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Does she have bad teeth, sores, etc.?
[QUOTE=Glenn61]Once again, the Left wing is in action manipulating what the true facts are for it's own political gains....this is a significant point,,even if it does make some folks feel uncomfortable.......check out the article......G61
[url]http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,336749,00.html[/url][/QUOTE]Glenn,
I love your post this forum. Your exploits here are legendary and you are one of the true mongering icons in our hobby. However, you should get your facts straight about the so called, "liberal media."
I got same story you did from MSNBC, CNN, CBS, Yahoo News and even the ultra liberal Air America Radio. They included the black teen girl stats and everything. If you are relying on "fauxnews" for legitimate information, you need to look a little further. The news isn't as library slanted as Rupert Murdoch's news empire would have you believe.
Not trying to flame here. I have a lot of respect for you. It's just that people who are "fauxnew's" target audience are the ones who keep our "hobby" illegal and dangerous. If it weren't for that puritanical mindset, we'd be free to practice our mongering without the fear of having our cars impounded and faces on the local news.
Elliot Spitzer not included in my liberal fraternity. Take care my brother in "Mongerhood."
Anyone here had this infection, which begins like a spider bite and then turns into a boil with pus?
Can this be an STD?
ER Doctor told me is not STD, but I got my doubts, I always play safe and use cover all the time but can't protect the surrounding skin area if you know what I mean?
I never had any open cuts or any openings to catch a bug on my pelvic area, it's weird to me.
I had 2 boils infected and I'm taking some strong Antibiotics, right now I'm full of anxiety because I can't understand how I got this thing, also my ball pouch has very dry skin scaling or something!
BTW, ER doctor didn't take a culture he just looked at my boil and he told me is MRSA?
If someone here had these boils and suspected to be STD I will like to know your
experience.
[QUOTE=Glenn61]Boils have been around forever,,,they are even mentioned in the Old Testament.
I had a boil on the left side of my left knee when I was about 9 or 10,,I remember squeezing out massive amounts of puss daily. But in time it healed and that was that.
If you like to pick up street meat or let strippers grind against you in a club then you may contract the bacteria that causes a boil....simple as that.
It's a naturally occurring variety of bacterium in the soil and has adapted to humans over thousands of years starting with goat herders and today anyone can have it with no symptoms,,in fact there are usually no symptoms.
After the antibiotics,,,eat a healthy diet, exercise often and take nutritional supplements, avoid skin irritation like shaving too closely on your body and treat heat rashes with anti-fungal powder,get plenty of rest...and like Psoriasis,,it will not return.
[url]http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/mrsa/DS00735[/url]
[url]http://www.cdc.gov/Features/MRSAinSchools/#q1[/url][/QUOTE]
Thank you!:)
You gave me some peace of mind, I'm sure I'll be very careful from now on!
I wasn't aware of this bacteria going around in the U.S.
I guess most of us only worry about hiv, clamydia, herpes etc, but there are some nasty bugs you can catch by skin to skin contact,
This MRSA is supposed to be a hospital bug, so I got no clue how it got on me,
I didn't travel outside the country, and I'm very clean, and I never play Russian roulette with my health, you can't be 100% safe I guess.
Here's one for a good discussion. There is a relative 'newbie', 20 posts as I write this, on the Ohio boards bragging about being able to tell if a girl is clean or not just by looking at her. By clean he means not infected with a sexually transmitted disease.
He's [post=631252]siting[/post] some 'interesting' statistics and reading to justify his unprotected sex with street walkers.
I know there are mongers out there who for whatever reason don't use protection when having sex with a working girl. My two cents for you (plural) folks is this.
1. You're already infected and want to share the 'joy'.
2. You don't care about your health or that of anyone else.
Besides HIV/AIDS, there are numerous other STDs out there. Just looking at a girl provides no positive evidence on her health status. Yes, there are some signs to help avoid a potentially infected lady, but if she doesn't have any of those signs, does it mean she's "clean" and safe?
Perhaps the numbers appear to justify unprotected sex, but consider it this way. If the chance is 1 in 1000 of becoming infected, and the girl has just had sex with number 999, what are your odds now?
Hoho, if you want to quote statistics, what are the chances of becoming infected if you have unproteced sex with an infected person? Is it still 1 in 1000? Also, when was the last time you were checked and what were the results?
I support safe sex.
[QUOTE=Seva Lurker]There is a relative 'newbie', 20 posts as I write this, on the Ohio boards bragging about being able to tell if a girl is clean or not just by looking at her.[/QUOTE]It is just such ideas that keep STDs circulating.
Unfortunately, there are people who are not amenable to reason, and who are loathe to allow facts to change their minds.
When people hold such patently ignorant beliefs I find it best to give them wide berth. While it may be useful to challenge such assertions for the record, it's probably best not to argue too much with those propagating them. They are likely beyond hope.
