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Earlier this week I met up with an old friend of the board at the foot of the Swiss Alps. She had semi-retired earlier this year and moved to the east coast. I had been contacting her via email over the past several months to check on her well being and to maybe see if she was ever coming back out to play. This past week, I must have thrown the bait out at the right time. She nibbled on the worm and I reeled her in. A splendid time was had by all. Many of you probably know who I mean.

Since I did not get permission to share info and she said she doesn't come out too often these days, I will leave it at that. I remember seeing another member mentioned he had seen her in the past few months as well and another asking about her because he missed seeing her. I don't know if she comes out to play much or not because she said she had some bad experiences on the east coast and was being careful. She didn't share much more than that and I didn't pry. If you have interest, maybe drop her a "how you doing" email and see what happens.

I hate to be so vague but I am sure that the members that have been on the board for a year or so know who I mean and the newer members that read the board's history may have a clue also. It is up to you to proceed if you so choose. I mention the event here because I know that there are members who miss this one dearly!

Of course this was all a dream and I won't remember any of it in the morning.

Grain 56.

How do I know I'm not walking into a trap?

ITC,

It almost sounds like you are thinking of doing something that is against the law. Why would you do that?

C3.

[QUOTE=InTheCut;2225843]How do I know I'm not walking into a trap?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=InTheCut;2225843]How do I know I'm not walking into a trap?[/QUOTE]What are you talking about?, it is just a hobby, just think that you are buying your new car and have to deal with the salesperson.

[QUOTE=InTheCut;2225843]How do I know I'm not walking into a trap?[/QUOTE]I will damn near walk out the door if they ask for money up front. I must be at the wrong place, sorry I'll leave.

A real lady "-provider' has good instincts, research and see girls that get it. "We want blow jobs for free".

Gentlemen, I have seen this fine woman long before she appeared on here. She was always a good time with excellent skills and always GFE. Now I see her ads and my how her rates have increased, not sure is worth the extra coin but YMMV. I certainly think that $50 - $80 upcharge for GFE is excessive. Come on, yiu have to pay her to kiss and be nice to you, what otherwise she will be all business like?? We should boycott the providers that think it is okay to charge extra to be GFE. Either you are or you are not but not she is not unless you pay her more. Just saying that is not right. Anyone else's thoughts on this matter?

Be safe out there.

[QUOTE=CflMonger48;2226384]Gentlemen, I have seen this fine woman long before she appeared on here. She was always a good time with excellent skills and always GFE. Now I see her ads and my how her rates have increased, not sure is worth the extra coin but YMMV. I certainly think that $50 - $80 upcharge for GFE is excessive. Come on, yiu have to pay her to kiss and be nice to you, what otherwise she will be all business like?? We should boycott the providers that think it is okay to charge extra to be GFE. Either you are or you are not but not she is not unless you pay her more. Just saying that is not right. Anyone else's thoughts on this matter?

Be safe out there.[/QUOTE]That is the best remedy.

[QUOTE=CflMonger48;2226384]Gentlemen, I have seen this fine woman long before she appeared on here. She was always a good time with excellent skills and always GFE. Now I see her ads and my how her rates have increased, not sure is worth the extra coin but YMMV. I certainly think that $50 - $80 upcharge for GFE is excessive. Come on, yiu have to pay her to kiss and be nice to you, what otherwise she will be all business like?? We should boycott the providers that think it is okay to charge extra to be GFE. Either you are or you are not but not she is not unless you pay her more. Just saying that is not right. Anyone else's thoughts on this matter?

Be safe out there.[/QUOTE]Great point! Unfortunately, we all know that she is charging what people will pay her. So, come on guys. Show her and any others that you are only willing to pay reasonable prices.

[QUOTE=CflMonger48;2226384]Gentlemen, I have seen this fine woman long before she appeared on here. She was always a good time with excellent skills and always GFE. Now I see her ads and my how her rates have increased, not sure is worth the extra coin but YMMV. I certainly think that $50 - $80 upcharge for GFE is excessive. Come on, yiu have to pay her to kiss and be nice to you, what otherwise she will be all business like?? We should boycott the providers that think it is okay to charge extra to be GFE. Either you are or you are not but not she is not unless you pay her more. Just saying that is not right. Anyone else's thoughts on this matter?

Be safe out there.[/QUOTE]If that's how she wants to market herself so be it. Will it attract more business. Probably not. Just like getting a women to "O" it's all about the angle and approach. This is obvious something she doesn't like to do up front but will do it and be compensated. To each there own. I personally wouldn't invest in that plan as a money maker.

[QUOTE=InTheCut;2225843]How do I know I'm not walking into a trap?[/QUOTE]When buying a car you might be walking into a trap so what do you do?

Ask to see what's under the hood.

Do your homework ahead of time and get a carfax report.

[QUOTE=CflMonger48;2226384]Gentlemen, I have seen this fine woman long before she appeared on here. She was always a good time with excellent skills and always GFE. Now I see her ads and my how her rates have increased, not sure is worth the extra coin but YMMV. I certainly think that $50 - $80 upcharge for GFE is excessive. Come on, yiu have to pay her to kiss and be nice to you, what otherwise she will be all business like?? We should boycott the providers that think it is okay to charge extra to be GFE. Either you are or you are not but not she is not unless you pay her more. Just saying that is not right. Anyone else's thoughts on this matter?

