AND THEN THEY FUCK YOU OVER. I AM A PROVIDER, OUT OF RESPECT FOR YOUR FAMILIES I DO NOT GO TO CLIENTS HOMES. I WOULD NOT DISRESPECT THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDEREN AND YOUR CHILDREN BY COMING TO YOUR SAFE PLACE AND YOUR FAMILIES SAFE PLACE. ITS JUST NOT RIGHT! IN MY OPINION OF COURSE, WHICH EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN.
Stay safe, Stay sweet, Stay sexy!
[blue]Normally chicks can't post stuff like this, and nobody can use all caps like this but I'm making an exception this time because she's right.
Never let your dream life and real lives cross.
A2[/blue]
Craziness to do an incall unless you are renting a house on vacation, are about to move out the next day or so or single and carefree (and poor). If you want to play, you have to pay. Pay is with either risk or with money. Those who cannot afford renting a nice hotel room to use as an outcall location free of risk of what was mentioned here must pay with risk instead. This could be the risk of an Outcall or even a car date is risky as I read of LENA!
SO, Pay the money, pay with risk or do not bother to play. Seems logical.
[QUOTE=LokiPk;2573292]As you all know, I watch the scene pretty closely. Sometimes I play nicey nice, other times I go swinging for the fences. Lately, I have been more reserved so as to not alienate newbs who have the potential to become solid members. I have riled up just about everyone here on one occasion or another. Mostly for fun or to get some laughs or because I was generally pissed off about a post, comment or mongers actions. But I hope most of you can see through my asshole exterior and understand that when it comes to this hobby of ours I take the principles pretty seriously.
That being said, regarding the PM from ChocCity. I don't have any idea what the real deal is. I will say that I didn't respond because I have no interest in that chick under those circumstances. When I TOFTT it is on my own terms not from someone who doesn't typically write reviews. Simple as that.
For those of you who have any questions or reservations about that member or the girl he proffered I will say only this... Search that members history of posts/reviews... Does that history line up with the risk scenario you feel comfortable with?
I am NOT saying Do or Do-not.... I am not saying ChocCity is or is-not.... I am only suggesting ALL members should do their own homework and make their own choices based on the information available.
Peace.
PK.[/QUOTE]First off not to pleased with choccity pm me multiple times in desperation asking when I would see her and if I seen her. If your "just passing info" why are you hounding me? Then I get a forth message saying she's avail tonight and will I be seeing her. Very suspect and I def am no longer interested. That is not an approach of someone just passing info along from someone he supposedly just met.
[QUOTE=Alb2209;2583938]First off not to pleased with choccity pm me multiple times in desperation asking when I would see her and if I seen her. If your "just passing info" why are you hounding me? Then I get a forth message saying she's avail tonight and will I be seeing her. Very suspect and I def am no longer interested. That is not an approach of someone just passing info along from someone he supposedly just met.[/QUOTE]I chose not to respond to Choccity's PMs to me. I had no desire to see the woman he was promoting and I also didn't appreciate the multiple PMs. His approach was way too strong / pushy for me. Don't get me wrong about having established members, whether senior members or non senior members WITH some credible posts / reviews, pass along their positive recommendation either by PM or publically. I thank all of you who have done that and I have often followed your advice / suggestion. It's all about CREDIBILITY !!
[QUOTE=KiraXXX;2583268]Hello love, as "safe" as you think someone may be, hey you never know what goes on in a persons head, or their life for that matter. I don't EVER recommend inviting a provider to your home where your family lives, if that provider had any kind of trouble in her life she could use that against you if she could figure a way that you can help her and you say no then she has a way to blackmail you. GENTLEMEN, NEVER EVER EVER INVITE A PROVIDER TO YOU FAMILIES HOME. I don't CARE IF YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING THEM FOR 8 YEARS, WE ALL HAVE RECENTLY SEEN WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRUST A PROVIDER THAT YOU HAVE SEEN FOR MULITPLE YEARS, YOU END UP TRUSTING THEM AND THEN THEY FUCK YOU OVER. I AM A PROVIDER, OUT OF RESPECT FOR YOUR FAMILIES I DO NOT GO TO CLIENTS HOMES. I WOULD NOT DISRESPECT THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDEREN AND YOUR CHILDREN BY COMING TO YOUR SAFE PLACE AND YOUR FAMILIES SAFE PLACE. ITS JUST NOT RIGHT! IN MY OPINION OF COURSE, WHICH EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN.
Stay safe, Stay sweet, Stay sexy!
[blue]Normally chicks can't post stuff like this, and nobody can use all caps like this but I'm making an exception this time because she's right.
Never let your dream life and real lives cross.
A2[/blue][/QUOTE]I agree completely with Kira. I am not as experiences as others may be, but I would not have a provider in my home. I've only been with providers who host either at their place or a hotel (Kira being one of them).
Dirtyboy.
