Holy Resting BitchFace, Batman!
[QUOTE=LCB;3995894]Anyone have her contact info? Would be very appreciated!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0385f4d0-98c7-459a-a224-22648494a713[/URL]
Thanks!
-LCB.[/QUOTE]
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Holy Resting BitchFace, Batman!
[QUOTE=LCB;3995894]Anyone have her contact info? Would be very appreciated!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0385f4d0-98c7-459a-a224-22648494a713[/URL]
Thanks!
-LCB.[/QUOTE]
The best kind to stuff full of peen! LOL!
-LCB.
[QUOTE=RawDogger;3996735]Holy Resting BitchFace, Batman![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mojo567;3996652]Anyone sampled this stripper MILF. I bet she has GPS.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f2086bec-3970-4889-8251-f42b4d34d91d[/URL][/QUOTE]An asshole buddy of mine would always buy me dances from her. Then she'd go give you a dance and complain about everything. DJV Tacoma for years.
It's wives like her that make guys go to stripclubs in the first place. She would ***** across the room at us when it was slow and nobody was there after we would decline her dance offers.
She never realized we were trying to get away from women just like her. It's a shame because when she isn't angry or scowling (rare) she could be pretty, and she had a great body. She'd often be all alone when they offered the house dances.
Well, the second SB I was seeing is no more, I was actually seeing 2 SB at the same time, first started seeing someone at her work and is now serious with him.
The second was damn cute, nice thin redhead, loved BB, but she had no personality and wasn't on birth control so had to work around that, I think she was fishing to see if I would see her just as a GF since she went from 400 to 300 to 100 per meet, and then she said the past few times she just wanted to meet and I blew her off, thought about ending it anyway since she wasn't really that personable but she beat me to it, I guess I blew her off one too many times.
If any ask about trying to look her up her account is gone and her words to me were that she was no longer a SB and was done with sex for money.
[QUOTE=GoofyDog;3998324]An asshole buddy of mine would always buy me dances from her. Then she'd go give you a dance and complain about everything. DJV Tacoma for years.
It's wives like her that make guys go to stripclubs in the first place. She would ***** across the room at us when it was slow and nobody was there after we would decline her dance offers.
She never realized we were trying to get away from women just like her. It's a shame because when she isn't angry or scowling (rare) she could be pretty, and she had a great body. She'd often be all alone when they offered the house dances.[/QUOTE]This is pretty much spot-on. We have been chatting for a while. Today she texts that she is Alyssa from DJV. Said she is dancing there and we could just use the VIP room. I told her I would pass.
[QUOTE=Mojo567;3991893]Thanks for sharing what was the damage 400+incall? -- That is what she normally quotes.[/QUOTE]Yes, that was the original quote, but she dropped to 350.
I'm on vacation on the East Coast. I just literally fucked a smoking hot 23 YO for 3 hours straight. She went to take a shower before she left and I took $250 and put it under her phone. She picked it up, handed it to me and said, "I'm sorry, I set my phone on top of your money" and handed me the money back.
I told her she could keep it and she seriously almost started crying. I will take that over a $400/ hr escort (what they are trying to charge here) any day.
The damage? An SA membership $90. I gave her $50 when she met me (she didn't ask for it). She left to change clothes and was with me for 5 hours (3+ in my hotel room) for $250. She called me from home and wants to spend all day tomorrow with me (she lives with her parents).
This is a great vacation.
[QUOTE=Mojo567;3991893]Thanks for sharing what was the damage 400+incall? -- That is what she normally quotes.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jacklord1;3999851]Yes, that was the original quote, but she dropped to 350.[/QUOTE]Yup. Thanks for sharing. That is what she quoted me as well. Either way after paying for room you are out around 5 and with her now being a little jaded and all business like. She is no longer worth that kind of loot. Next her ass.
[QUOTE=GoofyDog;3998324]An asshole buddy of mine would always buy me dances from her. Then she'd go give you a dance and complain about everything. DJV Tacoma for years.
It's wives like her that make guys go to stripclubs in the first place. She would ***** across the room at us when it was slow and nobody was there after we would decline her dance offers.