D
Seva Lurker- 1 in 1000 per exposure is about accurate for insertive vaginal intercourse. I dont creampie ladies who use needles or look gross. Yes, I have caught chlamydia once. The last time I was tested was 2 weeks ago, negative of course. My "occupation" requires blood testing for HIV and hepatitis as well as urine screens.
Soon with medical science, we will be able to have unprotected sex with zero consequences. We have a vaccine for genital warts and a herpes vaccine is a couple years away.
Check out "The Myth of Heterosexual AIDS" by Michael Fumento. You can buy it for 10 bucks on ebay. Especially the chapter "The Prostitute Paradox". Anyhow, it came out in 1990 but since then everything the guy said would and wouldnt happen has come true. This book is just as useful now as it was then.
If he is wrong, then where are all these heterosexuals dying of AIDS? I asked everyone I knew if they knew anyone who died of AIDS or had AIDS. Their answers were either "No" or "I knew one, and he was gay."
Not all who have HIV/AIDS (or any STD) know it. Many have never been tested.
People with negative results on a recent test may still be positive.
Not all who know they are HIV or STD positive will tell others or use protection.
Not all injected drug users show obvious track marks.
Young women who appear healthy and are "pretty" or "cute" are not guaranteed to be disease-free.
If a SW allows BBFS, she might easily have had [b]hundreds[/b] or [b]thousands[/b] of risky contacts before you, and even without needle use, she may well be infected. Your odds of contracting a disease from a likely-infected person are [b]much[/b] higher than from a random stranger.
Even if the odds of contracting AIDS are very low for a [b]single[/b] contact, they are obviously higher for multiple contacts: e.g., 10 contacts ==> odds are 10 X higher; 100 contacts ==> odds are 100 X higher, etc.
Even if a person's odds of contracting AIDS are very low, the disease is still incurable, extremely expensive to treat, and possibly fatal. Would you play Russian roulette even once if your odds of dying were [b]"only"[/b] 1 in 1000?
Many people who die of AIDS have a different cause of death listed.
People selling their bodies have a host of problems, possibly including poor self-image, abuse, mental instability, lack of education, inadequate nutrition, poor or non-existent medical care, drug use, disease, criminal activity, and unsafe behavior of all sorts. Having sex with such individuals is risky business, even with protection.
People who have unprotected sex with SWs are endangering public health.
Those who [b]advocate[/b] or [b]defend[/b] unprotected risky sex are a menace to society.
D
"Rates of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) have risen for the second year in a row in the United States, according to a new report by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)."
[url]http://www.hivandhepatitis.com/recent/2007/112007_c.html[/url]
"So, basically what we are going to do here is talk about STDs. How many STDs do you think you could name? Well, the reason I ask is because most people can name about eight, six to eight. There are more than 25 sexually transmitted diseases out there."
"If you get gonorrhea, chlamydia -- and at the same time you come into contact with someone with HIV while you have that disease -- your chance of getting HIV goes up."
[url]http://www.klas-tv.com/Global/story.asp?S=5736221[/url]
"STDs can have serious consequences, including infertility, adverse effects on unborn children, and even death. An increased risk of cervical cancer has been linked with at least one type of STD. It is important to diagnose and treat STDs, both to preserve the health of the individual and to prevent the spread of the disease to others."
[url]http://www.sacdhhs.com/article.asp?ContentID=81[/url]
"Most people will be stunned to learn that STDs affect nearly 20 million Americans each year. This is an entirely preventable plague. Consistent use of condoms would prevent almost all cases of STDs, along with HIV and unintended pregnancies."
[url]http://www.revolutionhealth.com/articles/u.s.-chlamydia-infections-hit-all-time-high/hd-610033[/url]
"One of the factors that makes STDs so common is that most people with an STD don't even know that they are sick. It is not uncommon for someone to be infected but have no STD symptoms - in other words to be asymptomatic."
[url]http://std.about.com/od/overviewofstds/tp/toptenasymptom.htm[/url]
"Most bacterial STD are asymptomatic or unrecognized."
[url]http://gateway.nlm.nih.gov/MeetingAbstracts/ma?f=102240665.html[/url]
"The human papilloma virus is thought to be one of the main causes of cervical cancer. It has also been linked with other types of cancers of the female reproductive system. While HPV can be treated to reduce the signs and symptoms, there is currently no cure for this virus."
HIV:"Many people may not realize they are infected, as the HIV virus is often asymptomatic for the first few years."
[url]http://www.epigee.org/guide/stds.html[/url]
[QUOTE=Hoho Creampie]Seva Lurker- 1 in 1000 per exposure is about accurate for insertive vaginal intercourse. I dont creampie ladies who use needles or look gross. Yes, I have caught chlamydia once. The last time I was tested was 2 weeks ago, negative of course. My "occupation" requires blood testing for HIV and hepatitis as well as urine screens.[/quote]
You are still missing the point. Even if she looks clean it does not mean that she is AND you are having insertive vaginal intercourse with women who have sex with numerous men for a living.
