[QUOTE=StonesRoller69;3418581]Well then give her 7 - inches.[/QUOTE]Great minds think alike, she needs something to get her thinking straight.
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[QUOTE=StonesRoller69;3418581]Well then give her 7 - inches.[/QUOTE]Great minds think alike, she needs something to get her thinking straight.
I joined SA to see what might be available. I really hadn't had too much luck. I changed my profile a little to reflect that I do photography. I have had contact with a few young ladies about doing some photos. I left it up to them whether we have any other relations and I have stressed that I'm a pretty nice guy and wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with. I think now I have managed to collect digits on about four young ladies and I am in contact with a couple more. I haven't actually met any yet but strong possibilities for a little modeling if nothing else. I do have a couple that might extend into other things but I'm taking it pretty slow and building some trust. I am connected with four or five thru instagram and Facebook so I believe I'm getting a little trust and a few friends if nothing else.
[QUOTE=JS0157;3452917]I joined SA to see what might be available. I really hadn't had too much luck. I changed my profile a little to reflect that I do photography. I have had contact with a few young ladies about doing some photos. I left it up to them whether we have any other relations and I have stressed that I'm a pretty nice guy and wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with. I think now I have managed to collect digits on about four young ladies and I am in contact with a couple more. I haven't actually met any yet but strong possibilities for a little modeling if nothing else. I do have a couple that might extend into other things but I'm taking it pretty slow and building some trust. I am connected with four or five thru instagram and Facebook so I believe I'm getting a little trust and a few friends if nothing else.[/QUOTE]Are you trying to build their trust or yours?
SA isn't really a dating site like EHarmony, so don't treat it like one. If you want to make friends with girls, there are cheaper and better ways to do it. If you want to date and develop an emotional connection with relationship potential, use those routes. Even if you think you're friends, you'll always be "that SA guy" to her.
Women get on SA to use men and be direct about what they want and need, which does include NSA sex--a lot of the women are on there because they find it as a more "empowering" way to indulge their sex fantasies and sex addictions discreetly. Don't screw that up by conflating it with romance. Don't offer to give them stuff, like photo shoots, for free, or take them out to eat and drink on your dime with no expectation in return. Also, don't say what a nice guy you are and how you wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with or they'll be uncomfortable with giving you anything. This is a recipe to just be taken advantage of and used without getting anything in return. Believe me, most girls on SA have perfected that technique or want someone they can perfect them on.
On SA, you, as the one with the money (and in this case, valuable services) to offer are the one in demand and the one in control, not them. They should be trying to win you over and not the other way around. Your money and status as a SD on there empower you to be straightforward with your desires to women who should know why the hell you're on there. Don't be ashamed of them or try to hide them. The worst that can happen is this SB says "no." If she does, she's dong you a favor by not wasting your time.
Be straightforward, but respectful and tactful, with your desires. It will turn off some of the time wasters, the GPS girls, the fakes, and the ones who want men to pay them just to talk to them, but that's ok. Again, it'll save you time and just eliminate the ones who weren't for real.
Remember that SA exists to allow relationships that are free of deep emotional entanglement and allow both SDs and SBs to express and indulge their desires directly. Hopefully you will both enjoy your time together, but if she really wanted you, you wouldn't be paying and if you have to pay her to be with you, then she's not worth getting emotionally involved with, even as a friend. Expecting more of it than that is just going to get you hurt and leave you disappointed.
[QUOTE=Tncocksman;3455364]Remember that SA exists to allow relationships that are free of deep emotional entanglement and allow both SDs and SBs to express and indulge their desires directly. Hopefully you will both enjoy your time together, but if she really wanted you, you wouldn't be paying and if you have to pay her to be with you, then she's not worth getting emotionally involved with, even as a friend. Expecting more of it than that is just going to get you hurt and leave you disappointed.[/QUOTE]Excellent post, Tncocksman. SA is what it is and nothing more. I'll admit, I've met a woman from SA numerous times (sometimes with no term $) and I wish I had met her somewhere else because I really like her. However, the fact is I met her on SA and all the wishing in the world is NEVER going to change that. Always remember what SA is. If anyone wants something beyond that, check eHarmony, Match, POF, or that farmer website. LOL.
