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The scourge of Better Deal-ing girls
Breaking it off was probably the best move you could have made Bolo. ". pushing back the meet time and apologizing, claiming it never happens with her" . "talking to someone in the background while she's talking to me" Those, along with a constantly changing storyline & location are for sure RED FLAGS. Run, Forrest, RUN! LOL! Some of these gals will -not- commit to a date with anyone, as they are constantly wheeling and dealing and trying to string along 10 guys at the same time. They only want your money, and even then, only if or when they get around to you. First they want to be 3 hours late, expect you to be fine sitting around wondering WTF? THEN they'll want you to drive them here there and everywhere, scoring candy begging you for cash upfront to pay for it. If you are feeling like somethings wrong well it probably is just move along. Several girls I knew I also nixed because of that crap. Ashley / Sapphire on the ccc page is like that, she is the WORST. Shame too because she is a cutie, but seriously guys DON'T waste your time. I even looked up her picture just to post because she was so damn bad. I really hate to do it, but burned and learned guys. Same shit more than once with her. Avoid. Avoid. Avoid.
[QUOTE=BoloBellgrande;2978620]Well, it didn't wind up going well at all with Taylor. First off, she kept pushing back the meet time and apologizing, claiming it never happens with her.
I kept getting the feeling she was trying to push the time back til after dark. That got my head swimming in all different directions. Did she not want to be seen getting picked up or did she have someone lurking in wait for me.
I asked for her address several times. She claims she sent it, but only did after I was about to cancel. I made it to her address after dark and there were characters hanging around everywhere on her street. SW staring at me, guys milling around cars grinning at me, the street was so narrow, I had to drive slowly do avoid hitting them.
I call her, and she asked what I'm driving. I tell her something close to what I'm driving, but not a exact make. I hear her talking to someone in the background while she's talking to me. I'm gettin a bad vibe from this, mainly because, her voice doesn't match the face. I know that's not always the case, Kandi is a good example. There was no place to park or even pull over with all the guys standing around, and the street was full of parked cars. I didn't understand why she wasn't waiting were I could see her.
I pulled off and headed back to Wilkins. She texts me and asked if I want her to meet me at Tim's. I'm thinking, why the fuck couldn't you meet me in a store then?!
Someplace we both felt secure on a first date. And, of course her having a ride meant to me, she's has her BF or Pimp along. I took her name and # out of my phone and nixed it right then. She seemed like she was high on the phone and preoccupied with someone, or like she was plying a game. She called my phone about 5 times, then text me, telling me not to waste her time anymore and take her # out of my phone. Done![/QUOTE]