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[QUOTE=Leo57;1620258]I saw her last week she says everything is fine,[/QUOTE]It is extremely rare that someone who suffers from depression, has a possible eating disorder and / or uses drugs admits to any of the above to a casual acquaintance. I haven't (yet) seen Petra but would like to. Not saying she has a problem, but there may well be warning signs. Another member has tried to offer help, counseling, etc.
[QUOTE=Varoom;1619195]Good point QD. You shouldn't have to be concerned about receiving unsolicited texts that intrude on your personal space. But you should definitely consider a burn phone at a small cost of 10 to 20 bucks per month; ways of hiding it in your golf bag or trunk of the car, etc. Maybe less risk of that being discovered than a text msg like you have rec'd. Here's another reason why a provider should be very cautious about blind text msgs; what happens if the hobbyist phone is compromised, falls into the hands of LE? I know of this happening recently to a hobbyist, his phone was confiscated by po-po during a dubious stop after the phone was called into to question. (dumb move on his part). Now if you are texting that phone in an unsolicited manner, guess what could happen? I suppose it is merely one of the many risks of this hobby. Be safe and smart, on all sides.[/QUOTE]Completely agree.
What I don't understand is how so many say they "can't afford a burn phone". Think about it. These are guys who want to stay under the radar, avoid detection by a spouse, etc, and are paying hundreds of dollars a month (week, in many cases!) , and yet, they can't "afford"$20-50 a month to help maintain the privacy they say they covet? Give me a break! Whatever the reason they provide for not getting one, it is absolutely not because they can't afford one. I would ask, how can they afford not to have one? Get real, please.
[QUOTE=Leo57;1620258]I saw her last week she says everything is fine,[/QUOTE]Thanks on the Intel on Perta. I can now stop thinking about it and move on. Glad to see that she good.
Not sure where to post this, have not had this happen in a VERY long time, client says going to be late, then decides not to show, after talking to 2 other providers regarding clients, the census is, we need a forum for the ones who like to play games, whether it be shorting on money or just plain no shows, problem is How do we go about getting a forum like this? Any information would be greatly appreciated. Happy Holidays to hobbyist and providers alike. Kepe safe and happy hunting. Rhonda
[QUOTE=HelpMeRhonda;1621338]Not sure where to post this, have not had this happen in a VERY long time, client says going to be late, then decides not to show, after talking to 2 other providers regarding clients, the census is, we need a forum for the ones who like to play games, whether it be shorting on money or just plain no shows, problem is How do we go about getting a forum like this? Any information would be greatly appreciated. Happy Holidays to hobbyist and providers alike. Kepe safe and happy hunting. Rhonda[/QUOTE]Well is it possible that he could have been in a car Accident? Maybe his wife called him up and he felt guilty? Or some other event that might of happen? Since this was the clients frist offence might want to give him the benefit of doubt. I had providers in the past show up late, and no call no show now some have legitimately excuses and some gave me crap and expected to just eat it.
But I agree I have a low threshold to to no call and no show. And don't think a thread for that would be a bad idea. Just throwing my two cents worth out there.
Hey guys luna bella will no longer be advertising. I won't put my name behind someone with no motivation I am sorry to those who scheduled and she suddenly cancelled. Hopefully soon I will have a new addition and she will be a spinner.
There are women who truly love what they do and those who just take the envelope and give a wife like experience. Good to see a lady who has sterling reviews disassociate herself from a less than enthusiastic companion. PT
Agreed, always good service from her, and she takes it serious about grils on her team. She let another girl go a while back, I had talked to Luna Bella before but didn't get that great service vibe from her.
[QUOTE=Thorbane; 1621841]Well is it possible that he could have been in a car Accident? Maybe his wife called him up and he felt guilty? Or some other event that might of happen? Since this was the clients frist offence might want to give him the benefit of doubt. I had providers in the past show up late, and no call no show now some have legitimately excuses and some gave me crap and expected to just eat it.
But I agree I have a low threshold to to no call and no show. And don't think a thread for that would be a bad idea. Just throwing my two cents worth out there.[/QUOTE]I was almost a no show once. It was a typical 2-call system and when I got to the area. I discovered I had ZERO cell phone service. Uh oh. I expect the towers were "out" for my carrier in that area. I tried rebooting the phone etc. Fortunately. I saw a McDonalds and whipped into their lot to use their wi-fi access. You just never know what can happen. If it happens once. Cut 'them some slack. But a repeat offender. I totally understand. He ought to be willing to explain before you consider accepting another appointment. If you don't like the excuse. Cut 'them loose.
Hi guys, I understand those of you who have seen Lisa, have enjoyed to the fullest, but I will no longer be vouching for her as a provider, due to scheduling issues not her personally, Happy Holidays to you all, I look forward to a fun filled week! Rhonda
[QUOTE=BeardlyWizard;1620079]I ran into this situation last year with a provider. It was an every other day thing. Asking for dates and saying theu were desperate for money. Kept up even after I told her to stop. Ended up changing my number.[/QUOTE]Tell them you moved out of town, or respond "who is this"."I don't know you". Or block their number. If you need to talk yo them down the road unblock them.
I am seeking legal representation / advice. If there is a hobbyist that happens to be an attorney, please contact me.
Can pay cash for services if legal representation is needed.
This is in no regards to the hobby, nor does this mean that I have run into legal trouble regarding the hobby or line of work that I do. I am very careful and do my homework regarding whom I choose to share my time with. I say this so no one gets the wrong idea or turns this into something that it is not.
All the best,
Dawn