Stupid shit, including unprotected sex
Does that include the syphilus, gonorheaa, genital warts, clamidia, hepatitis be, herpes, HIV, HPV, crabs, scabies or other STDs that are spread by unprotected sex, especially with strangers about whom nothing is known and who have multiple partners on a daily basis? Of course it does, so no thanks, and I hope none of us fucks anyone that you fucked. .
When it starts to hurt, go to Planned Parenthood, whose medical staff will try to help you with the curable stuff. But go fast before the holier than thou anti-sex brigades shut them down (while they make money padding their pockets, selling sex all over TV, movies, and everywhere else they can).
[QUOTE=Jlart123;2589256]Fuck you. How about that?[/QUOTE]
I am going to go out on a limb
This section of the board is for rants and raves, so I have one to share. If you feel kinship in anything I write, a private message is welcome.
I drive around looking for SWs virtually every day of the week. I've wasted so much gas and money in adult bookstore entrance fees, it's not even funny. For every good $20-40 date that I have, there's at least 3-4 bad dates, on top of the times that I cruise and find nothing. Virtually every day, I jack off to porn. So now, I'm getting to where I can't come unless I finish myself by my own firm grip. Ya'll saw that report of my two-girl encounter at the bookstore? It was hot and happened as I said, except for the end, I could not come. Last night, I picked up my all time favorite, an UTR girl in Oakwood named Deanna. Her blowjob is literally the best I've ever had by anyone, and that couldn't get me off last night. She had to lick the boys while I jacked my semi-soft cock. I do come with my real-life GF, but that is in one position and it takes a good 15 minutes, after I've fucked her to death in every other position.
I will allow for a small percentage of the problem being my age. I'm in my mid-40's and things don't work the way they do for a 20 year old. I think the real problem is that I am a sex and porn addict. I literally can't stop riding around looking for women. I pass many of the ones I see by because I know what the outcome is going to be, and then when I do pick one up, I can't come by her efforts alone.
This feels like an endless cycle. I search in vain for that one hot experience, and when I get it, I can't complete the mission. While I strongly think that I am an addict, I'm not ready to do the 12 Step Thing, at least not yet. I want to see if I can go cold turkey for a few weeks and get some of my ability to come back. I do worry that part of the problem is psychological now. I worry so much about not being able to come, that worry contributes to the problem. Maybe I will end up in the 12 Steps. I'd like to not do this stuff compulsively, but I don't think I'm ready to address all the other areas of my life that a successful 12 Step entails.
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New police tactic: Warning!
[QUOTE=JoeLooking;2716591]I was going to do a long write up but the long and short of it is police can say but not do anything. The only way to know for sure that a provider is not a cop is to get her to perform a sex act on you and that's the only way for her to know you're not a cop. The truth of the matter is that if you respond to or post an ad for an escort on backpage, the damage is pretty much done. Yes you could ask on the phone about a massage, but if it is a decoy you'll still be arrested and have to explain in court.
We discuss cop checks on here a lot, but the truth is that once you show up at the location there is very little to stop you from being arrested even though you probably won't get convicted.[/QUOTE]I agree with your statement, you are GOING to be arrested once you show up, no matter what you do, the evidence is already been obtained, your call to her. You most likely already discussed things and incriminated yourself. Most providers do not text, but that is WORSE. Why? LE RECORDS YOUR CALLS. If its a text, you can have an out, hard to prove it was you if you do not have that phone on you, but better yet, NEVER TEXT ANYTHING that would incriminate you, that way if you do get arrested, you have a transcript of what you did not say.
Now this brings me to point two. I have several cop friends as a result of my job, and the new tactic will scare the crap out of you, LOL. You see a girl, look at her 50 reviews on review websites, decide she is legit and take the plunge, right? Not any more. What they are doing is going after the high price call girls who are ultra careful. They will arrest a john, then give them the option of "cooperating" by allowing them to take over their review account. Now the cop is the guy vouches and has proof he has seen 20 girls. They then arrest a "careful" call girl who screens ALL her clients online, and do the same to her. NOW the girl on that you are lookig to see with 50 plus stellar reviews is really a cop.
Apparently they can take over the fictitious online handle and screen name, but NOT a personal named account such as Facebook, my space (who has that anymore?) twitter or Instagram, if it has the real name of provider or john. And according to my guys, they have been catching a LOT of people like this, and seizing BIG dollars. I guess that high end escorts have more money to seize, and the johns bring more money.
So what to do? Outside of making the girl give you her real Facebook profile, I don't know. I would start now building a credible "fake" Facebook profile that seems real, seems a lot of girls are already hip to this, or been busted by this, and they are demanding real identities. As far as finding a real provider? Best to stick with your faves, and don't go looking for new girls. Does anyone have a work around?
[blue]Yes, and nobody would immediately notice that the guy who has been around forever is now posting with a completely different voice in his writing. Or that he would be asking questions that he knows the answer to.
This is more, "the sky is falling" because at the end of the day it's a misdemeanor, you guys are not international arms dealers. The cops don't have unlimited resources to throw at you guys. In the scenario above they are going to run into somebody like me who's going to say, "fuck off, I'll pay the fine." Why hasn't anybody ever reported this as actually having happened? "Fucking cops busted me and wanted the keys to my account. I told them to fuck off but watch out." If this was a standard thing every other post on the forum would be about it.
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