Seeking Arrangement and Other Dating Site Reviews

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;3613485]This one is based in Worcester and is an example of the type of BS that should be avoided to save your time and effort.

"I'm looking for a sugar Daddy or Mama who doesn't mind going out to eat delicious food, going on shopping sprees, and giving out a money allowance. Being spoiled by expensive gifts and delicious food is always nice! I'm also looking to relieve some of the financial burden of college (anything is greatly appreciated!) Ideally I would find a SD who I have a connection with and is fun to be with. We can come to an arrangement together as each relationship is unique. ".

Do you really want to pay for vertical social events? These types want to string you along to empty your wallet without the reward you really signed up for.

Seriously avoid this one. Find the ones that explicitly say they're offering FWB or other such hints. Stick with the "negotiable" category (no set expectation).

She wants "MODERATE. Up to $ 5,000 monthly". I've come across these types who have no intentions of delivering any goods to you.

Stay focused on what YOU want and what YOU want to spend; not what she wants.

BMD.[/QUOTE]Hi Big Mac Daddy! It really makes sense. You have explained very well. Yeah just wasting time without stuff is not good.

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;3613485]This one is based in Worcester and is an example of the type of BS that should be avoided to save your time and effort.

"I'm looking for a sugar Daddy or Mama who doesn't mind going out to eat delicious food, going on shopping sprees, and giving out a money allowance. Being spoiled by expensive gifts and delicious food is always nice! I'm also looking to relieve some of the financial burden of college (anything is greatly appreciated!) Ideally I would find a SD who I have a connection with and is fun to be with. We can come to an arrangement together as each relationship is unique. ".

Do you really want to pay for vertical social events? These types want to string you along to empty your wallet without the reward you really signed up for.

Seriously avoid this one. Find the ones that explicitly say they're offering FWB or other such hints. Stick with the "negotiable" category (no set expectation).

She wants "MODERATE. Up to $ 5,000 monthly". I've come across these types who have no intentions of delivering any goods to you.

Stay focused on what YOU want and what YOU want to spend; not what she wants.

BMD.[/QUOTE]When I was recently on SA, I noticed a number of profiles seeking $ but then stating that they don't want any sort of physical relationship.

[QUOTE=Dave8;3614978]When I was recently on SA, I noticed a number of profiles seeking $ but then stating that they don't want any sort of physical relationship.[/QUOTE]Seeking money but no physical relationship? Sounds like my first marriage. LOL Who needs these leeches? What do they think we want them for, their stunning intellect and wonderful personality?

[QUOTE=ConnecticutGuy;3614989]Seeking money but no physical relationship? Sounds like my first marriage. LOL Who needs these leeches? What do they think we want them for, their stunning intellect and wonderful personality?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NNOa5Uvjpwo[/URL]

Hard to believe but true. I had an SA lady text me Wed an offer $30 FS.

This is a hard core druggie for sure posing as an escort.

I was with Nellie at the time but even if I had been free I would.

Have said thank you no. This was the same lady who opened her asking price at $200.

When I contacted her 5 or 6 weeks ago.

Just goes to show who is really on SA.

Fat Vernon SA lady posts that she wants money but no sexual relationship.

We will rename SA The SA Doozer Charity Website.

What could this girl be thinking?

[QUOTE=AsianCarGuy;3607670]This one is young and really hot but wants $5.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1aafd72c-7f0d-4cfa-b777-eff4245d4f8e[/URL]

This one is ok between 2 and 3.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7026786d-510c-4090-87f9-b4dcd26c83e0[/URL]

This one is a pro.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/messages/a18bb718-cca4-443e-ab3e-cb1f34d724b5?mailbox=inbox[/URL][/QUOTE]The middle one I used to bang regularly when she first got on SA about 2 years back. 100 was the fee. All doors opened, BBFS and CIP. Still got some videos of her. Her name is Sandra I believed.

It's amazing how these girls go up in price very quickly. You got to catch up when their new and fresh.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;3606476][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/ae189c85-5ce5-4ffa-a26c-1b325e6c7507[/URL]

Wants 600 per meet.

Pass.[/QUOTE]Are you guys seriously paying these kind of $$.

The most I give a girl is 200, and that's a hot white 19 yr old spinner.

[QUOTE=RonOne;3612808]She is on SA with the name Elisugarbaby. A guy PMed we with another BAD report about meeting her Mon.

