Just joined Seekinarrangement, need a liitle help!
[QUOTE=ScConnoisseur3;3755136]If I meet up with a girl from SA and she's not the same girl from her SA page I'm automatically disengaged from the whole situation. Next time, fuck all that b. S. And don't even continue with this chick. Don't be afraid to walk away. Remember, you're the guy with the money. And if you have the 💰 you should be in control. Sometimes you got to go hard on these hoes.[/QUOTE]Is there a way to send or receive and or read the incoming messages without paying the monthly fee of eighty dollars. I tried adding my email in the profile section and it kept getting flagged! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I just got back into the hobby after a retiring for a few years. I miss the good times at CL, RIP. Thanks for advice in advance.
Welcome to the Sugar Bowl.
[QUOTE=Jnoc2018;3780254]Is there a way to send or receive and or read the incoming messages without paying the monthly fee of eighty dollars. I tried adding my email in the profile section and it kept getting flagged! Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I just got back into the hobby after a retiring for a few years. I miss the good times at CL, RIP. Thanks for advice in advance.[/QUOTE]The Sugar Bowl is. The kind of place where most will end up paying 80 bucks for a few nudie pics, or end up fucking the same girls that advertise on CL / BP. They is a comin' Having said that, I started mongering when I was 16, first I did car dates, with streetwalkers, then I discovered Tijuana, and did both, then ******** then CL back in 04, then I really hit paydirt with the adult gigs on CL from 07 to 11. Then I was in a wasteland, sticking to the girls I met in my CL hey day. The occasional drive down the tracks. Backpage was so-so even its heyday. Until 2013 when I discovered paydirt. SA.
Will never forget the first time I met a girl, a 23 Ukranian who was visiting on a tourist visa and her friend got her on the site, unfriggin believable. But before people start getting their crotches hard and checking their credit lines. This site, it really does take a gift of gab. Just writing to a girl and saying. "hey how much for a blowjob" just shows how out of your realm you are. The girls I've fucked. You wouldn't believe. I am sad to think that one day this is going to be over, but I can never see myself going back to backpage for a mediocre 100 FS, or for an escort who thinks she's doing you a favor by jumpin on your cock for 300/ hr on HX. And I gag to think all those years I wasted driving more miles than an uber driver down the tracks looking for the gems. When on SA it's so much easier.
But if you're not the type of guy that knows how to fuck a girl mentally first, you're not going to get past the "500 per meet". Trust me. And I"m not bragging I'm just calling it like it is. Of course I'm not discouraging anyone from trying, but if a girl is open to a line like "100 for a BJ" she's probably from CL. And at that point ITS A WASTE OF MONEY to pay 90 bucks a month to meet up with chicks you could find on a free site. Ya dig?
The one with the black dress and white shirt.
[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;3721141]Well it was bound to happen. My GF got into a fight with my little girl and now they are not talking. The upside is that my GF seems more motivated than ever to move out. I am giving her to June 1st. Most likely I will have to pay to get rid of her (been there done that a few times before). But she is out there hustling for modeling jobs, even the low paying ones. So we will see.
For any phone collectors that might be on here, that's the only Pink WE 302 in existence that I am aware of. It even has pink feet.[/QUOTE]Man that chick her name starts with a W. I've fucked her twice, BBFS. She was kinda of lame, maybe she didn't dig my fat ass. Haha I saw her recently on SA again under a new name, still one of the few chicks on SA that will take 80 bucks for a cardate. What do I know, I usually pass on that now. She does have really nice tits and is super skinny which is my fav combo, but honestly ever since I joined SA maybe its going to sound racist but I avoid black girls like the plague, it just makes no sense to pay 90 bucks a month to try to hook up with girls that you can pick up on fig or on any other website for free.
Just my two cents. I know I don't post much on this site, so I'm not known like you guys and my hats off to ya for passin on the knowledge, I probably should as well but I have a feeling some fools going to fuck up the game. Even now, I can't tell you how many 18 year old hotties end up leaving after a few days because some fool with no scruples offered her 1500 for a pop and gave her squat.
I know we all got to eat but. Some people just don't fly straight. Anyway sorry off topic.
This is what I was talking about earlier.
[QUOTE=Member#5556;3618790]She is on S. A acting as a SB.
[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/88336e3e-f52d-4f1f-8a40-4ae645935070[/URL]
Don't be fooled.
Just see her on hx, LOL for much less & save $$.
[URL]http://www.humaniplex.com/profiles/krasivaya.bb[/URL][/QUOTE]HERE ARE SOME RED FLAGS THAT A GIRL IS NOT A REGULAR GIRL.
1. She has undies shots on her main page and it's in a hotel room.
2. If she is ethnic (black / latina / asian).
- She doesn't have any photos of her at the club or a snapchat / insta pic.
- She hasn't been verified as a College Baby.
- Her place of residence is somewhere vague LOS ANGELES / BEVERLY HILLS (ESP)/ SANTA MONICA.