[QUOTE=Hoho Creampie] Soon with medical science, we will be able to have unprotected sex with zero consequences. We have a vaccine for genital warts and a herpes vaccine is a couple years away. [/quote]
So until then you'll play with your health. And you have mentioned nothing about other diseases, classified as STDs such as Hepatitis.
[QUOTE=Hoho Creampie]Check out "The Myth of Heterosexual AIDS" by Michael Fumento. You can buy it for 10 bucks on ebay. Especially the chapter "The Prostitute Paradox". Anyhow, it came out in 1990 but since then everything the guy said would and wouldnt happen has come true. This book is just as useful now as it was then. [/quote]
Yes, you've quoted this before.
[QUOTE=Hoho Creampie]If he is wrong, then where are all these heterosexuals dying of AIDS? I asked everyone I knew if they knew anyone who died of AIDS or had AIDS. Their answers were either "No" or "I knew one, and he was gay."[/QUOTE]
Well if you look closely, they are there. Third world countries are a good source. In Thailand, [url=http://www.avert.org/aidsthai.htm]The majority of HIV infections (around 80%) occur through heterosexual sex[/url]. Or [url=http://www.who.int/inf-new/aids1.htm]check here[/url].
Just so you don't come back with well 'that's only Thailand' and you like to site a single source for your beliefs, try these as well
[url=http://www.avert.org/usastatg.htm]then look at the numbers of needle users versus sexual contact infections[/url].
[quote=cdc][url=http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factsheets/youth.htm]Heterosexual transmission.[/url] Young women, especially those of minority races or ethnicities, are increasingly at risk for HIV infection through heterosexual contact. According to data from a CDC study of HIV prevalence among disadvantaged youth during the early to mid-1990s, the rate of HIV prevalence among young women aged 16–21 was 50% higher than the rate among young men in that age group [5]. African American women in this study were 7 times as likely as white women and 8 times as likely as Hispanic women to be HIV-positive. Young women are at risk for sexually transmitted HIV for several reasons, including biologic vulnerability, lack of recognition of their partners’ risk factors, inequality in relationships, and having sex with older men who are more likely to be infected with HIV.[/quote]
Since 1981 nearly 25 million people have died, still less than the 1918 flu epidemic killed in six months, from HIV/AIDS related illnesses. Sex workers are an extremely high risk group.
Keep on living in your dream world. Then don't expect any sympathy when your luck runs out. I just hope your man enough to not become a number 1 in [post=631953]my post below[/post].
My opinion is you are an idiot who wouldn't move when a semi is getting ready to run you over because you're chances of it happening are too slim and some one wrote a book telling you so.
I keep reading reports of both providers and clients who claim to occasionally "forget" to have protection. Sometimes they say, "We went ahead and did it anyway." Some men even write that, "She says this is the first time she's done this."
Denial is so comforting. But risky.
How can a [b]reputable[/b] provider or client NOT have protection available [b]at all times?[/b] I wouldn't go anywhere without at least two condoms, and if the provider didn't have any, I'd certainly be loathe to repeat with her.
So, how does a guy with an SO at home explain a big box of condoms? Look, if it comes down to it, buy a locking brief case to store them in. Many people deal with sensitive material at work, such as trade secrets or sales strategies, and companies may require them to keep such media under lock-and-key.
D
A lot of the girls won't carry condoms, especially if they've been busted for prostitution in the past. Seems being ready is a crime, like have an alligator clip is drug paraphenalia.
I guess a condom is a signal of illegal activity to cops.
Now how to hide them from the SO is another issue. I don't have one, so I don't worry about it. :)
[QUOTE=Seva Lurker]A lot of the girls won't carry condoms, especially if they've been busted for prostitution in the past. I guess a condom is a signal of illegal activity to cops.[/QUOTE]As far as the cops are concerned, they wouldn't normally see the condoms until after the arrest is made.
In any case, if the courts use the presence of condoms as evidence against a provider, the medical community and all sensible people ought to really fight this.
In fact, where prostitution is illegal, legislation ought to provide for reduced penalties if the person charged had protection.
Criminalizing condoms endangers public health.
D
[QUOTE=Seva Lurker]
Perhaps the numbers appear to justify unprotected sex, but consider it this way. If the chance is 1 in 1000 of becoming infected, and the girl has just had sex with number 999, what are your odds now? [/QUOTE]
Um....the odds are still one in a thousand. Just like with the lottery. If the odds are one in ten million of winning, and you buy a ticket every week, the odds of any given ticket winning is still one in ten million.
Like HoHo said, does anyone know a straight non-Iv drug using guy with HIV? I've never heard of one. In King County where I live (population approximately 3 million) there were 3 cases of male heterosexual HIV last year.
Let's look at the facts. Syphilis, gonnorhea, and chlamydia are easily cured by antibiotics. HPV affects 80% of the population. If you've had sex a few times, even covered, you have it or have been exposed. There are vaccines for HEP A & B, and HEP C is not considered a sexually transmitted disease. HIV is extremely difficult to pass from female to male. Which leaves herpes, a disease that is easily controlled by taking one pill a day. If you get tested regularly you don't need to worry about having an asymptomatic illness.
