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[QUOTE=Whoaboy]Hello Kit Kat,

I would be uncomfortable giving any provider my name or address as we are always concerned about a return phone call that we are not expecting. And, we are opening up ourselves to a whole host of problems which is why we are willing to hire your time in the first place. I have never been checked out and realize that I am missing out on doing business with some of the agencies, however, I prefer to remain anonymous. I understand your view point and will watch for a solution.

Good Luck,

Wb[/QUOTE]I understand your point completely. Like I said to Joe Fish, I won't return calls if it's been more than an hour since I missed the call. I understand my clients' needs for discretion.

Unfortunately, some people can't understand that I'm not available at their beck and call. As I've said, my hours of availability are rather limited and I see very few clients per week. So there are many times when I simply will not answer my phone and turn the ringer off, because I am just not working that day or have already seen a client that day. But I've had issues with some rather persistent people who decide to just show up at my house knocking on my door when I'm not home, or even worse when I'm with family or friends. This was why I stopped doing incalls. I'm sure none of you would appreciate a provider showing up at your front door uninvited, so why would anyone do it to someone else. Some of us do have normal lives and aren't willing to work 24/7, or just don't see multiple clients per day.

So unfortunately because of a few inconsiderate people, I was forced to move and stop offering incalls. I do on occasion offer incalls to a select few clients that I have already seen. But my incall availability is extremely limited for a number of reasons, and I am very strict about who I will invite into my home. So if I haven't seen you before, or you weren't given a reference from someone that I know personally, it won't happen.

That's why I was trying to figure out some compromise on this issue. I figure anyone willing to provide verifiable personal information, would be rather unlikely to show up at my house uninvited, or cause me any problems. Kind of like the whole mutually assured destruction deterrence with nuclear weapons.

[QUOTE=Kit Kat]I understand your point completely. Like I said to Joe Fish, I won't return calls if it's been more than an hour since I missed the call. I understand my clients' needs for discretion.

Unfortunately, some people can't understand that I'm not available at their beck and call. As I've said, my hours of availability are rather limited and I see very few clients per week. So there are many times when I simply will not answer my phone and turn the ringer off, because I am just not working that day or have already seen a client that day. But I've had issues with some rather persistent people who decide to just show up at my house knocking on my door when I'm not home, or even worse when I'm with family or friends. This was why I stopped doing incalls. I'm sure none of you would appreciate a provider showing up at your front door uninvited, so why would anyone do it to someone else. Some of us do have normal lives and aren't willing to work 24/7, or just don't see multiple clients per day.

So unfortunately because of a few inconsiderate people, I was forced to move and stop offering incalls. I do on occasion offer incalls to a select few clients that I have already seen. But my incall availability is extremely limited for a number of reasons, and I am very strict about who I will invite into my home. So if I haven't seen you before, or you weren't given a reference from someone that I know personally, it won't happen.

That's why I was trying to figure out some compromise on this issue. I figure anyone willing to provide verifiable personal information, would be rather unlikely to show up at my house uninvited, or cause me any problems. Kind of like the whole mutually assured destruction deterrence with nuclear weapons.[/QUOTE]I understand all of your points Kit Kat, and I appreciate that you're hearing ours too. I do wanna meet u someday soon so I'm gonna give u a call and if you're free great, if not I'll try again at a later date. Have a great weekend!

Joe

Ad below:

"Hello gentlemen

I'm a very open minded gal who beleive's in making sure you have a memorable experience that will keep you coming back for more. Pretty much whatever you might be interested it trying is cool with me.

My rates are all inclusive so you'll never hear me say its more for this or that service and I promise to never rush you. Its your time to enjoy and do as you please.

Boston incalls are 225 hourly (Sorry but no half hour incalls)
Boston outcalls are 125 a half hour or 225 hourly.
If your outside of Boston outcalls may be a bit more (Call for a quote)

100% real pics of me. (No bait & switch)

Kisses all over
Mary
617-905-6944"

SO-For all of you that checked out this new ad and scratched their heads since she looked familiar...she is! This is Mary usually of the south shore area. i have not seen her advertise in awhile. I believe she used to be Jada and was/is part of Playtime escorts.
While I have not see Mary from what I remember she has had quite high marks for service and personality.

Actually there was a post here on her 1965 on Boston escort

[url]http://www.usasexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?p=862877&highlight=mary#post862877[/url]

Her CL ad link (search for Mary of petite Brunette)

[url]http://boston.craigslist.org/gbs/ads/1568293236.html[/url]

and one from B/P

[url]http://boston.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/the-girl-who-does-it-all-check-me-out-33/2862934[/url]

and judging from the pics I'm betting she is one for the I.B.T.C. !

