Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Tuffy12;3140931]You didn't mention the risk of exposure through your digital trail. It's not simply a matter of having a burner phone, but all the communications, browser history, usernames and reviews, credit card records, bank records, phone logs, etc. One careless slip, and the house can come crashing down on you. There are many precautions you can take to minimize these risks. Diligence and consistency are the key to limiting your exposure.[/QUOTE]Great points! I think / hope I minimize this, but you never know. Fortunately, the wife is not computer savvy at all! But I use private browser, no credit cards for anything, not even to buy the phone or minutes! No saved or remembered usernames / passwords. Just the burner phone that if found would call me out. Yea, probably do still leave a trail, but hopefully its minimized.

Take heed everyone, don't get lazy and have your USASG username and login remembered on your computer.

[QUOTE=CinciScubaDude;3142120]Great points! I think / hope I minimize this, but you never know. Fortunately, the wife is not computer savvy at all! But I use private browser, no credit cards for anything, not even to buy the phone or minutes! No saved or remembered usernames / passwords. Just the burner phone that if found would call me out. Yea, probably do still leave a trail, but hopefully its minimized.

Take heed everyone, don't get lazy and have your USASG username and login remembered on your computer.[/QUOTE]It seems like everyone talks about burner phones. I just use a Google # and the Hangouts app. I add my fake email account when I want to make calls, then delete it from my phone when I'm done.

Am I missing something? Seems way easier.

Good Morning? Was told by an Asian masseuse that thy do not like to be touched by older men. Has anyone found this to be the norm.

Does seem that they are overly protective of their top front. Would explain a lot and maybe save some frustrations.

Comments?? Thanks.

So I a new to this hobby and didn't understand to use a burner phone. I had contacted a provider almost 3 weeks ago that refused service due to lack of references. Ok understanding I ended communication with her. Out of the blue yesterday she texts me wanting to know if I am using for some fun. I had no idea who it was because I delete ever thing afterwards.

So this threw up a red flag to me and made me Leary of this provider.

Is this a normal thing in the hobby?

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3142336]It seems like everyone talks about burner phones. I just use a Google # and the Hangouts app. I add my fake email account when I want to make calls, then delete it from my phone when I'm done.

Am I missing something? Seems way easier.[/QUOTE]Nothing is ever permanently deleted unless you take the device all the way down to all zeros and reprogram. All computers and smart phones have a cache of deleted files that are not eliminated. That's why most institutions destroy their hard drives when a computer is obsolete so cached info cannot be restored.

[QUOTE=Twisted69;3142525]Nothing is ever permanently deleted unless you take the device all the way down to all zeros and reprogram. All computers and smart phones have a cache of deleted files that are not eliminated. That's why most institutions destroy their hard drives when a computer is obsolete so cached info cannot be restored.[/QUOTE]I make calls from my iPad thru wifi from the magic jack app. This seems to work pretty good. Then you can just delete recent calls.

[QUOTE=DoctorAl;3142494]Good Morning? Was told by an Asian masseuse that thy do not like to be touched by older men. Has anyone found this to be the norm.

Does seem that they are overly protective of their top front. Would explain a lot and maybe save some frustrations.

Comments?? Thanks.[/QUOTE]I think it's just an excuse. I usually have pretty good luck and I'm "older" too. Some of the AMPs I frequent are out of state though.

SP.

So I just want to get something off my chest. How come SOME guys come on here complaining about girls going silent on then after they done set something up and they are on there way an ect. Then there is SOME guys that do the same thing it actually happens alot and they think its okay? Like myself I have never went crickets on someone and always keep my appointments. Then I have guys say they are coming and be here in so and so minutes or a time and then never show and don't even have the common curtosy to tell you they are not coming. Its so annoying because you sit and wait for that person and don't see other people because you think they are comin then nothing so you miss out on $$ all together. This has happened twice today and I'm not very happy about it at all. If your not gpnna come atleast say you had a change of plans and same for the females if you can make the appointment atleast let the guy know there is nothing more aggravating. Sorry had to get that off my chest LOL come on now.

