Wants $70 up front before meeting, $300 total. I've done that scam before, sadly.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/833a661f-ee97-447b-8fe5-7f2962e7490a[/URL]
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Wants $70 up front before meeting, $300 total. I've done that scam before, sadly.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/833a661f-ee97-447b-8fe5-7f2962e7490a[/URL]
[QUOTE=Michael1967;6683863]I know this may sound ridiculous, but one of the many methods I use to screen on SA is their fingernails. If their fingernails are so long that they can't do anything practical without breaking them or if they look like talons, then they will be a pain in the ass. [/QUOTE]IKR, I don't like it when some aren't skilled in putting the jacket on with those nails. Some learned to how roll down the jacket with assistance from their mouth, fortunately.
Not ridiculous at all. I also pay attention to fingernails length. If long I think she is 100% ego about herself and she won't care about my needs.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;6683863]I know this may sound ridiculous, but one of the many methods I use to screen on SA is their fingernails. If their fingernails are so long that they can't do anything practical without breaking them or if they look like talons, then they will be a pain in the ass. At the same, I also look at how they hold their phone if they are doing selfies. If it's some elaborate shit (like you'll see in her pictures), then she's a pain in the ass. I'm sure there are guys out there that like that stuff, but I want someone that's going to fuck me senseless. People with long nails that they will worry about breaking are not going to fuck me senseless.[/QUOTE]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1b6be377-e168-4712-b78e-4fd353fe111c[/URL]#.
I have some lovely videos of her from early 2020. She drooled a lot when she gave deep throat BBBJ and enjoyed her creampies. Really nice natural breasts. 3. 5 year old impressions but she is actually really sweet.
How often do you guys get SB's randomly asking for things during special occasions or 'emergencies'?
I feel like it's usually a bad sign and time to cut things off. Has happened to me the last couple arrangements which ended soon after.
I regret nothing if they drop contact themselves, but no way I'm shelling out anything without meeting.
It's always the same excuses too -- phone breaking, car accidents, etc. Seems like a 'let's see what I can get before I move on' type of deal that won't work on me.
[QUOTE=HelloThar;6686058]How often do you guys get SB's randomly asking for things during special occasions or 'emergencies'?
I feel like it's usually a bad sign and time to cut things off. Has happened to me the last couple arrangements which ended soon after.
I regret nothing if they drop contact themselves, but no way I'm shelling out anything without meeting.
It's always the same excuses too -- phone breaking, car accidents, etc. Seems like a 'let's see what I can get before I move on' type of deal that won't work on me.[/QUOTE]It's a really bad sign, unless you've established some kind of trust it always leads to asking for more. The last time it happened to me we didn't even have an arrangement but I gifted her some weed. Literally the next day she hit me up for more. Needless to say that went nowhere fast. Strict ppm is the only way to establish boundaries, imo.
[QUOTE=HelloThar;6686058]How often do you guys get SB's randomly asking for things during special occasions or 'emergencies'?
I feel like it's usually a bad sign and time to cut things off. Has happened to me the last couple arrangements which ended soon after.
I regret nothing if they drop contact themselves, but no way I'm shelling out anything without meeting.
It's always the same excuses too -- phone breaking, car accidents, etc. Seems like a 'let's see what I can get before I move on' type of deal that won't work on me.[/QUOTE]I don't buy into it. Yes there is times where it is legit, but talking to a new girl who already starts into that shit. My typical response to that is, I need a emergency rim job and fuck your ass raw session.
[QUOTE=HelloThar;6686058]How often do you guys get SB's randomly asking for things during special occasions or 'emergencies'?
...[/QUOTE]I always let them know I'm really busy and have a tight schedule and can't really drop everything on short notice to help them out.
If they text or email or call asking for money outside of a planned meeting I just ignore it. I don't have time for it. They get the hint.
Also, every civilian I ever dated played the same stupid game. Even back in high school. I think females are born with this idea they can weasel guys out of money.
