Seeking Arrangements

Don't waste your time, she's a game player. This is her 4th profile on SA. I contacted her last year. I live on the Cape and she agreed to come to the Cape. The day before I text her and nothing. She disappeared from SA for awhile. I see her on the site again, figured I'd give it another shot, same thing. She agreed to come to the Cape saying she just got a new car. Again, day before I contact her by text, silence. I contacted her from another profile on SA which she must have got rid of and created this one. Personally I wouldn't waste my time.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;3741129]I think she used to go by Dasha, or something like that, when she posted on Boston BP. I think that there are reviews of her under the Boston BP section, but I can't find them. I think she is from Salem, which is what she posted on BP.

Here is her SA profile page. She asked for 300, but agreed to 200. Unfortunately, she doesn't host, which prevented me from seeing her.

Any info appreciated.[/QUOTE]

I posted the inquiry and original 2015 post for your reference. Still would like to know if anyone has actually been with her.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;3741129]I think she used to go by Dasha, or something like that, when she posted on Boston BP. I think that there are reviews of her under the Boston BP section, but I can't find them. I think she is from Salem, which is what she posted on BP.

Here is her SA profile page. She asked for 300, but agreed to 200. Unfortunately, she doesn't host, which prevented me from seeing her.

Any info appreciated.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Longjblues;2669458]Any info 23 yr old, petite, brunette?

Sexy girl here and she's ready to play, she is young and beautiful meet Hailey - 23.
Posted: Saturday, October 10,2015 7:55 AM.

I'm the type of girl that never rushes it's all about you and the time you need in order to feel relaxed and satisfied.
I'm sweet and kind and very bubbly and warm&I don't judge.
No matter who you are, come see what I can provide.
You with shooting stars in the sky what's your wish tonight.
Text only 6176 six93634 $150 30 min $200 hour.
Poster's age: 23.

Location: Boston, North Shore.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3741114]You're a year or two too late for SA in this region. It used to be much more productive but now it's all platonic and GPS. The issue is the talent pool has stayed the same but men have piled in the game so now the ratio greatly favors the women. Don't let anyone tell you there's more women to men it's not the case. There are way more SD than SB now and even very average girls get tons of messages. The hot ones get swarmed (dozens and dozens of messages) in very short order. You might still get lucky but it's nothing like it used to be. Like anything else in life, it will help you if you're into old or heavy girls and not into the hot ones.

A pet peeve of mine is the recent use of the "no string attached" in lots of profiles. It's clear that in the dating sense (remember SA is a dating site) that it means sex without being in a serious relationship. The new definition, according to young girls on SA, is you give them money and they don't owe you anything. Money for no strings attached! Brilliant![/QUOTE]So you are telling me and confirming that SA is a total waste of time which is something I already figured out in Boston. Fucking great! So I have been wasting my time.

Maybe other areas might be better. NH, ME, VT, RI, CT, Western MA.

Are those areas any different?

[QUOTE=Spill;3741298]I did NOT meet her but we had settled on 300. She does not host.

She has a twin sister Ashley. I do not think they work together.[/QUOTE]No offense I would not give her 300.200 at most.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;3741129]I think she used to go by Dasha, or something like that, when she posted on Boston BP. I think that there are reviews of her under the Boston BP section, but I can't find them. I think she is from Salem, which is what she posted on BP.

Here is her SA profile page. She asked for 300, but agreed to 200. Unfortunately, she doesn't host, which prevented me from seeing her.

Any info appreciated.[/QUOTE]She used to post on BP. I tried to hook up with her once and round and round it went and never went anywhere. She'd respond to initial text and stop. I think it's just kids messing around.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3741276]Remember *all* girls on SA get $500 to $1000. Only you just can't find *all* those SDs who pay those kind of rates. Somebody is not telling the truth here. Either guys lie about how much they're paying or the girls lie about how much they're getting. Hmmm, tough one. LOL.

Anyone paying $300 or more better be with a 20 y.o. knockout. You can discount from there. Plump average looking girl that's a few years past her prime? Yeah, 150-200 is plenty fair.[/QUOTE]

It's probably some of us but you never know. The rule of thumb is that some experienced hobbyists purposefully say that they pay less then they actually do to try to keep prices lower, while girls tell their less then intellectually stellar girlfriends that they've gotten more then they actually did in order to first, keep prices going up, and second, to be able to undercut them at 'high enough'.

