I'm not quoting very good post by FF and others, I have changed my mind, I don't have any UTR providers, I have a few mistresses.
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I'm not quoting very good post by FF and others, I have changed my mind, I don't have any UTR providers, I have a few mistresses.
[QUOTE=Fancy88;2952890]Good point the different being lack of any path of contact.[/QUOTE]About that now defuNct otheR review site. I was mistaken. "Escorts got to eat!
[QUOTE=Bob0324;2953083]I'm not quoting very good post by FF and others, I have changed my mind, I don't have any UTR providers, I have a few mistresses.[/QUOTE]May I have sex with your mistresses or any you are going to turn out or not?
[QUOTE=Ilapp;2954379]May I have sex with your mistresses or any you are going to turn out or not?[/QUOTE]If my Anderson mistress warms up more, I'd probably turn loose the 20 year old mistress from Westfield, she's not that much fun anymore because she's so willing to do anything I want whenever I want it.
[QUOTE=Bob0324;2954881]If my Anderson mistress warms up more, I'd probably turn loose the 20 year old mistress from Westfield, she's not that much fun anymore because she's so willing to do anything I want whenever I want it.[/QUOTE]And the downside is? That's when my interest is the highest. It's when "okay" turns into "maybe later" or "I don't want to do that", that my little monger starts looking for new playgrounds.
[QUOTE=Ilapp;2954379]May I have sex with your mistresses or any you are going to turn out or not?[/QUOTE]You already have enough mistresses, why do you need another one? Hell you're the one that should start sharing!
Speaking of sharing. Bob I want first dibs on the 20 year old since her skin has been kissed by angels.
[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2955153]You already have enough mistresses, why do you need another one? Hell you're the one that should start sharing!
Speaking of sharing. Bob I want first dibs on the 20 year old since her skin has been kissed by angels.[/QUOTE]That she does have freckles, I usually only pay attention to other features and it was after I had my fun with her, took her to Applebees and I noticed many freckles on her cute face, I'll have to look for freckles on the rest of her next time we have fun.
[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2955153]You already have enough mistresses, why do you need another one? Hell you're the one that should start sharing!
Speaking of sharing. Bob I want first dibs on the 20 year old since her skin has been kissed by angels.[/QUOTE]The decision I have to share is not mine to make.
[QUOTE=Jjbee62;2954972]And the downside is? That's when my interest is the highest. It's when "okay" turns into "maybe later" or "I don't want to do that", that my little monger starts looking for new playgrounds.[/QUOTE]Like me, seem to desire what they think they can't have.
[QUOTE=Bob0324;2954881]If my Anderson mistress warms up more, I'd probably turn loose the 20 year old mistress from Westfield, she's not that much fun anymore because she's so willing to do anything I want whenever I want it.[/QUOTE]Sounds fucking awful. PM me her number and I do you a solid and take care of her from here on out (or until I get tired of her doing all that I desire, or turns 23).
Just curious, what's your guys experience on setting up UTR? Where do you usually find, approach them? Or what's that process like?
Damn, All you guys want to do is post about the UTR's you have and we haven't even defined them yet! By the way Bob, you have everyone drooling but they have to realize it's your mistress not theirs!
Now back to the subject.
Mistress: A lady who sees only one guy, maybe more than one but that is up to her. Her info is not shared with anyone, ever. A LTR sugar baby could be a mistress if she is not actively searching for other sugar daddies.
UTR: A lady who only one hobbyist knows. She could be a SB, FWPB, mistress or just some lady needing help that wants some more clients. She does not advertise, she is unknown from escort sites and review boards and SHE chooses her new clients. The key is how does she know about new clients. Here is the scenario.
A hobbyist puts up a post or contacts mongers via PM that he has a UTR looking for new clients. He tells the other hobbyists to send him a PM if they are interested and to include their e-mail address. He gives this information to the UTR. She decides on the ones she wants to contact. She then either gets a handle on the board and contacts the hobbyists through PM's or she e-mails the hobbyists. At this point nobody but the original hobbyist knows who she is or her phone number. She makes the initial contact with the new hobbyists interested in seeing her. It's up to her at this point to determine through various communications when and if to give out her phone number. She is still UTR because the general mongers don't know anything about her.
Now one case that I am aware of a monger posted about a UTR and said to PM him if they are interested. Guys sent PM's and if he felt they were safe then he sent them the UTR's phone number with a password when they contacted the UTR so she knew they came from him.
