Illegitimi non carborundum
[QUOTE=Delicious Dawn;1635151]Unfortunately, a " friend " made some accusations and decided to involve my children. My children are my WORLD. This person found out about what I do to support my kids and made statements to people who are now concerned for the welfare of my kids. It could possibly be turned into something that it shouldn't be. My children should have been left out of it. I take GREAT are of my children. I am the best mommy that I can be to them.[/QUOTE]I propose a toast: May the self-righteous, meddling goat fuckers who don't have enough problems in their own lives to occupy them, leaving them free to stick their fucktard noses into others' business, have that situation remedied.
Take care, best wishes, and be well.
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I'm not sure I ever understood the glory hole thing
[QUOTE=Nday Guy;1635806]GUYS need to be careful with a true Glory Hole You never know what is on the other side LOL could be another guys.[/QUOTE]Kinda like buying a pig in a poke. Or maybe a poke in a pig.
Agreed too many spiteful busybodies.
[QUOTE=Delicious Dawn; 1636250]While I agree with what you put, that is not the case here. In fact, it was not a family member. It was spiteful, drama and simply put." revenge ".
Dear, I am a damn good momma and I would not place my children in harm's way nor ever be a dope addict. I do everything on my own. I pay my bills, I live alone with just my children and I. I raise my babies. No one else. I have no husband or baby daddy taking care of things. I do it all. I not only care for my daughter, but I also raise my son, who is my biological maternal nephew. I do not see child support. I do NOT have the finances to turn to dope, even if I wanted to! LOL.
I met this guy months back and we spoke of this all happening before this situation with the nosey people. Thankfully, we will be gone in just a few weeks so it happened at the right time. There is no " right " time, but I did plan to quit anyways.
I am FAR from perfect, do not claim to be, but I am a proud mother. I couldn't imagine not being with my babies every night. I couldn't imagine not having them in my home every day. In fact, that would probably turn me into an addict. Without them, I have nothing.
I chose to do what I do for work and for that, sometimes we come across problems. Just because I do " this " does not mean I am a bad mother. It doesn't. None of us should have to feel that way. I won't. If anything, I've proved that I will do anything to make sure my babies don't go without. I won't sit on my butt waiting for the state to give me hand outs nor will I demand child support and use that as income as many around this area do. I am not that person. I am very independent and very stubborn. I don't sit down easily and I don't give up. I am a fighter.
I do understand and even agree with where you are coming from. I do. I've seen it many times. It's all around me where I live. My family is not a good one and in fact, I am one of the most stable of all of my siblings. Sadly.
My daughter is 12 and a GREAT kid. I am not just saying that. She is a good girl. I decided this move when I started fearing that she could be easily convinced by friends, boys, to behave in certain ways. My daughter is a good girl and I want to keep her that way. My son, great boy. Again, they aren't perfect either, but for growing up around here, with a single momma, coming from the family that I do, the statistics say they should be running around cursing, skipping school and getting high. Kids here start that at 12, some younger. Mine don't. I won't sit around waiting for that to happen. That's why I decided to move.
This was a spiteful way of getting revenge. It will go away. All will be well.
I just want the other ladies to know, never think you're untouchable. There are others besides just LE to worry about. They can cause issues and can have a say in if you remain a parent. Be careful and trust NO ONE. Even if you think your friend " would never do that ". Trust no one.
Thank you to everyone who wished me well. I appreciate it. .
I've met many and I've enjoyed my time in the hobby. I've taken many lessons away from this and I've learned a lot about myself, relationships and people in general.
I will still pipe in here and there and I'll still read. I just will not longer be providing.
I will be around until the end of February, accepting appointments with very well known friends.
I wish everyone the best and hope that everyone continues to have fun.
All the best,
Dawn.[/QUOTE]I haven't personally met Dawn, but her reputation as a class provider is well known. I did have a recent chat with another provider friend and while I imagined there are several risks in their line of work, I never dreamed of some of crap that goes on. People that contact providers. Send them across town. And never had any intention whatsoever of actually meeting them. She said one guy even phoned her. And complimented her on her looks. And asked about her car etc. More or less."I can see you. But you can't see me". This guy just wanted to jerk her around. It's my understanding that some people do this just because they disapprove of the whole situation. Amazing. Sad. And Scary. Anyway. Dawn sounds like she's ready for an exciting new journey and big changes in her life. I wish her all the best.