Stay away. She is trouble an bad news. Her BF is going to get someone in trouble or arrested with his behavior.[/QUOTE]Glad I never met up with this girl. She answered my CL ad regularly, but wasn't my type. Somehow, I sensed she was desperate and not the clean cut type I am used to. Still get occasional texts from her FL number.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;3619094]The middle one I used to bang regularly when she first got on SA about 2 years back. 100 was the fee. All doors opened, BBFS and CIP. Still got some videos of her. Her name is Sandra I believed.

It's amazing how these girls go up in price very quickly. You got to catch up when their new and fresh.[/QUOTE]The 1st one is the one who had asked me for 700, good to see she getting more"reasonable" LOL. Imagine there is a sucker or two out there who doesn't know any better.

Likewise the first one took to dinner. Nice enough but imo not the sharpest knife in the drawer and nothing special lookswise or body, maybe a 5 or 6 at most. I wouldn't give anything like what she was asking, plenty of others around. Don't want to be cheap but if we overpay that why prices go up imo.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;3619124]Glad I never met up with this girl. She answered my CL ad regularly, but wasn't my type. Somehow, I sensed she was desperate and not the clean cut type I am used to. Still get occasional texts from her FL number.[/QUOTE]Guess I was just lucky. Didn't have to pick up at house so avoided the bf trouble and session was OK, nothing notable one way or the other. Seemed like decent kid to me, wasn't planning on seeing again just cause of the inconvenience and like I said nothing special. Had some intermittent texting from her when desperate for money, but nothing obsessive. Looks like I just lucked out by not repeating.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;3619097]Are you guys seriously paying these kind of $$.

The most I give a girl is 200, and that's a hot white 19 yr old spinner.[/QUOTE]Ditto, same here.

[QUOTE=Smokarz_XO;3619097]Are you guys seriously paying these kind of $$.

The most I give a girl is 200, and that's a hot white 19 yr old spinner.[/QUOTE]Are you tying to keep allowances in check so that follow mongers do not go overboard and spoil it for everyone? Share the link for this spinner.

[QUOTE=Chudakkad;3620654]Are you tying to keep allowances in check so that follow mongers do not go overboard and spoil it for everyone? Share the link for this spinner.[/QUOTE]No, any monger is free to offer whatever he wants to a girl.

I have my rules, and keep my allowances in check. If a girl is asking for 200 or more, she's either an experienced baby, a UTR, or escort pretending.

Most girls that truly are civi and new to this scene have no idea how much their pussies are worth. And as long as you're respectful, treat them well, looks and dressed educated and well of, you can easily get away with offering a 100 to them. I've done this for so long.

The 19 yr spinner is now 21, I hit her up when she's new to this and been banging her for about 2 years now. She's off the grid.

Hi,

Anyone has any info on this. Planning to meet soon.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/233cce49-fdfc-4936-b245-06a8deac19c3[/URL]

Leaababyy.

[QUOTE=RobHere;3623922]Hi,

Anyone has any info on this. Planning to meet soon.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/233cce49-fdfc-4936-b245-06a8deac19c3[/URL]

Leaababyy.[/QUOTE]I am always wary of the SA ladies who don't list town they are from. Seems my history has shown them.

To be golddiggers. Note she wants dollars immediatly.

[QUOTE=RonOne;3624148]I am always wary of the SA ladies who don't list town they are from. Seems my history has shown them.

To be golddiggers. Note she wants dollars immediatly.[/QUOTE]I've seen that plenty of times, and it's usually girls that are from the smaller CT towns or whom are doing this discreetly.

No, the biggest red flags here are the fin dom and money for 1st meet. Unless intimacy is happening, for sugar purposes, money should never be given.

You don't get paid to go on a job interview, same principal applies.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;3624218]I've seen that plenty of times, and it's usually girls that are from the smaller CT towns or whom are doing this discreetly.

No, the biggest red flags here are the fin dom and money for 1st meet. Unless intimacy is happening, for sugar purposes, money should never be given.

You don't get paid to go on a job interview, same principal applies.[/QUOTE]Still trying for figure out what financial domination means. As well as how wide a definition some girls give to curvy. Getting tired of girls who are no shows even to dinner or coffee. Hopefully just in a slump. Wonder what kind of instrux they give the girls joining the site.

I met with her and a friend that was a nice lunch nothing more. She sent me a text a couple days later and I pointed out that I felt, at least her friend, wasn't serious about it.

She replied that was her friend, not her, and she was ready to fuck.

Haven't had the chance to take her up on it.

[QUOTE=RobHere;3623922]Hi,

Anyone has any info on this. Planning to meet soon.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/233cce49-fdfc-4936-b245-06a8deac19c3[/URL]

Leaababyy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;3624218]I've seen that plenty of times, and it's usually girls that are from the smaller CT towns or whom are doing this discreetly.

