Paying after the service is done
I've read a few mongers here say that they do not pay till after the services have been rendered. How does that work for you? I'm sure that greatly lessens the chance of being taken or paying up front then getting a lackluster performance but how do you approach that with a provider? You chat over the phone and agree upon a price, time, location, and possibly services. You get there and walk in and tell her you will pay after the deed is done. If she wants the money she either accepts it that way or she denies. Do you walk out at that point? And I'm sure you don't tell her that over the phone because she probably won't give you the address. I've read so many times when you exchange the money the girl finds some reason to excuse herself to another room or the bathroom possibly to contact her handler or muscle. He then rushes into the room or pounds on the door telling you to get out thus you've gotten no services and you've already parted with the money. I guess if she never gets the money then she would have no reason to excuse herself from the room. And, if she really wants the money she'd do the work first. But I guess they don't want to do the work anyway so that's why they pull his scam.
Has this ever worked for anyone? You get to the location and tell the girl she will get her money after the serves have been completed. Did she go with it or not? And if she didn't did you up and leave?
If my memory serves me correctly I've only gotten taken once. I met a girl at her apt and we were upstairs getting undressed. I had already given her the money. This was a few years ago so prices were cheaper then. I think I only gave her like $50. When we were undressed there was a knock on her door so I had to hide out upstairs until the guy left. I guess I was up there 20 or 30 minutes or so until he finally left but when she came upstairs she told me he was her bf and he was going to the store and would be right back so I had to get out. Of course she told me he was only going to be there a short time then he was leaving again so we could continue. Of course that was a lie. I sat in my car down the street and could see her apt. He came back but never left so I was out that money. He probably did leave but out the back door where I couldn't see that he had left. And of course she wasn't about to give it back to me while he ran to the store. Yeah, I've had times where I paid girls and they did perform but their services were lack luster or they refused to do what they agreed upon.