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An SA Success Story for Ya'll
Being an under-the-radar monger for many years, the SA / non-pro thread is the first time I've felt like I wanted to post and share some experiences, for the benefit of the greater mongering world. I'm primarily a window-shopperI cruise but rarely pick up SWs, peruse BP / CL but rarely set up meets. It's the thrill of the hunt, the illusion of availability, and all that. So for me, SA is a cruisers' paradise. Plenty of hardened pros and fake accounts, sure, but also a high proportion of true diamonds in the roughgenuine non-pros and first-timers going through a rough patch, or just plain bored or lonely and looking to get into something new.
Some guys do mustache November or whateverI treated myself to SA November. In my month of paid SA, I mostly avoided accounts that have been active for more than six months, or had premium or verified status. I looked for newer accounts and for the "cute" rather than "hot" types. Think Facebook selfies rather than airbrushed Instagram model shots. I uploaded a half-dozen decent private pics of me, and liberally shared them with girls that caught my eye. After a few canned opening lines, and some small talk messages, I found many that were pretty forward in giving out phone numbers and going straight to texting (YMMV).
In a month of casual browsing and messaging, I had 25 numbers of girls I was interested in. From there, I went to work texting. Of the 25, probably 6-8 dropped off quickly, and another 6-8 were pros or making demands like prelim meetings for cash. That left me with about 12 girls. From there, I narrowed down to the ones I had the best connection with / attraction to, lowest (or no) donation demands, and could get schedules to align.
So last Friday night I set my first meetup, with a 19 year old Filipina UW student, short and curvy but extremely cute. I picked her up from light rail and from there we drove to "the tubs". (Cold, rainy days make a shared jacuzzi and sauna an appealing offer, after you've been chatting for a while) She was clearly nervous, but I asked lots questions about school and friends, talked favorite GoT / Star Wars characters, and bought her food (there's a Chik-fil-a near the tubs). When it's been a minute since you've spent a bunch of time one-on-one with young college girls, you can forget how frivolous they can be. Soon enough though, we found our groove. Once in the jacuzzi, bathing suits came off, and it was game on.
(One note on pics and vids: college-aged girls now are so used to documenting every part of their life with their smartphone, if you just pull out your phone and start snapping away--with the requisite compliments--they likely just go with it, or even enjoy it. Most women over 30 will probably stop you and say WTF).
Anyway, she proved very responsive, and I had two pops in our time together, both with BBFSCIP. No mention of donation. She said something on the drive back to Seattle like, "well that's another off the bucket list," after which we compared adventurous sexcapades. We had plenty of fun, but likely both sensed it was a one-time break-up-the-monotony-of-life play date.
So that's my SA story. Moral is, you don't need to get suckered by these Instagram models looking for $200 coffee dates or TNA pros trying to score $600 appts. There's lots of churn on SA, new girls signing on and going off all the time. Find your niche and test out different lines, my niche seems to be 18-20 college girls from out of town, lonely, broke etc. For mongers out there who might have aged out of scoring a 19 year old, it seems like suburban MILFs have a lot of potential on there. Think neglected 35 year old moms with bathroom selfies in Auburn or Edmonds or whatnot. Godspeed.