So when you look at it rationally, there isn't a lot to worry about. I by the way, do practice safe sex, but can understand why some don't.
Doc G has pics galore and video. He travels to sex shows and give us his total feel and recap. Then you have a paper writing about you. You also feed the wonderful Sw's you run into. You would think thats enough but now Glenn61 is doing us one better and has turned into Doc G giving us up to date sexual protection information.
Doc G start a newsletter I would honestly subscribe to it. You are the most happening thing in Miami. I have to say. When I have gone down there I must really suck since I cant find a dam thing.
I support Doc G... The guy that never stops giving back to the community. You gotta love it..
LOL
Happy Hunting..
[QUOTE=Glenn61]All true Civ2000,,,viruses are not easily transferred to a healthy person and sexually transmitted viruses need a way through the skin.
Viral transmission is much more likely through the sinuses or lungs than with blood stream access for a healthy man, and as long as you don't have any cuts in your skin that exposes blood vessels your unlikely to have a viral infection enter your body.
Scientist say that it's 10 times easier to pass HIV from a man to a woman than the reverse because of the semen flow,,,which would explain why gay men who engage in anal sex are the predominant carriers if AIDS,,even more than intravenous drug users who if not careful would probably die from bacterial blood poisoning first.
Now bacterium is another story,,,Syphilis, Gonorrhea , Chlamydia and the sort are of bacterial nature. And bacteria can grow on your skin waiting for the opportunity yo penetrate your defenses.
This is where hygiene comes in,,and bacterial infections will usually show themselves with redness, legions or odor,,a sign to back off.
I have on several occasions after taking a SWer to a room done a quick inspection and changed my plans as far as oral or close contact around her face,,,and a few times I have just given an obviously infected girl 20. for her time and dropped her off back where I found her because she showed signs of skin irritation that is suspect.
Also if a girl is apprehensive about you looking before leaping,,like she might say "turn the light off they hurt my eyes being bright"...or she won't proudly show off her teeth and mouth but will gladly suck your dick....she's hiding the fact that there is dangerous levels of bacteria waiting to eat away at your flesh.
I once had a really cute BSWer that I fully intended to fvck,,,until we got to the NoTell room and she insisted on having a dark room.....So I turned the lamp at her and looked down there at her twat.
She had warts all around the area,,,and was not clean shaved,,,(another sign to watch out for).........do an inspection of your SWer before partaking, and if the girl is not friendly and cooperative of is uptight about you looking her over with a lighted view of her twat and mouth then beware,,,she may very well be setting a trap for your pointer......... ;)[/QUOTE]
This is my first time posting, and probably my last.
Like most people who frequent these forums, I was a lurker who frequented AMPs based on tips obtained here. This has been going on for the past five years, even though I'm a married man. Never did it without a condom, though I do remember getting BBBJ once or twice.
The problem is that recently I learned about HPV and how that can easily be transmitted even for those who wear condoms. That's more than enough to make me stop. But now I'm scared s--tless, because it is now likely that I caught HPV and transmitted it to my wife. (My wife claims that I'm the only one she's ever had sex with, and I believe her. She's also a germaphobe, so if something happens, she'll know it's me.)
I don't plan on telling my wife ever, so I have the following questions:
a) How likely is it that I'm now carrying HPV? How can I tell? There is no "FDA-approved" HPV test for men, and apparently most people who have HPV never see symptoms or only see them years after catching it.
b) Among those who are exposed to HPV, how many of these HPV cases go away on their own? I've seen conflicting reports on the web, from "Once you have it, you have it forever" to "In most cases, the immune system chases away symptoms and eliminates HPV or keeps it under control."
c) Is there any way I can get my wife tested without revealing to her what I've done? How much will it help her in terms of her health?
I really don't want a divorce, since I love my wife too much. I've done stupid things before, though, but this is just beyond stupid for me. Hopefully this will serve as a warning to other mongers who think condoms prevent everything, because they won't.
[QUOTE=Twincast]This is my first time posting, and probably my last.
Like most people who frequent these forums, I was a lurker who frequented AMPs based on tips obtained here.
but this is just beyond stupid for me.[/QUOTE]Thank you,
Most of us found this site post illness. Not pre.
See the title of my post.
[QUOTE=Twincast]This is my first time posting, and probably my last.
Like most people who frequent these forums, I was a lurker who frequented AMPs based on tips obtained here. This has been going on for the past five years, even though I'm a married man. Never did it without a condom, though I do remember getting BBBJ once or twice.
The problem is that recently I learned about HPV and how that can easily be transmitted even for those who wear condoms. That's more than enough to make me stop. But now I'm scared s--tless, because it is now likely that I caught HPV and transmitted it to my wife. (My wife claims that I'm the only one she's ever had sex with, and I believe her. She's also a germaphobe, so if something happens, she'll know it's me.)