[QUOTE=HelloThar;6686058]How often do you guys get SB's randomly asking for things during special occasions or 'emergencies'?
I feel like it's usually a bad sign and time to cut things off. Has happened to me the last couple arrangements which ended soon after.
I regret nothing if they drop contact themselves, but no way I'm shelling out anything without meeting.
It's always the same excuses too -- phone breaking, car accidents, etc. Seems like a 'let's see what I can get before I move on' type of deal that won't work on me.[/QUOTE]Protip: Never ever give her money unless you are face to face. That's my rule. Otherwise they are going to treat you like a bank account. Every SB and every escort I've established a relationship with of some kind comes up with the whole "Help I'm stranded and need money!" Or some other BS excuse to get money from you. Happens every time almost. Depending upon how well I like them I will either respond or if they are just meh I will just block them.
[QUOTE=Paradigum;6683359]Some 'royalty' walks amongst us. I've never had a thing for porn stars and still don't. But I never thought I would have had a date with someone I had previously 'found' on xvideos or similar. An FYI to fellow members. Charlotte Carmen explores the Seattle SB scene.[/QUOTE]Charlotte was an amazing time. I'd love to get back in touch with her.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;6683863]I know this may sound ridiculous, but one of the many methods I use to screen on SA is their fingernails. If their fingernails are so long that they can't do anything practical without breaking them or if they look like talons, then they will be a pain in the ass. At the same, I also look at how they hold their phone if they are doing selfies. If it's some elaborate shit (like you'll see in her pictures), then she's a pain in the ass. I'm sure there are guys out there that like that stuff, but I want someone that's going to fuck me senseless. People with long nails that they will worry about breaking are not going to fuck me senseless.[/QUOTE]Not ridiculous at all! Smart man! LOL! That's a huge red flag. Those nails say," I'm not prepared to do any work!" Thirsty betas on IG like it though. It's all good till 30! LOL.
[QUOTE=BobbyShafToe;6686778]Charlotte was an amazing time. I'd love to get back in touch with her.[/QUOTE]Post her link on seeking.
[QUOTE=ProJohn1;6686712]Protip: Never ever give her money unless you are face to face. That's my rule. Otherwise they are going to treat you like a bank account. Every SB and every escort I've established a relationship with of some kind comes up with the whole "Help I'm stranded and need money!" Or some other BS excuse to get money from you. Happens every time almost. Depending upon how well I like them I will either respond or if they are just meh I will just block them.[/QUOTE]Yep, I have the same rule as well. It just makes it unfortunate when you come across someone who you thought was a bit more self-reliant and wouldn't need to beg for money, but I have to remind myself it that were totally true, these women likely wouldn't be on SA (aside from the rare gems). The irony is it's easy to make even the most strict guys generous if you just show some appreciation or ways of making up for it during a meetup, but indirectly saying 'send me a digital payment now' is a bit disappointing.
[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;6687090]Post her link on seeking.[/QUOTE][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4118ad36-b36a-42eb-9af2-a79740f0e83d[/URL]
Next time you can use search in SA and type "adult", there are a few actually.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/95063864-fc09-4d01-bad2-d8f83e683efa??locale=en_USS[/URL]
Wants a $1500 eBay card to cum to your place to raw dog. Won't take cash (I'm not giving 1500 when I have to initiate the rubber for waaaaay less haha).
What am I missing about this scam?
So y'all know, another shady lady.
Any info on this one? Can also pm me.
[QUOTE=PriceIsRight39;6688531][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/95063864-fc09-4d01-bad2-d8f83e683efa??locale=en_USS[/URL]
Wants a $1500 eBay card to cum to your place to raw dog. Won't take cash (I'm not giving 1500 when I have to initiate the rubber for waaaaay less haha).
What am I missing about this scam?
So y'all know, another shady lady.[/QUOTE]The scam is she will want to see the card and number as proof before she shows up. Once you send that, she and the money are gone.