[QUOTE=Tncocksman;3455364]Are you trying to build their trust or yours?
SA isn't really a dating site like EHarmony, so don't treat it like one. If you want to make friends with girls, there are cheaper and better ways to do it. If you want to date and develop an emotional connection with relationship potential, use those routes. Even if you think you're friends, you'll always be "that SA guy" to her.
Women get on SA to use men and be direct about what they want and need, which does include NSA sex--a lot of the women are on there because they find it as a more "empowering" way to indulge their sex fantasies and sex addictions discreetly. Don't screw that up by conflating it with romance. Don't offer to give them stuff, like photo shoots, for free, or take them out to eat and drink on your dime with no expectation in return. Also, don't say what a nice guy you are and how you wouldn't ask for anything more than they are comfortable with or they'll be uncomfortable with giving you anything. This is a recipe to just be taken advantage of and used without getting anything in return. Believe me, most girls on SA have perfected that technique or want someone they can perfect them on.
On SA, you, as the one with the money (and in this case, valuable services) to offer are the one in demand and the one in control, not them. They should be trying to win you over and not the other way around. Your money and status as a SD on there empower you to be straightforward with your desires to women who should know why the hell you're on there. Don't be ashamed of them or try to hide them. The worst that can happen is this SB says "no." If she does, she's dong you a favor by not wasting your time.
Be straightforward, but respectful and tactful, with your desires. It will turn off some of the time wasters, the GPS girls, the fakes, and the ones who want men to pay them just to talk to them, but that's ok. Again, it'll save you time and just eliminate the ones who weren't for real.
Remember that SA exists to allow relationships that are free of deep emotional entanglement and allow both SDs and SBs to express and indulge their desires directly. Hopefully you will both enjoy your time together, but if she really wanted you, you wouldn't be paying and if you have to pay her to be with you, then she's not worth getting emotionally involved with, even as a friend. Expecting more of it than that is just going to get you hurt and leave you disappointed.[/QUOTE]Well considering not all of the girls on SA are looking for sexual relations and I'm open to doing photos I would say the trust I'm building is with the girl knowing I'm not shooting porn and trying to actually do some fairly classy photos. I also want them to trust that I'm not distributing the photos in anyway they are not comfortable with. I also hate to tell you but some are not even worried about cash. My work is pretty good with a camera and sometimes that's all they want. I've talked with a few and no money has even been mentioned. Sometimes they just want someone to make them look good. I'm not against other relations and understand their probably will be cash involved with most of that. But with some girls they are not looking for sex and some are happy to work with me with no strings attached. I would say if it's not costing me anything and I can get a girl to pose a little sexy at no cost it's a win-win for me.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a9abb4aa-f7ce-4785-a33e-b8254015b1ff[/URL]
I know for a fact that this one will be a junior in high school this coming school year. I didn't contact but thought I knew who it was. Don't want to see anyone get in trouble.
[QUOTE=MetalMan12;3465318][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/a9abb4aa-f7ce-4785-a33e-b8254015b1ff[/URL]
I know for a fact that this one will be a junior in high school this coming school year. I didn't contact but thought I knew who it was. Don't want to see anyone get in trouble.[/QUOTE]I am sort of new to SA and have chatted up a lot this last month. I get a lot of interest but nothing just yet that makes me want to pull the trigger. I did see this girl on there. I wasn't feeling her looks but thanks for the lookout. I have been dreaming of meeting one here in the Tri. That I hope is a winner. I have to be very low key and discrete so it's tough to tell who can maintain that on any website.
