Just a pain in the ass really
Tried the SD sites and even though you might can find something good here and there, it's still a pain in the ass. The entitlement mentality is grotesque. It's common with these millenials. I went on a few dates and the SB's wanted their money right away and then they would contact me when they wanted more money. To be honest, F* that sh* I went back to my low key, UTR providers and it's not BS about it. I get to spend good quality time with them and there's no question of what the basis is. I Even get lots of OTC time, especially during the summer when I have the pool open at the house. If you have good luck with SA or similar sites, then hats off to you, I simply don't have the time to be screwing around and waiting on responses from girls who are trying to say they aren't hookers by being on SD sites, when in fact, they are hookers. Let's get real. No money, no date, No money, no sex. Just call the kettle black already.
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;2926724]I've avoided most of the ones on the OP's list for various reasons (majority I haven't even bothered to contact), but can add to the conversation on the following:
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/f64e736a-f7ba-721d-6335-1255e783910b[/URL]
This one sounds like a scam based on my emails with her. Hasn't gone further.
I met with her when she was starting out last year. Wanted $$ at that time and wouldn't take my offer for $$. 5 weekly for long term arrangement. She is nice, real, and cute, but does not do PDA if you go out in public. I dropped it so idk whether reality has set in for her. Just a young girl / student that heard about the lifestyle and wanted to get the most out of it.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/311e6ab8-19b8-7f7a-11a8-6292c3811fa6[/URL]
This one has no car (aka red flag), wants you to go to her place off New Bern (another red flag). The pics are her, she has a nice body, but I suspect she is a pro.
Concur she may be a pro, however she is actually smart (can talk about programming) and pleasant (but a smoker) so it may be the case she is a student starting on a bad path. She texted me one morning and had to meet RIGHT NOW (Chapel Hill) as her rent was due. Meeting at a coffee place I noted she had a nice body but she kept scratching her arms and legs. It may have been allergies or something else but it bothered me. She asked for a donation to meet (of course no) asked for me to get a hotel (no) then accepted going to her place. Asked for $$$ but accepted $$ Asked to see the money (weird, but she may have gotten burned in the past). I thought about it on the way and declined when we arrived and I just dropped her off. Did not want to follow up as she seemed off and I suspect may be into drug use.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/534630f0-5138-611c-06a0-38002e0558f3[/URL]
Legit, real pretty, big HUGE breasts. Just wants like 1800 a month, all upfront. Not sure if she is the runner type, but I don't care for that mentality.
Concur she is real. She is a student trying out the lifestyle. Contacted and met with her when she opened the account. She is nice and smart, a bit thick but if you like curvy girls she is perfect for you. She did not ask for that amount from me or having it upfront (she may have since been burnt). I decided against her as my long term SB as I didn't feel the right connection. She would make any serious SD very happy as she is relaxed and pleasant to be around, and very sexual in private when she is into the moment.
This is a fantastic area for the SBSD lifestyle with a lot of real (non-pro) girls trying it out. If you approach them as if they are pros you likely will go nowhere with most of them. I hope others will post their own experiences so we can all learn who is worth pursuing and who is not.[/QUOTE]
SA is worth the month membership.
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;2947943]Sorry it didn't work out for you. I enjoy the chase aspect of it and the prospect of f*cking young, hot girls with goals in life for less $ than pros. However, I never pay for platonic meets and do make it clear that there's no pay without play in case one ever tries the 'I need to get comfortable with you first' routine. Good luck![/QUOTE]Every time I have re-upped for a month, it is a gold mine! Definitely a bit more expensive but the quality is 10 fold. And eventually, with time, you can turn one into a $0 cost friend!
Phone888, Thresh, Donatello, YaYaGo et al
[QUOTE=Pbone888;2951713]That's basically the secret for the hot more normal girls. Act like a gentlemen. Be friendly and honest, and nice. Don't be a creeper.
...[/QUOTE]So you guys are having a ball in the bowl! Are you guys single / unattached? To be able to take SBs out to dinner and other places. Hard to believe that being single and having the wisdom that comes with age makes it so easy to score with the babes!
Keep your stories coming we can at least live the good life vicariously!
Please elaborate on how the bowl improved your game!
[QUOTE=Thresh;2949427]...One thing about the "Sugar Bowl," it really hones one's game and takes it to an entirely different level. I find myself getting interest from hotter chicks just about anywhere...[/QUOTE]Inquiring minds want to know what new techniques you learned that helped you score with women in the civilian world. Could you walk us through an actual conquest? Living vicariously through you Thresh!
What if they ask for yours?
[QUOTE=DirtyDeeds38;2967217]...
The second piece of advise, is ALWAYS make them show you government issued I'd..[/QUOTE]I will have no problem walking away from younger SBs if they refuse or ask for mine but with the older ones who at least with me have behaved properly like adults I may be uncomfortable giving the impression that I'm invading their privacy. BTW what is the point of this exercise? Simply to ascertain that the SB is of legal age?
I take it you're in the Raleigh area
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;2967308]...Because of my job I am able to meet daytimes for coffee, lunch, or private fun. Regardless of whether the meet is at a FC or platonic lunch date (no sugar), just the fact of spending time with these hot young girls keeps me happy, energized, and loving life. No lie: As I type this I've had one 21 year old girl I met at the FC yesterday text me saying what a great time she had, and another 18 year old hardbodied student athlete text me asking why we didn't meet this week and if I'm losing interest LOL. I just don't have the time!
Thank God I've never come across an obvious mental case, but NONE of my SB's have ever known my real name (nor to be honest do I think they care). Each one has been disappointed when the relationship ended, but it never got past expressing disappointment via text to my Google Voice number. Always be careful, because you never know!
Meeting in public for the first time is mandatory, not only for safety but to really get to know the other person in a non-stressful environment. Any girls that suggest a first meet at a FC are immediately disqualified. Not judging others that go forward with that, it's just a preference. I do like to know someone a bit before moving forward.[/QUOTE]I have the constraint of being able to play only during the day as I am alone only when at work! And I state the requirement of day time availability only up front. Do you indicate your availability in the first message to POTs? I have gotten very few responses from SBs of any age / race and the ones who responded each one suggested the first meeting in FC and along with their expectation $ and the ones who do not give their expectation $ in their response readily do once I ask them. So it is basically mongering except off a different site!
Your experience is very different from mine may be the reason is once I indicate day time meeting only all SBs assume that I am interested only in FC as a result only the escorts respond!
Think I'm done with BP and moving to SD.
[QUOTE=MbncMar;2967897]Seeking fun in Dunn and Tristan will do a 3 some. It was great. Seeking fun has a tight body and not tits but has oral skills. Trisatan is nerdy with an amazing body and not orally inclined. I stacked them up and banged both. It was awesome.[/QUOTE]This is a long time coming, and probably should have looked into this at least a year ago. Is the Dunn girl 20? If so, I've talked to her and she is next on my list. What I've learned about SD sites from these posts makes me think CL ca 2007, back when you could find normal college girls for $100 all day long. If that's the case, they can go ahead and shut BP down tomorrow for all I care.
I think I should modify my initial message
[QUOTE=YayaGogo;2972556] I find out their availability when proposing an initial daytime meet for lunch or coffee, and discuss my time limitations during that meet. Because of this I can only imagine whatever problem you are having is due to some other factor, and not your daytime availability. Keep at it![/QUOTE]It appears you do not mention your availability in the first message unlike me who asks about their availability during the day in the first message! Alright hence forth there will be no mention of my availability until the M&G. BTW I am not in one of the major racial groups and if most SBs do not date outside their race then I have a very small bowl to play in!