[QUOTE=ThickNSweet;3143834]So I just want to get something off my chest. How come SOME guys come on here complaining about girls going silent on then after they done set something up and they are on there way an ect. Then there is SOME guys that do the same thing it actually happens alot and they think its okay? Like myself I have never went crickets on someone and always keep my appointments. Then I have guys say they are coming and be here in so and so minutes or a time and then never show and don't even have the common curtosy to tell you they are not coming. Its so annoying because you sit and wait for that person and don't see other people because you think they are comin then nothing so you miss out on $$ all together. This has happened twice today and I'm not very happy about it at all. If your not gpnna come atleast say you had a change of plans and same for the females if you can make the appointment atleast let the guy know there is nothing more aggravating. Sorry had to get that off my chest LOL come on now.[/QUOTE]I've never met you but I agree with you 100%. I've been with a number of girls who complain about the same thing although, as you pointed out, it happens both ways. I've had to cancel a couple dates for legitimate reasons and I ALWAYS call to tell them I won't be coming. Just seems like the right thing to do.

[QUOTE=ThickNSweet;3143834] Sorry had to get that off my chest LOL come on now.[/QUOTE]And what a lovely chest it is!

[QUOTE=ThickNSweet;3143834]So I just want to get something off my chest. How come SOME guys come on here complaining about girls going silent on then after they done set something up and they are on there way an ect. Then there is SOME guys that do the same thing it actually happens alot and they think its okay? Like myself I have never went crickets on someone and always keep my appointments. Then I have guys say they are coming and be here in so and so minutes or a time and then never show and don't even have the common curtosy to tell you they are not coming. Its so annoying because you sit and wait for that person and don't see other people because you think they are comin then nothing so you miss out on $$ all together. This has happened twice today and I'm not very happy about it at all. If your not gpnna come atleast say you had a change of plans and same for the females if you can make the appointment atleast let the guy know there is nothing more aggravating. Sorry had to get that off my chest LOL come on now.[/QUOTE]I agree with you 100% it has happened to me a few times. Its ridiculous. Yes I understand I am new to this site still and don't have any reviews but that doesn't make it ok to set something up then disappear. How am I going to get any reviews if that keeps happening? Its not ok for us providers to do it (I've never done that and will never do that) we will get a bad review or post yet when it gets done to us what can we do except be mad and lost $$.

You guys should think about if it happened to you.

[QUOTE=Kenal1;3144473]I've never met you but I agree with you 100%. I've been with a number of girls who complain about the same thing although, as you pointed out, it happens both ways. I've had to cancel a couple dates for legitimate reasons and I ALWAYS call to tell them I won't be coming. Just seems like the right thing to do.[/QUOTE]100%. Stuff happens that forces a change of plans, but unless you're unconscious and bleeding out in the ambulance, you (and I mean monger and / or SP) can shoot a 10 second text- "can't make it-sorry". It's not just common courtesy, it's good business. I won't reschedule or repeat with a SP who crickets me, unless she contacts me on her own after with a good explanation AND a service make-up offer. And in some cases that has happened, the make-up was more than acceptable, and we go on to have a good working relationship. I have to say that the cricketing seems more likely with the younger, and likely drug-using, SPs.

The good dr.

[QUOTE=Twisted69;3142525]Nothing is ever permanently deleted unless you take the device all the way down to all zeros and reprogram. All computers and smart phones have a cache of deleted files that are not eliminated. That's why most institutions destroy their hard drives when a computer is obsolete so cached info cannot be restored.[/QUOTE]Yeah, but my wife doesn't know how to do all that.

[QUOTE=IlvblckGrls;3144615]Yeah, but my wife doesn't know how to do all that.[/QUOTE]True. But can find somebody that can perhaps.

[QUOTE=Kenal1;3144473]I've never met you but I agree with you 100%. I've been with a number of girls who complain about the same thing although, as you pointed out, it happens both ways. I've had to cancel a couple dates for legitimate reasons and I ALWAYS call to tell them I won't be coming. Just seems like the right thing to do.[/QUOTE]See its different if you call to cancell that's fine least the other person isn't sitting atound wondering what's going on. When they say they are on there way then you don't here nothing and they don't even tell you there not coming now that's the crab that is annoying.

