Might want to learn Board Etiquette
[QUOTE=BigD001;1624651]Hey Varoom, thanks for the reply, but you are NOT answering my question. My question is what is a reference? Not why use a reference. I understand these hoes don't want a stranger who could be a leo. I just don't have any references, I'm completely confused, should I just give them my mom's phone number so they can verify with her or call my ex wife and ask her LOL. If this is what you have to do to get to meet one of these ladies then what a fucking joke![/QUOTE]After looking over you last two post on the Board about references. Ok a Reference in this hobby is a provider you have seen and will verify you if call or messaged from another provider no more no less. Ok the catch 22 is if I can not see no provider because I have no reference what am I supposed to do? Well there are some website that you can get verified by and then makes it easier to be seen by a provider that requests them. Or you can see a provider that as for no references then prehaps after seeing her you might be able to use her to see another provider. But as my fellow Varoom said its for the protection of the provider. But you really don't have to said your words "what a fucking Joke!" you mght want to learn some board etiquette as providers read these posts and helps them get some idea what kind of person you are. Hope this helps you out.