OC Vietnamese coffee shops

[QUOTE=Dante420;6658206]It is simple. If they allow alcohol (they put into a tea pot), bring in a bottle of alcohol that the girls like. Usually you can ask which their preferred alcohol is, but something that is sweeter and easy to take shots of is usually preferred. When you arrive, buy a coffee and pay with a Benjamin, and ask for 1's as change. Tip the girls well, and leave the 1's on the table for the girls to see. When they walk around and refill your water, tip them a few bucks and give them a compliment.

If it is a new place, come in when the shop is slow (usually around 3 or 4 pm) . After they sit with you and talk, tip them when they get up to do their rounds, and tip them more generously. Come back in a week, rinse and repeat, and you will likely start getting girls to come by and sit with you often enough.[/QUOTE]All true, money is a great lubricant. Also, shower, shave, and dress nicely. Don't have to be in a suit, but don't look homeless. The girls want one of 2 things: An interesting guy they actually like or a guy with money. Figure out which one you can be.

That said, it's random, I went to DD one night and every girl took turns sitting with me and showing me their tits. Another night I was alone for an hour till I left.

BTW, bring a girl, that gets a lot of attention.

[QUOTE=NathanCross;6658053]My Viet brothers and sisters, are there any bia om like quan nhau? I have a few out of town friends that have been to cafes but they want to try something different this time. Thanks![/QUOTE]For us mi chang will you elaborate in English? Thank you!

[QUOTE=Joe714;6657399]How do to you guys get girls to sit with you? I tip, I'm friendly, I don't grope them, but they still ignore me. I don't take it personally, but it's discouraging when they sit with others around me. I don't say anything about it because then they won't want to sit with me. It just makes me not want to come to the shops.[/QUOTE]Pretty much what everyone else has said below but I'll add that if all else fails you can try to get dances. Most places / girls that do dances won't turn you down if you ask to buy a dance from a girl you're interested in. It can be a quick way to build a connection. If you're not creepy they'll hang out with you but be warned they may expect you to buy a dance next time as well.

Also sometimes its just random. I went to 168 two weeks ago while it was relatively busy. For some strange reason the girls were repeatedly sitting and trying to talk to me and most of them I'd never seen before. Other times I've been nobody sat with me.

[QUOTE=Joe714;6657399]How do to you guys get girls to sit with you? I tip, I'm friendly, I don't grope them, but they still ignore me. I don't take it personally, but it's discouraging when they sit with others around me. I don't say anything about it because then they won't want to sit with me. It just makes me not want to come to the shops.[/QUOTE]Try going when it is almost dead. I went once when it was really slow and half the girls were just sitting with me. Or just constantly go when it is not busy and they start recognizing you. Some places the girls will sit with everybody others they will only sit with those who they kind of know. Took me a while to get girls to hang out at my table, but I just kept trying different days.

Has anyone gone to Venuz Cafe in Anaheim? What's the vibe there? Is it much different than the other cafes? Thanks in advance!

[QUOTE=Joe714;6657399]How do to you guys get girls to sit with you? I tip, I'm friendly, I don't grope them, but they still ignore me. I don't take it personally, but it's discouraging when they sit with others around me. I don't say anything about it because then they won't want to sit with me. It just makes me not want to come to the shops.[/QUOTE]I've been going to these shops for a long time. I know what you mean. If the girls don't feel like they know you well you can feel ignored. Some shops consciously make sure to sit with customers and make rounds. 368 is good for that. Others, like Stars or Lu can let you sit all afternoon like you are not there.

I've found that if you go enough you will make friends with a few girls after a while who will be happy to see you. I've reached the point at 369 where several of them will greet me with a smile and tits out for a hug and squeeze. I'm not a huge tipper. But I'm familiar to them, always say something nice and don't look like I live under the 5 freeway.

There are some much older men there who get a lot of attention. I can only assume they are tipping $5 or $10 for a girl to visit their table all day long.

Just keep showing up!

[QUOTE=FrankFromMesa;6659901]Has anyone gone to Venuz Cafe in Anaheim? What's the vibe there? Is it much different than the other cafes? Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]Venuz Cafe is not in the "Cafe Row" so it isn't really convenient if you are looking to Café hop. I went there once or twice because I was in area but don't really feel its worth going out of my way for.

I actually keep forgetting that place even exists. Its very small, vibe was mellow, girls were pretty friendly. It might be worth checking out if you happen to be close by.

[QUOTE=FrankReynolds;6659515]For us mi chang will you elaborate in English? Thank you![/QUOTE]He and his friends looking for bar or Karaoke bar with hostess sit with them.

Seems there is a new cafe opening up today. Anyone willing to visit? It is located on Katella in Anaheim.

Girls are in the 2. 5 to 7. 5 range (no 8-10's).

Vibe is chill, not smoky or crowded where you share a table.

Girls are super friendly, some ex dancers, some new to scene, and only 4-6 working at a time. They're also not refilling your tea every damn minute like 168 so your tip money lasts longer.

Dances out back are YMMV.

[QUOTE=FrankFromMesa;6659901]Has anyone gone to Venuz Cafe in Anaheim? What's the vibe there? Is it much different than the other cafes? Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChrystopherB3;6661267]Seems there is a new cafe opening up today. Anyone willing to visit? It is located on Katella in Anaheim.[/QUOTE]Cross street?

[QUOTE=FrankFromMesa;6659901]Has anyone gone to Venuz Cafe in Anaheim? What's the vibe there? Is it much different than the other cafes? Thanks in advance![/QUOTE]I went yesterday to check it out. Good ol Rachel was behind the counter like in the glory days of Gitlz!

The girls are hit and miss. A few good looking ones but also a few obese ones that are not my thing. There were no shows unlike all the other shops. Each girl made a point to come fit and visit and none of them had a problem with my rubbing their legs.

There is a liquor store in the same parking lot which is helpful.

[QUOTE=ChrystopherB3;6661267]Seems there is a new cafe opening up today. Anyone willing to visit? It is located on Katella in Anaheim.[/QUOTE]Saw the sign on my way to a job site. On Katella west of Magnolia but the parking lot was empty and there were no indication that they are open so I didn't stop in.

168 has a whole new crop of young new girls that has either just started or will be starting soon I heard.

[QUOTE=BruceLee007;6665881]168 has a whole new crop of young new girls that has either just started or will be starting soon I heard.[/QUOTE]Has anyone here gotten a dance from Alani. I have wanted to try but she is either busy giving dances or isn't working when I'm there.