The comments speak for themselves.
This will be my last post on the subject since we are giving way too much air play to this issue. But to close my comments: Any experience had with a provider over a year old is not valid. Not that it was not disappointing to you or that it didn't happen they way you said. Anyone starting out in a new field has sometimes much to learn. To put forth a bare comment without context is my problem. I would have had less a problem if you would have put it into context as to how long ago it had occurred. The comment was left to the interpretation of the reader. And at this point we all understand.
At one time I remember when a Japanese car would rust almost as soon as it was driven off the lot. If I were to say that Japanese cars are trash because of an experience that long ago, I'd get flamed almost anywhere. Let's get back to a civil discussion and agree to disagree. Like gentleman can most assuredly do.
I don't have a dog in this fight.
But you all are sure wasting a bunch of bandwidth over one guys opinion; even if you didn't like or agree with his comments. And who cares that the visit was over a yr ago. Apparently it happened, he wanted to comment on it and that is his right to do so.
The guy is entitled to his opinion and he should be able to express it w / o all the bashing he has received in this thread. All the personal barbs back and forth just denigrates the forum.
And CincyJim, to answer your earlier question about where do you post your next experience. RIGHT HERE. The very fact that he has to ask such a question proves the point that the treatment he has received may inhibit him or others from posting their experiences. And who does that hurt? Yep, everyone. Lets move on.
Public service announcement
For the cruisers of BP. If you come across Miss Christy. She also went by chloe winters. She's cute but only carries hand lotion.
Again, I have never met Cincyjim, bottom line, final post on this
This is my final post on this matter because I have things to do- like alphabetize my dictionary. Bottom line is, I never came on here to criticize Cincyjim for a negative review about me- I criticized him for leaving a false review.
I originally posted this because what he posted is untrue because I have never met Cincyjim. I have always been good at keeping track of what's going on and I know who I have seen and I have never met Cincyjim. If we had met and he left unhappy and wanted to share his negative experience then if it were his true thoughts then that would be one thing, but for Cincyjim to repeatedly claim we met when we never did is what has myself and others annoyed.
I have been in this just a little over a year now since Dec 3rd. 09 and I have always tried to treat others with the same respect I would like to receive in return by being dependable, considerate of their time, and serious about taking as many precautions as I can to ensure everyone's safety. In order to ensure the safety of those I have already met I have to decline many and I lose a lot of business in the process and if someone wants to take a decline personal because they didn't have the type of references I will accept and leave a false review and say we met when we never did- well then that speaks a lot about that person.
I am not trying to put words in the mouth of others, but in my opinion a lot of these people aren't rushing to my defense because you left a negative review about me- it's because you have left a false review about someone they know who is and always has been a tough screener and who is on top of what's going on with who she has and hasn't seen. After knowing me and the safety measures I take very seriously, they are not criticizing you for a negative report, but questioning the truth of your report. Again, you are not in my phone directory for a reason. When the first guy I saw back in "09" calls me I know right away who it is calling me. I have always been on top of what's going on as far as that goes.
I am not claiming to be perfect, and I never have claimed to be. I think I have learned a lot along the way as far as bcd activities. I can tell you one thing though, no one can honestly say I rushed them and this is another reason many are coming to my defense and questioning the velocity of your report. In fact, all that have actually seen me can tell you that I always ask if they need me to slow down or stop for a minute because I value their full time. I do not want them to stay 10 minutes and leave unhappy- it's not who I am and what I'm about and others know this of me. I take great pride in being dependable and professional and the best that I can be, so for you to do this with false intentions, yes, it is mean-spirited of you.
Cincyjim, as I said before, even from the beginning I am fully aware of who I have and have not seen and you and I both know we have never met and I will just leave it at that.
In Requards to the ongoing controversy.
How about both sides of the argument agree to disagree and we all move on.
Somehow I don't think further auguring is going to resolve anything. When all is said and done we're all here for a common goal which can only be achieved by co-operation so this constant conflict does nothing but hurt everyone.
Just my 2 cents.