[QUOTE=EvilTmp;3741276]Remember *all* girls on SA get $500 to $1000. Only you just can't find *all* those SDs who pay those kind of rates. Somebody is not telling the truth here. Either guys lie about how much they're paying or the girls lie about how much they're getting. Hmmm, tough one. LOL.

Anyone paying $300 or more better be with a 20 y.o. knockout. You can discount from there. Plump average looking girl that's a few years past her prime? Yeah, 150-200 is plenty fair.[/QUOTE]Another that wants $5 per meet. Are sugar daddy's paying over $2000 a month on sugar babies.

I mean if it's quality its worth it but these aren't any where near that good.

[QUOTE=DeepThroat69;3741857]Another that wants $5 per meet. Are sugar daddy's paying over $2000 a month on sugar babies.

I mean if it's quality its worth it but these aren't any where near that good.[/QUOTE]This is just my opinion with no statistical data to back it up. I think there are basically two types of females and two types of males on SA:

Female type 1 - Former agency, BP & CL girls looking for a new way to find customers. They start high thinking maybe they'll come across a few who are looking for a SB & don't know they're just hookers. When you tell them their rates are crazy they drop quick.

Female type 2 - legit college girl or single woman having trouble making ends meet and one way or another comes across the site. Believes the hype that they will actually meet a sugar daddy who will pay their bills, give them spending money etc. When they realize most guys on the site aren't looking for that kind of deal, they either bounce or adjust telling themselves they'll just find a few regulars and they keep their rates high because they don't consider themselves hookers so they should be worth more. The reason to pay more is for that experience, not necessarily because she's hotter.

Pretty equal split between the two types of femaes on SA.

Male type 1 - guys who are on sites like this and just looking for alternatives to agencies, BP & CL. We mostly know the game but might lose out on a special opportunity because we assume every girl is type 1.

Male type 2 - the genuine SD looking for a paid mistress type arrangement with a SB.

99% of males on SA are type 1.

[QUOTE=SecretSquirell;3741944]This is just my opinion with no statistical data to back it up. I think there are basically two types of females and two types of males on SA:

Female type 1 - Former agency, BP & CL girls looking for a new way to find customers. They start high thinking maybe they'll come across a few who are looking for a SB & don't know they're just hookers. When you tell them their rates are crazy they drop quick.

Female type 2 - legit college girl or single woman having trouble making ends meet and one way or another comes across the site. Believes the hype that they will actually meet a sugar daddy who will pay their bills, give them spending money etc. When they realize most guys on the site aren't looking for that kind of deal, they either bounce or adjust telling themselves they'll just find a few regulars and they keep their rates high because they don't consider themselves hookers so they should be worth more. The reason to pay more is for that experience, not necessarily because she's hotter.

Pretty equal split between the two types of femaes on SA.

Male type 1 - guys who are on sites like this and just looking for alternatives to agencies, BP & CL. We mostly know the game but might lose out on a special opportunity because we assume every girl is type 1.

Male type 2 - the genuine SD looking for a paid mistress type arrangement with a SB.

99% of males on SA are type 1.[/QUOTE]You may place me in Category 1. 😄.

[QUOTE=Cpcdman;3741314]Don't waste your time, she's a game player. This is her 4th profile on SA. I contacted her last year. I live on the Cape and she agreed to come to the Cape. The day before I text her and nothing. She disappeared from SA for awhile. I see her on the site again, figured I'd give it another shot, same thing. She agreed to come to the Cape saying she just got a new car. Again, day before I contact her by text, silence. I contacted her from another profile on SA which she must have got rid of and created this one. Personally I wouldn't waste my time.[/QUOTE]I use to see her for car dates.

[QUOTE=Longjblues;3741129]I think she used to go by Dasha, or something like that, when she posted on Boston BP. I think that there are reviews of her under the Boston BP section, but I can't find them. I think she is from Salem, which is what she posted on BP.

Here is her SA profile page. She asked for 300, but agreed to 200. Unfortunately, she doesn't host, which prevented me from seeing her.

