Sugarbabies and Arrangements

[QUOTE=BeenAroundX;4923797]I'll throw some things in here. 2 to 3 would be good pricing. These are absolutely nothing like stg. A quick look through the stg ads there will tell you this is a different level. In terms of time, my meets are 2 hrs average. Generally starts with 30 minutes or so of conversation, catching up on what's happening at their job, school, etc. Almost always accompanied by wine or drinks. Work out the specifics through text before the meet so there is no more needed when you get together live. I ask for rules ahead of time- you'll find out a lot that way. If she doesn't reply with some specifics, it might be a rough transition to adult fun. BTW, saying a few drinks, then some adult fun is an easy way to make sure she knows there's going to be sex, and if she says something like" I'll have to decide when I get there", I'd move on to the next one. When you are done, she'll know it's time to leave. I always make sure to let them know my rules too- no incessant texting, don't call me asking for a "loan", if we meet and you're uncomfortable in any way, I'll take care of your gas money and we'll part company. Asking if they are dominant or submissive ahead of time works too. Pretty much every one I've met is submissive. Out of around 20 plus over the last 3 years or so, I've kept a once a month meet up with 10 of them for 6 months or so, and see around 4 of them every 3 or 4 months. That being said, I still see 2 every month, the others have faded away, comfortably, over time. At least 7 were one and done. It's definitely about building a trusting relationship with the ones that have lasted. Ore than 2 or 3 meet ups. I've had a couple of bad meets too- when I first started out, before I started figuring out what worked for me personally. Just me, but I've had some damn, damn fine looking pussy on here, and absolutely none of this is bs. No reason to make shit up and waste my time. BTW- I'm single, do well, and know how to host. So there's that. I also take my time playing the game, and have been around awhile. Also, I do not, ever, share info about them on this page- although I've used a few trusted members on here to help each other out that also know how to play this game. My reports that are public are AMPs, strip joints, etc. That don't matter. I'm slowing down a bit these days- so you just got a shit load of info I usually keep to myself, and felt like sharing LOL. I guarantee a few others on here can back most of this info up. Best of luck- I've noticed quite a few newcomers to SA / SB on here, so hope this helps you all not waste time. BAX.[/QUOTE]That's by far the most helpful hints I have read. Even with the research I have done. It almost seems too good to be true. But I guess we will find out here shortly. Very shortly. Haha. I am extremely happy I ventured over here and can't believe it took me this long. Thanks for the info! Umm be keeping all that I'm mind as time goes on here! Stay safe brothers!

[QUOTE=BeenAroundX;4923797]I'll throw some things in here. 2 to 3 would be good pricing. These are absolutely nothing like stg. A quick look through the stg ads there will tell you this is a different level. In terms of time, my meets are 2 hrs average. Generally starts with 30 minutes or so of conversation, catching up on what's happening at their job, school, etc. Almost always accompanied by wine or drinks. Work out the specifics through text before the meet so there is no more needed when you get together live. I ask for rules ahead of time- you'll find out a lot that way. If she doesn't reply with some specifics, it might be a rough transition to adult fun. BTW, saying a few drinks, then some adult fun is an easy way to make sure she knows there's going to be sex, and if she says something like" I'll have to decide when I get there", I'd move on to the next one. When you are done, she'll know it's time to leave. I always make sure to let them know my rules too- no incessant texting, don't call me asking for a "loan", if we meet and you're uncomfortable in any way, I'll take care of your gas money and we'll part company. Asking if they are dominant or submissive ahead of time works too. Pretty much every one I've met is submissive. Out of around 20 plus over the last 3 years or so, I've kept a once a month meet up with 10 of them for 6 months or so, and see around 4 of them every 3 or 4 months. That being said, I still see 2 every month, the others have faded away, comfortably, over time. At least 7 were one and done. It's definitely about building a trusting relationship with the ones that have lasted. Ore than 2 or 3 meet ups. I've had a couple of bad meets too- when I first started out, before I started figuring out what worked for me personally. Just me, but I've had some damn, damn fine looking pussy on here, and absolutely none of this is bs. No reason to make shit up and waste my time. BTW- I'm single, do well, and know how to host. So there's that. I also take my time playing the game, and have been around awhile. Also, I do not, ever, share info about them on this page- although I've used a few trusted members on here to help each other out that also know how to play this game. My reports that are public are AMPs, strip joints, etc. That don't matter. I'm slowing down a bit these days- so you just got a shit load of info I usually keep to myself, and felt like sharing LOL. I guarantee a few others on here can back most of this info up. Best of luck- I've noticed quite a few newcomers to SA / SB on here, so hope this helps you all not waste time. BAX.[/QUOTE]Here's my question, I signed up a few weeks ago to check things out. I have a bunch of msgs that I can read with credits, Secret Benefits. Are these real or a ploy by SB to get me to spend money? I tried Fuckbook because of all the pending msgs from girls near me. Needless to say, not one chic responded AFTER I paid. Funny how that works.