Kit,

You are very attractive and exactly what I like. However, your concept of mutually assured destruction (MAD) as a deterrent to undesirable clients does not give me the warm and fuzzies. I personally would not want to get caught in the nuclear exchange as collateral damage if your records were summoned.

Have you considered extending courtesies to long standing members in forums such as this one? A private exchange of limited information? Perhaps I am naive (and I am with respect to escort calls) though I am interested when I see tasty women such as yourself.

I am sure that I speak for many of the members of the massage forum that if the requirement for verification could be accomodated so as to preserve the same level of anonymity that we can have with a massage provider, then I am all for expanding your clientel.


[QUOTE=Kit Kat]In an effort to expand and improve my business, I'm asking for some advice.

Which ad sites do you guys prefer to use when looking for some company?

I'm considering offering incalls again on occasion, but I'm rather nervous about it because of a few incidents which occurred in the past (which is why I stopped doing incalls). How do you guys feel about the various verification sites (like datecheck), or providing verifiable personal information, and/or references when scheduling appointments?

Any other suggestions?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Kit Kat]I understand your point completely. Like I said to Joe Fish, I won't return calls if it's been more than an hour since I missed the call. I understand my clients' needs for discretion.

Unfortunately, some people can't understand that I'm not available at their beck and call. As I've said, my hours of availability are rather limited and I see very few clients per week. So there are many times when I simply will not answer my phone and turn the ringer off, because I am just not working that day or have already seen a client that day. But I've had issues with some rather persistent people who decide to just show up at my house knocking on my door when I'm not home, or even worse when I'm with family or friends. This was why I stopped doing incalls. I'm sure none of you would appreciate a provider showing up at your front door uninvited, so why would anyone do it to someone else. Some of us do have normal lives and aren't willing to work 24/7, or just don't see multiple clients per day.

So unfortunately because of a few inconsiderate people, I was forced to move and stop offering incalls. I do on occasion offer incalls to a select few clients that I have already seen. But my incall availability is extremely limited for a number of reasons, and I am very strict about who I will invite into my home. So if I haven't seen you before, or you weren't given a reference from someone that I know personally, it won't happen.

That's why I was trying to figure out some compromise on this issue. I figure anyone willing to provide verifiable personal information, would be rather unlikely to show up at my house uninvited, or cause me any problems. Kind of like the whole mutually assured destruction deterrence with nuclear weapons.[/QUOTE]Kat,

I am sorry some guys have been so crude, it is a position of trust that some have abused and I respect your actions as a result. However, MAD, would be more destructive to a fair number of your clients as many of us are family men and/or in a business that we want to keep completely separate. That is why most of us shy away from putting out our personal information. No simple answer. But worth a try. Wb

Kat, I am backing you 100% even I have never seen you. From what you write, I know you are a smart woman and professional about what you do.


[QUOTE=Whoaboy]Kat,

I am sorry some guys have been so crude, it is a position of trust that some have abused and I respect your actions as a result. However, MAD, would be more destructive to a fair number of your clients as many of us are family men and/or in a business that we want to keep completely separate. That is why most of us shy away from putting out our personal information. No simple answer. But worth a try. Wb[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Bat21]Kat, I am backing you 100% even I have never seen you. From what you write, I know you are a smart woman and professional about what you do.[/QUOTE]


While I realize I may take a hit here , I cannot let this go.

I will preface by saying that I have never met, nor talked to Kat and she has every right to set her rates and screening procedures. With that said........

Bat you are delusional to agree with Kats "MAD" theory. If I am not mistaken, Kat now requires personal info to book. Let me explain how this on the surface appears "fair" but in reality your risk is huge.

- Send info and are approved. Show up , have great time and leave. All good. but she still has your info.

- Send info and are approved. Show up , have BAD time and leave. Do you review??? Don't forget she has your info.

-Send info and are approved. Show up Have great time but she has bad time and thinks you are a stalker. Has your home address, #, etc. Puts you on the "Do not see" list ( national ) and your info is FOREVER there, as no one, including the provider who put it there , can remove it. ( GENTs have been put on this list for FAR less including being late)

Shall I keep going????

[QUOTE=Kit Kat]In an effort to expand and improve my business, I'm asking for some advice.

Which ad sites do you guys prefer to use when looking for some company?

I'm considering offering incalls again on occasion, but I'm rather nervous about it because of a few incidents which occurred in the past (which is why I stopped doing incalls). How do you guys feel about the various verification sites (like datecheck), or providing verifiable personal information, and/or references when scheduling appointments?