Any info appreciated.[/QUOTE]I remember her, did a car date BBBJCIM with her for $40 back when she was on backpage. She was kind of a pain in the ass to actually meet with though, flaked on me twice.

Stay safe, and happy hunting.

There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

[QUOTE=SecretSquirell;3741944]This is just my opinion with no statistical data to back it up. I think there are basically two types of females and two types of males on SA:

Female type 1 - Former agency, BP & CL girls looking for a new way to find customers. They start high thinking maybe they'll come across a few who are looking for a SB & don't know they're just hookers. When you tell them their rates are crazy they drop quick.

Female type 2 - legit college girl or single woman having trouble making ends meet and one way or another comes across the site. Believes the hype that they will actually meet a sugar daddy who will pay their bills, give them spending money etc. When they realize most guys on the site aren't looking for that kind of deal, they either bounce or adjust telling themselves they'll just find a few regulars and they keep their rates high because they don't consider themselves hookers so they should be worth more. The reason to pay more is for that experience, not necessarily because she's hotter.

Pretty equal split between the two types of femaes on SA.

Male type 1 - guys who are on sites like this and just looking for alternatives to agencies, BP & CL. We mostly know the game but might lose out on a special opportunity because we assume every girl is type 1.

Male type 2 - the genuine SD looking for a paid mistress type arrangement with a SB.

99% of males on SA are type 1.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Herow;3744069]There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.[/QUOTE]Well said!

Great post!

I have found the total gambit on SA. I still see someone that I met 3 years ago here on the Cape. I started giving her $$ then as time went on I told her I was done with paying to see someone, she came back right away that she didn't want to stop seeing each other and from that time on there were no exchange of funds. We have the dom, sub dynamic so I think that's what keeps things going.

I had a year and half arrangement with a girl in her senior year of college. I did help her out through the whole time of the arrangement, it ranged from $$$ to $50 each time we saw each other. The only reason it ended was because she moved out of state for graduate school.

These two examples are the minority for this site, for example the scams. One example is a girl or whom ever was on the other end of the conversations was telling she had 30 K in medical bills that she couldn't pay during the school year. She told me she paid on it during the summer when she could have a summer job. I asked her during the summer how much was she paying on the bill, she told me 4 K a month because she didn't have to pay rent. I laughed to myself, that's one hell of summertime job to afford 4 K a month. I ended the conversation and blocked her.

It takes time on this site to weed out the BS posts, so I guess I've been somewhat lucky, but I'd rather take the time to come up with the diamond in the ruff than go on BP. I haven't seen a BP girl or an escort in a very long time.

QUOTE=Herow;3744069 There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.

[QUOTE=Herow;3744069]There is a wider variety of everything out there than you are realizing. There are plenty of guys on the site who will pay 300 or 500 for a meetup. They will pay that much for just pics and video; some will pay considerably more than that just for a DATE and no sex involved. It may not be your experience or mine, but it happens regularly.

There are more guys who of course can't afford that; what girls they get from SA depends entirely on them. If you have something to offer other than money, like good sex, personality, actually caring about them, etc. You can do well.

On the flip side there are the women. They range from true gold diggers, to plenty of honest to go college girls. I have definitely found a bunch of BP and other working girls there; it's always a dissappointment and I block them immediately. Why would I drop a monthly fee on a site to find a class of woman I could find for free online elsewhere?

There is also a set of women you can find who are more in it for the kink than anything else. It's hard to find a good partner for kink, especially if you are into age disparity, or with people who are married. The time and money it takes to get on the site and have success contacting people acts as a screening mechanism for these women; they can be more sure they are finding the right class of guy that they want for their fun. I've met a few now where there was no money exchanged, beyond paying for a night out.

So yeah, there is a huge range of what is going on there. Goes from money you would never imagine paying to paying nothing at all. It takes some combination of time investment, money investment, personality and skill to have a good time on there. What combination it takes for you depends on what you got. LOL.[/QUOTE]Well said!

Don't waste your time with this one, myself into other guys I know made plays for her. Her mo seems to be the same, she will favorite you but her responses are single word answers and you never will move to texting. Complete time-waster.

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