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[QUOTE=DGoesDown;2692407]Read great reviews and that's the reason I tried contacting her. I realize she doesn't need me to be successful but giving the wrong number to someone is poor practice.[/QUOTE]Man, if a Senior Member is having trouble connecting, what chance do I have. I'm very selective and she was one I wanted to try.
[QUOTE=HoBeau;2572744]I've been using a nylon dop kit, similar to this, for some time now. Not just for rubbers but for lube (both water based and silicone based), mouth wash, cologne, moist towelettes, nitrile gloves, wash cloths, dental floss, and a couple of "toys". Not that I use everything on every visit, but I'd rather be prepared than not. Recently it allowed me to clean up a cum spill before it stained the seat in my car when a provider didn't know what "catch" meant. You can't put it in your pocket, but it is reasonably inconspicuous and most people recognize it as a benign "personal item" and you don't get them messing with it or asking what it is.
HB.[/QUOTE]As a new monger; after three visits I can see that for me something like this is going to be essential. I hadn't thought about the toys, that is a great idea.
[QUOTE=MahjacBall;2693960]Man, if a Senior Member is having trouble connecting, what chance do I have. I'm very selective and she was one I wanted to try.[/QUOTE]I have had some frustration trying to get together with the ones I thought would suit me. Then I realized, in the words of Johnny Cash: Drive on, don't mean nothin'.
They live in a whole different world, I like to make appointments ahead of time, that just isn't going to work out for me most of the time with these girls.
I imagine when they have needs and you are ready to go they will take you, when their needs are satisfied or they have someone else ready to go all you get is crickets.
Promising texts just dry up, and then a few days later they start up again. My world is so far removed from theirs that I can't imagine what is going on for them, I couldn't live like that and god bless 'them for getting by however they can.
Meanwhile I am aroused and frustrated, one answer seems to be have a bunch of them lined up and start texting until one bites.
When I find a girl (or two) I really like I am going to take good care of her, when I send a text I want her to make time for me and leave you with the bloody crickets, no offense dude, I just don't want to be the guy getting crickets.
So to put it in a nutshell, for me at least, there are going to be many I like that I don't hook up with, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Drive on, don't mean nothin'.
H.
[QUOTE=HarryD;2697139]As a new monger; after three visits I can see that for me something like this is going to be essential. I hadn't thought about the toys, that is a great idea.[/QUOTE]Great to see someone referring to a post more than a few days ago. So many come on here and have barely read today's updates let alone spent time to research anything, and start asking for help yet have not helped themselves. Those who do their homework stay safe (well, usually. If the big head prevails LOL). Best wishes. TDN.
[QUOTE=TDNorth;2697621]Great to see someone referring to a post more than a few days ago. So many come on here and have barely read today's updates let alone spent time to research anything, and start asking for help yet have not helped themselves. Those who do their homework stay safe (well, usually. If the big head prevails LOL). Best wishes. TDN.[/QUOTE]Unfortunately the little head can be somewhat persistent, I need all the help I can get.
You have figured it out already that there are two strategies to the hobby-pump and dump or becoming a regular. Becoming a regular would be the right way for you to go if you want a provider on call, most can see the benefit of a repeat client.
[QUOTE=HarryD;2697463]I have had some frustration trying to get together with the ones I thought would suit me. Then I realized, in the words of Johnny Cash: Drive on, don't mean nothin'.
They live in a whole different world, I like to make appointments ahead of time, that just isn't going to work out for me most of the time with these girls.
I imagine when they have needs and you are ready to go they will take you, when their needs are satisfied or they have someone else ready to go all you get is crickets.
Promising texts just dry up, and then a few days later they start up again. My world is so far removed from theirs that I can't imagine what is going on for them, I couldn't live like that and god bless 'them for getting by however they can.
Meanwhile I am aroused and frustrated, one answer seems to be have a bunch of them lined up and start texting until one bites.
When I find a girl (or two) I really like I am going to take good care of her, when I send a text I want her to make time for me and leave you with the bloody crickets, no offense dude, I just don't want to be the guy getting crickets.
So to put it in a nutshell, for me at least, there are going to be many I like that I don't hook up with, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Drive on, don't mean nothin'.
H.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=HarryD;2697463]I have had some frustration trying to get together with the ones I thought would suit me. Then I realized, in the words of Johnny Cash: Drive on, don't mean nothin'.