She never realized we were trying to get away from women just like her. It's a shame because when she isn't angry or scowling (rare) she could be pretty, and she had a great body. She'd often be all alone when they offered the house dances.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Mojo567;3998445]This is pretty much spot-on. We have been chatting for a while. Today she texts that she is Alyssa from DJV. Said she is dancing there and we could just use the VIP room. I told her I would pass.[/QUOTE]So just to close the loop on this one. She keeps SA messaging me, even after I archieved her ass. Finally today she said she will send me 'sexy' pics for 100 . I sent her one last message telling her dream on. And then blocked her ass. Next!! You saved me a lot of hassel with this one. She looks sexy but at this stage in my life. Either put out or get out. And leave the drama at home. If I really want drama I can just stay at home and f*&k my wife. And that don't cost a dime.
You sir are living the dream. Have you used SA outside of WA before?
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4001056]I'm on vacation on the East Coast. I just literally fucked a smoking hot 23 YO for 3 hours straight. She went to take a shower before she left and I took $250 and put it under her phone. She picked it up, handed it to me and said, "I'm sorry, I set my phone on top of your money" and handed me the money back.
I told her she could keep it and she seriously almost started crying. I will take that over a $400/ hr escort (what they are trying to charge here) any day.
The damage? An SA membership $90. I gave her $50 when she met me (she didn't ask for it). She left to change clothes and was with me for 5 hours (3+ in my hotel room) for $250. She called me from home and wants to spend all day tomorrow with me (she lives with her parents).
This is a great vacation.[/QUOTE]
Better yet, care to share some info? LOL former senior member, back again and on the East Coast.
[QUOTE=PeterBigPipe;4001167]You sir are living the dream. Have you used SA outside of WA before?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=PeterBigPipe;4001167]You sir are living the dream. Have you used SA outside of WA before?[/QUOTE]No. It's the first I tried outside of Washington. I placed an ad about 2 weeks before I left saying that I was visiting and was looking for someone to hang out with. I had 4 responses that weren't straight up escorts, I picked the hottest one. She was fucking amazing. I told her I needed to take a shower, I came out (dressed) and she was naked under the sheets. Damn.
[QUOTE=PeterBigPipe;4001167]Have you used SA outside of WA before?[/QUOTE]I have been using it on Maui on three visits the past six months. In June I met two very hot SBs, both of whom were living there for short stints, and have since gone back to the mainland. I had a very nice lunch with a third (a local), but no real connection. Last month I had nothing of interest going on on Maui SA, so I flew a very hot SB over from Seattle for an overnight visit (airfare was only $315, and I gave her $$$ shopping money). I came back to Maui yesterday for a week, after having made some serious efforts on SA, and most of the girls have flaked out. I had dinner with one yesterday, but she is from MN and is on a plane back home now. A few others indicated interest but then let things drop. The only prospect I have left is dinner Tuesday, before I fly home, with a woman who is interested in being a third when my primary partner and I return for Thanksgiving. We'll see if she flakes out, but so far she seems genuine.
Fortunately, I did have a great experience tonight with a pro who I learned about on the Maui thread on this site. I will see her again before I leave.
I have used it pretty successfully in CA, MI, IL and outside the US in CAN and India while traveling for work.
[QUOTE=PeterBigPipe;4001167]Have you used SA outside of WA before?[/QUOTE]I used it in Mexico at my last trip.
I have 4 dates.
I fucked 3 out of 4. All in their late 20's and raw.
One I saw more than one time.
I speak Spanish though, so that helped a lot.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4001247]I placed an ad about 2 weeks before I left saying that I was visiting and was looking for someone to hang out with.[/QUOTE]What do you mean you place an ad?
Within your profile?
Thanks.
Based on the successful repots here, decided to take the plunge on SA. I found one so far my first week, night on the town and a fun evening, no discussion of payment, more like a date with an understanding. That was fun and kinda what I was seeking.
What has been challenging has sifting through the prepay scam artists with pics / cam and the ppm 'escorts'. They start up promising with small talk and then comes the ppm ask. I struggle with it as they have no reviews and have no idea, what they will or won't do. I tried typical escort euphemisms but they had no idea.
Does everyone just asks straight up for what they'd like for services? Any other tips?
She is 36,5'7", athletic, well endowed, quite skilled and enjoys a wide range of activities. PM for details.
[QUOTE=BrstMan;3998425]Well, the second SB I was seeing is no more, I was actually seeing 2 SB at the same time, first started seeing someone at her work and is now serious with him.