I don't plan on telling my wife ever, so I have the following questions:
a) How likely is it that I'm now carrying HPV? How can I tell? There is no "FDA-approved" HPV test for men, and apparently most people who have HPV never see symptoms or only see them years after catching it.
b) Among those who are exposed to HPV, how many of these HPV cases go away on their own? I've seen conflicting reports on the web, from "Once you have it, you have it forever" to "In most cases, the immune system chases away symptoms and eliminates HPV or keeps it under control."
c) Is there any way I can get my wife tested without revealing to her what I've done? How much will it help her in terms of her health?
I really don't want a divorce, since I love my wife too much. I've done stupid things before, though, but this is just beyond stupid for me. Hopefully this will serve as a warning to other mongers who think condoms prevent everything, because they won't.[/QUOTE]Twincast:
If you're scared of HPV, see a doctor or. Mostly likely. Read up online. HPV comes in many forms and is rather common. According to sites I've read, there is no known cure but the virus and any outbreaks can be handled.
The most common symptons are warts in the genital area which normally appear 2-3 months after initial infection. Because there are many types of HPV, these warts may or may not be painful. Either way, if you develop them, see a doctor. More than likely, they'll be removed. With a giant LASER! Sorry. Couldn't resist.
As for the Missus, it's harder to tell with women. Any warts that develop can be internal and pap smears are the best bet in finding them. If your wife got a pap and found out she has warts. You may want to drop the "never tell her" stance.
Probably doesn't alleviate your fears but the truth isn't always supposed to.
Go see a Dr or go to an STD clinic where they will maintain confidentiality. You are asking for advice from a mostly risk taking, sexually addicted audience here.
[QUOTE=Twincast]This is my first time posting, and probably my last.
Like most people who frequent these forums, I was a lurker who frequented AMPs based on tips obtained here. This has been going on for the past five years, even though I'm a married man. Never did it without a condom, though I do remember getting BBBJ once or twice.
The problem is that recently I learned about HPV and how that can easily be transmitted even for those who wear condoms. That's more than enough to make me stop. But now I'm scared s--tless, because it is now likely that I caught HPV and transmitted it to my wife. (My wife claims that I'm the only one she's ever had sex with, and I believe her. She's also a germaphobe, so if something happens, she'll know it's me.)
I don't plan on telling my wife ever, so I have the following questions:
a) How likely is it that I'm now carrying HPV? How can I tell? There is no "FDA-approved" HPV test for men, and apparently most people who have HPV never see symptoms or only see them years after catching it.
b) Among those who are exposed to HPV, how many of these HPV cases go away on their own? I've seen conflicting reports on the web, from "Once you have it, you have it forever" to "In most cases, the immune system chases away symptoms and eliminates HPV or keeps it under control."
c) Is there any way I can get my wife tested without revealing to her what I've done? How much will it help her in terms of her health?
I really don't want a divorce, since I love my wife too much. I've done stupid things before, though, but this is just beyond stupid for me. Hopefully this will serve as a warning to other mongers who think condoms prevent everything, because they won't.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Daka1]
So, how does a guy with an SO at home explain a big box of condoms?
D[/QUOTE]
Hope you don't mind a Yankee jumping in. But I suggest buying a 3 pack, 5 bucks or so. Think of it as a insurance policy. You'll spend more than that in gas cruising. Use what you need, toss or donate the rest. Just my 2¢, hope y'all didnt mind. :)
[QUOTE=Twincast]This is my first time posting, and probably my last.
Like most people who frequent these forums, I was a lurker who frequented AMPs based on tips obtained here. This has been going on for the past five years, even though I'm a married man. Never did it without a condom, though I do remember getting BBBJ once or twice.
The problem is that recently I learned about HPV and how that can easily be transmitted even for those who wear condoms. That's more than enough to make me stop. But now I'm scared s--tless, because it is now likely that I caught HPV and transmitted it to my wife. (My wife claims that I'm the only one she's ever had sex with, and I believe her. She's also a germaphobe, so if something happens, she'll know it's me.)
I don't plan on telling my wife ever, so I have the following questions:
a) How likely is it that I'm now carrying HPV? How can I tell? There is no "FDA-approved" HPV test for men, and apparently most people who have HPV never see symptoms or only see them years after catching it.
b) Among those who are exposed to HPV, how many of these HPV cases go away on their own? I've seen conflicting reports on the web, from "Once you have it, you have it forever" to "In most cases, the immune system chases away symptoms and eliminates HPV or keeps it under control."
c) Is there any way I can get my wife tested without revealing to her what I've done? How much will it help her in terms of her health?
I really don't want a divorce, since I love my wife too much. I've done stupid things before, though, but this is just beyond stupid for me. Hopefully this will serve as a warning to other mongers who think condoms prevent everything, because they won't.[/QUOTE]
IF your wife ever turns up a positive HPV test, simply shrug and say, sorry dear, but I was active BEFORE we got married. These virii can lay dormant for years before showing themselves. Check out the CDC and other health related sites before worrying yourself sick over this.