[QUOTE=Tp1022;4924066]Here's my question, I signed up a few weeks ago to check things out. I have a bunch of msgs that I can read with credits, Secret Benefits. Are these real or a ploy by SB to get me to spend money? I tried Fuckbook because of all the pending msgs from girls near me. Needless to say, not one chic responded AFTER I paid. Funny how that works.[/QUOTE]I've never used SB. Only SA.

[QUOTE=Tp1022;4924066]Here's my question, I signed up a few weeks ago to check things out. I have a bunch of msgs that I can read with credits, Secret Benefits. Are these real or a ploy by SB to get me to spend money? I tried Fuckbook because of all the pending msgs from girls near me. Needless to say, not one chic responded AFTER I paid. Funny how that works.[/QUOTE]I've been on SB 2 times the $89 plan. I've got a 20% success rate there which isn't great. You can meet girls but it's slow, got the same games and lots of girls message then disappear. Your good till your credits run out so if your not really active the basic plan might get you through the month. If your real active on contacting girls SA is your best bargain. Unlimited for 30 days.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a9c70bd1-129c-40a7-8495-e0a8710967cb[/URL]

[QUOTE=BeenAroundX;4923797]I'll throw some things in here. 2 to 3 would be good pricing. These are absolutely nothing like stg. A quick look through the stg ads there will tell you this is a different level. In terms of time, my meets are 2 hrs average. Generally starts with 30 minutes or so of conversation, catching up on what's happening at their job, school, etc. Almost always accompanied by wine or drinks. Work out the specifics through text before the meet so there is no more needed when you get together live. I ask for rules ahead of time- you'll find out a lot that way. If she doesn't reply with some specifics, it might be a rough transition to adult fun. BTW, saying a few drinks, then some adult fun is an easy way to make sure she knows there's going to be sex, and if she says something like" I'll have to decide when I get there", I'd move on to the next one. When you are done, she'll know it's time to leave. I always make sure to let them know my rules too- no incessant texting, don't call me asking for a "loan", if we meet and you're uncomfortable in any way, I'll take care of your gas money and we'll part company. Asking if they are dominant or submissive ahead of time works too. Pretty much every one I've met is submissive. Out of around 20 plus over the last 3 years or so, I've kept a once a month meet up with 10 of them for 6 months or so, and see around 4 of them every 3 or 4 months. That being said, I still see 2 every month, the others have faded away, comfortably, over time. At least 7 were one and done. It's definitely about building a trusting relationship with the ones that have lasted. Ore than 2 or 3 meet ups. I've had a couple of bad meets too- when I first started out, before I started figuring out what worked for me personally. Just me, but I've had some damn, damn fine looking pussy on here, and absolutely none of this is bs. No reason to make shit up and waste my time. BTW- I'm single, do well, and know how to host. So there's that. I also take my time playing the game, and have been around awhile. Also, I do not, ever, share info about them on this page- although I've used a few trusted members on here to help each other out that also know how to play this game. My reports that are public are AMPs, strip joints, etc. That don't matter. I'm slowing down a bit these days- so you just got a shit load of info I usually keep to myself, and felt like sharing LOL. I guarantee a few others on here can back most of this info up. Best of luck- I've noticed quite a few newcomers to SA / SB on here, so hope this helps you all not waste time. BAX.[/QUOTE]Great post, I agree with pretty much everything and would just add that you have to treat the girls on SA as more of a Tinder / Bumble match while still making your expectations clear and setting your boundaries. I've also realized that paying for a nice dinner / drinks or taking them out to do some activity we both enjoy goes a long way, can usually save you a lot of money in the long run and you can cultivate long term casual FWB relationships with these girls if they 1. Are attracted to you 2. You don't make them feel like a prostitute 3. Show them a good time. For instance, I have three recent examples. First is a girl that just reached out to me after 7 months of no communication a few weeks back. Two weeks ago we met for dinner to catch up. It was dinner only as she just wanted to reconnect and catch up and didn't feel comfortable jumping back into bed. Then last weekend we met again for dinner, went back to my place and had fun all evening and the following morning. I didn't pay her anything out of pocket. I have another long timer coming over later today to spend the day / night with me and won't pay her anything. Maybe to be nice I'll buy her an outfit or something but she won't ask. The third girl was one I hooked up with back in November and texted me out of the blue late last week. After texting back and forth for a few days we finally met yesterday for two hours of fun and the total cost to me was $100 to her and two short Uber rides. My point is that if you are patient you can cultivate a long term FWB type arrangement with many of these girls if you have some game, are decently attractive and interesting, not selfish in bed and show them a good time.