Any info on these? TIA.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/95063864-fc09-4d01-bad2-d8f83e683efa[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c485447-a799-4368-ab0d-4273e740d871[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/034a98a6-3a19-4e90-a33f-71816b300477[/URL]
[QUOTE=Starskii;6688799]Any info on these? TIA.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/95063864-fc09-4d01-bad2-d8f83e683efa[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0c485447-a799-4368-ab0d-4273e740d871[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/034a98a6-3a19-4e90-a33f-71816b300477[/URL][/QUOTE]Well. I guess you have your answer LOL. Two of them have already deactivated there accounts. Which means they read this post and peaced the fuck out (scammers). The lone profile that is still up is of that Asian girl and at first viewing of her pictures screams serious princess vibes. Then I read her profile where it says "I understand there are likely bratty entitled girls here. (cont). " and that all but confirmed my first judgement of her. This is her projecting her princess / entitled mentality LOL! I have never ever seen a girl write out on SA that there are "likely bratty entitled girls here". She really let the cat out of the bag on that one. Not that any experienced monger wouldn't already suspect she was a princess from her profile photos though. Newbies take note of what they say in there BIO. You can find gems in there about how they really are.
"if you send me a message and I reply fast and then you fall off the grid or just leave me hanging, I will block you! That is one of my biggest pet peeves! Please respect my time and don't treat me like a plan b! If I reply fast, I expect you to do the same!
You see how entitled this girl is? HAH! How dare you have a life and not immediately reply to her! How dare you SIR! This is exactly what I am talking about folks. Read there bio! Digest it and read between the lines.
[QUOTE=DJTan;6687561][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4118ad36-b36a-42eb-9af2-a79740f0e83d[/URL]
Next time you can use search in SA and type "adult", there are a few actually.[/QUOTE]Not quite the right profile and girl but I like the concept and idea for searching.
[QUOTE=Michael1967;6688693]The scam is she will want to see the card and number as proof before she shows up. Once you send that, she and the money are gone.[/QUOTE]Ahhh, got it. She's still txting my burner. Thanks.
[QUOTE=ProJohn1;6688953]Well. I guess you have your answer LOL. Two of them have already deactivated there accounts. Which means they read this post and peaced the fuck out (scammers). The lone profile that is still up is of that Asian girl and at first viewing of her pictures screams serious princess vibes. Then I read her profile where it says "I understand there are likely bratty entitled girls here. (cont). " and that all but confirmed my first judgement of her. This is her projecting her princess / entitled mentality LOL! I have never ever seen a girl write out on SA that there are "likely bratty entitled girls here". She really let the cat out of the bag on that one. Not that any experienced monger wouldn't already suspect she was a princess from her profile photos though. Newbies take note of what they say in there BIO. You can find gems in there about how they really are.
"if you send me a message and I reply fast and then you fall off the grid or just leave me hanging, I will block you! That is one of my biggest pet peeves! Please respect my time and don't treat me like a plan b! If I reply fast, I expect you to do the same!
You see how entitled this girl is? HAH! How dare you have a life and not immediately reply to her! How dare you SIR! This is exactly what I am talking about folks. Read there bio! Digest it and read between the lines.[/QUOTE]You just described 95% of the ones under 30. They need to wake up at 25 but it won't happen till shit collapses. The social media and feminism and s—P.S. Have got women down bad. Hey there's always the 5%. Somebody is paying the brats. Otherwise.
[QUOTE=PriceIsRight39;6690764]You just described 95% of the ones under 30. They need to wake up at 25 but it won't happen till shit collapses. The social media and feminism and sP.S. Have got women down bad. Hey there's always the 5%. Somebody is paying the brats. Otherwise.[/QUOTE]Something like half of women under the age of 25 have some kind of mental illness. Mostly either depression or anxiety. And I swear something like 99 percent of the ones on sugar sites have a pretty obvious mental health issue.