Any other suggestions?[/QUOTE]

KK,

We haven't met and based upon my self imposed rules, I would doubt that we will meet. That is NO reflection on you, your ladies or your business. As they say, discretion is the better part of valor and discretion is the key to this hobby. Realizing the inherent dangers that are involved with a stranger walking into a meeting with you, I can fully understand your need for safety and security. I would never argue with any provider who wants that as her policy. Simply stated for me, that is one of my rules that I will not break. I will not provide personal information at all. I understand that I may limit myself to some providers, but there is no compromise for me at all.

As far as ad sites etc, I have found that the most "trusted" sources are referrals from other trusted clients, but that is just my opinion and bascially how I operate. I will only recommend trusted hobbyists that I know will not be a problem and that is the world I decide to play in.

My point of reference: the Danish in Kittery and three friends who went through hell because their names were "a matter of record" although they were never physically seen in the establishment.

Both sides have much to risk.

Take care and stay safe.

Here-Here!!!
Saved me so much time and typing!

But to put my 2cents on top of it...I've used Kat's service and was happy with Her Service and the info I "didn't" have to provide


[QUOTE=Coast Hog]KK,

We haven't met and based upon my self imposed rules, I would doubt that we will meet. That is NO reflection on you, your ladies or your business. As they say, discretion is the better part of valor and discretion is the key to this hobby. Realizing the inherent dangers that are involved with a stranger walking into a meeting with you, I can fully understand your need for safety and security. I would never argue with any provider who wants that as her policy. Simply stated for me, that is one of my rules that I will not break. I will not provide personal information at all. I understand that I may limit myself to some providers, but there is no compromise for me at all.
As far as ad sites etc, I have found that the most "trusted" sources are referrals from other trusted clients, but that is just my opinion and bascially how I operate. I will only recommend trusted hobbyists that I know will not be a problem and that is the world I decide to play in.
My point of reference: the Danish in Kittery and three friends who went through hell because their names were "a matter of record" although they were never physically seen in the establishment.
Both sides have much to risk.
Take care and stay safe.[/QUOTE]

I belong to Date Check and like the convenience but it's difficult because so few providers use it.

Be careful if you respond to a Amy69 ad that's posted in the escort classified ads section because she has ads for lots of different women all posted yesterday & today in all different cities. You can see all the pics in the photos section. Don't get me wrong they could be legit, sut sometrhing does not seem right to me.

As for the pics. I know the ones that are for boston witht he bigger chic is real, and has been around for a while. She does work with some others now and then. Buth as for the other ones I have no idea what is up with that. The black girl in the boston pic is also real. But do be careful. Both girls do work with a pimp/boyfriend. Upsell, and mess hotelroom. Cheep but way better out there.

[QUOTE=Rito1]Be careful if you respond to a Amy69 ad that's posted in the escort classified ads section because she has ads for lots of different women all posted yesterday & today in all different cities. You can see all the pics in the photos section. Don't get me wrong they could be legit, sut sometrhing does not seem right to me.[/QUOTE]

I currently have a free membership to Preferred411. Two of the ladies that are listed there (including RoomServiceGirls) vouched for me, which avoids the personal information. At least, I don't believe that I furnished any personal info. Although they ask for sites where you post reviews and your moniker at those sites.

I've used it a few times with ladies with no problems. Here's the site:
[url]http://www.preferred411.com/[/url]

It has worked for me.

[QUOTE=Kit Kat]In an effort to expand and improve my business, I'm asking for some advice.

Which ad sites do you guys prefer to use when looking for some company?

I'm considering offering incalls again on occasion, but I'm rather nervous about it because of a few incidents which occurred in the past (which is why I stopped doing incalls). How do you guys feel about the various verification sites (like datecheck), or providing verifiable personal information, and/or references when scheduling appointments?

Any other suggestions?[/QUOTE]

Has anyone had any success with these Asian chicks that advertise?

The ones that only mention themselves and not "girls"?

Looking for outcall and do they drive themselves (no Coco as I saw that review where she comes with her pimp who parks in front).

Thanks

While I do like to give the benefit of the doubt..I gave a check on the new provider advertising as Big Booty Sasha. Googled and found a few ads on BP put up by the same person which has the same ads as Sasha. May 10th she was Sasha, May 5th she was Ms Lexus and in April she was Dallas. Again not to play judge but 3 different names in a couple of weeks throws up a red flag or three. Also her ads on BP sound like it is her posting her own ads but if you check out the postings by the poster here you will find ads for ladies all over the country. Again if you are a screener or agent just put it that way...ex : "We have or there is". Just another sign....BTW - her ads state outcall only.