My SB experience. Reposting in the "right" thread
A'd like to first of all thank everyone here for their help. Especially Hollywoodguy for his playbook and PM encouragement. I have a few general observations: this path takes a lot of patience but the rewards are great as well. Young girls are fickle, taciturn, and not prone to make long-term plans. You have to be flexible and go with the flow. I'll also outline my general approach and would like your critical appraisal.
So this is my start in this world. I first used CraigsList. Repeatedly without success. Next used SD4 M and found it full of fake profiles. Last signed up for SA a week ago. I used a CC that I got for miles and plan to cancel next month. I know I could have got a gift card or a GD but I decided to take a one-time risk, a few months down the line, if someone wants to track this down and go through my cancelled card charges. That's a risk I can take.
I registered for the site and set up some private pictures of me to shre with folks I hit up with. These are my pictures and someone who sees them could recognize me in public. These pictures are not searchable online. Not on LI, FB, etc. I only shared them with serious prospects. I find now that most girls don't care. In fact sometimes they ask for a pic after we have been corresponding for a few days and I remind them they already have access. They are getting hit up by a lot of guys and they really are not sorting us by looks as we are them.
First up, I used hollwood guy's suggestion of saved searches. I actually did a 30 min radius around my house and my work and found cities that would work for me with a 10 mile radius which wouldn't overlap with my "home" bases. In these citie, I did a search for 18-23 yr old girls who are slim or athletic and have minimal or negotiable expectations. And I used "unviewed" each time I logged in so I pretty much have a deterministic search algorithm.
Next up I used Hollywoodguy's playbook but I really modified it. He is quite verbose and many girls do a lot of texting. I used the same concepts and some nice turn of phrases. This is a volume game. You do have to customize each message to a girl and say something personal but after that it is pretty generic. I lucked out that the first girl I had a marathon email exchange with according to the playbook and she just dumped me at the end when she wanted 400 and I offered 100. However, this gave me my own version of the playbook and I since then just used modified versions of it.
I contacted / was contacted by 55 girls. About 18 of them led to more contact. Of those. Perhaps 12 led to substantial communications. Of those 4-5 broke down over financial or intimacy expectations. After a few tries, I upped my offer from $100 to $150-200. Of the rest - 3 are ready to go with defined pricing (100,150,200), 1 is scheduled for a M&G (200), 2 are MILFs who contatced me and 1 is pretty ready to go. I have put her off for now.
This takes a lot of time. I exchanged 10's of emails with many of these 12 prospects. In addition, with some of the top prospects I exchanged 50-70 texts and had a 30 minute call with one girl (thankfully she did not email or text too much). I encountered a lot of dead ends and flakiness. In all I estimate I spent 15-20 hours on this in 10 days. I estimate that I could save some of this time going forward since I do have my own streamlined template now, Plus, if I can develop 2-3 of these potentials, I can be picky about who I pursue going forward.
My first in-person meet was awesome. She is one of my top 3 of all time! I will review that separately in in the interests of space here.
My first SA baby review. Reposting to the "right thread"
I just did an extensive post on my experiences with finding a SB. It takes some investment of time but the rewards are indeed sweet. There is no way to get such fresh and sweet pussy any other way.
My first SB is 24, AA, 5' 6", very slim (looks taller), athletic and firm, sweet see cups, shaved kitty. Awesome labia and clit. Very responsive to DATY.
She contacted me based on my profile. She is new to town and staying with friends, looking for a job. She is clearly non-pro (she uses her real phone number, I dropped her off at her apt, we bare backed on our first date). She also gave me a lot of red flags and I almost did not meet her. She really pushed hard on how much $ she'd get and kept trying to get me to say exactly what she had to do etc. She was really good looking and I did not believe the pictures. Her repeated questions on payment and sex had LE vibes. She tried to postpone the M&G by 2 hours last minute. We had agrred to meet about 30 minutes from her house. Finally I gave in and offered to meet her near her place. However, she met me and I couldn't belive it but she looked great just like her pictures. She also got into my car and agreed to go to a motel.
Here is where the best laid plans go awry. Since I had scoped out where we will meet. Where I can find a hotel nearby etc. The last minute M&G change completely threw my planning off. Also, I had not expected her to come in my car so it was another problem.
Anyhow. The motels take cash and don't require CC. You can give fake car tags. However they copy your I'd. They don't really look at it twice. So I am going to get a fake I'd in my hobby name. I had not done this because I was afraid of what might happen if I ever got caught by LE. A fake I'd can lead to charges, the chances of getting into trouble are low as long as I don't proposition an undercover. Any advice on fake I'd?
Anyway. She has a really firm body. Its been a long time since I had one such as this (not counting the k-girls but they are pros and you know it when you are with them). We started out DFK and spent a lot of time sucking her nice titties. I then did DATY. She came. She proceeded to do great BBBJ with lot of attention to the balls and spit action DT. We then BBFS. Cow girl and girl on top positions. She said she liked that so really did not do Mish. After about 45 minutes, we went back to BBBJ and CIM. We took a shower and then chatted for another hour or so. I dropped her off to her apt and made plans to see her next week. I plan to see her every week unless I am out of town. She is game to come with me on an all-day trip to the back some Saturday. She is sweet sweet sweet. Of course, I know she has met a few other guys off SA. Not sure is she is still seing them. She may realize she is worth more than 150 and cut me off. 150 + 95 for room was the damage plus the $70 Sa membership.
I have a 5' 11" spinner lined up for next week ($100) and a hot little PhD student the week after in another town I am visting on business ($200). I am also M&G an undergrad at a local university who is also PT model ($200 is where we are at. She wants more but I asked her to decide after she meets me if this would work for her).
God! I feel like I died and went to heaven. For what I easily spend on sushi in LA or NYC, I get a somrgasbord of tight, sweet pussies. Why did it take me so long to figure this out?
Vox Out.