Clif
[QUOTE=Hungry Clif]IF your wife ever turns up a positive HPV test, simply shrug and say, sorry dear, but I was active BEFORE we got married. These virii can lay dormant for years before showing themselves. Check out the CDC and other health related sites before worrying yourself sick over this.
Clif[/QUOTE]This is the story I'm considering if something bad happens. Fortunately for me, it seems HPV is very common, so the chances of getting genital warts might be low.
No warts yet on either me or my wife, but what else can I do besides get out of the game, which I have already resolved to do? It's about time for me anyway. I didn't find exactly what I was looking for (and I'm not even sure what that is), but that's a personal issue for me that really should have been resolved before I got married.
Anyway, had I known the real risks earlier, I might have ended my mongering ways sooner, but better now than much later. I don't want to make any moral judgements, but I do hope everyone who's in the game knows exactly what the risks are and always uses their big head before the little head.
How hard is it to just stop by the store on your way and buy a 3pack. All that you don't use, leave with the girl. If you strike out that night, toss them and hope for better luck next time. The cost for tossing non-used wraps is a lot less expensive than getting caught with them, and all that ensues, or taking home little lurkers.
[QUOTE=Daka1]
So, how does a guy with an SO at home explain a big box of condoms? Look, if it comes down to it, buy a locking brief case to store them in. Many people deal with sensitive material at work, such as trade secrets or sales strategies, and companies may require them to keep such media under lock-and-key.
D[/QUOTE]
Hello Eveyone. I really need your help, I have been a mess lately. Last week a friend and I visited an AMP. It was my first time. I'm 22 and sometimes I just get horny. The nice lady gave me an HJ and some ball licking.
It might be my OCD, but I'm really worried about contracting somehting from her. Is it possible to pick up an STD from an HJ and some ball licking or am I just being paraoid. I can't sleep or eat. I'm been so worried. When should I get tested, does it take a while for the STDs to show up on testing.
Thank you for all of your help, I really appreciate any advice you guys can give me.
American Hw
Rest n Relax and have her do it again. As far as I have ever learned a HJ/ball licking isnt going to do a dang thing to you. I would go back and get a few more or if not send me a gift card and I will go for you and tell you the details. Hows that idea? You will be fine.
Happy Hunting..
[QUOTE=American Hw]Hello Eveyone. I really need your help, I have been a mess lately. Last week a friend and I visited an AMP. It was my first time. I'm 22 and sometimes I just get horny. The nice lady gave me an HJ and some ball licking.
It might be my OCD, but I'm really worried about contracting somehting from her. Is it possible to pick up an STD from an HJ and some ball licking or am I just being paraoid. I can't sleep or eat. I'm been so worried. When should I get tested, does it take a while for the STDs to show up on testing.
Thank you for all of your help, I really appreciate any advice you guys can give me.
American Hw[/QUOTE]
Glenn61
Dude you are so on about Divorced & Over 40. I've gotten so much action off these social dating sites, that I might give up mongering.
Okay not that extreme, I mean who can resist a nice 22 yr old staring at you with that "I getting the shit fucked out of me look".
Wireless91910
[QUOTE=Glenn61]
Then you can work and recover financially and relax and be on the prowl for cute wh0res at your leisure.,,,,Date divorced women (over 40 is an easy lay)....and not have to live in fear of your SO,,,nor have to lie and be subject to accusations.
You gotta make a choice or the choice will be made for you and not in a nice way....just my 2 cents......G61[/QUOTE]
When I first got divorced I went to a few divorced groups most of these ladies are so bent and want to screw everything out of spite of the X old man. Now who am I to refuse them. Please take you hate out on me, LOL!
I can say I went for like 6 months and then it got old but I know theres a lot of groups out there and all you have to really do is lend a sad ear and before you know it -Game On!!
All of these ladies are pretty safe I went out with. They are just upset over the divorce and want to be wanted by somebody. Its a give and take kinda set up. You listen they give themselves up and you get what you want.
Hope that helps get some of you laid.
Happy Hunting..
[QUOTE=Wireless91910]Glenn61
Dude you are so on about Divorced & Over 40. I've gotten so much action off these social dating sites, that I might give up mongering.
Okay not that extreme, I mean who can resist a nice 22 yr old staring at you with that "I getting the shit fucked out of me look".
Wireless91910[/QUOTE]
Hello All,
I live in Texas. Can anyone advice me on how I could get (not only tested but also) treated for STD "anonymously"? It seems that government sponsored programs require you to pull-in your spouse/sex-parnter in case you test positive. Is this also the same for private doctors? If you go to a doctor for treatment is he/she required to inform your insurance?
Many thanks in advance for all useful advice.
-Dragonflyxxx
[QUOTE=Dragonflyxxx]Can anyone advice me on how I could get (not only tested but also) treated for STD "anonymously"?[/QUOTE]All STD testing and treatment should be completely confidential, if not anonymous. You may be asked for your name, but they probably won't ask for ID.
If you test positive, they will most likely ask for the names of all recent sexual partners. I would hope that you would at least notify all recent sexual partners immediately so that they can get tested and treated before they spread the disease further.