No shit, I picked up this hottie (in Ephrata, I think) and we were going to dinner. When we parked she had a full on five alarm panic attack in my car. Finally she calmed down and we drove someplace else to talk for about ten minutes, then I drove her back home (or at least where I picked her up). She texted me fifteen minutes later bitching that I didn't give her any money. Unlike a lot of dudes here, I will gift a pretty girl a small amount for a dinner meeting, but there is no way I am paying anyone to help them navigate their mental health issues.
[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;6691136]Something like half of women under the age of 25 have some kind of mental illness. Mostly either depression or anxiety. And I swear something like 99 percent of the ones on sugar sites have a pretty obvious mental health issue.
No shit, I picked up this hottie (in Ephrata, I think) and we were going to dinner. When we parked she had a full on five alarm panic attack in my car. Finally she calmed down and we drove someplace else to talk for about ten minutes, then I drove her back home (or at least where I picked her up). She texted me fifteen minutes later bitching that I didn't give her any money. Unlike a lot of dudes here, I will gift a pretty girl a small amount for a dinner meeting, but there is no way I am paying anyone to help them navigate their mental health issues.[/QUOTE]I dunno what you guys are complaining about. I've had more sex now with objectively hot women under 30 than I ever did when I was in my 20's. Mental health / emotional issues are literally the reason why most of the worthwhile non-pros are in this scene. But they're not all basket cases. You find the crazy you can handle and make her feel safe, it has always paid off big time for me. Something goes wrong, find another one. That's what they do, LOL.
[QUOTE=PoonHound1969;6687090]Post her link on seeking.[/QUOTE]Now. I fucked her in 2018. I'd love to reconnect.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a456fe2c-efc7-44c0-9afd-48dcff24559d[/URL]
Picture seller.
Had a nice conversation going with MadelineM, both on the site and via text. There's something about her look that's almost irresistible to me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/95eefd3c-28e7-403d-a103-c463bf66b001[/URL]
That is, until I asked about her normal donation amount and she responded "Typically $1200. ".
A guy can still dream, though.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/44f74fe4-a43e-45f1-993e-31ec04a3f74d[/URL]
Fake, profile pic is porn star Blake Blossom.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0b57202b-7338-4999-9989-895eb67dbe52[/URL]
This asian woman is smokin' hot. Definitely very beautiful. I dare you guys to talk to her and see what she is looking for LMAO (price / expectiations / etc). Just trust me. You will laugh.
Joined seeking not long ago and for the most of it, the women have been upfront about being supported financially. But, there have been just a couple that have approached me and have long convos with. Met these few, if the women mention money in the first few messages I bail, bold women and we've made whoopie without one mention of cash. I have been seeing two on a weekly basis and we just have a blast. PM for profiles.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4e3782e0-0a16-400e-ac02-e2c39319aec8[/URL]
Wanted 200 for M&G, then 700 ppm.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c63f6314-4f20-4df7-8376-e70be3245303[/URL]
800-1000 ppm, 3-4 K monthly.
[QUOTE=Ultimate90;6692552][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/0b57202b-7338-4999-9989-895eb67dbe52[/URL]
This asian woman is smokin' hot. Definitely very beautiful. I dare you guys to talk to her and see what she is looking for LMAO (price / expectiations / etc). Just trust me. You will laugh.[/QUOTE]She's good looking but I'm not super impressed. Even if I was a billionaire I wouldn't go out of my way for her. I can already see the asian princess from a mile away. This girl has GPS for sure. I wish these girls would understand that they aren't all that no matter how good looking they are (this girl isn't THAT good looking she's run of the mill good looking asian imo). LOOKS is only one half of the equation. The other half is personality which GPS girls have zero so they aren't worth Nothing.
[QUOTE=Twister100;6692708]...
800-1000 ppm, 3-4 K monthly.[/QUOTE]Only thing crazier than that is the girls who ask for that much a month but don't want to meet at all.