- Tattoos on thighs. Don't ask me why but it's like. A fuckin bulls eye.
- Looks ghetto AF (even cute black girls from South Central don't look ghetto).
3. She insists on driving to your house and is NOT open to meeting in public.
4. If she has a hotel room. (DOUBLE RED).
5. She is ok with meeting at 1 am (this one is a usually, there are exceptions) for a quick fuck.
6. She talks about condoms before you even meet.
These are all red flags that maybe alone don't immediate peg someone as a pro, but from my years on SA I've discovered that a combination of these and a few others that I can't quite remember right now. Provide for a full. Provider-less experience.
If you know how to fuck a girl mentally. Then go hither.
[QUOTE=ImThaGuy;3549222]If nothing else, this may be worthy of a bit of discussion and critique. My skin is thick, let's learn.
Discussion w POT.
Me - 6 days ago.
You definitely stand out in a place like this. Your values seems to be on the other end of the spectrum of what I have discovered in the week that I have been a member here.
Her - 4 days ago.
Thank you, my name is xxxxxxx by the way. You seem very interesting and I would love to get to know you better.
Me - 4 days ago.
Nice to meet you xxxxxxx. My name is xxxx. Like you, I'm interested in getting to know one person, having some sort of emotional, physical and mental connection. With all things present for both parties, there would hopefully be a better quality of life for everyone involved. If you'd like, send me a text and we can chat some more at a more convenient time for both of us. Xxxxxxxxx.
Her - 4 days ago.
Sure, may I ask if you are open to an arrangement that does not have a sexual component?
Me - 4 days ago.
I'm always looking to make new friends xxxxxxx. There has to be a natural attraction that goes both ways for sex to become a factor in any relationship.
Her - 4 days ago.
I agree, I know that for some people that changes things so I wanted to go ahead and let you know that it's not what I am looking for personally.
Me - 4 days ago.
Looking for. Like, what does that mean? Haha. Is it lost or something? Do you abstain? Maybe I am not being fair and I should think you're intent is to save me some sort of dissapointment before we have even met. Who's to say I would be interested? Kind of presumptuous don't you think?
Her - 4 days ago.
I understand and hope I didn't offend you. Most guys I have met on here assume that sex is on the table and available at their command. I am just trying to not waste your time.
Me - 4 days ago.
Hurt my feeling just a hair to be honest. I considered you probably get a lot of that after I sent that message, so I understand your having asked I suppose. I guess it's tough to not be assumptive when you see a clear pattern otherwise. The principle of being able to just do a little snap of the fingers and sex appears like breakfast during room service is pretty ridiculous. I wouldn't expect a platter full of money to appear like that either though. - Like I said, your profile made it seem as if there was something a little different versus what I have seen here and certainly what has been proposed to me in the short week I have been a paid member here. I'm not interested in that either. We'd just have to meet and see how we felt is all I can think to do from here.
Her - 4 days ago.
Well I am awfully sorry for hurting your feelings, it's good to be on the same page though! I would love to meet up sometime this week and get to know each other better.
Me - 4 days ago.
My feelings will be okay I think. You're better than alright xxxxxxx. It's a crazy week for me with work. I am sure this weekend though if you can manage that. Again, if you want, send me a text so it's easier to communicate. Otherwise I will look for you here. It was truly a treat chatting with you tonight. Night.
Her - 4 days ago.
Goodnight! I enjoyed chatting with you as well, I would love to plan something for the weekend soon.
END.
I haven't replied back yet. Weekend is almost here. She'll agree to meet I am 95% sure. She's my type. I don't think it's so much GPS, but more just being new and, needing an adjustment period I guess.
Whatcha think?[/QUOTE]From my experience this girl is a dud, unless she's freaking like smoooking hot, I'd cut my losses and walk away, even if you don't pay her. Don't get me started on how I feel about the guys that "PAY" for a meet and greet, those guys should be dragged onto the street and castrated. If I hear one more time "my time is valuable and I deserve to get compensated" I'm going to shoot myself. I think, there's a reason she thinks this way, because there's plenty of fools out there that say, yes massa.
But from the sound of this somewhat mundane conversation, I can see you meeting her for coffee and her awkwardly laughing at your coup d'etat. Out of pure uncomfortable sense of incompatibility, she doesn't get your humor and she's kind of dense. A girl like that honestly the only way would be to get her excited about things she really wants to talk about. Otherwise she sounds like she's in over her head, she has an idea of what she thinks this arrangement thing is. She thinks that just because she's attractive, that should be enough.
If you don't believe me, go on a date and let me know how wrong I was.
I'm not saying that some of the platonic dates don't eventually chika bow chika bow wow. But like I said in other posts, a lot of it depends on who fucks who. Either a girl fucks with a guys mind to get him to cash in his 401 k for pecks and kisses because she's not "one of those girls" or the guy massages her brain with his mind dick convincing her that she's meeting a guy that's going to show her the world, full of experiences and fun and is unlike any other guy she's ever met.
