Much of it has to do with building a relation with a lady and just easing into it. Some will do on first time. I can think of a number on the board but they don't want their name mentioned. I did this on Huntsville board. Named a bunch of names, and got some ladies in hot water because I thought they did it for everyone. My box was flooded with did you say so-and-so did bbf. I have been seeing her for years and she wouldn't let me. I said holy Sjit what have I done. How can I unring the bell! Lot of explanation and fearfully approaching next meet with lady in question. Manda1979 will do either, bbf cost 25 more. Sexy little me are a couple I think I can mention. Some would like to see a clean bill of health from the health department. Most traveling ladies will not do it because you do not have time to build a relationship. Eventually nearly all will do it at some time but do not want it broad cast. They like to give it not have it demanded. About twice a year a porn worker comes to Nashville from Great Britain call victoriafoxxxx I believe. She has done it with me but again I've known her a while. The ones that won't you can tell by body language and fear of slip and slide.