The second was damn cute, nice thin redhead, loved BB, but she had no personality and wasn't on birth control so had to work around that, I think she was fishing to see if I would see her just as a GF since she went from 400 to 300 to 100 per meet, and then she said the past few times she just wanted to meet and I blew her off, thought about ending it anyway since she wasn't really that personable but she beat me to it, I guess I blew her off one too many times.
If any ask about trying to look her up her account is gone and her words to me were that she was no longer a SB and was done with sex for money.[/QUOTE]I saw her not long ago. Gave great head but seemed like she was looking for something else. I got the same text message the day after we met.
The search continues.
[QUOTE=TravelPooner;4004214]I saw her not long ago. Gave great head but seemed like she was looking for something else. I got the same text message the day after we met.
The search continues.[/QUOTE]She was looking for a BF more than a SD, she was not happy I was "attached", when I asked her why she said it made future plans difficult, she always talked about wanting to go away for long weekends, hang out in the evenings, etc.
She ever talk to you about her kid? Or how many times she had been pregnant? That made me a bit nervous without her being on birth control.
There were other issues she had as well.
[QUOTE=BrstMan;4004905]She was looking for a BF more than a SD, she was not happy I was "attached", when I asked her why she said it made future plans difficult, she always talked about wanting to go away for long weekends, hang out in the evenings, etc.
She ever talk to you about her kid? Or how many times she had been pregnant? That made me a bit nervous without her being on birth control.
There were other issues she had as well.[/QUOTE]No talk of a kid but may explain a few things. Just as I was about to slide in she mentioned just getting on BC a week ago so I wrapped it up and went to town. Definitely was looking for longer term as she was hitting me up 5 minutes after I nutted for our next date. Got to say I have enjoyed the late 20'sor early 30's gals more. Less drama.
[QUOTE=TravelPooner;4006560]No talk of a kid but may explain a few things. Just as I was about to slide in she mentioned just getting on BC a week ago so I wrapped it up and went to town. Definitely was looking for longer term as she was hitting me up 5 minutes after I nutted for our next date. Got to say I have enjoyed the late 20'sor early 30's gals more. Less drama.[/QUOTE]I found out more about her the more time I spent with her, preg at 15, baby at 16, pretty sure she goes to the same Mormon church as a buddy of mine, she frequents some of the same places I have which made me a bit nervous given her other issues, one time she would talk about not wanting more kids, then another time she would talk about wanting to get into a relationship and have more kids, that just made me nervous, if she hadn't talked about that crap I would have seen her more and been more broke.
[QUOTE=DelToro;4001785]What do you mean you place an ad?
Within your profile?
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Sorry, I'm back now. I completely changed my profile and location to Miami and then put it on boost. I had about 40-50 responses and narrowed it down to four people (as I was only there 6 days). I had a great time.
Has anybody seen this gal? Been talking to her for a while but we keep missing each other.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9613f0c7-ad6e-4175-9772-c1d9458aab2b[/URL]
SeattleSmartSexy: "I'd just like the norm, around 2 k each get together. " And we make fun of 500!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/37bcb63c-c6d6-43cc-b4a2-85befb2f1245[/URL]
[QUOTE=SeattleSilver1;4009965]"I'd just like the norm, around 2 k each get together." [/QUOTE]She subsequently added that every single girl she knows on SA gets a little above or below $2 K / date. She called 500 insane. Then she blocked me (before I could do the same).
Been chatting a bit with this one, although ran into her off SA, and recognized her profile.
Anyone play with her before?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c721dee2-ea29-172f-b2a9-5256354efb2c[/URL]
This is likely not the right forum but thought I would reach out. I am active in the seeking community and have 2-3 SB's on rotation at any one time. It can be a treasure trove but truthfully the best ones are the ones who left the site but I have remained in contact with. Always a tad disheartened if I see one I like appear in a report here. Anyways.
My current situation requires me to rent a hotel room to host. At an average of 2 times a week at an average hotel rate of 150-250, I am wasting 1. 2 to 2 k a month in sunk hotel costs. I doubt I am the only one? I am looking forward to the winter months as hotel rates are a lot cheaper but this summer has been rather stupid.
Why do I mention this.
