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[QUOTE=DownloadX;7351639]Amy is an unusual outlier, I got much of your experience too. I try to see the good and bad and enjoy what I can, but yes the phone thing is too much. A couple of kgirls do it but most are professional. It is the bare minimum.
Thanks for keeping it real. The other bare minimums are attitude (we should be respectful and polite, so should the girls), hygene (we should smell right and be clean, so should the girls), and reasonable behavior (no excessive rough play, hurting girls, or leaving marks). From the girls, we expect they give a reasonable effort. Some girls like Katie are clearly fatigued, slow and quiet. It was not like this before. It means even people who felt she was ATF are at risk of being disappointed and not repeat.
I would say about 80% of my kgirl experiences were good, 15% were okay (fun but would have preferred a different girl), and 5% were bad. The bad were always the same things - attitude, hygene, dead tired. It doesn't matter how hot the girl was, many of those experiences were from hot girls. Other people will say the same girls, so I realized it's not just me. But 80% is still pretty good, so I think of it as a numbers game.
When you find a girl that lets you do just your thing, you want to repeat. No point in getting other girls to do it, so just find your girl.[/QUOTE]Another factor to consider is who the previous client was. Some guys can be difficult, and if you happen to follow this person, she might be off her game. Of course, there's not much you can do about that other than to book the first appt of the day. I always showed up freshly showered and often they will grab my hand and say no shower is required and we just jump into bed to start the action. For the OP, reading reviews is the best way to insure a fun session. Just be aware there are shills posting bogus reviews, so you need to read more than one review. DX has done most of the hard work and will provide links to relevant reviews. I'd say my percentages are inline with DX and the bad sessions were ones that I TOFTT.
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Moved from Kink
[QUOTE=DownloadX;7351639]Amy is an unusual outlier, I got much of your experience too. I try to see the good and bad and enjoy what I can, but yes the phone thing is too much. A couple of kgirls do it but most are professional. It is the bare minimum.
Thanks for keeping it real. The other bare minimums are attitude (we should be respectful and polite, so should the girls), hygene (we should smell right and be clean, so should the girls), and reasonable behavior (no excessive rough play, hurting girls, or leaving marks). From the girls, we expect they give a reasonable effort. Some girls like Katie are clearly fatigued, slow and quiet. It was not like this before. It means even people who felt she was ATF are at risk of being disappointed and not repeat.
I would say about 80% of my kgirl experiences were good, 15% were okay (fun but would have preferred a different girl), and 5% were bad. The bad were always the same things - attitude, hygene, dead tired. It doesn't matter how hot the girl was, many of those experiences were from hot girls. Other people will say the same girls, so I realized it's not just me. But 80% is still pretty good, so I think of it as a numbers game.
When you find a girl that lets you do just your thing, you want to repeat. No point in getting other girls to do it, so just find your girl.[/QUOTE]Posted on the wrong forum.
Thanks for the informational reply DX. Yeah I figured these girls are running a numbers game and are prone to wearing out with the volume they do. Guess I'm used to providers with no agency so the volume is less and service was pretty exceptional, they also came with a higher price tag.
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Kink vs. Fetish
I could probably research this elsewhere but would appreciate any straightforward comparison and differentiation for kinks vs fetish as I have countlessly used them interchangeably and I assume wrongfully so LOL. Lately I have been into putting junior in between cheeks I think its called hot dogging?
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[QUOTE=LabiaFedora;7352116]I could probably research this elsewhere but would appreciate any straightforward comparison and differentiation for kinks vs fetish as I have countlessly used them interchangeably and I assume wrongfully so LOL. Lately I have been into putting junior in between cheeks I think its called hot dogging?[/QUOTE]To me a kink is just something you really enjoy. A fetish, that is something that you have to have to enjoy sex. Those are out there. A dude who needs electrical shock of their nipples to orgasm. That's a fetish I'd say.
I enjoy having girls lick my boys. That's a kink in my definition.
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[QUOTE=FarFarAway;7352381]To me a kink is just something you really enjoy. A fetish, that is something that you have to have to enjoy sex. Those are out there. A dude who needs electrical shock of their nipples to orgasm. That's a fetish I'd say.
I enjoy having girls lick my boys. That's a kink in my definition.[/QUOTE]Thanks. The problem I find myself running into is the difference between thinking I will enjoy it versus wanting to try. I am sure pornography plays a huge role as well.