Sugar Babies

Going to be in Manhattan for a while, looking forward to sampling to SB scene. What's the going rate for a dinner date and fun? Curious what everyone is paying for ppm and / or allowances.

[QUOTE=Eblan;5814260]Going to be in Manhattan for a while, looking forward to sampling to SB scene. What's the going rate for a dinner date and fun? Curious what everyone is paying for ppm and / or allowances.[/QUOTE]300-800 depending on all of the obvious variables, including how much game you have. My experience excludes anyone resembling a professional sugar baby which I avoid.

I only do ppm. I found a long time ago that girls tend to avoid you if you get a head of them in payments. Its a big pond so its not hard to dictate your preferences and then stick to your guns. Just be aware that the process of finding sb's is quite the time suck.

NY has a huge selection on seeking. But I see little too no reviews.

I will say, though, that having been on and off SA for some time now, I find it an exhausting experience and overly cluttered with chicks selling pics or some sob story to get gents to pony up some cash.

[QUOTE=MateoCast98;5936074]NY has a huge selection on seeking. But I see little too no reviews.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GDMan1964;5936433]I will say, though, that having been on and off SA for some time now, I find it an exhausting experience and overly cluttered with chicks selling pics or some sob story to get gents to pony up some cash.[/QUOTE]I always make it clear, I'll pay for Ubers and we will meet in a very public place or have a FaceTime call etc. Under no circumstances will I ever send money first, for any reason. I tend to put it in my profile as well. Also "only in person". Seeking should really have a setting to filter online- only and girls who insist with online only / content should be kicked.

It's a Hotwife situation. Specific / selective guys hwp between 22-50 yrs and packin over 8 bwc only to qualify. Message for details and discussion.

SA and WYP, as previously noted, are EXHAUSTING! My success rate might be 5% of even less. Not so great for my self image or my work efficiency (expensive hobby in these parts!

Does anyone have any suggestions on site to find an SB. Does SA really own a monopoly? I was thinking of going to Washington Square Park with some cash dripping out of me but I figured that the drug dealers and beggars would surround me before any of the hot NYU babies even got close.

I miss the Backpage nonpros!!

Thanks in advance.

[QUOTE=WellHung123;5721762]Wow, I messaged her and she's asking for 1,000 LOL. Is anyone actually willing to pay that, esp for a 29-31 yr old??[/QUOTE]I posted about this in much greater detail on another forum; but I hit the fuckin' jackpot (for me, anyway) last week on SA. Previously, I'd only met one girl and reconnected with one former Dony girl on there. Last weekend, I met a gorgeous girl who just told me to come over to her nice East Side apartment at 9:00 PM and proceeded to give me everything there is to give (other than anything involving her ass or my ass, which I didn't ask about, cause it's not my thing) for over 2 hours. Total sweetheart and total nymphomaniac, basically. I'm not able to see her as often as I'd like to, because she's firm on the $1,000; but if that's in your comfort zone, just PM me for her #.

Anyone met her? She is asking 1 k.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ba408820-7135-45f5-9203-4fdff01695ba[/URL]

[QUOTE=Deschlang;6007128]Anyone met her? She is asking 1 k.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ba408820-7135-45f5-9203-4fdff01695ba[/URL][/QUOTE]Is 1 k a usual request in NYC? I am from LA and 500 $ is max.

Is "SB" Sugarbabies or Secret benefits?

[QUOTE=Zippy17;6007444]Is "SB" Sugarbabies or Secret benefits?[/QUOTE]Secret benefits.

Unfortunately, this one seems to have burned out really quick. Coincidentally, almost exactly what happened with the other Persian provider at an agency, a couple of months ago. First time was absolutely incredible; second time wasn't quite as awesome, but still great; third time (yesterday) was awful and I asked for my money back and left. Apparently, she needs to get drunk to do this and her afternoon wine doesn't work as well as her nighttime vodka. So, for the first 45 minutes or so, I'm just watching her trying to chug more and more wine while complaining that she's not getting drunk because she's been drinking so much recently to see guys daily. Then, after we finally started, she stopped every few minutes (about 10 times) to answer her phone (after acting shocked and annoyed that it kept going off each time) until I finally asked her to just shut it off. Then, she started texting and when she was done, she started giving me the details about her argument with her mother and sister. Eventually, my body completely shut down and it became so obvious that she was just trying (all the wrong ways) to get me off and get rid of me so she could get back to fighting with her family that I told her this just wasn't working for me and she asked what I wanted to do. I said that we needed to figure out something fair and she asked if I wanted my money back and I said "yes, please" and I reminded her that none of these interruptions were on my end, because my phone is turned off when I'm with her. She brought my money to me (which was the closest thing to an orgasm I was going to have with her yesterday) and then walked out of the bedroom while I dressed quietly. I politely wished her good luck and saw myself out as she just stood there in her living room pretending that I wasn't even there.

Anyone using SA in NYC? Seems generally dead based on this thread participation, is the market really just that awful now?

I do echo what many others have said about SA being a total time sink with lots of crap (scammers, time wasters, online only, etc.) to sift through. However I have had some extra time this summer and decided to dip back in and have found a couple potential gems.

One girl who is basically down for anything including BBFS at 200 per meet, she is on the older side (early 30's) but clean and petite blonde, a little crazy but no major red flags. Says she only needs ppm if there's sex involved. First date was a bar for a quick drink and then back to mine, hopefully meeting again this weekend.

Another girl who is more shy and reserved but also seems open to whatever at 200 per meet. Mid 20's Asian brunette, slim body. First date was drinks at a bar but no fun (no ppm for that obviously, she didn't even ask for one which I respected). In the process of setting up date 2 now which will likely be another quick drink then back to mine.

Then a couple more I'm in the texting stages with who are also down for the 200-300 price point. Again it is work and a time sink but if you like to play the game it can still be worth it. I don't even bother entertaining girls who are asking for 500+ per meet. I just tell them good luck and move on. I would go up to maybe 400 max for a genuinely attractive girl with a nice personality, but hard to justify when there are still solid looking girls in their mid / late 20's who are clean and enthusiastic and do a good job in the 200-300 range.

Curious if anyone else has been active in the NYC bowl this summer and has any intel to share.