I imagine a situation where I find one other SD; Willing to put up 1. 5-2 K / mo (or upfront down payment for half the place) to purchase a condo downtown. My thoughts are we would use it ourselves 4 nights during the week and VRBO it for 3 day weekends. If it doesn't rent, free reign for us. If it does, bonus income. I am willing and able to commit to more for the right place.
Essentially I am seeking a SD partner. I am able to purchase a place on my own but it is not what I would like for a SD / SB rendezvous.
And I know my post record is sketchy. The previous responses to my 'newcomer' post to this forum made me pull back and not share my experiences. For the record, the woman I was referring to originally is on a regular rotation. The relationship has moved towards one of just sex. And I am just fine with her practicing her yoga ontop of me. .
Anyways. Any constructive comments or inquiries? Obviously this would involve a business partnership. Lawyers and background checks included. If I was able to find the right partner however, I think this would be a gold mine in the long run as neither of us would be throwing away 2 K / mo.
[QUOTE=SeattleSilver1;4010177]She subsequently added that every single girl she knows on SA gets a little above or below $2 K / date. She called 500 insane. Then she blocked me (before I could do the same).[/QUOTE]When I tried this site I found many women getting a grand and up to 6 grand a time per sugar daddy.
The problem is lots of guys in seattle making 3 figure salaries and just blow money like its nothing and pay whatever number the girl thinks up then tips them on top of it and then presents and shopping trips.
This drives the market stupid high and expectations higher as well. Once she gets a taste of that she expects every guy to blow thousands of dollars on a piece of pussy that if you go to the right bar on Friday night she gives away for free.
[QUOTE=LCB;3950890]So, how are you guys going about contacting women on there? Is there a way to communicate with out paying? I've got a profile, have messages that I can't read and have been favorited by quite a few women, but can't message them.
Any tips?
Thanks.
-LCB.[/QUOTE]Found this on the Richmond board. I've used it successfully with a new account and never upgraded. Good luck! Likit.
[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3939986&highlight=silly[/URL]+programming+choices#post3939986.
[QUOTE=Spacehog;4010894]When I tried this site I found many women getting a grand and up to 6 grand a time per sugar daddy.
The problem is lots of guys in seattle making 3 figure salaries and just blow money like its nothing and pay whatever number the girl thinks up then tips them on top of it and then presents and shopping trips.
This drives the market stupid high and expectations higher as well. Once she gets a taste of that she expects every guy to blow thousands of dollars on a piece of pussy that if you go to the right bar on Friday night she gives away for free.[/QUOTE]The girls are lying. I've been doing SA for awhile and now have actually had dinner conversations with many of them and they aren't getting that much. They have been fed the fantasy that they will get that much, but for the most part, the women that I've met had been working the site for months and are happy to get a free dinner out of it.
[QUOTE=SeattleSilver1;4009965]SeattleSmartSexy: "I'd just like the norm, around 2 k each get together. " And we make fun of 500!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/37bcb63c-c6d6-43cc-b4a2-85befb2f1245[/URL][/QUOTE]There is no way that someone is paying a 38 YO woman $2,000. Sorry. She's lying.
[QUOTE=Paradigum;4010556]This is likely not the right forum but thought I would reach out. I am active in the seeking community and have 2-3 SB's on rotation at any one time. It can be a treasure trove but truthfully the best ones are the ones who left the site but I have remained in contact with. Always a tad disheartened if I see one I like appear in a report here. Anyways.
My current situation requires me to rent a hotel room to host. At an average of 2 times a week at an average hotel rate of 150-250, I am wasting 1. 2 to 2 k a month in sunk hotel costs. I doubt I am the only one? I am looking forward to the winter months as hotel rates are a lot cheaper but this summer has been rather stupid.
Why do I mention this.
I imagine a situation where I find one other SD; Willing to put up 1. 5-2 K / mo (or upfront down payment for half the place) to purchase a condo downtown. My thoughts are we would use it ourselves 4 nights during the week and VRBO it for 3 day weekends. If it doesn't rent, free reign for us. If it does, bonus income. I am willing and able to commit to more for the right place.
Essentially I am seeking a SD partner. I am able to purchase a place on my own but it is not what I would like for a SD / SB rendezvous.
And I know my post record is sketchy. The previous responses to my 'newcomer' post to this forum made me pull back and not share my experiences. For the record, the woman I was referring to originally is on a regular rotation. The relationship has moved towards one of just sex. And I am just fine with her practicing her yoga ontop of me. .
