It's mostly about the money
[QUOTE=ThotLover95;6789060]Desire again. These two approached me, Rain seemed nice but said maybe later. Then this older lady with glasses approached, Sass. Seemed nice. But I waited around for others but I was ignored. Dancers were just doing shots with guys at the bar, I tried to be more assertive and asked this tattooed dancer on stage to come see me. She ignored me after. I asked a bartender her name and she said thinks it is April. What gives? Is my money not green?[/QUOTE]Tough to tell, but a couple things:
- money talks.
- strippers have stripper brain.
- some drink or vape on the job.
- Desire's strippers have a lot of regulars, and if they are making enough money from regulars, they sometimes don't go after new guys.
The tattooed dancer was probably Charlotte, who used to go by the name April a a couple of years ago.
Money talks, so if you tipped her $30-50 on stage, she'd probably come see you. If you tipped a few ones, she wouldn't be in a hurry.
I've tipped girls $20 on stage, and they'd be flirting and talking with me the whole time, and ask if I wanted a VIP. I'd say yes, and they'd promise to come see me. Then they'd go out to the patio and not come back, or sit with a regular and not come back. That's stripper brain. Lots of them drink and vape too.
Mostly, a lot of the girls have regulars who they know will give them a guaranteed amount of money if they spend time with them, so that's what they do.
A few other things that help. You shoud appear to have money, either by spending it or dressing like it. I used to wear sweatshirts and sweatpants (when they allowed them) and got little attention, and got more attention with jeans and an ok shirt. Don't smell bad. Be reasonably polite. Don't be creepy. Staring at the girls is expected, but if you look creepy and uncomfortable doing it, they worry.
And yes, some girls don't like certain races or ethnic groups, and they'll probably never say it publicly, but it's true. It's rare, but it's there.
But for most girls, it's all about the money. You're at an auction, and if you outbid the next guy, you'll get the girl. But if he does a $100 VIP with her every time he comes in, and you're giving $5-10 at the stage, she's not stopping for you.
Guys date these strippers seriously!
I found some Desire club girls instas and I can't believe have serious boyfriends. Are these guys dumb as rocks? They going to be taken to the cleaners and their balls in a vice. Any of you guys reading this, you're fucked. Damn mind boggling.