If you have symptoms, or have been told by a partner that she's tested positive, the only responsible thing to do is to seek immediate medical attention.
STD treatment is usually made as hassle-free and confidential as possible in order to reach those needing attention. The only way your insurance should be notified is if you want to file a claim.
[b]Bottom line - see a clinic or doctor immediately! [/b]
D
Stds are the reason why I stick to HJ/TJ action only. No BJ or FS of any sort. Too much hassle out there I say. Plus, the kind of fun I go for is usually a bit less of a strain on the wallet and tends to make the girl happy 'cause she doesn't have to do as much. But that's just me.
[QUOTE=Dragonflyxxx]Hello All,
Is this also the same for private doctors? If you go to a doctor for treatment is he/she required to inform your insurance?
Many thanks in advance for all useful advice.
-Dragonflyxxx[/QUOTE]
Don't be an ass when it come to the health of your dick and the health of others. Do not rely on the advice given on the internet. Go ask a professional. Go to a doctor, ask questions and get answers. If need be, don't even tell them about you insurance provider.
Get proper advice from a proper professional.
[b]Get treatment if nesassary[/b] and worry about the small shit later.
[QUOTE=Glenn61]OK,,,then where does the Federal Government get it's accurate statistics on treated cases of,,,,, new cases of,,, and death from HIV, ,Syphilis, Gonorrhoeae, Herpes, Hepatitis, cervical cancer...etc.,,etc.
And the regional, ethnic, gender, sex and sexual preference break down of their information......?
The fact is that all persons with a communicable deadly diseases are reported to the CDC...it's all on their web site.......
[url]http://www.cdc.gov/nchstp/dstd/Stats_Trends/Stats_and_Trends.htm[/url]
And available in printed version free,,,just pay the cost of shipping.
Don't kid yourself Daka1,,,your dangerous medical history is recorded by the Federal Government once you've been diagnosed by a medical professional.
Only the cheek swab test that you can buy for about $40 in a drug store allows you to have an HIV antibodies test anonymously.......G61[/QUOTE]
I don't know about that Glenn. They can come up with that kind of statistical information without getting the individuals name or identity.
Personally, I don’t give a fuck – they can have my name, address, social security number, mother’s maiden name, and a signed confession – just as long as they stop the damn burning and drip, drip, drip. What options do we have, it’s either get treatment or let your damn dick fall off.
I get a yearly check-up and my doctor knows why and I don’t give a damn who he tells. Let’s face facts; if I get HIV, I am more likely to die from aids then from the shame of what I did to get it.
Don’t get me wrong, this is 2008; but it may as well be 1984, because Big Brother is watching and we all damn well better know that. In this particular case I am not so sure I mind it all that much, after all, the more people keeping an eye out for my dick and its health the better.
LOL
CookyJar
Medical professionals report [b]cases,[/b] not individuals, to the CDC. The CDC has specific protocols in place to ensure confidentiality. Cases are identified by number, not by name. Even so, not all cases are reported to the CDC. For example, California (and some other states) offers [b]anonymous[/b] testing (no name is asked) as well as [b]confidential[/b] testing. If you want [b]written[/b] results, though, you have to give a name.
STD testing and treatment are available at county health clinics, Planned Parenthood clinics, and hospitals, as well as private labs.
Free, low cost, and confidential clinics in Texas: [url]http://www.dshs.state.tx.us/hivstd/services/service_e.shtm[/url], [url]http://yourstdhelp.com/texas.html[/url]
Free and confidential clinics in NYC: [url]http://www.nyc.gov/html/doh/html/std/std2.shtml[/url]
Free and confidential clinics in LA County: [url]http://www.lapublichealth.org/std/clinics.htm[/url]
Confidential private testing: [url]http://www.localstdtesting.com/[/url], [url]http://www.tstd.org/[/url]
You can Google "confidential std testing" for more information.
What do you think a doctors reply would even be to an answer like this::
And if you do get an STD, and they want to know with whom you've been in the last 6 months,,,proudly announce you're a wh0re-monger and good luck tracking down those cases.........
In my neck of the woods they charge you to stay anonymous. Im not sure they do it but who really knows but the government anyway.
Happy Hunting..
[QUOTE=Dragonflyxxx]Hello All,
I live in Texas. Can anyone advice me on how I could get (not only tested but also) treated for STD "anonymously"? It seems that government sponsored programs require you to pull-in your spouse/sex-parnter in case you test positive. Is this also the same for private doctors? If you go to a doctor for treatment is he/she required to inform your insurance?
Many thanks in advance for all useful advice.