Here is one you might want to check out. Profile says Clintwood but she contacted me and said she was actually in Kingsport and invited me down. I can provide a little more info to Senior members.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/0dce05d7-3577-41dc-95ea-2ce0e920c216[/URL]
[QUOTE=JS0157;3460726]Well considering not all of the girls on SA are looking for sexual relations and I'm open to doing photos I would say the trust I'm building is with the girl knowing I'm not shooting porn and trying to actually do some fairly classy photos. I also want them to trust that I'm not distributing the photos in anyway they are not comfortable with. I also hate to tell you but some are not even worried about cash. My work is pretty good with a camera and sometimes that's all they want. I've talked with a few and no money has even been mentioned. Sometimes they just want someone to make them look good. I'm not against other relations and understand their probably will be cash involved with most of that. But with some girls they are not looking for sex and some are happy to work with me with no strings attached. I would say if it's not costing me anything and I can get a girl to pose a little sexy at no cost it's a win-win for me.[/QUOTE]Like you said its a win win for you. As long as you don't care to foot the bills for a shoot which probably not much go for it. Eventually its going to pay bigger dividends than just sexy pics. I'm in the minority here in that the women have the control. If guys were happy at home, didn't need the variety, looking for GFE, actually had game to pick up chicks, or the ever popular I pay them to leave quote then pussy wouldn't be for sale. The girls can set the price and can drop it if they want to. The girls that won't negotiate are considered GPS LOL. Guys like to think they get it for their price when haggling over whatever the amount is but its just old fashioned horse trading. Price high then when the guy offers what you want sell it.
1 BabyStorm: 1/2 way through the conversation, she disappeared.
Gail29: give you a VA number and asks you to text, when you do she freaked asking that I only wait until she contacts me for a visit. LOL, not how this works.
Naturalblonde276: will chat and text. Asks questions like she is affiliated and doing research to trap you. Will not answer a question, if you call her out on it she gets pissed and then tries to play stupid. So either she is 5-0 or she is stupid and crazy which can be worse. My advice would be to Stay Far Away from that nutbag.
As always. Stay safe out there.
Was wondering if anyone knew anything on this one. I've made contact with her on Meetme and realized she's on SA. Thanks!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/762a82d5-0343-4701-818f-4a42bd94c992[/URL]
Anyone else get a message from Sabrina_Babe offering fun? Link: [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/87e5fa21-9d2c-4789-86d3-bdbb15fa8c79[/URL].
She quoted me $$. 5. Which is high to me, especially if she is having to make contact with guys herself. And I'm not 100% convinced she is 19 as her profile states. She looks older (and less attractive) in her first photo, but looks very young in the collage photos. My big brain says delete the messages and go on, but I'm a sucker for black hair and glasses.
[QUOTE=MetalMan12;3502956]Was wondering if anyone knew anything on this one. I've made contact with her on Meetme and realized she's on SA. Thanks!
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/762a82d5-0343-4701-818f-4a42bd94c992[/URL][/QUOTE]I have chatted a little with her but I have not met her. I am now connected with her on Instagram. After a little chat and she came out with cost of 3 I decided to pass. I'm still connected with her on Instagram but I'm not ready to go her price without more in return for sure.
Guys: a word of advise. I you are paying over 2. You are paying Way to much even for the best of them. 2 for an entire day is the top end. Trust me! I have no problem saying no or telling them they are way over market. Usually I get all I want for 1. 2 to 1. 5. Some may be worth more, but not many. The market is flooded and WE should hold the prices to reflect that.
Be safe out there.
Sharky.
Since I liked the quality of the women on SA I broke down and got another month membership after a several month break. Been talking to a few but haven't got to meet any yet. I'll list a few and what I know. If anyone can add anything it would be greatly appreciated.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/b2b2d14b-bf9c-4e6d-af4c-2b2796eca9db[/URL]
This one is really hot and seems eager to meet. No figures have been thrown out yet but she did say that at least initially a per visit arrangement would be ok.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/c25bddaa-47fb-4234-929b-b25bc7885822[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/1de95054-b289-4a4b-aeca-b73ac57f0806[/URL]
These 2 know each other. I had briefly chatted with one of them and the next day out the blue they both text me wanting me to get them a room and they would send pics. Wanted western union. Uhh no.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/caddc900-5760-4ba9-9fd1-3cc316b42b94[/URL]
Wanted 300. I politely declined. Didn't ask for or receive a lower offer.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/728b1bde-4f90-43b9-91a2-95c63d389bf6[/URL]
On pills bad I suspect. Thinking of trying because my sweet talking got me a really good offer. LOL. I would like to know first if anyone else knew anything.
