My first review, and it's a double header!!
Disclaimer: This is both a review and a post seeking advice from the experienced veterans out there. So I add a lot of color in this writing to hopefully get at the heart of the advice I'm seeking. Ok, first a little background. I am a dabbler. If that. I started with my first extra of any kind about seven years ago and by my count I've indulged about twice a year since then. I've lurked, I've posted questions, but I never felt like I could offer any real review as I just never had anything productive to write about afterwards. Also, I'm a relatively young, relatively good looking guy who used to be even better looking. I say this basically to explain that I'm picky and I have high expectations otherwise I'm not sure if it's worth it to me. So until now, after all of my meetups (albeit a small number) I've experienced every level of disappointment. Imo there was only one instance where I was satisfied with the product: Stacey Love (but only experienced erotic massage so in a sense that was also a disappointment of my own doing LOL) And to be honest with why'll, after each subsequent disappointment I've wondered whether any of this is worth it. Not just the time, energy and money, but psyching myself up each time only to be disappointed when the door opens LOL.
Anyway, that bring us to present day (or week. Whatever). Two interesting ladies caught my eye on tour.
Review #1:
Angelika. Easy verification thru p411. I got excited for this dream. People seemed to unanimously vouch for her attractiveness. There were mentions of her being older than her photos but nevertheless she had been pegged by a few reviews as early 30's. *Skip to next paragraph if you just want the dream details* Well, first of all, things got off to a bad start when I reached the appropriate floor of the high rise incall in downtown. There was a gentlemen cleaning staff member standing in the hall to greet me as I stepped off the elevator. He even spoke to me (warned me not to slip where he was mopping) and I said thanks and quickly walked off like I knew where I was going. Except I didn't. Turns out he was standing literally in front of her door. By now I've gone halfway down the hall when I realize my mistake, and it's a little awkward seeing him standing there. All these weird thoughts flood my head. This guy looks out of place. This guy doesn't look like most cleaning staff. Angelika, while he was standing literally in front of her door, cracks it open slightly so I can enter if I want. But I don't want. It's like he's purposely mopping the 4 tiles in front of her door repeatedly for one minute. Then he slides over two feet to wipe the mirror, and the table, in the common area. With each subsequent second passing by, this becomes more and more awkward. Finally I'm within line of sight of the door crack, and Angelika pops it open and in a hushed tone, yells at me to come in.
Same disappointment as always. She looks decent for what I've come to decide is the typical "hot" In this hobby. I'd peg her at late 30's at the youngest, though maybe I just don't have a feel for Russian aging. Body is ok. Everything is basically ok. But that's fine, whatever, she's certainly not a turnoff so I don't want to sound too harsh. Remember I'm seeking special, elite quality. She spends a few minutes chit chatting with me about random topics about myself that I really don't feel like answering. Then she insists on starting off with a little back rub even though I'd rather just sit next to her and begin roaming while she talks. She genuinely seems annoyed that I was already at full attention as quickly as I was. We go through some BBBJ (she offered covered or not) for awhile. It's decent enough. Then covered cg followed by rcg. Not bad, I was actually enjoying it, but she kept stopping as if it was getting to be too much or something. The entire thing was quick. I feel like one minute tops. Then she pulled the cover and went back to BBBJ. (I had told her to just do whatever she wants and I'll enjoy it. Which was true but in hindsight I realize I must adjust my attitude if I want to truly be fully satisfied in the future) I think this went on for awhile, alternating between techniques and I'm sure she was getting tired. She asked if we should go back to sex but at this point I feel like it's time for me to come. She's been putting forth gargantuan effort. Finally I do. I think she's relieved as well. It's 30 min into a 60 min session and in my mind I'm thinking we can go for MSOG although I don't know if I'll succeed. But I certainly plan to try.
She washes a little then comes back and happily massages me again. My legs are actually quite sore so I ask her specifically for massage there. This goes on for a few minutes, more chit chat. And then rather abruptly at the 40 min mark she more or less tells me we're wrapping things up (not my thing, unfortunately). I mildly protest. I show her the time. 40 minutes. And she says in her broken English that we must begin to clean up. And then we must yada yada yada. I dunno anymore. Anyway the entire thing was a little off. From our poor conversation (partially attributed to language. She was frequently using google translate) to just not being on the same page. And although she was never outright rude or uninterested in what we were doing, she just wasn't accommodating. Despite my disappointments with all the other providers I've met in the past, every single one of them was always extremely kind and generous, seeking to please, affectionate and wanting to make sure I was happy. This was so counter to any experience I've had. And also counter to her reviews. A few other important details that may also help explain this narrative: there was no DFK, she refused DATY and FIV. I believe we were literally under 60 sec of FS total. Afterward, as I walked out of the hotel about 15 minutes short of my hour and rather unsatisfied, I thought. Could this be my last time?? It's just not worth it at all. Donation = 400.
