YMMV and what to do with Intel
[QUOTE=TnaPorter;4875256]You know, I don't know what to say here. I travel a lot for work and as such, I use SA a lot for those cities and love it. However, there have been plenty of times when I've shared information on a girl on boards for other cities and the girl disappears shortly after. It makes me wonder if the same thing is happening there where guys read stuff and then start being unbelievably crude. I have no desire to white knight, but I don't get a kick out of treating people like shit either. I don't know, maybe we all shouldn't be sharing this type of information?[/QUOTE]If you think YMMV is a factor in TNA, in SA its all
True new SBs are insecure and inexperienced,. What you could get from them depends a lot on your approach, being social, funny, respectful and not pushy. I never talk about BB services (and 90% that's what I get) nor money unless they bring it, and when that happens that's an indication that they are not that inexperienced.
It usually takes some work to get them to meet you.
When intel is shared with amounts and experiences enjoyed it should be understood that its just a reference that you should never expect the same. Still approach them as if you know nothing about them, and for the love of god never mentioned you heard they would fuck for X and do Y.
Yeah I think the only way to share intel without fucking up the system for all, is just to share intel with guys that understand how to play in SA, meaning guys that have been successful on SA and have a list of leads to prove it.