Thanks in advance if anyone has anything.
The last one you mentioned is for real, but you better not have a problem with other people being around. Not tried her, but I do know her. On the larger side if you like them that way or don't care. A house in Greeneville.
[QUOTE=SharkyFuns99;3546952]The last one you mentioned is for real, but you better not have a problem with other people being around. Not tried her, but I do know her. On the larger side if you like them that way or don't care. A house in Greeneville.[/QUOTE]I kind of suspected that. She's pretty and I kind of like chubby as long as not too chubby. Her best friend has a profile on there also. The friend looks really good in pics but I'm pretty sure there's a scumbag bf involved there. Probably not worththe trouble.
She is fun very good. $$.
I'm second guessing getting back on SA. I had very good success when I was in there this spring. Totally different now. Girl in Bristol wanted 500 upfront and "might" send videos. Another said 300-700 Per visit. Another ask for 1000. I don't know what they're getting but for me at 200 they better be very hot and mostly unrestricted. Maybe I'm approaching it wrong.
Chayybby: Greeneville, she is real, I have not tried but do know her, she should be ok if you like them a little bigger.
Brandi1974: she is either on the stupid side of naive or affiliated. Warning.
Lonely_Esty: while looks hot, last year she was reasonable in price but dropped off, now she's back with a serious case of GPS that's so bad it's made her delusional and she's a ***** about it, I wouldn't waste my time.
Maiden_lotus23: FLAKE, you will spend loads of time talking to her then she will flake on the she starts asking questions that only blue ask. AVOID.
Missamber423: so stoned she can't hold a conversation, didn't try because she can't form a sentence or figure out where she is.
Gail29: holy hell is she great, nice, freaky, Really tight, and very reasonable! Keep her busy, treat her right, and tell her Sharky gave her rave reviews!!
One of your 1st questions should be if they are affiliated!! I contacted Malaysia_luxx: I said hello, her 1st question was about money (red flag for many reasons), so my 1st question was just that and less than a day later her profile is unavailable. Go figure.
Stay safe.
[QUOTE=SharkyFuns99;3553721]One of your 1st questions should be if they are affiliated!! I contacted Malaysia_luxx: I said hello, her 1st question was about money (red flag for many reasons), so my 1st question was just that and less than a day later her profile is unavailable. Go figure.
Stay safe.[/QUOTE]Well my thought on that is your pros, sex workers are going to ask those questions. Occasionally a civy girl will ask that if this is her first rodeo. Because a girl ask that isn't a red flag for me because I can tell the difference between the BP girls and civys. It all depends on your definition of sb. Its just a matter of time before someone gets busted with the influx of of swers / CL, escorts finding gold mines on sa from guys who don't know the difference.
[QUOTE=SharkyFuns99;3553721]One of your 1st questions should be if they are affiliated!! I contacted Malaysia_luxx: I said hello, her 1st question was about money (red flag for many reasons), so my 1st question was just that and less than a day later her profile is unavailable. Go figure.
Stay safe.[/QUOTE]I know Malaysia_luxx personally. I was sort of surprised when I saw her listed. Hopefully she didn't get scared off but don't know what she might be looking for or willing to do. Next time I see her I might carefully bring up the subject.
Another new girl I'm also familiar with and actually told her about the site is Leighgirl93. Can make fairly decent arrangements but she will probably try for more. Good skill but just don't let her take advantage.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/6aa96bf9-67f6-403d-ae79-d4d0e22049ac[/URL]
I normally don't come that way but she is cute!
Anyone hav any intel?
PM thanks.
I haven't really played in the area for awhile due to a so watching me. Decided to try again. Boy there must have been a union meeting or something. Everyone wants $500+ a meet without the bedroom. For that I'll fly in a playboy playmate from vegas LOL. I am out locally. Rather hit up utrs in the area than feed crazy women haha. Whoever you are paying this much good luck. Your dumb as rocks though LOL.
I live in Knoxville, but am discussing a meet and greet with this JC gal. Can anyone provide ANY intel on her? I will gladly exchange for some Knoxville knockouts.