Be safe out there.[/QUOTE]Thanks for pointing that out to me, but I have to respectfully disagree. I don't believe the up charge is excessive! I personally just don't really love to kiss. Don't get me wrong, I have been told that the DFK Was great. But I just typically prefer to the spend the time doing things we both are equally interested in. The excellent skills you previously experienced are as good in a non-GFE, and the kissing is the ONLY thing you have to pay for! My friendly attitude and general demeanor is always that sweet, playful, sexy and attentive girl you've met! I am always non rushed, and love to cuddle / talk etc in any session I'm in. And I don't charge my regulars extra for a GFE session if they'd like it, so I think it ends up being semi fair for everyone. I'm totally worth it!

Jade,

First, I want to thank you for your post. You impress me with your reply which is a good explanation of the way you feel without getting overly dramatic about it. Second, a disclaimer, I am a guy that loves good old fashioned making out. Call me old school. Third, I really hate upselling. I just hate it and really don't get it. All that said, your post has me rethinking a few things. Oh, I still hate upselling, but at least you put it out there on the front end. I think I can accept that. I am not sure I will ever call you but, for now, I am on the fence about it. And your polite post is what has swayed me. That is saying something.

Now I have to go back and re-read your ads and figure some shit out. Damn it.

I do wish you well.

C3.

[QUOTE=FarFromJaded;2226705]Thanks for pointing that out to me, but I have to respectfully disagree. I don't believe the up charge is excessive! I personally just don't really love to kiss. Don't get me wrong, I have been told that the DFK Was great. But I just typically prefer to the spend the time doing things we both are equally interested in. The excellent skills you previously experienced are as good in a non-GFE, and the kissing is the ONLY thing you have to pay for! My friendly attitude and general demeanor is always that sweet, playful, sexy and attentive girl you've met! I am always non rushed, and love to cuddle / talk etc in any session I'm in. And I don't charge my regulars extra for a GFE session if they'd like it, so I think it ends up being semi fair for everyone. I'm totally worth it![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Camera3;2226989]Jade,

First, I want to thank you for your post. You impress me with your reply which is a good explanation of the way you feel without getting overly dramatic about it. Second, a disclaimer, I am a guy that loves good old fashioned making out. Call me old school. Third, I really hate upselling. I just hate it and really don't get it. All that said, your post has me rethinking a few things. Oh, I still hate upselling, but at least you put it out there on the front end. I think I can accept that. I am not sure I will ever call you but, for now, I am on the fence about it. And your polite post is what has swayed me. That is saying something.

Now I have to go back and re-read your ads and figure some shit out. Damn it.

I do wish you well.

C3.[/QUOTE]You crack me the fuck up!

[QUOTE=FarFromJaded;2226705]Thanks for pointing that out to me, but I have to respectfully disagree. I don't believe the up charge is excessive! I personally just don't really love to kiss. Don't get me wrong, I have been told that the DFK Was great. But I just typically prefer to the spend the time doing things we both are equally interested in. The excellent skills you previously experienced are as good in a non-GFE, and the kissing is the ONLY thing you have to pay for! My friendly attitude and general demeanor is always that sweet, playful, sexy and attentive girl you've met! I am always non rushed, and love to cuddle / talk etc in any session I'm in. And I don't charge my regulars extra for a GFE session if they'd like it, so I think it ends up being semi fair for everyone. I'm totally worth it![/QUOTE]I agree with you 100%. I don't mind kissing but it's not really my thing. If someone is adamant about wanting to kiss then an additional charge is fine by me if it's not a surprise. But I'm far more interested in other things mor than kissing.

KC.

[QUOTE=FarFromJaded;2226705]Thanks for pointing that out to me, but I have to respectfully disagree. I don't believe the up charge is excessive! I personally just don't really love to kiss. Don't get me wrong, I have been told that the DFK Was great. But I just typically prefer to the spend the time doing things we both are equally interested in. The excellent skills you previously experienced are as good in a non-GFE, and the kissing is the ONLY thing you have to pay for! My friendly attitude and general demeanor is always that sweet, playful, sexy and attentive girl you've met! I am always non rushed, and love to cuddle / talk etc in any session I'm in. And I don't charge my regulars extra for a GFE session if they'd like it, so I think it ends up being semi fair for everyone. I'm totally worth it![/QUOTE]My personal opinion about DFK and extra coin, first I am very picky on that and most of the time I do prefer to pass on DFK but the ugly truth is that the provider does not go that far most of the time because that means that you are not her type or you have snow white and the 7 dwarfs dead in your mouth. Horny women love to kiss and no doubt about. I have DFK multiple times at the club with girls that I just met while dancing and even girl to girl at the club or music festivals and they are complete strangers. If a provider prefer to spend more time in BBBJ than a DFK, then no doubt that she is not into the pleasure, why?, there is higher risk to get a STD from BBBJCIM than good DFK. I good sweet kiss is the meaning that like each other and ask extra for that, no doubt that going to turn me off. My recommendation to you girl is that avoid mention that in your menu and keep it as your own preference. That is going to work against you and not in your favor. I do suggest to ask some extra for a Greek tour, golden shower or modeling. Make more sense to me.