In both of the above cases the UTR makes the decision to see a new monger. In both cases the UTR's e-mails, handle, phone number and passwords can be passed around behind channels but nobody really knows anything about the UTR until she contacts them and decides to schedule an appointment. So is this a UTR or not? I think it is because the UTR's information is not on open forum, review sites or escort sites. Once that happens then they are a provider and not UTR. The key thing is a UTR has to remain anonymous from the general hobbyist's. Once she posts a handle, e-mail, phone number or places an ad then she is no longer a UTR.
Comments questions?
[QUOTE=Cadillac31;2955949]Just curious, what's your guys experience on setting up UTR? Where do you usually find, approach them? Or what's that process like?[/QUOTE]Heritage has many ways a UTR can be generated as described below. Bob uses the [URL]care.com[/URL] site. Over the years I have taken several strippers that went from playing OTC with me to a UTR that I ended up sharing with others.
[QUOTE=Heritage;2952762]A UTR could also be a gal that has offered legitimate services, I. E. House keeping, and is converted to a pay for play person. This type of situation can develop more quickly from a situation that legitimately involves touching. Massage therapist, hair dresser, physical therapist, or if there is alone time with them. Keeping her name under your hat, so to speak, even though she may advertise somehow, still makes her UTR in my book, as long as you don't share what goes on behind closed doors. I suppose it could be anyone who you come in contact with, from the receptionist at the gym to your newspaper lady, as long as there is a pay for play type agreement.
Heritage.[/QUOTE]Does this help cadillac31?
[QUOTE=FreckleFreak;2955957]Damn, All you guys want to do is post about the UTR's you have and we haven't even defined them yet! By the way Bob, you have everyone drooling but they have to realize it's your mistress not theirs!
Now back to the subject.
Mistress: A lady who sees only one guy, maybe more than one but that is up to her. Her info is not shared with anyone, ever. A LTR sugar baby could be a mistress if she is not actively searching for other sugar daddies.
UTR: A lady who only one hobbyist knows. She could be a SB, FWPB, mistress or just some lady needing help that wants some more clients. She does not advertise, she is unknown from escort sites and review boards and SHE chooses her new clients. The key is how does she know about new clients. Here is the scenario.
A hobbyist puts up a post or contacts mongers via PM that he has a UTR looking for new clients. He tells the other hobbyists to send him a PM if they are interested and to include their e-mail address. He gives this information to the UTR. She decides on the ones she wants to contact. She then either gets a handle on the board and contacts the hobbyists through PM's or she e-mails the hobbyists. At this point nobody but the original hobbyist knows who she is or her phone number. She makes the initial contact with the new hobbyists interested in seeing her. It's up to her at this point to determine through various communications when and if to give out her phone number. She is still UTR because the general mongers don't know anything about her.
Now one case that I am aware of a monger posted about a UTR and said to PM him if they are interested. Guys sent PM's and if he felt they were safe then he sent them the UTR's phone number with a password when they contacted the UTR so she knew they came from him.
In both of the above cases the UTR makes the decision to see a new monger. In both cases the UTR's e-mails, handle, phone number and passwords can be passed around behind channels but nobody really knows anything about the UTR until she contacts them and decides to schedule an appointment. So is this a UTR or not? I think it is because the UTR's information is not on open forum, review sites or escort sites. Once that happens then they are a provider and not UTR. The key thing is a UTR has to remain anonymous from the general hobbyist's. Once she posts a handle, e-mail, phone number or places an ad then she is no longer a UTR.
Comments questions?[/QUOTE]To me, UTR is more a potentially shifting status than a categorization, and mostly has to do with how she gets business. Word of mouth and regulars built up versus open advertising. Could be one customer or could be several.
[QUOTE=Mwdude;2956612]To me, UTR is more a potentially shifting status than a categorization, and mostly has to do with how she gets business. Word of mouth and regulars built up versus open advertising. Could be one customer or could be several.[/QUOTE]I agree. To me it does not have such a rigid definition. Or perhaps takes the form of an adjective as well as a noun.
Certainly there is nothing UTR to a provider like Charlie on the east side or everyone's new darling Sabrina (Justin Beiber tattoo). Always on BP.
But wouldn't someone like AV be a UTR-ish because she doesn't advertise that much and probably depends more on regulars, hides profiles even when still active.
But then to me another level of UTR is the true provider that works under advertising but anonomously. Thus not creating a known or recognizable presence. Perhaps this week she is called Lisa on Craigslist. Then next week she is Susan with different number and pictures. You never hear of Lisa again. The. Hits the SB sites. She advertises but is essentially under the radar because you cannot track her.
But the full UTR is one that has no advertising other than word of mouth.
Anything less on the networking to me is not a provider but a mistress or a SB.