So submission the answer then, huh? Smh
[QUOTE=Marshst924;3831123]I don't even know this girl, but I'm sure "negotiating" helped your cause.[/QUOTE]Sure did. Took. 8 donation loss instead of the ridiculous 1. 20 to 1. 30 that hustling ***** was asking for. Better still, she could have just said no and helped my cause in full.
I believe in paying a reasonable donation instead of whatever delusional rate these ladies pull out of their ass. I know, I'm funny like that LOL. Turns out she wasn't even really worth what I paid, go figure.
Yeah appreciate the unsolicited advice but.
[QUOTE=BikerJoe;3831843]No offense but skip isn't the crme de la crme. For you to talk her down for a request you would rather keep private, I'm not sure what you were expecting.
Have you developed any successful relationships that are open to your request? You may consider investing a little more time and money. If you keep looking for. 8 q. V. , you will likely get the same results.[/QUOTE]I didn't ask for it. I'm merely reporting my experience with her. And apparently having to defend myself and my actions against unnecessary criticism and white knights.
The questions are irrelevant. She agreed to the terms and didn't follow thru, simple as that. If she's treating you "more than fair", fantastic. If you read my report, I did say YMMV LOL. But she willing to hustle you for. 8, she probably capable of doing the same at any rate. And she has bad habits as well. That's info that needs to reported regardless of how it may upset your personal sensibilities.
Doesn't matter how many times we see these ladies or what kind of long term "relationship"LOL you have with them, at any time they can pull this shit. We're just money to them at the end of the day. A little perspective, please smh.
More bad business practice excuses smh
[QUOTE=NewToTheGame2;3832040]A lot of the girls are mothers and struggle. Many are basically sweet people and some less so than others. They get ripped off sometimes and so do we. There are some you can have a level of trust with. Low balling doesn't help though.[/QUOTE]Neither does high balling with the hope of you'll be treated special. RTFF. Plenty of you gentlemen pay hhr to hour rates and get ripped off. Some of you see ladies for a few visits, investing time and money, and, you guessed it LOL, get ripped off.
Struggling mothers with heartfelt sob stories or not, they only truly interested in making money. The sob stories are just a part of hustle, especially for you bleeding heart, wannabe Captain Save a Ho types. It keeps you donating at least until they decide to exercise shitty judgement and rip you off LOL.
Don't believe me? Think she's some sweet wonderful human being who's just down on her luck? Think you're something special to her because you'd paid whatever donation she asked regularly? Go to your longterm ladies and ask for a freebie. Surely you gentlemen with long term ladies have at least some established rapport with them, right? And watch how fast it takes her to shut your ass down.
Definitely seems like it for a few gents
[QUOTE=Marshst924;3832301]I don't know if I'd go so far as to call these encounters that. I see that word a lot in the last few posts. LOL[/QUOTE]The way they react to any criticism leveled at their favorite providers. But I'm sure those same providers would most likely disagree LOL.
Well these last few posts have been productive
I think everyone could benefit from two reminders.
1) You are just a wallet to these ladies. That isn't an indictment of you or them, it's just how business works. It's all well and good if you like and enjoy talking to them. I like and enjoy talking to my barber. But he sure as hell ain't cutting my hair for free nor will I be dropping him off at the airport or babysitting his kids any time soon. That's the nature of business.
2) As with any business, you generally get what you pay for. Expecting "special request" accommodation and above average experience from a QV seems naive to me. Most reputable providers won't even do QV and there's a reason for that. As for bartering. If you want take-out and a restaurant doesn't offer it are you going to lecture them about why they should offer it, or just go find another fuckin' restaurant that DOES offer it? The way I see it only the druggies are going to haggle with you anyway, because they're desperate.