A few more clues and tips
[QUOTE=LostInDetroit;6661993]Welcome to the hobby. Best advice is to just read as much of the forum as possible. For the most part, every place we speak about here the girls that work in these joints know the score. One way to know for certain is that during the massage portion of things, reach out slowly to grab or caress their thigh or their butt. If they don't immediately push your hand away then just follow their lead. They'll tell you when it's time for all of the extras.
Some other tips:
* When it's all done, make sure to tip accordingly. $40 on top of house fee is about the going rate for HE (if she added something extra in like a PM or some OTC grinding or something, add in a few extra bucks for the effort) and $200+ for FS. Not every joint offers FS (so double check the list here on the forum that HeeJunk talks about) and not every AMP offers HE. Don't go to a spa that we haven't discussed here expecting to get any type of extras. Some spas as VERY legit.
* When they ask if it's your first time there, NEVER say yes! Say it's your first time there but you've been to other places before or that you've been there before but it's the first time seeing her.
*Also, make sure to shower prior to your appointment or at least make sure you are smelling fresh and clean.
Past that, just go and enjoy your time.[/QUOTE]If you are ok with getting a table shower it's always good to ask if they have one. If they offer it, your chances for FS go way up. If they don't, they will Immediately know what you are really there for and likely not a cop.
Another telling sign is what they are wearing. If they have on a short skirt, heels, etc, chances are that FS is available. These tips are especially helpful for a place out of town or that you have not had time to research.
Right now you are thinking "if I could just find one reliable place". Soon you will be saying "if I could just find something a little different" after every adventure. It will save you time and anxiety to stick with the former.