No, the biggest red flags here are the fin dom and money for 1st meet. Unless intimacy is happening, for sugar purposes, money should never be given.

You don't get paid to go on a job interview, same principal applies.[/QUOTE]Point well taken on the small towns.

[QUOTE=RonOne;3624353]Point well taken on the small towns.[/QUOTE]Thanks for the info. We have decided without M&G allowance. Let's see what happens!

[QUOTE=RobHere;3623922]Hi,

Anyone has any info on this. Planning to meet soon.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/233cce49-fdfc-4936-b245-06a8deac19c3[/URL]

Leaababyy.[/QUOTE]I've been texting with her. She wants me to paypal her money. Said she quit her job and needs the help. I asked to meet up this weekend, claims she can't till Monday but keeps asking me to send money. Sounds like a scammer.

[QUOTE=SamSonOV;3624696]I've been texting with her. She wants me to paypal her money. Said she quit her job and needs the help. I asked to meet up this weekend, claims she can't till Monday but keeps asking me to send money. Sounds like a scammer.[/QUOTE]Definitely a scammer. Especially when they start the PayPal stuff.

[QUOTE=SamSonOV;3624696]I've been texting with her. She wants me to paypal her money. Said she quit her job and needs the help. I asked to meet up this weekend, claims she can't till Monday but keeps asking me to send money. Sounds like a scammer.[/QUOTE]If you PayPal me $100, I'll make sure she shows up at your place.

Of course, it's a scam. Certainly, she's not 19, and that's not her in the pic. "She" will not ever meet anyone and it's probably a "he. ".

As long as someone in the past has sent money, this sleaze will keep trying. It's what scammers and spammers do.

If you want, scam her right back. Offer "her" double or quadruple her asking price. She'll still be a "no show."

[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;3624886]If you PayPal me $100, I'll make sure she shows up at your place.

Of course, it's a scam. Certainly, she's not 19, and that's not her in the pic. "She" will not ever meet anyone and it's probably a "he. ".

As long as someone in the past has sent money, this sleaze will keep trying. It's what scammers and spammers do.

If you want, scam her right back. Offer "her" double or quadruple her asking price. She'll still be a "no show."[/QUOTE]LOL, yep! Just like you said if someone has sent money they'll keep asking people. They probably get 2% of guys that actually do send money.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;3624218]I've seen that plenty of times, and it's usually girls that are from the smaller CT towns or whom are doing this discreetly.

No, the biggest red flags here are the fin dom and money for 1st meet. Unless intimacy is happening, for sugar purposes, money should never be given.

You don't get paid to go on a job interview, same principal applies.[/QUOTE]Yes got a no show for coffee yesterday with a b's excuse and after she texts me she wants to get paid for her time at initial meet. Was going to use line about job interview but instead referred her to a yo and told her she can just do initial dates there and make her money that way like a lot of the others do.

[QUOTE=Tomb8871;3625071] Was going to use line about job interview but instead referred her to a yo and told her she can just do initial dates there and make her money that way like a lot of the others do.[/QUOTE]Yo? What's that.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;3625320]Yo? What's that.[/QUOTE][URL]Whatsyourprice.com[/URL] Typed wyp but didn't notice autocorrect changed it.

[QUOTE=Tomb8871;3625071]Yes got a no show for coffee yesterday with a b's excuse and after she texts me she wants to get paid for her time at initial meet. Was going to use line about job interview but instead referred her to a yo and told her she can just do initial dates there and make her money that way like a lot of the others do.[/QUOTE]Why would you bother helping her?

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/07bf4e04-4f57-4fa5-9705-77bd4cbdbef9[/URL]

Met this one for a bit last night but ended up declining. Before I decided not to go through with is had an agreement for a BJ for the $60 in my pocket.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;3626281][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/07bf4e04-4f57-4fa5-9705-77bd4cbdbef9[/URL]

Met this one for a bit last night but ended up declining. Before I decided not to go through with is had an agreement for a BJ for the $60 in my pocket.[/QUOTE]Care to elaborate why you declined? Seems rather cute based on the pic. PM if prefer.

[QUOTE=LapDanceGuy;3626288]Care to elaborate why you declined? Seems rather cute based on the pic. PM if prefer.[/QUOTE]I got sketched out, suspected someone as in the room with her.

Getting rather board with surfing BP so I joined SA about a month ago. I don't have public pics, but private ones, because I need to be discreet for reasons I'm sure you can imagine. My profile is straight forward about what I am and am not looking for and willing to do. I've had readable success.