Thanks.
[QUOTE=GaltGuy;3592093]I live in Knoxville, but am discussing a meet and greet with this JC gal. Can anyone provide ANY intel on her? I will gladly exchange for some Knoxville knockouts.
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Nut Case stay away.
Was wondering if anyone had any info on this one. [URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/9a354e86-dc13-40c4-a3d9-ed7b6aca43b3[/URL].
[QUOTE=SharkyFuns99;3553623]Maiden_lotus23: FLAKE, you will spend loads of time talking to her then she will flake on the she starts asking questions that only blue ask. AVOID.[/QUOTE]My experience has been that they all have some degree of flake to them. I have seen her a number of times and she's always been great. She has flaked out on me twice though and she is perpetually running late.
This is a long overdue report, but better late than never I guess.
Pros:
- She's real, sweet, available & willing to meet, willing to travel if necessary, punctual, enthusiastic, responsive, appreciative.
Cons:
- Her profile uses very good photos. Not quite as pretty in person as in photos. She is also bigger than photos & profile indicate, in height and weight. Her profile says 5'9". I'm 5'10" and she is just as tall as me, maybe a hair taller.
Would I repeat? Yes, but only if usual friends don't work out. Although, I will say that I enjoyed time with her more than I have enjoyed time with much better looking girls in Knoxville. After being disappointed and/or suckered (and not the good way), great attitude goes a long way.
[QUOTE=Fornicator81;3606949]My experience has been that they all have some degree of flake to them. I have seen her a number of times and she's always been great. She has flaked out on me twice though and she is perpetually running late.[/QUOTE]No she is real and fun. Loves to give BJ and vey good. Not in any hurry I have seen her few times.
[QUOTE=Jd195;3607996]No she is real and fun. Loves to give BJ and vey good. Not in any hurry I have seen her few times.[/QUOTE]I've seen her too, she is VERY flaky, a little heavy in the stomach area and not that great of a kisser and kind of a bore in bed to be honest.
I know this isn't Tricities but wondered if anyone had any experience with this one. I've beeb communicating and just seems TGTBT:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/caddc900-5760-4ba9-9fd1-3cc316b42b94[/URL]
I talked with her. She quoted 5. For that just find a pornstar! Looks like a serious case of GPS with that one!
[QUOTE=FiveOfSix;3619616]I know this isn't Tricities but wondered if anyone had any experience with this one. I've beeb communicating and just seems TGTBT:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/caddc900-5760-4ba9-9fd1-3cc316b42b94[/URL][/QUOTE]
Recently dreamed of shortandsassy. She is real and matches her photos. My impression is she is up for almost anything. Loves greek. Her time may be limited due to her family situation (nothing bad, she just has a lot of things that demand her time). During our time, she took at least 2, maybe 3, phonecalls. She didn't seem like a clock watcher, but we had to watch clock due to check out time approaching.
[QUOTE=SharkyFuns99;3623136]I talked with her. She quoted 5. For that just find a pornstar! Looks like a serious case of GPS with that one![/QUOTE]I spoke with her as well, wants a lot just to meet.
Wondering if anyone knows anything about this one.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/948119a9-98db-4684-8408-59d1aa0e606e[/URL]
I have talked to several more and met with a couple. If anyone has any questions about anything I can answer in PM.
Trying SA for the first time because everything else is mostly dead. Anyone have info on Summer or Sassymommy, both in Kingsport?
It's easier to find who you are asking about if you link their profile. Searching a name isn't always easy in SA.
[QUOTE=Leeeroy;3688285]Trying SA for the first time because everything else is mostly dead. Anyone have info on Summer or Sassymommy, both in Kingsport?[/QUOTE]
Wondering about these two:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/44db8d57-346b-4b4e-9a87-64230d3b95ee[/URL]
Seems GPS- haven't met yet. Wierd vibe from her- thinking catfish.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/de2d40e8-6b27-4e0e-a511-c94f56fa44ce[/URL]
Very sweet and accommodating via text. Has anyone actually met her? Wondering how recent the pics are?