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[QUOTE=PleasureGiver;7116122]Thank YOU!![/QUOTE]I disagree with both of you. No dis-respect here as I know PG has dished out many women over the years, and I thank him for that. However, when I have a great experience I may want to share it with someone. I can't / shouldn't tell my SO, or my friends who have no idea I do this. So, I can only tell you mongers. What is wrong with that? And, if the girl does not want her info out there, I will respect that. A lot of SB's I have met over the years don't want me handing out there info. They prefer to do the vetting themselves from the site. Yes, the link, so what, there aren't that many SB's in the Dayton area. I see pretty much the same girls over and over on the site I am on. Plus their BOTs and the scammers. If I say I saw a girl in Troy, how hard is it to find her? And, I have shared the links and numbers of many girls over my four years on here. And, I must say, that is a painful exercise as every swinging dick in the tri-state comes out of their hole asking for their number. Not doing that anymore.

On top of that, I see many SB posts from mongers saying "well, I have 4-5 20 yo SB's that I am seeing now. I don't know what is wrong with you guys? Why can't you find them? Just go to [URL]Seeking.com[/URL]" No links, just bravado. So, the only difference is that I may share my experience, so what. I'm pretty fucking old and if I want to share/brag about an experience I had, I'll do it. Having said that, I am going to share my most recent two experiences in seperate posts.

Once again, I'm not trying to offend anyone, just sharing my personal opinion. Be safe out there.

[QUOTE=Potus2020;7125180]I disagree with both of you. No dis-respect here as I know PG has dished out many women over the years, and I thank him for that. However, when I have a great experience I may want to share it with someone. I can't / shouldn't tell my SO, or my friends who have no idea I do this. So, I can only tell you mongers. What is wrong with that? And, if the girl does not want her info out there, I will respect that. A lot of SB's I have met over the years don't want me handing out there info. They prefer to do the vetting themselves from the site. Yes, the link, so what, there aren't that many SB's in the Dayton area. I see pretty much the same girls over and over on the site I am on. Plus their BOTs and the scammers. If I say I saw a girl in Troy, how hard is it to find her? And, I have shared the links and numbers of many girls over my four years on here. And, I must say, that is a painful exercise as every swinging dick in the tri-state comes out of their hole asking for their number. Not doing that anymore.

On top of that, I see many SB posts from mongers saying "well, I have 4-5 20 yo SB's that I am seeing now. I don't know what is wrong with you guys? Why can't you find them? Just go to [URL]Seeking.com[/URL]" No links, just bravado. So, the only difference is that I may share my experience, so what. I'm pretty fucking old and if I want to share/brag about an experience I had, I'll do it. Having said that, I am going to share my most recent two experiences in seperate posts.

Once again, I'm not trying to offend anyone, just sharing my personal opinion. Be safe out there.[/QUOTE]You basically contradicted yourself.

But here are pics of the last 3 girls from "seeking" I met in the last year.

"Dear Members,

As all of you know, social media and dating apps are filled with scammers and inauthentic profiles. This is an industry-wide problem that is becoming worse over time, not better. The FTC estimates that Americans have collectively lost $1. 14 billion to romance scams in 2023 alone.

But the cost to our society is far greater than what is lost financially. On social media, fake followers, fake likes, fake comments, and fake reviews are bought and sold every day, leading to a flood of inauthentic information that influences us in harmful ways.

On dating platforms, fraudulent accounts are even more prevalent. A 2019 FTC lawsuit against a leading online dating company revealed that as many as 30% of profiles on such platforms were created with fraudulent intent.

You may be wondering: why is fraud and in authenticity still so rampant?

The reasons are simple. Most countries, with the exception of China, don't require dating or social media platforms to verify their users' identities. And in the absence of consumer protection laws, most platforms prioritize ease of signup, I. E. , reducing friction to increase user growth over user safety.

At Seeki*and*g*. *c*om, we've decided to take a different approach. Dana and I, as co-CEOs, are committed to making Seeki*and*g*. *c*om a leader in authenticity. Our goal is to minimize fraud and ensure every member has the opportunity to connect with genuine people.

