My thoughts on GFE and rating scales
I once read either here or on ISG about a guy who had come-up with a GFE rating system which became popular with a certain segment of that forum. I don't remember his handle or else I'd give him proper credit but his GFE scale went something like this:
According to him there were 3 basic and measurable elements to being a GFE: BBBJ, DFK and no-rush. He'd then give the provider 1 point for each element present (making that part of his system a 3 point scale). Some guys could add other elements like DATY, MSOG or credible acting like a GF (e.g. , the moaning or "Ay papi" part) and give points for those (or give just half a point for LFK w/o any full DFK), but this guy focused on just those 3 basic elements. Thus a provider who failed on all 3 got a zero rating as a GFE no matter how good she might be in other respects.
Then this guy went further by combining his scale with the more usual 1-10 rating system used by guys based mainly on looks. However, what he did was subtract 3 points from whatever that was then add back his GFE rating.
Thus a "10" would get only 7 points for looks plus 0-3 more for whatever GFE she provided. A "10" who provided all the GFE elements would still be what he would call a true 10, but if she didn't provide DFK or BBBJ and rushed her service she'd rate as at best just a 7.
Meanwhile, a provider who was only average on looks could bring herself up to as much as an 8 making her even more desirable than the really hot looking provider who provided none of the GFE.
For me personally, women who are truly 10's are exceedingly rare. They are like SOME (though not all) of the gorgeous women you see in movies and in porno mags and videos that are truly flawless. You only very rarely meet such women in everyday life. Somewhat more often you'll come across what I'd call a 9, gorgeous but not absolutely perfect (i.e. having some perhaps insignificant but still present flaw). More commonly, the women MOST guys (though not the pickiest ones) would agree are pretty I'd "just" give an 8. Attractive but not gorgeous get a 7, better than average get a 6. Most women get just a 5 because 5 is average, and let's face it the average woman in this country is not overly attractive (and is frequently overweight) and to be fair the same could just as easily said about us guys. And below 5 we need not even discuss (unless you want to talk about the so-called Streetwalker Scale which will move up what I would call 5's to 10 status)
Put another way looks, like so many other things, falls on a bell curve. The vast majority fall somewhere in the middle whereas the extremes (the 1's and 10's) are a tiny tiny minority. That's why I can only smh at those guys who, in my mind at least, seem to throw out 9 & 10 ratings like it was candy. For example, even at the local strip clubs, I very rarely see one that I'd rate more than an 8. 9's maybe sometimes but 10's practically never.
Getting back to GFE, very often the ones who are 10 in looks rate zero as GFE's (making them 7's). They may still be worth a throw just because they're so hot looking (and if you do manage to find a "10" who's also a full GFE, marry her). More often though, you'll find full GFE among providers who may only be "6-8" on the traditional scale but, because of their GFE qualities score an 8-9 on this new scale. Those are the ones I look for.
One last comment, it is easy to be taken in by these provider's acts, to think that it is all more real than it actually is, to think they are like actual girlfriends. One should still fully enjoy the experience but always remember that at the end of the session we are paying them to leave because they're not actual girlfriends. For that reason I usually prefer to refer to them as GFFE's, GirlFriend Fantasy Experiences, least we forget it's all just a fantasy.
Next topic: BFE's, do such things exist for some providers?
****Looking back on this post I realized that some of the math didn't add up right, so maybe I remember his system wrong, but you can get the gist of it (and would probably want to modify it to what works for you anyway).
