Looking for Advice on Meeting non-AMP/Bar Women
For the first time in many years I find myself being single again. AMP and bar scene is still the same as it was years ago - I'm not knocking it, just that at this stage in my life I'm not into being the target of mercenaries or money predators. Could someone suggest a good location to meet women, preferably Japanese or other Asian, as I have spent most of my life in Asia and am more comfortable with them than those from the mainland. Upper 30's to mid 40's is alright, because that is closer to my age.
I'm not looking to start a long thread or flame war. Just asking for information. You can e-mail me, if that will keep the comments down.
Thanks,
Ottiss
Intermediate User's Guide to Honolulu AMPs
Nothing nicer than to walk into a large AMP on a weekend night and see a dozen hotties in the lounge knowing that you can do anyone of them. You would like to just hang out and chat, but immediately someone leads you to a room. Later, a girl in her late twenties shows up. The lights go down, she drops her skimpy cloths, and begins the massage. Her hands glide up and down your back in a sensual way. After a while you realize that her fingers have been replaced by her lips and breasts, you feel her hair and tongue arousing you. She asks you to flip over and proceeds to the task you came for. The condom goes on almost unnoticed the first time she puts your **** in her mouth. She will work you until completion, no matter what it takes. You are uninhibited. You've a nice chat afterwards and leave with a big smile. The happiness lasts for days to come.
This is about the best experience you can have in a Honolulu AMP. Most of the time is not as good. I am not even sure if all of the above ever happened in a single session. It can be as bad as the following: The only choice is an over forty year old woman who barely speaks English. She smells like cigarettes, gives no massage, and does not allow you to touch her. It's so unpleasant you almost have to make yourself come. Afterwards you realize it might have been a man. A disgusting experience you wish you would not have had.
Here are a few recommendations to improve the quality of your experience:
* Once you find a good provider, stick to her. Your chances of having a memorable experience with someone you had good service from before are much higher than with a new provider. After having done a girl two or three times, a man would like to try something new. Yet, as awkward as it sounds: Try to be faithful. Girls have days (or months) off, but you can call ahead to make sure she's there.
* Do yourself a while before you go. You can last longer and get more out of the experience.
* The brain does not work well when the blood is elsewhere. Many bad situations can be anticipated, but you have to make decisions on the spot.
* If you're nice to her, she might give you her phone number the second time you visit. Many of these ******, they are bitches. She might do it only to keep you as regular costumer, but she could also be looking for a b-friend. Many of them dream of true love. If she doesn't want to meet up with you outside the AMP, it's strictly business. It's difficult for them to find a serious b-friend, because they can barely walk around without being recognized. "Costumers everywhere" they say.
* It's unlikely but busts happen. I hear that they don't arrest clients, but might collect their id.
* AMP girls are professional and they know how to avoid disease. People have reported broken condoms or picked up diseases, but it's statistics. AMPs are healthier than street girls.
* Most AMPs are open 24 hours, but some times are worse than others.
- After 4am girls go to sleep. They can wake one who sleeps there, but it limits your choice.
- Many girls show up for work at 7.
- Don't go around Chinese New Year, which is also Korean New Year, because many providers are away.
- When a busload of Japanese tourists arrived, you might even get turned away.
There is not a whole lot of variety. All the AMPs work about the same and have the same house fee, currently $50. Most providers are Korean from late twenties to late thirties. Depending on the place/girl you might get a massage or not, and prices and quality vary a bit. Honolulu offers the best action compared to the rest of the island and the other islands.
(Corrections and suggestions are welcome.)
Will There Be More Korean Women Coming To Honolulu?
This recent article in the Honolulu Star-Bulletin states that the visa requirement will soon be waived for visitors from South Korea:
[url]http://www.starbulletin.com/business/businessnews/20081017_Isle_officials_pleased_with_plans_to_ease_travel_rules.html[/url]
The Star-Bulletin reports that according to State Tourism Liaison Marsha Wienert: "When the requirement to obtain a visa is lifted for South Korean visitors to Hawaii, visitor counts from that country to the islands are expected to double the first year and again the second year." The news report quotes Wienert as saying there was an "arduous visa process" for Koreans and that the "lines for visas used to wind around the block."
Of course, most of the new visitors from Korea will be "legitimate." However, is there a possibility that making it easier for Korean women to come to Honolulu could also benefit hobbyists in Honolulu? Hopefully, some of the new female Korean "visitors" to Honolulu will be ... ahem ... "visiting" massage parlors, relaxation businesses, and hostess bars. :)
