Never a borrower nor lender be
[QUOTE=FLAdventurer;4971969]It all starts so innocently, with a text that says "Hey!
Even when you tell them you are out of country, they come back with a reason to advance money and promises of taking care of you when you return.
We all have good intentions and I am sure some of them do.
But, in every instance, and there have been a few, I have gotten paid back or compensated in some form exactly. Zero times.
Not one single time and each time, I went into thinking they are good for it.
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It not only ruined a good thing we had going but you typically will never hear again or will just be given a litany of excuses.
Either donate the money without any regard for pay back or just say no and that it will change the relationship and you do not want to do that.[/QUOTE]Even in the best of circumstances it can ruin a good thing.
That said, I have never been burned.
I like longer visits and I have had a little luck in using the request as an opportunity to negotiate up on my time. Like twice. I kinda stumbled onto the hobby through Stellar in Deland. The second and third times I saw her she asked for the donation up front. Both times I agreed to half and by the second time I knew enough to start negotiating and basically doubled my time. Both times she absolutely was good for it, but by the end of that double time visit she was way over it. I haven't seen her since.
I've used this same ploy one other time to more of less equal effect.
In another instance, one of my ATFs asked for help because she needed a room for her and her kids during the holidays. I sent her money with no expectations and we have never discussed it since. And we still have awesome times together.
And, um, YMMV.
I don't think you missed much
[QUOTE=HornyVet;4979180]Intrigued by the bbj in her ad. She cancelled once while I was omw. Gave it another shot and she asked me to wait because she was at liquor store. I don't wait around on obt and she knew I was coming. Go for it if you want but I won't be trying anymore.
[URL]https://max80.com.listcrawler.eu/post/escorts/usa/florida/orlando/54118826/[/URL][/QUOTE]After looking at the link I don't think you missed much, having said that I have had worse when thinking with the worong head.
Brazilian bait and switch
Decided to toft on this Brazilian Natasha because it had good reviews from another provider. Boy was I wrong. The girl looked like she gained 100 lbs. Still charged $. 50 spinner rates. She barley spoke English which made it that much harder to find her in Her apartment complex. She did everything covered. Was vocal. But tried to rush me. I guess my dumb ass should've realized that after just seeing that she put her height as 6'5 LOL. Will not repeat.
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Katie the Librarian Ghosted
Great comms and confirmed appointment an hour and a half ahead of time. Got there and she didn't reply. Called, no answer. There were a few vehicles in the driveway so I imagine that she double booked. Suck too. It's a long trip to waste that kind of time and be ghosted. Don't waste your time or coin fellas. -F904.
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