Introducing the Selfie Liveness Check.

To make this happen, we are rolling out a new feature: the Selfie Liveness Check.

Here's how it works:

• During the signup process, new users will briefly show their face via their phone or computer camera.

• Seeking's artificial intelligence will analyze the video to confirm the person signing up is real and matches their profile photos.

• This process is quick, private, and secure.

This feature is currently being tested and will soon be rolled out to the community in phases. With this and other initiatives, we are striving to build the most trusted online dating experience in the industry.

Why We're Doing This.

When I founded Seeki*and*g*. *c*om in 2006, it was to create a better dating experience for people like me. Over the years, it has transformed millions of lives, including my own. But as the platform has grown, so have the challenges of ensuring authenticity and trust.

Dana, my wife and co-CEO, joined the company in 2024 with a fresh vision for addressing these challenges. It was her idea to take a bold stand against fraud, and together, we're putting her vision into action.

A Personal Note.

While I've personally experienced the ups and downs of dating, it wasn't until I met Dana on Seeki*and*g*. *c*om that I found true happiness. We were married in 2022, and today, we are more determined than ever to help others achieve meaningful connections.

We know combating fraud is an ambitious goal, but it's one we are committed to pursuing relentlessly. For our long-time members, thank you for your continued support. For those new to Seeki*and*g*. *c*om, welcome! We're thrilled to have you with us.

Regards,

Brandon Wade.

Founder & co-CEO.

Seeki*and*g*. *c*om."

[QUOTE=PleasureGiver;7126987]"Dear Members,

as many as 30% of profiles on such platforms were created with fraudulent "[/QUOTE]LOL. I don't know about the other sites but I would say it's 90% or more that list in the Dayton area on SA that are either fake, a bot, scammer, pro escort, content seller or something else other than a real local woman looking for an "arrangement".

[QUOTE=BurgDude;7128363]LOL. I don't know about the other sites but I would say it's 90% or more that list in the Dayton area on SA that are either fake, a bot, scammer, pro escort, content seller or something else other than a real local woman looking for an "arrangement".[/QUOTE]I agree. I laughed when I saw the 30% estimate. I can't possibly guess how much higher it is, but definitely North of 50%.

[QUOTE=PleasureGiver;7126974]You basically contradicted yourself.

But here are pics of the last 3 girls from "seeking" I met in the last year.[/QUOTE]What? I didn't contradict myself. And, I did not accuse you of anything. I simply said I / we can share a SB experience on here without sharing who she is. Thats all. And, we have all done that. Just go back 30 pages and read forward. Plently of stories with no pics / links / phone numbers. That is how most SB's want it. They don't want us mongers passing out their info, unless, they are looking for more business. You, PG, I think met a girl from Wilberforce not long ago and she needed business. So, you put her info out there. I wasn't interested in her, but others were, and we thank you for that. She wanted that and you obliged. I met two ladies recently that don't want their info put out there. I simply said I have some friends they may like, and they no thanks for now. The one prefers to go through the site to vet her suitors, and the 2nd one just moved to Florida this week, so it does not matter. And by the way, the first one gets on this site quite often she said. She has been on here for 2 years. She said she found the site on her ex BF's phone. Just saying, be careful out there.

And, my guess is we all have met someone that is so good and special to us, that we don't want to share her. I have done that. We all have at one point or another. Then, as time passes, we grow tired of her and we hand out their info to others. My point was more about sharing the experience and not the girl, sorry if it came off another way. Everyone be safe out there and enjoy your holidays.

I remember the one in the middle. I have that same pic. It's got to be at least 8 yrs old. I transferred that pic to a new computer 4 yrs ago. It's Jennifer's sister (was last staying in Drexel before she passed away). She went by Adrianna or something like that.

[QUOTE=PleasureGiver;7126974]You basically contradicted yourself.