[blue]On both sides, I'm doing that right now. Though, if chick A doesn't show soon I'm gonna go bang the sisters.

A2[/blue]

[QUOTE=Kenal1;3144473]I've never met you but I agree with you 100%. I've been with a number of girls who complain about the same thing although, as you pointed out, it happens both ways. I've had to cancel a couple dates for legitimate reasons and I ALWAYS call to tell them I won't be coming. Just seems like the right thing to do.[/QUOTE]I will no longer see a gentleman that no show no calls me. I also send a text out to all the providers that I have on my lost and tell them about it. Most of them will not see him either. Vice Versa when someone text me about a no call no show I put him on my will not see list. I think that is one of the most disrespectful things you can do to any business is not show up when you are supposed to. If I have something come up I will get in touch with the person. Have a great day!! Thank you to all the men and women who have served to make this Country a safer and better place. Thank you for my freedoms. Thank you for your service.

Xoxo,

VR.

[QUOTE=VelvetRayne;3144648]I will no longer see a gentleman that no show no calls me. I also send a text out to all the providers that I have on my lost and tell them about it. Most of them will not see him either. Vice Versa when someone text me about a no call no show I put him on my will not see list. I think that is one of the most disrespectful things you can do to any business is not show up when you are supposed to. If I have something come up I will get in touch with the person. Have a great day!! Thank you to all the men and women who have served to make this Country a safer and better place. Thank you for my freedoms. Thank you for your service.

Xoxo,

VR.[/QUOTE]I feel ya girl I need someone like you that knows more of the people so you cam inform me on the ones not to see and extra amd vise versa.

There are plenty of 'blacklist' websites for clients who NC / NS and for other offenses.

The best and most nationally comprehensive one is a paid site. AKA - you pay a subscription fee for access to their database of client reports, and have to prove your provider identity before approval.

Other websites have 'provider only' forums to discuss this, as well as give you the ability to 'review' the client, that only gals can see and read.

[QUOTE=ThickNSweet;3144641]

[blue]On both sides, I'm doing that right now. Though, if chick A doesn't show soon I'm gonna go bang the sisters.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Damn A2. I would almost be hoping chick A doesn't show! LOL.

[blue]I brag a lot about how good we have it here. So chick A never called, never showed, I was on the way to bang the sisters (22 and 24 year old spinners) and a buddy of mine called who I haven't seen for a while. I called the sisters and canceled.

Cancel on sisters you say, why on earth would you do that, it's SISTERS.

Cause I can always bang them tomorrow and I haven't seen my buddy in a couple months, that's how good we have it here.

A2[/blue]

Typical women ganging up on men using their bodies as leverage!

No that was said with so much sarcasm my dead mother just slapped me from her grave!

I am new to this and will never leave a provider hanging by not showing!

But I have been left hanging in the dark with Jimmity cricket and his band 2. Times already!

[QUOTE=LoveThyTitties;3144625]True. But can find somebody that can perhaps.[/QUOTE]If someone has taken my phone to the FBI cyber specialists, then I'm already in deep and have other things to worry about.

[QUOTE=RogerOver;3145452]Damn A2. I would almost be hoping chick A doesn't show! LOL.

[blue]I brag a lot about how good we have it here. So chick A never called, never showed, I was on the way to bang the sisters (22 and 24 year old spinners) and a buddy of mine called who I haven't seen for a while. I called the sisters and canceled.

Cancel on sisters you say, why on earth would you do that, it's SISTERS.

Cause I can always bang them tomorrow and I haven't seen my buddy in a couple months, that's how good we have it here.

A2[/blue][/QUOTE]Anyone remember the days when Discrete Desires had those TWINS who would work duos for 5 hundos? Seemed like a lot of money then, but how many people now regret not taking that leap and getting that item checked off their bucket list? I mean, not only were they twins, but they were CUTE TWINS!