[QUOTE=MarkoRamius;6692876]Only thing crazier than that is the girls who ask for that much a month but don't want to meet at all.[/QUOTE]Here is the thing. I have spent many many months more then 4 k on hookers and non pro girls. I got my money's worth though. Because it was many many hookups and with girls that you can't find on Seeking. I wouldn't pay 3-4 k a month for just one meet per week! There is no value in that. It's not a good value proposition At all! Also because I get bored of having sex with the same chic. Usually it's a one and done for me. If I really like her / she's something special I will see her a few times Maybe. I like variety. I would Never ever pay a girl that kind of money for one hookup a week LOL. I've had the most top shelf girls you could imagine / cannot find on Seeking and I get bored of them too. There is a quote I like which I am paraphrasing a bit but it goes "For every hot girl you see, there is somebody bored of fucking her". Seeking girls are glorified hookers and finding one that is a non pro / has something more to offer then just looks is exceptionally rare. They exist but I had a diamond membership and spent a ton of fucking time on that site talking to girls and was not able to find any. They all were just hookers really with a thin veil.
[QUOTE=Twister100;6692627][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/4e3782e0-0a16-400e-ac02-e2c39319aec8[/URL]
Wanted 200 for M&G, then 700 ppm.[/QUOTE]She's so average looking for someone who wants 700. Ahahahha.
[QUOTE=Twister100;6692708][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c63f6314-4f20-4df7-8376-e70be3245303[/URL]
800-1000 ppm, 3-4 K monthly.[/QUOTE]Said she'd meet for 800 and wanted 100 upfront for an Uber. I'm hesitant to pay anything upfront so I suggested I call her an Uber to Downtown, but I understood if she wasn't okay with that (me knowing her address and all that, she could've easily called it to a nearby street but whatever).
Anyway, she said "No thanks I'll pass" and blocked me on SA right after. This is what happened, I don't know if she thought I was wasting her time or was trying to scam me out of a 100.
Any info on this one?
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/5736ba51-0953-458a-85bb-2afbfe95fe43[/URL]
[QUOTE=ProJohn1;6692911]Here is the thing. I have spent many many months more then 4 k on hookers and non pro girls. I got my money's worth though. Because it was many many hookups and with girls that you can't find on Seeking. I wouldn't pay 3-4 k a month for just one meet per week! ... .[/QUOTE]By definition there is no value for the money if they will not ever meet. Honestly with how aggro SA is about banning people I am surprised how many "online only" girls survive there.
Everybody is different and what is good value and reasonable for one person is insane for another. For myself, I prefer SA to find girls that will be on my rotation longer term. Probably the average time I'll keep one is about a year, but I've had some that hung around for three or four. On the other side of it, if I just need to go someplace, unzip, and drain my balls an AMP is almost always the best in terms of cost and time efficiency -- and I don't care if she is sixty years old if all I am seeing is the top of her head.
[QUOTE=PnwDude;6692932]Said she'd meet for 800 and wanted 100 upfront for an Uber. I'm hesitant to pay anything upfront so I suggested I call her an Uber to Downtown, but I understood if she wasn't okay with that (me knowing her address and all that, she could've easily called it to a nearby street but whatever).
Anyway, she said "No thanks I'll pass" and blocked me on SA right after. This is what happened, I don't know if she thought I was wasting her time or was trying to scam me out of a 100.[/QUOTE]RULE #1 Never. Pay. In. Advance. Never. Pay. In. Advance. Never. Pay. In. Advance.
Almost certainly a scammer. If "she" is going to argue with you over $100 for an Uber, think about it. How does that benefit her when you're ready to hand over $800. They prey on men by using a false sense of modesty or shaming you into giving them cash, and then disappear.
BTW, dude. PLEASE stop agreeing to 800 for a PPM. (That's Rule #2 - always start with PPM, always). I have found a lot of great women on the site, all that are legit will do it for 300-500. You will be spending a lot more on dinners and dates anyways. I still believe 300 should be the norm, there are so many women out there now looking for this kind of sex work.
The greatest power in negotiating is learning to say NO. There will always be more women coming along, and probably better, younger ones.