Anyways. Any constructive comments or inquiries? Obviously this would involve a business partnership. Lawyers and background checks included. If I was able to find the right partner however, I think this would be a gold mine in the long run as neither of us would be throwing away 2 K / mo.[/QUOTE]Why not just start an LLC to bankroll the holdings, and go from there?
[QUOTE=Paradigum;4010556]This is likely not the right forum but thought I would reach out. I am active in the seeking community and have 2-3 SB's on rotation at any one time. It can be a treasure trove but truthfully the best ones are the ones who left the site but I have remained in contact with. Always a tad disheartened if I see one I like appear in a report here. Anyways.
My current situation requires me to rent a hotel room to host. At an average of 2 times a week at an average hotel rate of 150-250, I am wasting 1. 2 to 2 k a month in sunk hotel costs. I doubt I am the only one? I am looking forward to the winter months as hotel rates are a lot cheaper but this summer has been rather stupid.
Why do I mention this.
I imagine a situation where I find one other SD; Willing to put up 1. 5-2 K / mo (or upfront down payment for half the place) to purchase a condo downtown. My thoughts are we would use it ourselves 4 nights during the week and VRBO it for 3 day weekends. If it doesn't rent, free reign for us. If it does, bonus income. I am willing and able to commit to more for the right place.
Essentially I am seeking a SD partner. I am able to purchase a place on my own but it is not what I would like for a SD / SB rendezvous.
And I know my post record is sketchy. The previous responses to my 'newcomer' post to this forum made me pull back and not share my experiences. For the record, the woman I was referring to originally is on a regular rotation. The relationship has moved towards one of just sex. And I am just fine with her practicing her yoga ontop of me. .
Anyways. Any constructive comments or inquiries? Obviously this would involve a business partnership. Lawyers and background checks included. If I was able to find the right partner however, I think this would be a gold mine in the long run as neither of us would be throwing away 2 K / mo.[/QUOTE]1. While getting a condo downtown seems a good idea because of the location, I wouldn't invest a cent with the current city council. I'm expecting that Air Bnbs will be off-limits or heavily regulated in Seattle in the next few years (they will use the "housing crisis" as a reason).
2. The HOAs of many condos downtown don't allow Air Bnb.
3. I don't know how long you plan to be pooning, but for most of us, it comes in spurts (sorry, couldn't resist that one). Meaning that I've gone a year of blowing thousands of dollars on pussy and then maybe a year of spending $500. $1500 or so per month is quite a long-term commitment for something that you may not have an interest in after 5 years.
4. Please watch the movie "The Loft" (it's a dreadful movie, but there are some seriously valid points that are made in it) while you're researching this.
5. When I screen on SA, one of the first questions I ask is, "do you have a place we can go to" (probably phrased better). Only one person I met didn't have a place where we could be intimate (okay, two. But I was already staying at a hotel for the second one).
[QUOTE=Michael1967;4014114]1. While getting a condo downtown seems a good idea because of the location, I wouldn't invest a cent with the current city council. I'm expecting that Air Bnbs will be off-limits or heavily regulated in Seattle in the next few years (they will use the "housing crisis" as a reason).
2. The HOAs of many condos downtown don't allow Air Bnb.
3. I don't know how long you plan to be pooning, but for most of us, it comes in spurts (sorry, couldn't resist that one). Meaning that I've gone a year of blowing thousands of dollars on pussy and then maybe a year of spending $500. $1500 or so per month is quite a long-term commitment for something that you may not have an interest in after 5 years.
4. Please watch the movie "The Loft" (it's a dreadful movie, but there are some seriously valid points that are made in it) while you're researching this.
5. When I screen on SA, one of the first questions I ask is, "do you have a place we can go to" (probably phrased better). Only one person I met didn't have a place where we could be intimate (okay, two. But I was already staying at a hotel for the second one).[/QUOTE]All very good points.
Personally, I'd just try and team up with someone that doesn't have any concerns with using their place as a host pad of sorts. Some of us, like myself, have no private life concerns so hosting is ok with me.