Review #2:
Marjorie Evans. So I originally wanted to see her over anyone else, but I couldn't pass screening based on my p411 alone. She required a reference from <6 mos which I didn't have. Cue Angelika. She was my recent OK (the day of, in fact, when Marjorie's screener would accept my request for the next day) So this being last minute I had to basically get squeezed into whatever slot *wink* was available. And this, imo, is going to be my final straw. If this is a disappointment, I am quite possibly finished. Retired. But if it is finally the one I've been looking for, then the Angelika experience was just a necessary step to reach this dream. I do believe in destiny LOL.
Arrive at suburban hotel parking lot and text number as instructed. No response. Since my communications had been via email, 10 minutes passed the appt time I send an email just to make sure and inform them the number I'm texting from. Finally hear back via text 13 minutes late. Told that I will be messaged when she is ready. No worries, I say, there's no rush. In my head I'm thinking I am sandwiched between appts so please take your time to get ready. Less prep will just be a worse experience for me. Finally 18 min passed my appt time I'm sent a room number and green light to go up. Knock Knock. Door opens. And an angel appears!! Yesssss! This is the one I have been waiting for! She's super sweet, pretty face, smoking body. I'd give her a 9 in real life, but in the hobby from what I've seen this is a unicorn 10/10. Woah, just awesome in every way. Tight but curvy body. Big back tat but I liked it. She got down to business very fast. Said she wanted to make my stressful day better. And then it was off to the races. (Either that's her style, or it's her realizing she was behind schedule LOL) There was a bit of teasing. CBJ which was a bummer but she actually made it decently enjoyable. And then we rotated through too many positions for me to remember. Then she pulled the rubber and I thought she was going to maybe go for BBBJ but there was just hands stuff at first and her technique was making me feel like I might explode. I had flashbacks of Angelika and decided NO! I don't want to take the risk of going for MSOG and then getting blocked by the keeper. So I told her to cover me again, we're going to make the rounds once more. And we did. And she sure makes it sound like she's into it and having fun. Just such a pleaser in every way. I was fully satisfied! And even then all of this happened in about 30 min. I felt like we were sorta in a no man's land cause technically I should still have another 30? But I was pretty certain after what we went through I was spent so I couldn't even try for MSOG. Since I'm paying for the hour I'd love to spend the rest of the hour just hanging out, caressing, cuddling, admiring that amazing body. But at the same time I knew she was probably somewhat concerned about the time and I'm not going to hold her up over cuddling, right?? So I just squeezed a bit more. Did a lot of sweet talk and kissing (full on GFE really) and then I bounced at the end of my original hour. Would I have liked to not be rushed? Of course! Would I have loved MSOG? Of course. Would I have liked to visit Greece?? 100% (she declined) But was I disappointed?? Hell no. This one keeps me in the game folks. Donation: 500.
Seeking Advice:
1) What's the standard etiquette when the provider starts the session late? Should I mention it? Should we assume that we have the full time to work with?
2) Etiquette for MSOG with the (as the forum states) higher end ladies. Should I mention it as well? At the very beginning? It can be awkward to ask in the middle and also try to make a decision on what to do if I'm mid-thrust.
3) Do I need to become more assertive?
Thanks. To recap: someone on this site said GO SEE MARJORIE! And I fully agree.
This depends on the connection I think
[QUOTE=Fitzyj76;5514505]Renee: She has come and gone. I just thought I would post something here in case anyone does a search later. In my opinion her pictures are a 10/10 (great photographer). In real life I would give her 7. 5 or 8. Her lingerie was nice. Hair was clean and neat but not done up like the pics. She listed herself as curvy and I suggested that she should take that description off. She has a tiny tiny belly but other than that body is great and its not baby damage. Breast are fairly firm and real. She's friendly and accommodating. She's from the Ukraine and will likely return in Nov / Dec. She had great eye contact throughout much of our adventure which I really enjoyed. She was awesome to book with, she is independent but was very good at following up. If you have seen DI Piper I would compare the interaction to a meeting with her. Since ratings are subjective I'll comparison instead, I would say she is almost as attractive as DI Piper.
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Question: What I have not gotten from almost any providers other than Tabby is enthusiasm (real or fake) I like someone who's adjusting on the fly or expressive during an encounter. I don't always want to be barking orders about changing a position or asking them to do this or that. I want it to happen more naturally. Tabby provides this but she doesn't work enough for me LOL. If anyone can point me in the direction of someone similar, I'll race you to the ATM!
Thanks,
Fitz.[/QUOTE]Jaimee and Piper are this way for me. Or have been in the past.