I don't know if this is the proper place to put this, but it seemed the most likely. I have looked around and I don't see any way to change the time limit on when the site auto logs you out so I assume that's a site wide limit. The limit seems kind of short to me. When you're doing research on a provider, especially when you're fairly new at using the site, it often takes longer than the timeout period. So I'm constantly having to log back in in order to search or take advantage of other functionality that comes with being a logged in member.

I get that you're trying to save server cycles, but any chance of getting that timeout limit increased a little bit?

[QUOTE=DaddioDoc;3148437]I don't know if this is the proper place to put this, but it seemed the most likely. I have looked around and I don't see any way to change the time limit on when the site auto logs you out so I assume that's a site wide limit. The limit seems kind of short to me. When you're doing research on a provider, especially when you're fairly new at using the site, it often takes longer than the timeout period. So I'm constantly having to log back in in order to search or take advantage of other functionality that comes with being a logged in member.

I get that you're trying to save server cycles, but any chance of getting that timeout limit increased a little bit?[/QUOTE]I don't know what your talking about. The site never logs me out.

[QUOTE=DaddioDoc;3148437]I don't know if this is the proper place to put this, but it seemed the most likely. I have looked around and I don't see any way to change the time limit on when the site auto logs you out so I assume that's a site wide limit. The limit seems kind of short to me. When you're doing research on a provider, especially when you're fairly new at using the site, it often takes longer than the timeout period. So I'm constantly having to log back in in order to search or take advantage of other functionality that comes with being a logged in member.

I get that you're trying to save server cycles, but any chance of getting that timeout limit increased a little bit?[/QUOTE]I use Google Chrome with the Incognito option and have never had a problem staying logged in. Do you check the "Remember Me" box?

SP.

[QUOTE=DaddioDoc;3148437]I don't know if this is the proper place to put this, but it seemed the most likely. I have looked around and I don't see any way to change the time limit on when the site auto logs you out so I assume that's a site wide limit. The limit seems kind of short to me. When you're doing research on a provider, especially when you're fairly new at using the site, it often takes longer than the timeout period. So I'm constantly having to log back in in order to search or take advantage of other functionality that comes with being a logged in member.

I get that you're trying to save server cycles, but any chance of getting that timeout limit increased a little bit?[/QUOTE]I have the same problem but logging back in is no problem so I just go with yhe flow. I only log in by my phone using Chrome.

[QUOTE=DaddioDoc;3148437]I don't know if this is the proper place to put this, but it seemed the most likely. I have looked around and I don't see any way to change the time limit on when the site auto logs you out so I assume that's a site wide limit. The limit seems kind of short to me. When you're doing research on a provider, especially when you're fairly new at using the site, it often takes longer than the timeout period. So I'm constantly having to log back in in order to search or take advantage of other functionality that comes with being a logged in member.

I get that you're trying to save server cycles, but any chance of getting that timeout limit increased a little bit?[/QUOTE]I think he's talking about the search timing string timing out.

I have had this issue on occasion. If you don't select the remember me option, your login times out after some interval of no activity. MTR me this is perfectly fine! I won't choose the remember me option as a safety thing. I can deal with the logout timeout.

If you simply go to the USASG tab while your doing other research and refresh the page you will stay logged in.

It is all most that time of the year again. My home is open Thanksgiving Day for anyone that is going to be alone on that day or stuck in a hotel room and has no Turkey or Ham to eat. If you would like to come eat and watch some football that day or just don't want to be alone please let me know by Tuesday morning at the latest so I can make sure to have enough food and drink. This is open to providers and clients as well.

Have a blessed Day and Be Safe!!

Always,

VR.

[QUOTE=VelvetRayne;3151772]It is all most that time of the year again. My home is open Thanksgiving Day for anyone that is going to be alone on that day or stuck in a hotel room and has no Turkey or Ham to eat. If you would like to come eat and watch some football that day or just don't want to be alone please let me know by Tuesday morning at the latest so I can make sure to have enough food and drink. This is open to providers and clients as well.

Have a blessed Day and Be Safe!!

Always,

VR.[/QUOTE]Women you would ever meet. VR you are a JEWEL.