But here are pics of the last 3 girls from "seeking" I met in the last year.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Potus2020;7128959]What? I didn't contradict myself. And, I did not accuse you of anything. I simply said I / we can share a SB experience on here without sharing who she is. Thats all. And, we have all done that. Just go back 30 pages and read forward. Plently of stories with no pics / links / phone numbers. That is how most SB's want it. They don't want us mongers passing out their info, unless, they are looking for more business. You, PG, I think met a girl from Wilberforce not long ago and she needed business. So, you put her info out there. I wasn't interested in her, but others were, and we thank you for that. She wanted that and you obliged. I met two ladies recently that don't want their info put out there. I simply said I have some friends they may like, and they no thanks for now. The one prefers to go through the site to vet her suitors, and the 2nd one just moved to Florida this week, so it does not matter. And by the way, the first one gets on this site quite often she said. She has been on here for 2 years. She said she found the site on her ex BF's phone. Just saying, be careful out there.

And, my guess is we all have met someone that is so good and special to us, that we don't want to share her. I have done that. We all have at one point or another. Then, as time passes, we grow tired of her and we hand out their info to others. My point was more about sharing the experience and not the girl, sorry if it came off another way. Everyone be safe out there and enjoy your holidays.[/QUOTE]Guess who here "boyfriend" was? (wink).

[QUOTE=BuxKA;7129045]I remember the one in the middle. I have that same pic. It's got to be at least 8 yrs old. I transferred that pic to a new computer 4 yrs ago. It's Jennifer's sister (was last staying in Drexel before she passed away). She went by Adrianna or something like that.[/QUOTE]Post that pic was a mistake on my part.

I mean to post this one.

[QUOTE=Potus2020;7128959]What? I didn't contradict myself. And, I did not accuse you of anything. I simply said I / we can share a SB experience on here without sharing who she is. Thats all. And, we have all done that. Just go back 30 pages and read forward. Plently of stories with no pics / links / phone numbers. That is how most SB's want it. They don't want us mongers passing out their info, unless, they are looking for more business. You, PG, I think met a girl from Wilberforce not long ago and she needed business. So, you put her info out there. I wasn't interested in her, but others were, and we thank you for that. She wanted that and you obliged. I met two ladies recently that don't want their info put out there. I simply said I have some friends they may like, and they no thanks for now. The one prefers to go through the site to vet her suitors, and the 2nd one just moved to Florida this week, so it does not matter. And by the way, the first one gets on this site quite often she said. She has been on here for 2 years. She said she found the site on her ex BF's phone. Just saying, be careful out there.

And, my guess is we all have met someone that is so good and special to us, that we don't want to share her. I have done that. We all have at one point or another. Then, as time passes, we grow tired of her and we hand out their info to others. My point was more about sharing the experience and not the girl, sorry if it came off another way. Everyone be safe out there and enjoy your holidays.[/QUOTE]Just had to agree. Discretion is the better part of valor. Not that the activities we engage in are, but it benefits the results by offering a bit of decorum and safety for both the seeker and the seeking.

[QUOTE=PleasureGiver;7129403]Guess who here "boyfriend" was? (wink).[/QUOTE]No, I don't think so. He is from and still lives in a Cincy suburb. Nice try though, LOL.

Has anyone had any experience with this girl? She goes by Mila on SA. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f070681e-90a8-4a08-8058-7fadbe680a25[/URL]. You can DM / PM me if you've seen her.

[QUOTE=PleasureGiver;7129406]Post that pic was a mistake on my part.

I mean to post this one.[/QUOTE]Damn, that's definitely one that I would have liked to have met.

[QUOTE=Potus2020;7129729]No, I don't think so. He is from and still lives in a Cincy suburb. Nice try though, LOL.[/QUOTE]MUST be a different girl then.

I was with her for 3.5 years and still talk.

She is a lesbian and has no "boyfriend" and was with a GIRL for the last 2 years.

She was even living with Me at one point.

[QUOTE=ShadowRecruit;7129868]Has anyone had any experience with this girl? She goes by Mila on SA. [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f070681e-90a8-4a08-8058-7fadbe680a25[/URL]. You can DM / PM me if you've seen her.[/QUOTE]Her link is already down.