I've also met dozens of very attractive women on there that I've had one or two meetings with for anywhere from $100.00 to $300.00 plus maybe the cost of a motel room. I'd say my average cost was around $150/$200 generally. Most of the time, the one and done's were my choice because I do like variety and I have a few in rotation I mentioned above that I pay very little to or nothing at all.

Personally, I'd recommend we all pass on any of the girls asking for more than $300.00 to drive the market price down. IMO, with so many options out there, no one is really worth that.

Another point to share is that when you find a girl like I have described she generally doesn't want her info shared and even if you did someone else's experience with her isn't going to be like yours. Arrangements tend to be a bit more personal for some of the girls on there and sharing her info with a buddy would likely sour it and make her feel like a *****. The only girl I met on there that asked me to help her find business was Cute Freckles in Kent (who sadly moved away). The best help we can all give one another is share info on the scammers and time wasters. I've run into a few of those and have made sure to share them. One had her pipe cleaner armed crack head BF try to strong arm me (and failed pitifully) and another tried to blackmail me. Its key we share here because its risky trying to get the site to ban a girl. You will likely end up getting banned too.

I am talking to this one. She just ran out of food and diapers for her kids yesterday. She sounds legit, right? OMG, I was not born yesterday. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2e629354-4858-4ec7-aa57-8722ac0f1bbf[/URL] Has anyone actually met her?

[QUOTE=SAGuy17;4924437]I am talking to this one. She just ran out of food and diapers for her kids yesterday. She sounds legit, right? OMG, I was not born yesterday. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2e629354-4858-4ec7-aa57-8722ac0f1bbf[/URL] Has anyone actually met her?[/QUOTE]There were many reports here of people seeing her before preggo and during preggo you may as well go for the after.

Sorry I don't recall what she called herself to help you find those reviews. If I recall she was a STG girl as well so maybe it's in the escort category.

[QUOTE=SAGuy17;4924437]I am talking to this one. She just ran out of food and diapers for her kids yesterday. She sounds legit, right? OMG, I was not born yesterday. [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2e629354-4858-4ec7-aa57-8722ac0f1bbf[/URL] Has anyone actually met her?[/QUOTE]That's Liz. She's been off and on SA many times. I saw her once a year and a half ago when she was very, very pregnant and didn't disclose it while we were talking. Short, cute, probably a decent date. More of an Pro than a real SB. Down side is she's super annoying blowing up your phone needing money or dates. Real, though. At least she was back when I saw her.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0351ae29-3f29-40df-9154-7572f5345c13[/URL]

$200 for some of the best anal I've ever had.

[QUOTE=TaintSmasher;4925685][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0351ae29-3f29-40df-9154-7572f5345c13[/URL]

$200 for some of the best anal I've ever had.[/QUOTE]Message her digits?

Do you know if she does pegging? There's nothing I like better than getting a giant black dildo shoved up my ass. Nothing in the world helps hemorrhoids exactly like getting your ass rooted.

[QUOTE=TaintSmasher;4925685][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0351ae29-3f29-40df-9154-7572f5345c13[/URL]

$200 for some of the best anal I've ever had.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ZigBang1;4926080]Do you know if she does pegging? There's nothing I like better than getting a giant black dildo shoved up my ass. Nothing in the world helps hemorrhoids exactly like getting your ass rooted.[/QUOTE]That one def looks like she will be doing the rooting!

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[QUOTE=ZigBanwg1;4926080]Do you know if she does pegging? There's nothing I like better than getting a giant black dildo shoved up my ass. Nothing in the world helps hemorrhoids exactly like getting your ass rooted.[/QUOTE]I'm thinking that member that took the pegging must be having a rough couple of days. Hope he had a couple of extra bucks left after the 200 for some ointment.