They live in a whole different world, I like to make appointments ahead of time, that just isn't going to work out for me most of the time with these girls.
I imagine when they have needs and you are ready to go they will take you, when their needs are satisfied or they have someone else ready to go all you get is crickets.
Promising texts just dry up, and then a few days later they start up again. My world is so far removed from theirs that I can't imagine what is going on for them, I couldn't live like that and god bless 'them for getting by however they can.
Meanwhile I am aroused and frustrated, one answer seems to be have a bunch of them lined up and start texting until one bites.
When I find a girl (or two) I really like I am going to take good care of her, when I send a text I want her to make time for me and leave you with the bloody crickets, no offense dude, I just don't want to be the guy getting crickets.
So to put it in a nutshell, for me at least, there are going to be many I like that I don't hook up with, there are plenty more fish in the sea. Drive on, don't mean nothin'.
H.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the advice HD. My first trip went so easily I figured the rest would be. My time is not always my own so I have to plan for windows of opportunity. Seems to be common procedure to have multiple fishing lines out at once, I'll try that. Hate to turn a girl down if she calls second though.
[QUOTE=MahjacBall;2700055]Thanks for the advice HD. My first trip went so easily I figured the rest would be. My time is not always my own so I have to plan for windows of opportunity. Seems to be common procedure to have multiple fishing lines out at once, I'll try that. Hate to turn a girl down if she calls second though.[/QUOTE]That is my plan, but keep in mind I don't know what I'm doing. I am feeling my way along as I go. I did at least four months of reading before my first visit.
To clarify my intention regarding having several girls lined up; if I miss work my life continues uninterrupted. If I waste their time they might not eat, or their kid might not eat, or other needs may go unfulfilled So I am going to be careful not to waste their time and have them turn someone down if I am not going to show.
I figure I send a text, wait ten to fifteen minutes then text the next one. Any that reply too late will get a reply turning them down, unless I have time and then I may take another one, the little gentleman willing of course.
Empty your fucking inbox.
I've been talking to Regina for a couple of days. Nice lady with a knack for talking dirty. I like that in a woman. On it goes via text for a while then via phone. That ends up it pretty hot phone sex (MM over the wire) - did I mention that girl has a dirty mouth. The next day were arranged a play date. Had a problem with time. Then had a problem with location. Then had a few blatant excuses. Then had one road block after another. Then I gave up on the "be".
So, Regina is one of those girls who wants to be in the hobby but is scared to death of it. She wants to fuck but just can bring her self to crossing that line. She needs money but she is just a little too lazy to earn it. TALKERS. I don't need them.
On the flip side, I have had a lot of ladies make the same claim about some of you mongers. "tire kickers" they call you. NOT ME!
I periodically change my burn phone. Need I explain?
Today I picked up the most expensive TracFone available at WallMart. $129. Android 5. 1, LTE, all-in-all a decent phone. Also picked up a 1-year air time package with 3 GB data, 3000 minutes of talk, and 3000 texts for less than my monthly AT&T bill. Oh, and TracFone backhauls over the AT&T network. Big step up from my last PoS burner.
[QUOTE=HoBeau;2704919]Empty your fucking inbox.[/QUOTE]I did, I did!
I posted this in the adult classifieds but thought it would be good to post here also.
[B]Ladies,
It is not a good idea to post publicly that you have no friends or family to be with for the holidays as it broadcasts to everyone that you might not be missed if something happened to you.
ALWAYS make sure you check in with someone on a regular basis and if you plan to be away, let someone you trust know.
I got a PM from a provider a couple of days ago who posted that way and have been trying to reach her via PM and even calling without a reply. I'm actually a it concerned that she is OK.[/B]
[QUOTE=NdayGuy;2711740]I posted this in the adult classifieds but thought it would be good to post here also.
[B]Ladies,
It is not a good idea to post publicly that you have no friends or family to be with for the holidays as it broadcasts to everyone that you might not be missed if something happened to you.
ALWAYS make sure you check in with someone on a regular basis and if you plan to be away, let someone you trust know.
I got a PM from a provider a couple of days ago who posted that way and have been trying to reach her via PM and even calling without a reply. I'm actually a it concerned that she is OK.[/B][/QUOTE]Please listen to this guy!
So this happened! Those of you who know me, know both of these ladies. This is from awhile back, I forgot I had it on my phone til the other day. Enjoy! [URL]https://vid.me/1J0G[/URL].