[QUOTE=Quail;2584059]I chose not to respond to Choccity's PMs to me. I had no desire to see the woman he was promoting and I also didn't appreciate the multiple PMs. His approach was way too strong / pushy for me. Don't get me wrong about having established members, whether senior members or non senior members WITH some credible posts / reviews, pass along their positive recommendation either by PM or publically. I thank all of you who have done that and I have often followed your advice / suggestion. It's all about CREDIBILITY !![/QUOTE]The dude hinted at gaining credits with her maybe he cannot afford her outright?. Free Funuck after getting her 5 guys or so? Marketeer? Either way, not a good approach with that style. He may be a struggling used car salesman!
[QUOTE=KiraXXX;2583268]Hello love, as "safe" as you think someone may be, hey you never know what goes on in a persons head, or their life for that matter. I don't EVER recommend inviting a provider to your home where your family lives, if that provider had any kind of trouble in her life she could use that against you if she could figure a way that you can help her and you say no then she has a way to blackmail you. GENTLEMEN, NEVER EVER EVER INVITE A PROVIDER TO YOU FAMILIES HOME. I don't CARE IF YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING THEM FOR 8 YEARS, WE ALL HAVE RECENTLY SEEN WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRUST A PROVIDER THAT YOU HAVE SEEN FOR MULITPLE YEARS, YOU END UP TRUSTING THEM AND THEN THEY FUCK YOU OVER. I AM A PROVIDER, OUT OF RESPECT FOR YOUR FAMILIES I DO NOT GO TO CLIENTS HOMES. I WOULD NOT DISRESPECT THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDEREN AND YOUR CHILDREN BY COMING TO YOUR SAFE PLACE AND YOUR FAMILIES SAFE PLACE. ITS JUST NOT RIGHT! IN MY OPINION OF COURSE, WHICH EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN.
Stay safe, Stay sweet, Stay sexy!
[blue]Normally chicks can't post stuff like this, and nobody can use all caps like this but I'm making an exception this time because she's right.
Never let your dream life and real lives cross.
A2[/blue][/QUOTE]It's nice to see a "regular" provider watching out for us. I have not seen it before from anyone else.
Thanks. I owe you a pop tart.
[QUOTE=AllBenny;2584317]It's nice to see a "regular" provider watching out for us. I have not seen it before from anyone else.
Thanks. I owe you a pop tart.[/QUOTE]Destiny was pretty good at watching out 4 us.
Thank You Again Kira!
For those of you that may not know Kira, She is Amazing at what she does and always seems to put us and our concerns and pleasures, at the top of her list.
Which is a Rarity!! Xoxo.
She Rocks, if you haven't seen her, do so forthwith, you will be thanking me, and thanking her even more!! Lmao!!
Be Safe and Treat the good ones extra right, they deserve it!
NiceGuy69.
[QUOTE=Freedom2B;2584640]Destiny was pretty good at watching out 4 us.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=NiceGuy69;2585263]Thank You Again Kira!
For those of you that may not know Kira, She is Amazing at what she does and always seems to put us and our concerns and pleasures, at the top of her list.
Which is a Rarity!! Xoxo.
She Rocks, if you haven't seen her, do so forthwith, you will be thanking me, and thanking her even more!! Lmao!!
Be Safe and Treat the good ones extra right, they deserve it!
NiceGuy69.[/QUOTE]What he said.
[QUOTE=KiraXXX;2583268]Hello love, as "safe" as you think someone may be, hey you never know what goes on in a persons head, or their life for that matter. I don't EVER recommend inviting a provider to your home where your family lives, if that provider had any kind of trouble in her life she could use that against you if she could figure a way that you can help her and you say no then she has a way to blackmail you. GENTLEMEN, NEVER EVER EVER INVITE A PROVIDER TO YOU FAMILIES HOME. I don't CARE IF YOU HAVE BEEN SEEING THEM FOR 8 YEARS, WE ALL HAVE RECENTLY SEEN WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU TRUST A PROVIDER THAT YOU HAVE SEEN FOR MULITPLE YEARS, YOU END UP TRUSTING THEM AND THEN THEY FUCK YOU OVER. I AM A PROVIDER, OUT OF RESPECT FOR YOUR FAMILIES I DO NOT GO TO CLIENTS HOMES. I WOULD NOT DISRESPECT THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILDEREN AND YOUR CHILDREN BY COMING TO YOUR SAFE PLACE AND YOUR FAMILIES SAFE PLACE. ITS JUST NOT RIGHT! IN MY OPINION OF COURSE, WHICH EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN.
Stay safe, Stay sweet, Stay sexy!
[blue]Normally chicks can't post stuff like this, and nobody can use all caps like this but I'm making an exception this time because she's right.
Never let your dream life and real lives cross.
A2[/blue][/QUOTE]As an example of what Kira and others have stated, there used to be a provider who was quite popular in the area about four or five years ago and she visited me a number of times. About two years after I last communicated with her I got a banging on my door at about 10 pm. It was a bounty hunter looking for her! Why the hell she ever used my address for anything I don't know but they got my address. And they were legitimate bounty hunters. Fortunately I didn't have any family or friends at my place at the time. That would have been an interesting conversation. I was pretty frigging angry about it regardless. So, just something to keep in mind.