[QUOTE=Paradigum;4010556]This is likely not the right forum but thought I would reach out. I am active in the seeking community and have 2-3 SB's on rotation at any one time. It can be a treasure trove but truthfully the best ones are the ones who left the site but I have remained in contact with. Always a tad disheartened if I see one I like appear in a report here. Anyways.
My current situation requires me to rent a hotel room to host. At an average of 2 times a week at an average hotel rate of 150-250, I am wasting 1. 2 to 2 k a month in sunk hotel costs. I doubt I am the only one? I am looking forward to the winter months as hotel rates are a lot cheaper but this summer has been rather stupid.
Why do I mention this.
I imagine a situation where I find one other SD; Willing to put up 1. 5-2 K / mo (or upfront down payment for half the place) to purchase a condo downtown. My thoughts are we would use it ourselves 4 nights during the week and VRBO it for 3 day weekends. If it doesn't rent, free reign for us. If it does, bonus income. I am willing and able to commit to more for the right place.
Essentially I am seeking a SD partner. I am able to purchase a place on my own but it is not what I would like for a SD / SB rendezvous.
And I know my post record is sketchy. The previous responses to my 'newcomer' post to this forum made me pull back and not share my experiences. For the record, the woman I was referring to originally is on a regular rotation. The relationship has moved towards one of just sex. And I am just fine with her practicing her yoga ontop of me. .
Anyways. Any constructive comments or inquiries? Obviously this would involve a business partnership. Lawyers and background checks included. If I was able to find the right partner however, I think this would be a gold mine in the long run as neither of us would be throwing away 2 K / mo.[/QUOTE]Boy, I'd be really cautious about entering into a significant financial arrangement / real property partnership with this activity being its foundation.
Although I totally get the math behind "own vs rent", I'd want a situation that lent itself to getting the hell out and not looking back.
My business partner and I had a commitment to service a client in PDX for a year. One or both of us had to be there a couple days a week for that year, but we weren't ever there at the same time.
We just rented and outfitted a studio apartment and Craigslisted / Goodwilled all the crap when we were done. It was a bit of a pain to deal with, but had its advantages. This setup proved really handy for entertaining guests as well.
Goddessxsashaaa - $1 k per meet and wouldn't budge. Luckily I've had luck with others on the east side of the state, but damn!
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/85500424-548e-48b2-8e98-4b99b4ba41ca[/URL]
[QUOTE=TomNoHat;3843812]SA has turned out to be my hang out spot. This girl are just there for the heck of it non pro, students, someones wife cheating, girlfriend just needs $$ and dick, its never enough. So many girls to choose from. Will post more soon. Searching the site for new ones, your experience might be different than mine. Play your game right. You will get the best pussy on SA, Good luck.
Wunuvakind.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/09215fcc-7807-404e-8ef5-86e21fb9e70e[/URL] 200 hr Raw.
Eringetic.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/5f32868e-ee40-441b-94fa-a505a3a5c840[/URL] 150 hr Raw.
Tohotstacy 200 hr Raw.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/15779935-38bc-255f-a95c-847fe546a78c[/URL]
Youngasianc 250 hr Raw.
[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/fb77c0b3-e05e-4f0e-8c0e-237a8ece3629[/URL]
Phoenixxmarie 200 hr Raw..[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=SeattleSi;4014419]All very good points.
Personally, I'd just try and team up with someone that doesn't have any concerns with using their place as a host pad of sorts. Some of us, like myself, have no private life concerns so hosting is ok with me.[/QUOTE]No private life concerns from a married / SO perspective however I have one of privacy (I am not going to open up my home to someone I do not know / I have a son who is with me part time. Crazy SB showing up is not an option) and distance (I suffer a long commute to enjoy the peacefulness of several acres on the water. Many SB's shudder at the travel time for an evening).
The number of SB's who are willing to host in my experience is quite limited. My first monthly was able to host but truthfully I was a lot more comfortable in settings I controlled. Her place was small, rather disorganized and not what I would call an ideal place either. Small studio on capital hill. I could easily purchase a place like hers and use it myself but I would simply be wanting more.
Perhaps it depends upon the age? My experience is that the ones I am interested in often live with roommates which I understand given the cost of rent. My little phd yoga expert is married so that ruled her place out. Got to wonder what her husband thinks when his wife comes home and is 'extremely wet' as certain things leak out. LOL. Anyways.
As with everything. Continue searching for the ideal fit! Thanks for the commentary!