-Dragonflyxxx[/QUOTE]I would recommend this : [url]www.nonprofitstdtesting.org[/url] 1-800-682-3047
I did a lot of research on HSV testing, and this is the best. They do three kinds of Herpes testing (lgG, IgM and another one) to reduce the possibility of false negative results and this set of tests is called Herpes panel. This detects HSV-1, HSV2 and any recent infection. Also they offer $49 for HIV antibody. Their process is completely anonymous. Call them and tell them what tests you need. I did Herpes Panel (3 tests) and HIV antibody. Costs $273. Remember, you can't order the tests yourself at the lab. I looked other sites, I found one that said Herpes Panel for $98 only. When I asked for more info, they didn't include all three tests.
You pick the lab and time. I picked a time which is 2 hrs from the time I called. It is better to do it early in the morning, so that the results will be available next day. You give your name and credit card#. A doctor orders the test via fax to the lab. You show up, the lab doesn't ask you anything (just a signature for a waiver) and your blood is drawn. Call next day to get the results. Eric from [url]www.nonprofitstdtesting.org[/url] is extremely helpful. I did my test in the evening and the results were not available next day. He said he will call me and he did. Negative for all the tests. They also offer post test counseling and they will send the results by post or fax.
BTW, I tried at the public health. If you have any insurance coverage, you can't get tested there. They advised me to call my insurance company for the tests. Which is NOT Anonymous.
HillyBilly
[QUOTE=Hillybilly]Their process is completely anonymous. You give your name and credit card#. they will send the results by post or fax.[/QUOTE]
The process may (or may not) be [b]confidential,[/b] but what you describe is certainly not [b]anonymous.[/b]
[QUOTE=Lookinfoit69]How hard is it to just stop by the store on your way and buy a 3pack. All that you don't use, leave with the girl. If you strike out that night, toss them and hope for better luck next time. The cost for tossing non-used wraps is a lot less expensive than getting caught with them, and all that ensues, or taking home little lurkers.[/QUOTE]
If you have small boxes for printer ink for a printer that you don't use anymore, you can keep a few there: open it up and secrete 2-3 under the ink then tape it shut. This is good if you're going on a business trip. Women never look twice at printer ink and it is a normal thing to take on a business trip. They also fit in a brief case. These are good if you want to leave something in your briefcase in the car or don't have time to buy any.
You can also get one of those pac safes and keep your main stash locked in there. If the SO wants to see what is in the locked PacSafe just tell her you can't fnd the key, you haven't opened it since your last trip, blah blah blah.
I don't actually fill it up with condoms and lock it before going on a business trip, since you have to have a key to unlock it at the airpor and it is then hard to explain how you can forget what is inside it or cannot find a key to open it. I usually hit a wal-mart (open 24-7) for condoms on the way out going on a business trip.
There are some fancy metal business card holders in which one can fit one or two condoms, behind a business card, some money, etc.
Just don't leave it lying around with a condom in it, since your SO will "check to make sure you have enough business cards" or some crap and find the contraband.
[QUOTE=Crazy Jim Wood]If you have small boxes for printer ink for a printer that you don't use anymore, you can keep a few there: open it up and secrete 2-3 under the ink then tape it shut. [/QUOTE]
Personally, keeping anything in the house is too much risk. I keep spare condoms and my pussy phone in my golf bag inside an empty sleeve of balls. The golf bag is ALWAYS in the car. This way if the urge hits (for golf or pussy), I'm ready.
Later,
Vegas
[QUOTE=When In Vegas]Personally, keeping anything in the house is too much risk. I keep spare condoms and my pussy phone in my golf bag inside an empty sleeve of balls. The golf bag is ALWAYS in the car. This way if the urge hits (for golf or pussy), I'm ready.
Later,
Vegas[/QUOTE]
When are we going to play golf. Looser pays for the bj's...Personally condoms kept in the car seem to melt and I don't want to f-up my clubs. I look at them as a nesscary expense to any motel trip. I never have any in storage except at a SB house with her consent for my next visit.
I allways stop at the market after picking up my date. I use the I need a soda excuse for the stop. If it dosn't work out I throw them out. Rather be safe and out $3 than sorry and save $3...
Steel Blue
Here I am thinking I have a nice little system and you introduce melting condoms into the equation lol
I looked into it and you might be unto something. Seems on a 95degree day it can get to 120degrees in your trunk. Not enough to melt a condom but definitely enough to increase the odds of the condom breaking during use. Seems most condom advise is to keep the condoms in a cool dry place. Something else to worry about I guess :-(
Later,
Vegas
[QUOTE=Steel Blue]When are we going to play golf. Looser pays for the bj's...Personally condoms kept in the car seem to melt and I don't want to f-up my clubs. I look at them as a nesscary expense to any motel trip. I never have any in storage except at a SB house with her consent for my next visit.
I allways stop at the market after picking up my date. I use the I need a soda excuse for the stop. If it dosn't work out I throw them out. Rather be safe and out $3 than sorry and save $3...
Steel Blue[/QUOTE]
I always prefer FS. I had two recent encounters - the girls were on periods and never told me. How do you deal with it.
So far, I managed to stay out of STDs - most of it by luck. Some of it attributed to Purell and 3M Cavilon Skin Care - which I use consistently. It was hard but, like poker, I learnt when to throw away the cards and NOT to play.