[QUOTE=VelvetRayne;3151772]It is all most that time of the year again. My home is open Thanksgiving Day for anyone that is going to be alone on that day or stuck in a hotel room and has no Turkey or Ham to eat. If you would like to come eat and watch some football that day or just don't want to be alone please let me know by Tuesday morning at the latest so I can make sure to have enough food and drink. This is open to providers and clients as well.

Have a blessed Day and Be Safe!!

Always,

VR.[/QUOTE]Very classy move babe. If I was around I would drop by just to listen to the gossip.

Priceless. .

[QUOTE=JoeBogus;3152341]Very classy move babe. If I was around I would drop by just to listen to the gossip.

Priceless. .[/QUOTE]All the gossip but, then I would miss My COWBOYS beat the INDIANS. Would love to have you around. I am blessed and I really want to share my blessings with others.

Always,

VR.

[QUOTE=VelvetRayne;3151772]It is all most that time of the year again. My home is open Thanksgiving Day for anyone that is going to be alone on that day or stuck in a hotel room and has no Turkey or Ham to eat. If you would like to come eat and watch some football that day or just don't want to be alone please let me know by Tuesday morning at the latest so I can make sure to have enough food and drink. This is open to providers and clients as well.

Have a blessed Day and Be Safe!!

Always,

VR.[/QUOTE]So the question is. What is the cover charge? Is the Milking table closed on Turkey Day? The most important thing is what time is dinner?

[QUOTE=CincyHobbist;3152644]So the question is. What is the cover charge? Is the Milking table closed on Turkey Day? The most important thing is what time is dinner?[/QUOTE]No charge all of it is on me. Playtime is closed until after The Cowboys game. I am thinking around 2 or 3 will be dinner time. So everyone will be good and full during the Cowboys and Indians game! Would love to have you come over.

Always,

VR.

[QUOTE=CincyHobbist;3152644]So the question is. What is the cover charge? Is the Milking table closed on Turkey Day? The most important thing is what time is dinner?[/QUOTE]No charge all of it is on me. Playtime is closed until after The Cowboys game. I am thinking around 2 or 3 will be dinner time. So everyone will be good and full during the Cowboys and Indians game! Would love to have you come over.

Always,

VR.

Velvet can correct me if I'm wrong but I took her offer as a sincere and gracious invitation for those who are alone on this day, not an invitation to a fuck fest.

[QUOTE=CincyHobbist;3152644]So the question is. What is the cover charge? Is the Milking table closed on Turkey Day? The most important thing is what time is dinner?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DGoesDown;3153132]Velvet can correct me if I'm wrong but I took her offer as a sincere and gracious invitation for those who are alone on this day, not an invitation to a fuck fest.[/QUOTE]You are right. I am inviting people over to come share this holiday with me. I know what it is like to be stuck in a room or at home alone and no food to eat. I have been blessed and would love to share my private life with people who want food and company. If only for a day.

Xoxo.

[QUOTE=DGoesDown;3153132]Velvet can correct me if I'm wrong but I took her offer as a sincere and gracious invitation for those who are alone on this day, not an invitation to a fuck fest.[/QUOTE]I'm sure she will be a great host. You will be treated very well, unless maybe if you root against her 'Boys. If you wear a Cowboy jersey, you might get an extra helping. Of turkey of course. Get your mind out of the gutter. I wish I could be there.

[QUOTE=DGoesDown;3153132]Velvet can correct me if I'm wrong but I took her offer as a sincere and gracious invitation for those who are alone on this day, not an invitation to a fuck fest.[/QUOTE]I know it was a sincere offer. I was just being a dork! I should have put a LOL or a silly face after it.

I wouldn't expect that with a house full of folks. Not my thing!

VR is just a class act.

[QUOTE=VelvetRayne;3151772]It is all most that time of the year again. My home is open Thanksgiving Day for anyone that is going to be alone on that day or stuck in a hotel room and has no Turkey or Ham to eat. If you would like to come eat and watch some football that day or just don't want to be alone please let me know by Tuesday morning at the latest so I can make sure to have enough food and drink. This is open to providers and clients as well.

Have a blessed Day and Be Safe!!

Always,

VR.[/QUOTE]