This one was nice, fun, solid service. Very flexible both in the act and for scheduling and communication. If not for my strong distaste for smoking aromas, I'd repeat. Same was $300.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/95f0b823-2704-db4d-7edd-2218d3cc3c7f[/URL]

[QUOTE=LapDanceGuy;3626291]Getting rather board with surfing BP so I joined SA about a month ago. I don't have public pics, but private ones, because I need to be discreet for reasons I'm sure you can imagine. My profile is straight forward about what I am and am not looking for and willing to do. I've had readable success.

This one was nice, fun, solid service. Very flexible both in the act and for scheduling and communication. If not for my strong distaste for smoking aromas, I'd repeat. Same was $300.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/95f0b823-2704-db4d-7edd-2218d3cc3c7f[/URL][/QUOTE]This one is DTF like you wouldn't believe. Really sweet girl, amazing body, $350. Haven't taken the plunge because our schedules don't align but DAMN.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/88a05ab5-0825-4e6f-9ec2-96cd444ee92a[/URL]

[QUOTE=LapDanceGuy;3626294]This one is DTF like you wouldn't believe. Really sweet girl, amazing body, $350. Haven't taken the plunge because our schedules don't align but DAMN.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/88a05ab5-0825-4e6f-9ec2-96cd444ee92a[/URL][/QUOTE]Little outside your area I'd guess but this one is highly negotiable, gives a great massage and let's you go BBFS (and almost assumes and expects it). I did not, and she was surprised which was weird. Nice girl too, great time, very engaged and enthusiastic. Also a tongue ring.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f17e8d7a-3fce-429e-9a20-c86f856e2e38[/URL]

OK sorry for all the individual replies. Was in private browsing mode and it tends to time me out. Would love to hear of other gems. Time wasters seem to be the norm these days.

[QUOTE=LapDanceGuy;3626294]This one is DTF like you wouldn't believe. Really sweet girl, amazing body, $350. Haven't taken the plunge because our schedules don't align but DAMN.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/88a05ab5-0825-4e6f-9ec2-96cd444ee92a[/URL][/QUOTE]She's gotten pricier since I've seen her.

Beware, the reason why she's soooo DTF, she's a former escort. Her bf is the one who answers texts And sends her pics out. Idk why she considers him her bf, when he's basically her pimp.

Caution, he really dislikes when you cum inside her.

She's on my block list for a reason. I would advise mongers to use caution in every since with this one.

Really tight pussy and amazing body. Like 9/10. But idk if it's worth all the hassle.

[QUOTE=MyHobby;3626281][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/07bf4e04-4f57-4fa5-9705-77bd4cbdbef9[/URL]

Met this one for a bit last night but ended up declining. Before I decided not to go through with is had an agreement for a BJ for the $60 in my pocket.[/QUOTE]She asked me for way more for ongoing arrangement and also wanted to be paid for platonic first couple of dates. No thanks.

[QUOTE=JustLooking30;3626331]She's gotten pricier since I've seen her.

Beware, the reason why she's soooo DTF, she's a former escort. Her bf is the one who answers texts And sends her pics out. Idk why she considers him her bf, when he's basically her pimp.

Caution, he really dislikes when you cum inside her.

She's on my block list for a reason. I would advise mongers to use caution in every since with this one.

Really tight pussy and amazing body. Like 9/10. But idk if it's worth all the hassle.[/QUOTE]It a free country so if you want to pay 300 or 400 or 500 that your business. Some girls ask for ridiculous amounts and maybe luck out and get them. Just seems a lot easier to get a truly hot pro visiting area from eros or somewhere for same or less money and get hotter and better. Also, just cause sweet young thing says "never done anything like this before" means they being truthful. Guy who refused BBFS good for you use your brain, no different than doing same thing with cv girl or SW, just a question of odds of Sti or death.

[QUOTE=LapDanceGuy;3626298] let's you go BBFS (and almost assumes and expects it). I did not, and she was surprised which was weird. [/QUOTE]No, it means she does it with everybody. Good on you for wrapping up your dingle dangle.

Just got a text from another monger. He got the herp derp from the infamous Eliza / Elijah / Ellie. Turns out those reports of genital warts are legit.

[QUOTE=LapDanceGuy;3626294]This one is DTF like you wouldn't believe. Really sweet girl, amazing body, $350. Haven't taken the plunge because our schedules don't align but DAMN.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/88a05ab5-0825-4e6f-9ec2-96cd444ee92a[/URL][/QUOTE]Not on abbrev list-what is dtf.