Yeah dude same thing had happened to me as well.
[QUOTE=Ddddd21;4448672]I'm going to be honest with you, I don't think it's really worth it but that's my opinion. Here's how I was able to meet kgirls outside of their work. First things first, I believe communication is important. I speak Korean fluently so I can actually have conversations with them, so I tend to ask them a lot of personal questions. I tend to ask them "what are you doing here?" "why do you do these kind of work?" etc. And they get comfortable with me. They don't take it seriously that I'm asking these questions because I'm pretty young and I have nothing to regret. So I got to meet 3 kgirls outside of their work. First one doesn't really count though. The first girl was a really popular girl. She was my ATF. I don't tend to have ATF's or have much repeat visits unless we really connect and I just get bored of banging the same girl over and over. But this one was special. At first, I just saw her every week. She would let me stay a bit extra during our session, because she didn't have a roommate at the time. One time, she asked if I could take her to CVS after work. We ended up eating In and Out and I took her to CVS after. I tried to pay for her stuff, but she refused. Next session, I asked for her kakaotalk and she gave it to me. But we never really chatted outside of work because she was always working. All of a sudden, she went on a long hiatus so I started to miss her. I texted her saying I missed her from time to time, but she never replied. One day, she finally responded saying we should hang out. We set up a date and I picked her up from her apartment. I took her out to eat at a semi fancy place. Then I took her out to dessert. It was just a normal date between two people. She was just a typical Korean girl to me, never reaching for the bill when it came to paying. In my head I was like "whatever, I got this" thinking I would be able to smash after, but during her hiatus, she had an injury and because of that, she didn't exercise, so you could tell she put on quite a few pounds. I ended up dropping her off and that was it. After she returned to working in a couple of months, my weekly visit to her turned to monthly visit and I just stopped seeing her after. We just got too close and she would nag all the time and her quality of service just went down. She just got too comfortable with me. Second one was very special. [/QUOTE]
